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To the original question: It's best to have both but at times they can be the least of your worries.

M M M:
just fu-ck her and
discharge her.

A bit late for him to do that now, she's done it to him and the other fool.

I'm sorry to say it this way but what kind of man are you to even be entertaining this. Do you have shortage of women up there. I have never heard of such, i'd rather believe it's not happening and you're just looking for a topic, yes?

Madukaele:
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bobbyray:
Wendy or X-factor,
if you can still edit your blog heading, it states 'deam" not dream
and if i may say, why tautology of fantansy and imagined, it means same thing
nice work anyway, dont mind connecting with you to watch your strip dance

Bobbyray thank you for your very constructive feedback, you have no idea how much I appreciate it. I have two full months of writing anything under my belt now, that is other than jotting to do lists and appointments in my diary. LOL true though, so I'm learning.
And thanks for the visit, hope you'll come by again soon to give your opinion on something I posted tonight on an SA problem. It's called Could Politics be Sexy

Typo's: sooooooo  frustrating, I spend a couple of hours leaving something and coming back to read it before publishing and after I do I am guaranteed to still find errors after publishing. you're the only person who came back to me on the Deams (or anything else from Nairaland) and guess what as I corrected that I saw I also had creep as creap.

Tautology, I'm also aware that strictly speaking it is repetition but repetition for specific emphasis. Fantasy has a specific insinuations which I was not referring to in this case and after reading the piece I was imagining that the reader would see that the state of creating a new world/ fantasy whether in that specific genre or romantic or horror reflects phenomenal abilities to imagine/see in the minds eye and create - coming up with the fantasy (i read).
In my mind it makes perfect sense, not while explaining it to you though .

Strip tease - I wish I could connect with myself that way but I am far too self - conscious. I tried for my husband once and both of us landed on the floor with tears of laughter running from our eyes. It was not romantic, I was doing it to the pussycat doll's don't you wish you girlfriend was hot like me, don't yah, it was hilarious.         (can't stop smiling at the memory?.

Hopefully if yo haven't been, you'll get there.
Fabulous
http://fabulositynouveau..com/2011/03/somewhere-out-therea-william-kowalski.html

Today it gets a bit thoughtful but worth your check:

http://fabulositynouveau..com/2011/02/awesome-imagination.html

Fabulous,

190 - of course you are excused from perusing this, the level of communication requires pronominal mental faculties.

Woke4all:
Downloading. . . . . . . .99%

How did it go?

The was confusion with authors but all fixed up now, so if you went and looked before please go again so you can get the correct infor.

http://fabulositynouveau..com/eria

Thank you Nigeria, you've been wonderful. I thought I'd write something about a member of this forum this time: Aslan333

Cheers,

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Jenifa:some women are mugu for "love." Do you really think she would turn her lover to the police?
She won't do that yet. It is only later after the guy has 419 her that she will get bitter and start calling the police. for now, she is still enjoying her marriage. lol

you read this topic.
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-541651.0.html

I really have enjoyed your responses. When I read your first one I thought you were being harsh but by your second I could sea reason. When it comes to issues of the heart I agree that a hefty dose of skepticism is always healthy.

@ Poster:My husband's first trip out of Nigeria, took him to your side of Europe, Russian, Germany,etc . The things he's told me are done to survive or for papers to women you age are astonishing.

I always say when people criticize Nigerian men that all men are the same, and sometimes finish with (born of the same wicked woman hahahah) depending on whether we're being nice or horrible. But that's not exactly true, when you meet a Nigerian man who genuinely wants you in his life it is a wonderful thing. I can only speak from experience with my husband, there could not be a kinda soul even though we sometimes fight like dogs, but then that leads to fantastic make up sessions so thank God.

On the other hand you have to keep in mind that first and foremost, a Nigerian man is a strategist. He can put his heart on hold until he has achieved his purpose, whatever it may be. I think there are too many variables here for you to ignore. I'm about to generalize I know and I apologise to everyone, Africans are very traditional and respectful of culture and its ettiquete, what family do you think would want an old woman as a wife to their son, these people hold their sons in such high esteem they are demi gods. Personally I would tie my son up to a pole and give him a righteous flogging for looking at his "mother's" private parts ( ). I therefore conclude that this is indeed a strategy. The story Jenifa posted is sad and yet I could just not stop laughing at how funny it all is. How "stupid in love" this old lady was. And sadly what a reflection is it on a broken society, grandmothers used to have a prized and very fulfilling place in the family and now they are left alone, especially in western cultures, abanddoned to loneliness and desperation for love to this extend. You need to decide with honest introspection that should the worst happen, you will not end up a sad joke.
Perhaps you will decide for yourself that you will help him out regardless, it's better to know and understand this right at the beginning.
just don't get a msg one day saying: You've been 419ed.
Good luck

But that really should be no surprise considering it's location on this site, nothing is meant to have any meaning here. abi?

[quote author=p.wiz link=topic=613191.msg7813996#msg7813996 date=1298864200]Meaningless thread [/quote]Yes P. Wiz, sad but true but it did become that, was not even meant to be a thread.

Oh and its true,
Any publicity is good publicity. this heated thread generated over 200 visitors. Interesting, yes?
So I shall continue posting but keeping mind of applicable rules.

Phate07:
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OP is just spaming. She posted this same stuff in 3 other sections.
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Oh are you asking from the perspective that Phate just gave? or another.
yes I did Phate because these are the three forums that I visit, especially the writers one, although when I started off here I think two years ago I frequented this one and the business one. I note that a moderator said you can only send one ad which I was not aware of at the time.

I'm still not sure about the difference between the robot or computer and will not answer because my answer is quite offensive if indeed I am understanding Corcky correctly.

gentlem80:
OP

I hate rejections!!! (and I must say, I've had a fair share of them in my short stay on earth)

I love you answer, it's so sad I almost feel like slapping whoever had the audacity to reject such a gentleman.

Woke4all:
Downloading. . . . . . . .98%

Did you manage to get to it?

I take great offence to posts by some called 190 on my thread titled (In your Wildest Dreams: I think you'll enjoy this)
Can you please look through it and advise. It was posted tonight.

Assumptions: I am in SA, in case you don't know we get Nairaland here too. Cheers