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That's why I say,

If you really need help and you don't get it, dont be angry at the person who didn't offer you help, either a ride, money or support of any sort, be angry at all the fake people who have abused it and made people regret why they should help, because they are the real reason people don't help anymore not because they really don't want to.

CsRockefeller:
Lol. What if I was happy personally does it matter if my relationship is happy or sad?

My dear, committment in marriage is sacrosanct, this is not tumbo tumbo relationship that u leave when ur partner does not say "you look lovely" or refuse to buy u ice cream.

This is marriage. Drop all those mushy mushy feelings and walk the talk.

Attention ko at ease ni.

lol... atleast i know that much. people who make noise like you usually don't have a happy relationship so ruining other people's own comes to you naturally

Meanwhile the rest things you wrote didn't seem like you meant to mention me unless you are still on your way to the point.

CsRockefeller:
Trash!!

Arent u ladies tired of the same line everytime?

it's not just a line, it's reality. you can trash it I don't care.

I'm very sure you are not in a 'happy' relationship So....... whatever you say.

Right, as usual na only the man own go pain you,
but right before it is a woman that posted her husband's chat, this one was caught cheating..(atleast that man is still just suspicious) yet men still commenting that she should be told to stop check his phones and work on herself or what she is not doing right that makes him cheat.

Dem want score but dem no get game

and they start insulting when the Lady get sense pass them and calls them out on their nonsense.

Nelso2:
Never cheated on her all years we have been together. I have always been a very responsible dad.

That's bad; let her know it's also cheating and it's disrespectful (some people don't know, they think as long as they are not having sex they are not cheating)

find out if it's some kind of insecurities she might have, she may not even notice enough to mention but if you can find out on your own, otherwise it may never stop and you 2 may have to part eventually

Yep its called cheating, even though they may not have had sex yet, she is definitely enjoying the wrong type of attention (that is also classified as emotional cheating.)
Are you cheating on her? or making her feel less in any way? it could be from lack of attention, feeling invincible to your man, feeling like you are not on his priority list.......and so on

usually a woman will only do this if she nolonger feels secure in her relationship.

FirstRepublic:
Congratulations to your intelligent wife and congrats to you for finding her.. I won’t insult you i respect you cuz you’re married if not ehn.. but then again I’m done quoting you..

so being married in your book means the person is sensible or deserves more respect than a single person this mentality is why women are trapped in bad marriages

anyway you should know that he is a man hence his crying over why you should keep a cheating man secrete

the woman should discuss cheating with a man that is well aware of what he is doing and doesn't care but the man doesn't need to discuss a better way to spice up his relationship, he had to go out to cheat and make a fool of himself and his woman these men are too funny

hehehe... is he really as good as he claims in that chat? if not fall he hand, tell the babe say no level

"when your mate dey hustle, you are busy insulting people " that's the case for many that turned beggars now o the only thing dey know how to do is insult people and look for excuse as to how everybody making it is either yahoo or prostitutes

@last paragraph...Pretender

this just shows that men will speak from one mouth and go back and support that same thing they claim is not good.

yanabasee:
You don't make sense when you quote people.... Take a chill.

and again you are the dumb one other people seem to understand

yanabasee:
Exactly....... You have to believe a classless girl when they speak up!!

mr classy hippocrate and you will still be the one to say Nigerian girls don't speak up they are pretending. trying to shame a lady for making her point.

she didn't say she gets laid all the time, she only says she can. Abi na dat one dey pain you?

Is that first love abi first sex experience are you two married to each other now

Superjazz:
I have 6 besties as females they are not my GFs ooo,but I will still be 100% loyal if me and you date

no problem na, your gf will keep Male besties too, as long as you are ok with that then it's fine.

ifex370:
Do guys do that stuff?

yes o, stupid and naive guys, because they don't know that women don't like being by the side when it's not that you are gay o, you can actually date and marry a girl yet you didn't choose them and some how you foolishly think they are ok with it when they like you so much to be close friends with you

that number 9 is how you know a stupid man not fit for marriage, keeping close female friends, the height of irresponsibility

hmmm, I could write a long list here but there is no point, you will figure it out on your own just stay strong.

I'm so sorry you have had to go through all that pain and it's worse when you have such parents who don't really know what it means to look out for a child, the urge to put in any effort into anything will not be there and you can't force it to be there (@least not for long) until you first work on yourself build your self esteem away from your parent, you have to stop waiting for their emotional support it will not come and will frustrate you more, do what you can for them, do what you can for your sister, play your role if they have refused to play theirs and don't worry you already know what they are not doing right so surely you won't do that to your children and things won't turn out the same.

Do not underrated the power of the most High God He plays a very vital role if you want to come out of this a better person. Take care and stay safe.

Do not force any friendship, it will further ruin you, work on Loving yourself regardless of who is willing to stay in your life or go. (that does not in anyway mean treat people like trash, a person that really loves himself will never treat others less, only they would not put up with BS from anyone)

No. focus on anything else that's important enough to improve your life right now. having a girl does nothing for a nineteen year old it'll only frustrate you

maintaining a relationship is not easy, women are difficult for the immature. you will just come out a bitter dude.

look at all the NL guys and how bitter and frustrated they are about women, simply because they went into relationships emotionally immature

OlawaleBammie:
Following the footsteps of her geee may be a difficult task for me to do

A no b house help or PA oo

hahaha that's your dumb ego again talking sh!t you don't know about

you better stay single cause you obviously will never be treated like a king only relationship problems and complaining upandan I see you are already good at it women aren't playing these days and ITK men like you only end up being used or killed. Idiot

dake40:
Relax dear, everything can't be rozy. How about a responsible husband who just lost his job thereby relying on his wife (for 1 week))while he finds an alternative?

Matter of fact, the bone of contention is 1 week, not forever. It's obvious you forgot that part

is it that you can't read or just can't understand?? because what I wrote there covers even an hour

look its allowed, as long as such ladies keep finding those men who can't respect themselves and put their prick one place.

a man can call a lady lazy for not being able to keep a house clean and do certain house chores he can't do for himself, a man can call a lady dirty for keeping dirty hair while he is wearing dirty boxers.
men and women have different expectations. so chillax

Sucremamito1:
I’m a woman
That’s a bitter truth
It takes the grace of God for a woman to feed you (man)for complete one week without complaining

what bitter truth you just need to wake up

the real truth is

when the man is providing the money, the woman is taking care of other things,
the house
the kids
organising the meals,
a whole other stuff required to run the family.

But when the woman is providing
the man does nothing.
he still expects her to do everything.

let's be honest
if a man is providing and the woman doesn't do shit in the house but wakes up and plays game till evening, will you be happy? will the whole world not hear??
the real problem is most men aren't honest and most women don't even know themselves so they agree with everything these men say

even your fellow guy go vex for you if as bachelors leaving together he has a job before you so he brings the money for food and pays the rent, yet he comes home and meets you sleeping/playing game while the house is a mess and food uncooked.

Men be truthful in your life and leave women we are not the problem.

Follow Derick Jackson and learn how to do right by your woman if you want to have a happy relationship

OlawaleBammie Ussycool

by the way

you all need to follow Derick Jackson and learn how to treat women right, if everyman was like Derek there would be no relationship problems I swear,

it seems like I attack men more. but I attack women too, the problem is most relationship problems are from men but they just don't know it or their ego won't let them admit. follow Derick Jackson and learn a better way to a happier relationship.

I have a man, I am a feminist not that I hate men, I worship the ground a good man walks on but if you bring mediocre then don't expect to be treated like a king. that's why y'all hate me because that's what y'all do
Peace.

congratulations OlawaleBammie


if I tell you where I work you will beg me for money

but its too easy to find so I can't mention here, that's the luck you have

don't say things you don't know about people just to get attention and it will be well with you.

peace.

tell their parents na! abi are you another 10yrs old to be asking this type of question??

unless something serious is done about them they will never stop, and only their parents can take that step to save them.

don't mind those paedophiles telling you it's the world we live in today, that's because they would take advantage of such situations and use it against the kids, unless that's what you are planning to do and if it I will not wish you bad because you just brought it upon yourself.

I say this because the compound I grew up these things use to happen alot because children were very many and it was only when the parents know and punish the children they stop doing it

she is right but misogynists will not agree

chatinent:
Why do I feel the nude really weren't editted but real, her response could be just to fight the shame.

it is clearly edited. if its indoor I might believe but outdoor like that? what will they do such nudes for?? plus everybody knows Tacha's breast is sleepers that's definitely not Tacha

and if Tacha's pic can be edited Then Toke's own definitely is too.