Nobody is as entitled as a Nigerian man, yet they'd be the first to scream "entitled" towards a lady for asking anything in return.

plus their level of insecurity and low self esteem is out of this world.

so you want to claim you do not know that men are more careless about life than women?

they drink more
they funicate more
they worry more
their mancho attitude and ego makes them bottle too much in, which can be unhealthy.
they are more involved in life risking activities.


I feel for men to be honest, I just wish they would come off their unnecessary "high horse" and just give themself a break.

Ebenezer2O2O:
welcome back from ban.
Let's start again from where we stopped. Shall we?

lmao... smallie you don eat drop ya phone number for 2h recharge card, I give giveaway

let me give you to save you from your usual begi begi

this stay at home does not favour everybody, SMH OP that is not even love machine, its roll-on chai! abi na me no see am well?

Because you will die if you don't fulfill the urge abi
e dey wait for you.

sexylassie2:


Anyway, if you want equal right be ready to give me my right to take the decisions on all issues when I earn more money than you.

and if you birth the children he baths and caters to them for the rest of his life. otherwise it can never be equal.

IprintMONEY:

na wetin the guy do u na lmao.
this advice na advice wey most nigerians guys fit skin the adviser alive

He insults women every chance he gets, he mentioned me on this thread, he even insults a girl for begging for #1000 while he was begging for #200 just a month before..... I just want to help him since he wants me to notice him


Dem no fit skin you for saying your mind, you no skin dem for their own.

IprintMONEY:
u are a bloddy bastard.
hustle una no go hustle
. i am getting married soon and i have been dating my fiancee for 5 years now. i personally told her to go get a job, she came with the amount they plan to pay her, it was 170k a month, i told her to sit at home and i pay her that monthly plus other goodie.
guy hustle so u stop thinking like a peasant

meanwhile ebenezer2o2o take this advice and stop living your life on NL begging for #200 mtn card and insulting women up n down


Don't forget to come back and thank me and IprintMoney

Ebenezer2O2O:
Xendra would have come to this thread and comment nonsense and broke shame guys.
Thank God I dealt with her and ensured the mods banned that her tap mouth that runs carelessly

this small boy with round face, begging for #200 mtn card on nairaland I know you have no life outside here enjoy

you too small for me, keep masturbating on my moniker

This is so funny.

Thank God you didn't die, but na person picking you be want kill. on top of awuf

tayo52:
she is my wife's fwend she really need help please, nothing is too small, don't no why I can't upload picture,will use my 2nd account to upload it

your wife's friend

I smell a fish

Do you really care about this child you are planning to bring? I would say surrogate but who will look after the child? people aren't having partners because they can't do without them, it's because their presence covers certain grounds.

do not let these ones who are single to stupor tell you women have no value or let one marriage mistake make you loose hope. that child needs love, that child needs a mother.

deeva1:


Funny u..Why wud u even think there is anything
like 2sec sex..If u care to knw,My wife is always
satisfied because she is not a nympho like u

normal lie na, no woman is satisfied by a man like you. unless she has low self esteem and no where to go...

Bennysam:

You're having a borrowed man so don't talk about him until he put a ring in your finger

even in marriage a man or woman is only yours until 1person gets tired.

and yes, he has put a ring on it, I just don't owe any NL man an explanation. dazall

deeva1:


Ohhh... u actually reminded me of an ash hole like you who marriage mean nothing to but sex

2seconds .... abeg go and satisfy who you call a wife and leave me alone. I don't do 2secs

Fafesot:


but Xendra..do you think men would stop cheating if their wives threaten to cheat?
Hell NO...better you accept the fact that men are the head,
have you ever seen a woman with two husbands in this our own part of Africa.Even whites reject their cheating wives.
Not weakness ,this is a case of nature .

... because right from the past women had no rights so anything a man wants he gets, ("because he was the sole bread winner" ) even if its ten wives. nowadays we've heard a few foreign news where women marry more than one husband, both whites and black.

nobody likes being used, people will only tolerate if they have to.

There is no such thing as nature when it comes to cheating.
if you want talk nature, women can do more men in a day, than the numbers of women a man can sleep with in a day. and women could earn money from all those men, while the man will lose money the more women he wants to bed So by nature, women should cheat more?

and some people will nod their head in agreement to this.

deeva1:


Haha...My beautiful wife and kids are here laughing at your clueless comments, showing that your single hood is really frustrating you..Mumu

Lmao!!! somebody wey marry you dey laff? now that's funny men don't act like this, your wife needs someone to hug her and tell her all will be well, but she has to leave you first . lmao... stop lying with your family please. no woman can marry anyone like you and be genuinely happy, can only pretend to be, don't worry women do that (pretend to be happy) a lot.

Kyom20:

I said that with a lot of first-hand information to back it up. Most a times men who do divorce their cheating wives is because they are unrepentant or its becoming obvious to outsiders.

Men are a lot less forth coming about their wives cheating just the same way they are not forth coming about domestic violence they experience. It bruises their ego. Do not be deceived that men do not experience or put up with these things.

So what you are saying is that all or most of the men who married other wives is because their wives cheated? Thats preposterous, men are even more likely to do that when they have a wife who is submissive n meek and whom they know wont stray even if they do it.

Man or woman, cheating is wrong and hurts the other party. Both parties should be adviced against it and no one, man or woman should keep up with an unrepentant cheat.

Deng I love you..... they will soon call you an ass-licker but you are just saying the truth.

I hate women cheating but how can I tell a woman not to cheat when the man she is staying faithful to is a community dick it just doesn't work that way.

Men do not realise that times have changed, women now are different from women then. being a full time house-wife depending 100% on your husband is different from being a working mum.

Fafesot:
Thirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this. [/quote





women on this platform, pls don't listen to this .
if a man stays with you after you've cheated on him,forget it,there is something behind the portrayed motives.Maybe he still needs some things from you..and do not sleep with your two eyes closed.

no matter how weighty the amount of love he has for you,it vanishes the moment you cheat him.
The first thing any man would do is to shut you out of his life,marry another wife and if he still loves you genuinely... he would use you as his side chick.

but women,don't forget you're female..why do you have to compare yourself to men.
even the well to do women in the society still suffers the absence of men in the society.
why don't you want a blissful marriage by not cheating on your husband,because it will be at your detriment. Thirdly, inasmuch as men love to form hard guys in public and all that, there are a good number of men who dont leave a woman who has cheated on them. So dont be deceived by the fake rantings of men online, when a woman has gotten the key to his heart theres a whole lot of shit he would put up with. I just really wish more women knew this. [/quote





women on this platform, pls don't listen to this .
if a man stays with you after you've cheated on him,forget it,there is something behind the portrayed motives.Maybe he still needs some things from you..and do not sleep with your two eyes closed.

no matter how weighty the amount of love he has for you,it vanishes the moment you cheat him.
The first thing any man would do is to shut you out of his life,marry another wife and if he still loves you genuinely... he would use you as his side chick.

but women,don't forget you're female..why do you have to compare yourself to men.
even the well to do women in the society still suffers the absence of men in the society.
why don't you want a blissful marriage by not cheating on your husband,because it will be at your detriment.

lmao! and you don't see how the same applies to the woman? that's why most cheating men claim surprised when their wife pours them hot water, nobody ever stays dsame once their partner cheats on them.....from then on the relationship continues on calculative reasons.


Men DON'T CHEAT!
as long as you don't want a woman to cheat on you.

blessing12345:
No dear it was actually the lady that wrote the list, she showed it to the man , he now ran away

Then its just a joke. good riddance to any man that runs away because of a joke

OP are you Ok? how is it the lady that is greedy? when she is not getting anything from it.

those list are made by men...... their hatred for each other is unexplainable

I know at least 2 ladies, (1 my friend) who cried for how inconsiderate her family was for the kind of list they gave her fiance, her anger was mostly for tha fact that this people didn't care how she went through school and it was same man that helped her.

this Rubbish in traditional marriages should be scrapped.

oshakab:
I know this is not the write section for this but romance section gets the most views on nairaland. My friend works in a company let say compayA he is paid 40k with 3% a new company lets call it companyB wants him to their company with 4% and will pay him but no specific amount. His mind is no longer in companyA because he is not seeing any bright future in their business model. But sees a future with companyB but they dont have any specific amount they will pay. Which one should he choose. Anybody who has been in a similar suitation should help out please

Gbam! since you brought it to romance section, let's make it and example.

let's say your friend is a girl
and
company A is her boyfriend
then company B is a new guy that she just met.

give your answer and see how unreasonable ya'll have been towards women

Eniolakiite:
A possibility

Between your profile pic really got me laughing

Maybe Eve didn’t eat the apple afterall

maybe she was just being submissive so she didn't argue when Adam said she did, now look how far her name has been ruined

The woman no well

The brother in-law needs to be shot. for even considering your brother's wife....such a man can sleep with his daughters.

deeva1:


Congrats ma and happy dying a single...Lolzz

nah! I'm not dying single I already got that. don't kid yourself. but I just feel sorry for the excuse for a woman that ends up with you. dazall.

deeva1:
Pele oo Small ego sister..That's y u are still single

So being single is not better than ending up with anything like you?? Haha...... that's y some will run into marriage only to die after few months.

better alive and happy than married to an idiot and die early. Boy bye

crownedrookie:

Lmao. A third world country woman who has been so enslaved by poverty mentality that its now like a battle to insist that only men who can pay has access to her vagina(and therefore prone to abuse as some of the buyers will see her as the object she is) under the euphemism of relationship now has higher standards than a woman who puts respect, loyalty and honest commitment as requisites for a partner and equates herself with him, earning his respect since he has no upper hand claim to being the spender in the relationship. Nothing we no go see for nairaland. The term "Standards" has indeed taken a fatal blow today .
I know your next line. Broke men this broke men that

Tell yourself what you want, all these lines wey una take dey get to weak women......
OP has always mentioned that women should have something doing, but a situation whereby a man doesn't spend on a woman at all means she is worthless to him. Las Las good woman or not a man that is not well brought up will still cheat and use you.

see toks opening a thread to tell them to allow men cheat on them in peace

Eyeness:
your culture has also convinced you to be the breadwinners and packmules of your households to hobosexual bum men. To pin after men who don't want you and think it's better to go for white trash. Men who can't protect you and build your community

I think I'll take my culture anyday to yours

Do not argue with everyone, you should know that not every woman has standards some even do 3.somes to please the assholes they call man some now mask it by claiming they wanted it too.....but we all know deep down if the man wasn't up for it they wouldn't.