CrownWale93: Pls I need who can teach me programming or data science. How much do you think will cost me?[2quote author=Xeeex post=96528353]You could easily start a blog and start making good money in about 6 months since you will not be desperate for now now money. blogging takes some time but once it Kicks off you're good to go.
You could get a laptop and learn programming. It's in high demand.
You can ask if you want more info on blogging?
If you have a laptop and the will to learn, I can guide you to learn for free. I'm learning web development sha. I can guide you on web development but I don't know anything about data science yet.
You could easily start a blog and start making good money in about 6 months since you will not be desperate for now now money. blogging takes some time but once it Kicks off you're good to go.
You could get a laptop and learn programming. It's in high demand.
If you're going to respond, at least read what I wrote, bro. You're proving my point. People can be successful in Nigeria. All hope isn't lost. The same way a foreigner can get rich in Nigeria is the same way a Nigerian can. Go abroad and raise money, pool money through friends/investors/family/church, do crowdfunding, use a NGO, find a government grant, or marry a foreigner.
I didn't even mention the guys in Nigeria from the slums who have become millionaires.
One major advantage for a businessman in Nigeria is the fact that the government isn't going out of its way to stop the small businessman. The "hustling" you can do in Nigeria would be blocked by any number of laws elsewhere, or you would struggle to earn because of compliance expenses and taxes.
I'm not saying it's easy, but let's not exaggerate.
Much success to you and yours, my dude.
Stop talking plenty things. You said a foreigner can come with nothing and make money in Nigeria. Show me an example.
You will just be talking plenty things without making sense
I'm talking about a foreigner that doesn't have anything and you are mentioning business man lol
You need to think before you talk. Let's say the laws you talk of are true. I want to order for a machinery from US that costs about $100k. I have to have about 50 million naira, our currency is losing value daily but yay we have good laws
Anyway, show me a foreigner that came to Nigeria with nothing and succeeded
Cousin9999: Every day, foreigners go to Nigeria and get rich. Many people in Nigeria consider whether to go abroad because they're not forced by circumstance. Many study and work abroad, and return by choice. Many come back expecting they'll be forced to leave by options, but find they have a good life. Everyone's experience isn't the same, and everyone doesn't have the same perspective or options.
It seems like people with regrets shout the loudest. People with low standards like to jump up and down too. It's like they're trying to convince themselves that they're living better than they are. If you made it, instead of kicking dirt on your home, why not help improve it? Be like the people abroad who set up businesses back home, invest in real estate, build schools, build clinics, and build churches. Stop complaining about crooked politicians because guess what? They're crooked everywhere. Just get on with life. Make things happen and take care of family. You're not helping to fix anything by spouting all this negativity. Try actually doing something. Build, invest, or get involved in politics.
And another problem with all this "rah rah rah" is that you're damaging Nigeria's image. You want things to improve, but you're trying to convince everyone that it's the middle east. Who is going to invest, join the fight, or come home with all this nonsense you're talking?
Show me a foreigner that came to Nigeria with nothing and became rich. Show me a single one. The foreigners that come to Nigeria are those that have money so they can easily exploit the system by underpaying Nigerian workers and bribing their way to more money.
Foreigners who make money in Nigeria are either exploiting the corrupt system or prostitutes.
The founder of zoom went to US with nothing, now he is a billionaire.
Show me a single foreigner that came to Nigeria with nothing and is now making it
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African girls > Nonblack South American girls African girls = Black South American girls
Arabs are ugly. Inside and out. Turks are ugly too. And really stupid. Iranians and Pakistanis are ugly. I suppose it's mostly because of generations of inbreeding. But they're definitely ugly, hook-nosed, no-lip, hard-faced b*stards. They don't have a body. The women look like the men. Not sexy at all. Only guys that have no options would look at them twice. Besides that, only their men want them, and that's mostly because of family pressure. Quiet as it's kept, a lot of these Arab men would marry a black woman if their family let them, and if they could actually get and keep a black woman.
It's obvious we have different perspectives and seen the world from different lenses
Arabs are ugly and demonic. They're literally inbred.
The hot women in South America are mainly black Brazilians and Guyanese women. I suppose you could go looking for hot black women in Colombia. In Central America, it's mainly black Panamanian and Belizean women that are hot. You can probably find some hot black Costa Ricans and Nicaraguans.
South Americans are beautiful and well behaved, if they love you then it's better for you. They are grateful not like Nigerian girls.
Some Arabs are beautiful and good. Turkish girls and Persians (Iran and Pakistan) are beautiful. Most are beautiful if not all.
some50686: Hi Everyone, i got married in 2018, We are both working class.. I am in my 34 while my wife is in her late 28. My wife has been denying me sex, we rarely have sex. sometimes we can go for over a month without sex. Whenever i ask for sex, she just complains she is tired and that is it. Sometimes i would plead and try yet she wont accept. What pains me the most is the way she react when i try to approach her. She would yell and begin to shout what nonsense is this, who is this now? To the point i only could initiate sex, sat morning and even with that she still refuses. Before we got married I sat her down and told her about this issue, that i hear about it from my married friends and dont want to experience such, she assured me and said our wont be like that but our is now worse. I am not sure we had sex more than 12 times the whole of last year.
The first time i sat her down, i asked her why she is doing all this to me, she complained i dont show her enough love, that she wants me to do more house chores, and also take her to eat outside and watch movies. I told her i will try. Although i knw am not the most romantic guy around, but i try the little ways I can, we sometimes go to see the movies. I do laundry on sat, help with ironing all the clothes she would wear during the week and cook a very few time. I ensured we got a maid so she wont be pressure by house chores. I also gave her my only car so she doesnt need to enter public transport, buy food from great eateries and even icecreams, almost every other week. But she has not changed, the last major fight we had was about 3months ago and it was about sex cause she denied me for no reason. Sex has always been the source of our quarrel. She was even telling me to go meet the maid since i am always so nice to the maid one time i tried to have sex. I really feel pained, like she is taking me for a ride because of my cool and easy going attitude. I have never raised my hand on my wife or even used abusive words. I even try to ask her how work is and gist with her to increase our bonding, yet all to no avail. I am someone who doesnt like going out to share and i believe the issue can only be fixed by the both of us, but this one is begining to drag for too long and from the look of things i am the one at the loosing end. I will go to my inlaws place and smile, nobody know how mean their daughter is to me, i too feel very ashamed raising the matter with my father inlaw. Last week i tried to initiate sex the same rejection, she is tired. I felt very frustrated and am now seriously considering cheating even though i am a Christian. Cheating is not right, cause it is expensive and emotionally draining, exposes one to STDs and it is against my Christian faith but what can i do? Sometime i have had to masturbate to suppress my sexual urge, but for how long can one continue to do this? I feel very ashamed coming to nairaland but what can i do. But dont get me wrong o, my wife has her good sides but this sex issue is really beginning to hurt and it does nt look like she would change anytime soon from the way she has been behaving.
Even if she doesnt find me attractive, should that be enough reason to continue to deny me sex after 3 months. Right now we are not speaking at the moment, cause i am mad with her. The next day after all she did, she come to greet me in the morning and acts like nothing happen. This is how she does and most time i always over look it, but the one from last week really hurt the most. I feel I have made a mistake marrying her. She also doesn't really care about my eating, most time she is only bothered about what our son and the maid will eat. I always have to go to the kitchen and look for what to eat, sometimes i get food outside. Even though i always drop food money. since we started quarrelling she has stopped cooking for me. Just very frustrated.
To the experienced married men in the house, what can i do the address this issue. I am considering collecting my car, not that it would be of any use to me , just to frustrate her
Bro, I have advice but it might not be easy but just do it.
Start going to the gym and working out. Work out at least 3 times a week, don't invite your wife to come along with you. Get dietary supplements and eat healthy foods. Eats a lot of meat. Meat boosts testosterone.
Cut the excesses, stop doing chores. Stop the chores. You shouldn't be exchanging work for sex. What your wife is telling you is bullshit that you have to help with chores before you have sex. There is a guy that she will meet and have sex with immediately without him helping her with chores.
It's sad but genuine desire has been lost. You have to get it back by building yourself.
Try as much as possible to improve your status over her own. Don't try to negotiate sex.
Please read 'the rational male' by Rollo Tomassi and 'no more Mr nice guy' by Robert Glover
Ge0grapher: This question has been on my mind for quite sometime now. I wonder why people travelling out of the country usually find it difficult informing their friends and colleagues, some even go as far as not telling their relatives sef.
There was this friend of mine, we do rapport very well, omoh, this next thing I knew was seeing his WhatsApp status one evening like that, dude was already in Holland. I was like ifeanyi, "you no even tell me say you dey commot" mah no lie, the thing do me somehow, but we move!!
Another friend of mine, a female colleague left for the UK and didn't even tell me she had plans of migrating not to talk of obtaining visa and flying out. So I ask, why exactly do people fail to inform friends and colleagues about their departure??
Is it the "Village people mentality" or something ?? Cause if it was me, and I happen to be pretty close to someone, I would tell him or her.
Cc justwise
I read stories of people who informed people about their plans to travel out or their journey but it didn't work out for stupid or no reasons at all.
Misery loves company o, so better to inform them from abroad
Travel / Re: Please How Can I Get Daily Spending Estimate For Any Country Per Day by Xeeex: 2:20pm On Dec 01, 2020 
marry a foreigner. 
