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advanceDNA:
They are coming for you.
..na some pple meal ticket and what will end their bill-paying days u dey rubbish like that

I really enjoyed this post from 2017 written by Kenneth4u205. It got me thinking deep about sex - It's really overrated!

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Sex, sex, sex everywhere. It really baffles me the extent that some men can go because of sex .
When I'm banging my girlfriend and she's moaning and screaming harder,little did she know what is really going through my mind. I was busy contemplating the stupidity of what I'm doing. So this thing that I'm doing now is what makes a fellow man to kill another? Is what makes some men to train a woman through the university? What makes some men to buy expensive cars and mansion for some women? Doesn't make sense to me.
So banged her harder and deeper to know if it will make sense to me. But it still doesn't make sense to me. She was moaning loudly now and wringing her hip like snake. But I was busy observing her from head to toes to find out why most men loose their senses because of this act. Their was nothing special from her hair to her neck, just a pretty face which doesn't give explanation why a man will behave stupidly.
Then I looked further from her neck to abdomen. The only thing of interest I saw in this partition is the brea*st. Her breas*t is firm ,soft,erect and full. But on a closer look, its just a mass of round flesh, nothing that special to warrant a man to build duplex for a lady. Then I decided to look further from her abdomen to her toes .I pause for a while when my vision got to in between her legs (punna). Here is the main engine house that makes men kill there mother or even best friend. Her punna is excellent, clean and extremely tight. But I saw nothing special but a fold of flesh with a hole drilled through it, it doesn't make sense to me, so I decided to turn her over in doggy style ,so that I will bang her from the backside. Maybe I would find something that will make sense to me.
Talk of butt,hers was 100% full like south african ladies. Men go gaga because of big butt. So I narrowed my vision to the butt while I was banging her, the butt was moving to the frequency of my thrusting.really interesting indeed.
But when I looked at it critically ,all I saw was accumulation of fat and flesh. Now I'm even more confuse than before.I can't see anything that justify why some men abandon their aged parent in the village just because of taking care of the financial needs of ladies. Or why my best friend committed suicide because of being dump by a girl he invested heavily on guys I really need an explanation why men really do crazy things just to have this piece of flesh before me.
I decided to have a quick shower after our fourth round. Maybe I will think clearly under the cold shower. There must be a reason for all this, just that I'm yet to figure it out. Walked into the bedroom after the shower and there she is still nake*d on the bed. My long Johnny instantly getting erec*t again,urging me towards fifth round.

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No dey overdo for this life, e get why

SIMPonPatrol:
What is wrong with chasing skirts, is it trousers that you want me to chase?

It's your life. Chase whatever you want. E no concern me.

And here is another proof, boys. Real love is a fantasy, it doesn't exist. Make money before bitches.

Nigeria today is a paradise to the future Nigeria. This nation is just going downhill.

Na men go comment pass for the post .
Some men no get sense shaa, they will follow anything in a skirt.
But for me, I don't give a fvck. Nigerian girls really ain't worth it. Change my mind if you can. Following them is just a waste of time.

Go to hospital and let them treat her. Some questions are unnecessary to ask online, nobody can diagnose the cause of her problem via nairaland.

When girls of nowadays get to that age, they will look worse than her. At least, she posed without filters which is something today's girls, also known as liabilities, will never do.
They are so insecure about themselves to the point of not being able to stand before a mirror to look at their true image, that's why they cover it up with make-up and filter.
And when they post those pictures online, they expect others to accept them that way. Why would anyone accept you if you rejected yourself. Crazy!

ABANGWABOI:
ALL

Baba, wetin them do you?

MatrixReloaded:
Are you about to repeat the same misdemeanour all in name of chasing clout.

No. But regardless, that won't change the truth.

Savedday2:
Make thunder fire any 9ja girl wey go disturb me with her useless kpekus again!

As I dey so, I dey vex!

Guy man, wetin dey vex you?

Girls' figure or beauty doesn't entice me anymore. I see beyond the obvious. And if any girl act like she deserves my attention, I'll ignore her like she doesn't even exist.

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Beautiful girls don't get ignored, and when you ignore them, it fvcks with their brain and humble them real quick. Sometimes you just have to put hot girls in their place, make them realize that they aren't special.
I don't know what men have been reduced to! How can a sane man worship a girl's buttock? That's stupid! Any man has the right to be a simp, but some of you guys are abusing that right and that fvcks it up for everyone. Simps are idiots for giving girls the attention that they don't deserve.

Where are those guys? Are they tired of commenting their famous line - "Nigerian Girls Are Useless"?
I remember how that comment use to piss off the feminists on nairaland.

Reminderz:
op, you've truly woken up... that's just the harsh reality... sometimes when I see about people talking about their dream job or working for some company, I shake my head that these people don't even know what are really asking for... all what you are asking for is to continuing being a slave for other people... you don't want to break free from this cycle of modern slavery and get your freedom... it's all slavery, the method used is the only thing that differs...

you shouldn't even have a dream job, you should strive to be your own boss, think outside the box, have multiple sources of income, not working for a man or government who makes you slave away your previous time and energy for them and when you now get old, you realise the things you feel you saved were taken away by bills and you have close to nothing left while still living on rent... you get old and depressed.... most people don't know how they are being controlled remotely... because where they work, they are given the illusions of big salary or some benefits, they don't realise that the bigger the salary, the bigger the mental cage they've locked themselves... this is not a physical prison, but it has the same effect... only few would be able to break out of this cage till death comes for them... most get old depending on pensions which is never guaranteed until they finally die of sickness or depression... it's the loop the system has designed for the average man...

your freedom is the most important thing to you, unfortunately it will not be given for you freely, it's what you have to fight for.. you have to stop doing what the average Joe does, stop consuming what the average Joe does, refused to be brainwashed, and refuse to be average.. you have to fight like you're really fighting for your survival.. think outside the box and be exceptional else you'll continue being an average or below average person.. you have to say no that you can't continue waking up your company sets for you, only go to break when your company says so, and only rests when your company says so.. for how long do you want to be doing all this? is this what you wanna do to get rich? lol you're on a long thing because you'll never be rich or wealthy.. watch free city to understand the concept the system has designed for you...

I laugh when I see broke people say that "money can't buy happiness", lol what can poverty buy? after being in a good health, what can't money do? have you seen a rich man gave all his money away? lol fvck NO! it's the same man that will tell you money can't buy happiness, lmao...

the second thing is that, this reality is even more harsh for men... men have to struggle their whole lives... no one gives a fvck about them or how they feel, they just have to keep adapting and adapting... some eventually end up depressed, some commits suicide, and some end up broke and invisible to the society... it's a harsh world for men.. despite all the challenges life has already thrown at them, they are still expected to protect and provide against all means... it's a sad world for men... coupled with all these struggles, the fastest way a man can die is to end up with a bad woman.. his death is certain...

WOW! You are on point! I really enjoyed reading your comment.

Nasri100:
This is worries for una wey dey do relationships

It can affect anyone, not only those in a relationship.

DeeBaDan:
I earn nicely for the past four years minimum so I don't know what you're talking about.

If you're okay with your earning, good for you.
I don't know how much you're earning, but do you know that if you earn 250k a month for the next 80 years without spending a dime out of it, it will amount to N240M, and you won't even be able to afford a Nigerian used Bugatti.
And I know a person on the internet that have 30 Bugatti and isn't even 40 years old yet.
If that doesn't change your mindset towards money, then nothing will.

My second thread today.
Just wanted to write this down.

Don't mind my typos. I didn't proofread.

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Adulthood is not what I expected it to be. I'm utterly disappointed. Let me explain.

When I was little, I use to imagine adulthood being an interesting stage of life, the age of responsibilities where people have figured their lives out. I used to imagine that adults have money, but they're just hiding it. I imagined that they have plans for the future, even though they might not be happy, but at least, they are independent and living an adventurous life.

I didn't really desire to be an adult because I saw it as a stressful stage of life where you are on your own, away from your parents and struggling to make money. But at the same time, I found it interesting.

But I really was disappointed when I became an adult. I realized that the adults around me really haven't figured any sh*t out. They aren't happy with their lives, don't have money, their lives aren't interesting! Both male and female! Young and old, their wives don't respect them, women don't value them. And the list continues. It was not the age of responsibilities as I imagined, but the age of confusion filled with why's and how's.

I found out that most adults, 99% of them are lazy, and enslaved by the government. Do 9-5 jobs, got paid nothing . Can't even buy a super car, don't even have control of their lives. The government decides when they wake up and go to work. The bank is in control of their money. The bank doesn't really save your money, they use it for investment, to make money for the government. The bank don't even save their money in their bank. But that's a topic for another day. So, they're living sad lives and haven't figured any sh*t out. They are following the same circle that made their fathers poor and they don't even care!

Then I realized that they need people that have figured it out by their side. They need someone they will tell them that they are fvcked up! Someone that will tell them to 'piss off', 'no one really cares', and who will tell them how lazy they are.

People wake up wondering if they are happy or not. If you are happy, good for you. If you're sad, who cares? You just have to be disciplined enough to get up and do what you have to do. If you don't, you're lazy and deserves to be broke. I think everyone is exactly where they deserve to be, whether they're poor or Rich.

Fact is that nobody really cares, the government doesn't care! If you die today, your boss will replace you immediately, he will forbid that even your death should ruin his business.

People should wake up to the reality! No one cares, stop going around the same circle that fvcked your fathers up. Break out of the circle. Stop being lazy. Develope skills. Stop giving a f*ck about your emotions. Work every waking hour. What's the worse that can happen? You can't die from working, you're just lazy and disappointing and that's why nobody will remember your name when you're gone. Work like never before, you have all the time you need to rest when you die.

This has been in my mind lately, I have been thinking about it and now decided to write it down to you guys. Might delete it later.

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It's about EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT.
It is not talked about but it can cause you a lot of damages.
This happens when you are way too comfortable with people to the extent that you start to feel like you need them, and this feeling can extend to being dependent on them.

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When you are too comfortable with someone, you will start having an uncommon feeling around them. It's more like the feeling of appreciation. You will start to feel more like yourself around them, and be open to them.

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Since this is a very uncommon feeling, it creates dopamine that makes you feel good and relaxed around them.

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And this will make you open up to them and discuss personal information about yourself with them. And if not careful, this can lead to disclosing your secrets to them.

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While this will feel good at the moment, it is a dangerous adventure that will create emotional attachment.

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Anybody you are emotionally attached to can influence your life. With too much influence, they can control you. Unfortunately, what controls you can destroy you too.

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Now you ask why? Let me explain.
When you are emotionally attachment, it creates the fear of detachment. You will adhere to the person's will so that they will keep being pleased with you. And you will become afraid of losing the person because they know too much about you and they can ruin your life with the information they have about you.

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Remember, nothing lasts long enough to become yours completely and this includes friendship and relationships. Friends will go their separate ways eventually. Brothers will get married and belong to their wifes who will eventually have children that she will devout her life to, and eventually the children will later go their separate ways, have partners who they will also devout their lives to, and the circle continues. So, It can't be utterly yours.

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If you it can't last long enough to become yours completely, then you shouldn't be attached to it, especially emotionally.

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What develops emotional attachment?

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1. When you share way too much personal information: you would then want to stick around so that why won't fvck you up with the information they have about you.

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2. When you tell them your secrets. That's even worse. Don't do it. They're called secrets for a reason.

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3. When you lend them money or personal item: you will feel like sticking around and staying in good terms with them to have the chance of getting your money or stuff back.

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4. When you feel too comfortable around them.

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The downside of being emotional attached is that it will eventually cause distractions, paranoia, dependency, etc.

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I can't think of any good side of it because there isn't one.

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Avoid getting emotionally attached to people so that you won't be affected, moved or embarrassed by whatever they do or say.

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How do you avoid it?
I will tell you few ways to get emotional detached. I have some works to do, I may complete this post later.

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1. Don't get too comfortable to the point where you feel you need them, or where you feel dependent on them. If you find yourself getting too comfortable around someone, it's time to withdraw.

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2. Don't lend people money that you can't afford to lose. Or don't lend money at all, you can dash them the money instead.

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3. Don't tell anyone information that are too personal to you. And more importantly, don't open up to them or tell them your secrets, they might use it against you later.

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Remember, treat every friend like a potential enemy. Speak as if you are being recorded. And don't say or share more than is necessary.

aybrands:
Making some research on money

Me too, bro. That is what I was also doing.

Why?

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