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lmao!!! this toks2008 go lead many men to early grave, whereas he is single to stupor.

Una just dey deceive una sef why will any sane person want to dish out what they can't take? or are you all not sane?

This is really bad
And it's why I get angry at people who are quick to victimise the victims, instead of blaming the evil doer. Because these things will never end until we stop

I can't wait to hear from those boys who will never sympathize if it was female but will rather blame them for allowing their silence to be bought with little gifts

Eyeness:
Happy New year ladies. This post is to honor the woman whose lovelife is a cacophony of utter f**kshit. This post shares miss Pickmesha's million and one tips to snag your man . Vision 2020 is a goal.

With so many women complaining about men today, ladies seem to have forgotten to show the man you want to hold you above others that you hold HIM above others as well. Do all of this and any kind of man will be yoursHere are the tips;

• Ask him out.

• Take HIM out on every date.

• put money in his wallet so that he can pay for the date

•Motivate HIM

• Build with him

• Buy him flowers

•Keep texting him, up to a year after he has ghosted you, that you will do anything to have him back.

•Let him watch football, play Bet9ja and LUDO for 12 hours every day.

• let him live in your house.

•Pay his bills, down to tissue paper allowance.

• Give him sex as long as he asks for it, whether you are sick or healthy, give him blowjobs even when he has a penile discharge, penis sores or hasn't washed his boxers in 2 weeks.

•Give him wife privileges even though he is just a FWB.

• Date him for 12 years before asking if you are in a relationship, then let him tell you ' let's see how it goes'

• Give him your V card, just because he said you are pretty and he has nothing but a beard and excuses.

•Clean and cook for him.

• Serve a three course meal for him and his girlfriends.

• wash his boxers

• Ask for his father's blessings before you propose to him.

• Pay his groom price

•Suck his boobs

• Walk with him to the labor room

• Allow him to insert a hair straightener in your anus since you must give him whatever his wants in the other room.
• Be his white knight online,Troll other girls who comment on his social media. Stalk him online, it shows you care.

• Be his baby mama

• Have 15 abortions because he is not ready to start a family.

•Use your school fees and your parents' retirement savings to help his upcoming music career.

• Allow him to call you a hoe, a b¡tch, a cunt, an olosho and any other degradatory slur to your face.

•Download his blows and punches like 4G wifi

There are many other tips to secure your man, if not you will end up in Shiloh at 22.

these are a lot of white women though no wonder Nigerian men like them

I'm in a group with those people and I just wonder what is wrong with them sometimes, why they are so desperate

Scaredd:
I'm dating a deeper life girl, and we haven't had sex since I started dating her last year September.

It's a long distance relationship though, when I visit her and make any move for sex, she ends up saying she's doesn't want to have sex. But she can kiss for Africa which I don't fancy that much.

In one occasion, I took her to the guest room in a hotel, we kissed, she was turned on and started begging me to hold her nipples. I was like "finally!".

I told her oya let's get a room, but to my greatest surprise, she said No. That she doesn't want to have sex now, that it's been long she had sex and if she goes to the room with me she won't be able to resist sex.

Anyway, I let her be because sex should be mutual afterall. I love her and she's not the "give me money" type, rather, I send her monthly stipend at my will. Moreover, sex is not why I travel all the way to see her or still dating her.

I just hope am not being played like someone pointed out in the other thread.

so you are looking to spoil your relationship with unsolicited advice? Continue. and see how all those in unhappy/no relationship will come and load you with advice.

deeva1:
...Is it about men or you learning from the article.. The guy forget to add Spirit of pride which I think is ur case

spirit of Big Ego is and will always be your own problem.

you just came to write everybody else's assumptions,

are you a woman? why don't you write what makes men marry late? then maybe you might make sense

deeva1.. I refuse to stoop to your level and call you or your wife a dog. the mere fact that you have resulted to name calling means I have won!! ....boy bye

seems Nigerians are only angry about the government online, but off line they be hailing them for peanut

I actually thought about this today, like what if my ex gets a new girlfriend and she was bold enough to call me and ask about him



I'd tell her... He is a sweeet manipulator, so sweet you wouldn't see what's coming keep your mind open and keep your heart closed until you are sure he is real with you.

@OP it's not really up to you whether she will go, just advice her without any hate in your voice/attitude but keep in mind she may still go ahead.
some people learn better from first hand experience.

all these ones thinking they are bashing Nigerian ladies are just showing that they are Toxic, with the way they write self you can tell.

and you'd be shocked to know how Toxic these men are in real life yet they expect a woman to stay and do them right ......its not that easy

Naija246:
you won't put that in your write up if you didn't care ...negress

go and rest for awhile and grow some sense.

now I understand y people open new monikers to do these things.

Naija246:
you won't put that in your write up if you didn't care ...negress

really?? you think any sane person will want to marry anyone with the OPs traits I think you need help yourself. a lot of women turn down marriage proposals every day, both in secret and in public.

I think you are bored and just need attention.....I'll ignore you

Naija246:
"I turned down his marriage proposal"

All nah audio
Keep deceiving yourself

was I even talking to you? what makes you think I care what you believe

so you want to dump her because one of your gender lost control and did her wrong

Abi I no understand.

that's more traumatizing, you should be helping her get over it to realising not all men are evil. You talking about what's going through your mind, do you care what's going through her own mind? after going through such experience?

she is not ok with it, she just isn't sure what to do about it. But definitely not ok.

wow!

Weebo:
There could be a number of reasons for this:
Sociopathy
PTSD
Major depressive disorder
Emotional detachment
Alexithymia
Low empathetic response without underlying cause

He stated he never felt empathy for "ANYONE" but for some reason that woman you quoted decided to assume he is a MISOGYNIST. Everything just have to be centered arround women huh smh

NO, he is not a misogynist, I'm starting to think you are one.

I explained it's a defect and I wrote what I know about it. showing narcissistic and emotionally unavailable traits is different from simply being a misogynist, that's just an after effect.

TSBO:
With the strong exception of needing to control and punish, I can relate to some of those things as well. It takes me a long time to decide on a girl, even when I really like her. I usually do not see the need to date someone except I want to marry the person, hence, it is quite hard to try dating a lady to "see where it goes". Nonetheless, I would like to commit to someone and have the person committed to me.

I also dislike materialism and I'm quite simple.

Maybe I just have very high expectations or I just haven't met the right person (who isn't already taken).

No stress though. I think when I meet the right person it would be obvious. Same for you. You may even become a softie (aka simp in Nairaland terms). I think any man has the potential to become a simp in the hands of a very wise woman. He won't even realise it as long as the partner meets his expectations.

NO. Don't talk it down, what the OP is talking about is not that simple, I know men who are like him, and they are angry at women for not being perfect when they themselves are intolerable. they HATE women yet they are always sleeping or trying to sleep with one, just can't keep any. its NOT normal at all.

just reading his post I would think it's a friend I turned down his marriage proposal but I'm sure it's not him because that one can't write as good as the OP but he is very rich so he gets to sleep with a lot of pretty women yet feels sooo unfulfilled/unsatisfied, and hates women for not being perfect...SMH

A lot of men are like you, the only difference is you are now aware it's a defect while most men still think they are ok and have no problem


that's why a lot of them bash women at every opportunity, their problem is actually inbuilt (mostly from mistakes an adult made during their childhood). and this condition takes a conscious effort and a lot of work to rid of, but nobody can do it for you. men with such behaviour damage any woman that comes into their life, as no matter what that woman does can't fix them unless they make conscious effort to fix themselves.

southniyikaye:
that's my grievance actually, she gave out way too much info to a stranger. And she accused me of calling her mum whenever she gets me angry. Well I do that cos I don't wanna hit her.
I came from an abusive marriage, I don't want same for myself.

if you want to know if money is really her drive? start acting really sweet, say you don't like that you are fat (let her hear you say it) and start putting effort to keep fit, and work on the other things she said. see if she doesn't withdraw from that guy. then we can conclude its only about money. and I will support you 100%

I know too many men who conclude too fast that money is the problem and lose a good thing that would have only taken little effort to fix

southniyikaye:
when things was going on fine, I made sure she didn't lack anything.
For eight years, she didn't work so if she lack care for eight years, do you think she will stay that long?

yes she will, there are children involved.

what she is doing is totally wrong and she is acting too vulnerable. imagine if that was actually a stranger, that's how she would put all that info out.
anyway....I just like to call a spade as I see it.

or she was waiting for him to have sense and do the right thing....but instead na how to trap her him dey find.

some guys are still thinking/behaving like children @35 yet they want you to settle down with them, when you are just hanging on, encouraging them hoping they will catch on but they put no effort towards that instead they bring ring

like the guy above said, this is definitely beyond "rich or poor"
hmmm...... that woman is unhappy
seems you haven't been giving her enough love,care and attention unlike the new fantasy guy you became(she even mentioned lack of care) but you want to make it allllll about money

errrh! no be high class brand and she no say e go kill her long term carrier.....stop feeling like you did it for any other reason

Datemynd44 how did both of you enjoy your ban too I noticed you followed me with more than 1 moniker followe me with all please, makes them easy to remember.

So you think it's ok to insult somebody then turn around and get angry when they do the same or choose their words for them
this time around the mods weren't bias
I know you now, and all your other monikers, by the way how many have been banned now
all your monikers and even personal details are so easy to get, tells you lack smartness and restraint.
I don't have to follow you, anytime this moniker get banned I'll check on you to make sure you have been good you better Mind how you talk anyhow on this forum because from your other monikers I can tell a lot of people guys(especially in politics section)and girls don't like how you lack manner of speech.



you and the other rude guy (misogynist) Kingrexyl wey him toes long like fingers

OP take that FTC he is right

Just don't have one. She really has no right unless you make her your partner........then it doesn't matter what she does or don't offer you.

Sambai65:
another long throat sported

kill yourself put na