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FamilyRe: How To Handle A Child's Tantrum In Public? by xtayle(m): 3:23pm On Dec 21, 2012
bigfrancis21: By striking a deal with children they grow up † always be dependent on that 'goody goody' they will get in return Fø̲̣̣я̅ supposedly 'good behaviour'...in other words if there's no promise of a goody goody they WILL NOT co-operate. It isn't training at all since the training ι̥s̶̲̥̅̊ not part of them but something they do Fø̲̣̣я̅ something in return.
The best way † curb a child who starts † exhibit stubbornness tendencies from infancy ι̥s̶̲̥̅̊ outright spanking from the beginning. Believe ♍ƺ, it works magic! My neighbour's 2-yr old son used † be very stubborn, unruly, always wanting this ø̲̣̣я̅ that, and always crying!. His grandma(in her 50s) being the disciplinarian she was never tolerated such from him. By the time she was done spanking the boy, he totally changed. Now the boy has surprising good behaviour. Tell him † do something and he does it, unlike before.
My late mother never believed in pampering kids at all. If you misbehave she'll spank you outright. By the time you get spanked the third time, nobody will tell you † co-operate. The good behaviour will automatically stay with you. She's no longer alive but the training she gave ♍ƺ still remains strong in ♍ƺ. At least, I didn't get used † 'goody goody' † maintain good behaviour.
xt: This shouldn't be a big issue at all. The problem with parents, most especially moms is double standard. You wanna pamper ur child and u want the child to be disciplined at the same time. Well, its possible but parents don't know how to do it in most cases. The main thing is to have basic control over ur child. Ur child must respect ur instructions, Period. Once u focus on training ur child to learn that ur instruction is final, then all other things will be easy for u to handle.

If u are the type that can not afford not to give ur kid whatever he or she wants, believe me, u are not helping urself and the kid at all. Kids must understand that u can not always get what u want. Let them cry if they want, just be consistent, a kid of 2 would get used to it in just a matter of weeks and ur kid would never cry over bullshit anymore. But if u cant break that jinx, well u have to deal with the consequences.

...And remember, it is easier to treat such when they are still babies, because the older they get, the more difficult it becomes.
Hard truths! You can't be raised by my mom and exhibit unruly traits. Each time you try it, your spanking is 5am d next day. While u are enjoying your early morning sleep, she wakes you up, ask if u are wide awake. If u say yes, she then reminds u of your previous day misbehavior. Then d spanking starts in a locked in room.

There is no escaping until u start saying "I won't do it again". I am talking about thorough beating which was used to mold me and my elder siblings (am d last kid). Nobody was spared and it worked because good behavior at all times was not negotiable.

Let me also say that we were pampered because we got more than we needed sometimes by asking for it but mostly without asking. She loved us but could not risk spoiling us.
FamilyRe: How To Handle A Child's Tantrum In Public? by xtayle(m): 3:08pm On Dec 21, 2012
bigfrancis21: By striking a deal with children they grow up † always be dependent on that 'goody goody' they will get in return Fø̲̣̣я̅ supposedly 'good behaviour'...in other words if there's no promise of a goody goody they WILL NOT co-operate. It isn't training at all since the training ι̥s̶̲̥̅̊ not part of them but something they do Fø̲̣̣я̅ something in return.
The best way † curb a child who starts † exhibit stubbornness tendencies from infancy ι̥s̶̲̥̅̊ outright spanking from the beginning. Believe ♍ƺ, it works magic! My neighbour's 2-yr old son used † be very stubborn, unruly, always wanting this ø̲̣̣я̅ that, and always crying!. His grandma(in her 50s) being the disciplinarian she was never tolerated such from him. By the time she was done spanking the boy, he totally changed. Now the boy has surprising good behaviour. Tell him † do something and he does it, unlike before.
My late mother never believed in pampering kids at all. If you misbehave she'll spank you outright. By the time you get spanked the third time, nobody will tell you † co-operate. The good behaviour will automatically stay with you. She's no longer alive but the training she gave ♍ƺ still remains strong in ♍ƺ. At least, I didn't get used † 'goody goody' † maintain good behaviour.
xt: This shouldn't be a big issue at all. The problem with parents, most especially moms is double standard. You wanna pamper ur child and u want the child to be disciplined at the same time. Well, its possible but parents don't know how to do it in most cases. The main thing is to have basic control over ur child. Ur child must respect ur instructions, Period. Once u focus on training ur child to learn that ur instruction is final, then all other things will be easy for u to handle.

If u are the type that can not afford not to give ur kid whatever he or she wants, believe me, u are not helping urself and the kid at all. Kids must understand that u can not always get what u want. Let them cry if they want, just be consistent, a kid of 2 would get used to it in just a matter of weeks and ur kid would never cry over bullshit anymore. But if u cant break that jinx, well u have to deal with the consequences.

...And remember, it is easier to treat such when they are still babies, because the older they get, the more difficult it becomes.
PoliticsRe: Nominate Your Preferred Candidate For 2015 Presidential Election . by xtayle(m): 12:16pm On Dec 19, 2012
Buhari/ Oshiomole
PropertiesRe: 6 Acres Of Land Available For Sale At Lekki by xtayle(op): 8:38am On Dec 19, 2012
Avl
PropertiesRe: 30 Acres Of Land For Sale Behind Chevron Estate, Sattelite Town by xtayle(op): 4:18pm On Dec 18, 2012
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PropertiesRe: 6 Acres Of Land Available For Sale At Lekki by xtayle(op): 10:00pm On Dec 17, 2012
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Properties6 Acres Of Land Available For Sale At Lekki by xtayle(op): 6:33pm On Dec 15, 2012
6 Acres of Land now available for Sale

Location: About 5 km away from Eleko Beach Junction.

Distance from the express: About 125 feet

Title: Governors Consent

Price: N36m per Acre.

For more information pls call:

0809 972 1600

0802 900 2166
Properties30 Acres Of Land For Sale Behind Chevron Estate, Sattelite Town by xtayle(op): 12:46pm On Dec 15, 2012
This 30 Acres of Land now available for sale

Location: Behind Chevron Estate, Sattelite Town, Lagos.

Title: (1) C of O and (2) Supreme Court Judgment

Asking Price: N60m per Acre

For more information or inspection, please call:

0809 972 1600

0802 900 2166
Christianity EtcRe: Winners Chapel In Ilorin Burnt Down Over Land Dispute by xtayle(m): 11:13am On Dec 14, 2012
nagoma: They even have 3 gods ; the father, the son and the spirit and Muslims have only one.
Okaaaaaaaay! That their idol they have to physically fight for. The one only Muhammad alone ever heard speaking. No one before, during and after the life of Muhammad ever heard from him. The one who decreed that every muslim will go into hell whether they like it or not except they kill or die in Jihad. The one who says any muslim who does not fight or see it as a responsibility to do so will be guilty of hypocrisy.

God is not in Islam if you care to know. At best, its a demon controlled religion from the pit of hell. Go and read Surah 5 and surah 47 of the quran. Also get the book, "the son of hamas".

There is so much ignorance all over d place
Christianity EtcRe: Winners Chapel In Ilorin Burnt Down Over Land Dispute by xtayle(m): 1:30pm On Dec 13, 2012
I can smell religious hatred but I don't think there will be reprisal as the Church belongs to no one but God. He will fight for his Church. I pity anyone who is involved. It would have been better if yhey were not born at all.
Business To BusinessDo You Have N2m To Invest? by xtayle(op):
Fund real business handled by real people. This is not internet business.

Attraction:

-30% per annum interest payable with capital.

-MOU/Agreement will be duly executed/signed.

-Return can be structured and paid out every 2 months.

-Capital can be paid back every 4 months on a reducing balancing basis.

-You can leave the capital and keep earning the return

I can be reached on:

0809 972 1600
0802 900 2166

xtayle@gmail.com
AdvertsDo You Have N250k To Invest Short Term? by xtayle(op): 9:40am On Dec 13, 2012
I have order (LPO) to supply an equipment to a multinational company. The equipment has already been imported but we need N250k to clear and supply it. Anyone who can fund this clearing will get his or her money back with 12% interest in 30 days.

You can reach me on:

0809 972 1600
0802 900 2166
Business To BusinessDo You Sell This Type Of Scale? by xtayle(op): 12:09pm On Dec 12, 2012
If you sell this type of scale or know where I can get it, please call or text me.

O809 972 1600

0802 900 2166

Business To BusinessDo You Sell This Type Of Scale? by xtayle(op): 12:00pm On Dec 12, 2012
If you sell this type of scale or know where I can get it, please call or text me.

O809 972 1600

0802 900 2166
CareerRe: What Do You Do For A Living ??? by xtayle(m): 6:12pm On Dec 11, 2012
I deal in Laboratory equipment supply, installation and maintenance covering food, pharmaceutical, medical, life science, research, academic, security (forensic science) and construction industries.

If you need any equipment/consumable for any kind of Lab in any industry, just call:

0802 900 2166 or
0809 972 1600.
Car TalkRe: How Can One Know A Genuine Customs Vehicle Clearance Certificate? by xtayle(op): 5:46pm On Dec 11, 2012
Libra38: Take the document to any custom office nearby for inspection, mind you "DONT GO WITH THE VEHICLE OOH"
They will always tell you that the papers are fake. Use your initiative while the inspection is going on.
Appreciate it Bro. Should I go with the original doc? Is it not possible they seize it and charge me with forgery while using it as evidence? I know I will take them where I bought it. But b4 then, what is possible?
Car TalkHow Can One Know A Genuine Customs Vehicle Clearance Certificate? by xtayle(op):
Am in some kind of dilemma on this issue. I don't know if my car's customs certificate is original. It looks so but I know d penalty if one is caught and it fake.

To everyone who knows how d original one can be identified or determined, pls share your know here with people just like me.

God bless u all.
AutosRe: V-boot Mercedes Benz Needed Urgently by xtayle(op): 9:38pm On Nov 27, 2012
la'success:
please schedule time for Inspections...

Call me 08074690744.

Cheers.
Where hv u been? We paid for an E-Class-2001 yesterday when no one seem to be interested in supplying d VBoot. Meeeeennnn, I don't think there is a better car than Mercedes. Thanks for being d only one interested.
AutosRe: V-boot Mercedes Benz Needed Urgently by xtayle(op): 9:25am On Nov 24, 2012
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Satellite TV TechnologyRe: DSTV Increases Tariffs Again by xtayle(m): 2:44pm On Nov 23, 2012
Austinodark: I watch dstv for free with all the supersport channels and africa magic using micro box,be smart and also make money online
Where can I get the XBOX and how much is it. please call me or message me 08099721600 or email xtayle@gmail.com

Thanks
Business To BusinessRe: Laboratory Horizontal Laminar Airflow Workstation by xtayle(op): 9:18am On Nov 23, 2012
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AutosRe: V-boot Mercedes Benz Needed Urgently by xtayle(op): 7:49am On Nov 23, 2012
la'success:
Check this out

2units available
Pls post interior pictures, specification and prices. Best regards.
AutosV-boot Mercedes Benz Needed Urgently by xtayle(op): 7:21am On Nov 23, 2012
A Friend Needs a V-Boot Mercedes Benz urgently. Pls post your V-Boot Mercedes Benz for sale with pictures and prices. Only those located in Lagos will be considered.
AutosRe: Needs Advice On The Advantages & Disadvantages Of Having A Benz Car by xtayle(m): 6:16am On Nov 23, 2012
Please, Benz VBoot Users, talk to us. We need your advice
CrimeRe: My Experience With Swindlers by xtayle(m): 3:54pm On Nov 13, 2012
If you go there next time, whether in bureau d change or not, make sure you are dealing with convincing hausa. Those people that swindled you are Yoruba guys. Dont get it twisted. am Yoruba. Idowu is my Name. But they did it to me when I was preparing for my wedding.I lost close to N50k and the attraction was they spoke Yoruba. I left Yaro my age-long money-changer and dealt by the road side.

I learned my lesson hard that day.
PropertiesRe: 1 Acre Of Land (Marked) For Sale At Mowe - Price: N3.6m Asking by xtayle(op): 3:16pm On Nov 03, 2012
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PoliticsRe: Tinubu Is The MAJOR Problem Of Lagos State by xtayle(m): 5:32pm On Oct 16, 2012
Both the OP and Moderator are biased.
PropertiesRe: 1 Acre Of Land (Marked) For Sale At Mowe - Price: N3.6m Asking by xtayle(op): 4:49pm On Oct 16, 2012
wealth123: What Title do u have on the land? What part of Mowe is this land? is it along ofada road or Shimawa? Give a clear description please or even a small map. This will help a lot. You can call me also and i will call you back for discussion: 08082083126. sorry for asking u to call me. I have a reason for that.
The land is at ofada axis. My Telephone lines are above. Feel free to call me.
PoliticsRe: Why Do People Hate Bola Tinubu? by xtayle(m): 4:25pm On Oct 16, 2012
I just love this Man called Tinubu. Just one man in the middle of so great a storm yet unruffled. I wish hes not so busy to mentor me. For so many people to like and at the same time hate him. he must be a true democrat and a great man. I so submit.
PropertiesRe: 1 Acre Of Land (Marked) For Sale At Mowe - Price: N3.6m Asking by xtayle(op): 3:25pm On Oct 12, 2012
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PoliticsRe: Man Caught With 2,000 Voters Cards In Mimiko’s Ward by xtayle(m): 3:18pm On Oct 12, 2012
kennytidistar: my friend you should know those mentioned are not foolish and they wont come out because the medium through which they are mention lack loco-standi even if i was the one mention on daily post i wont bother because i know is not real so face fact and stop deceiving your self. until a constitutionally recognised news paper pick it up they still remain irrelevant to issue on ground, ok.
http://www.punchng.com/ondo-decides-2012/inec-to-prosecute-worker-arrested-with-voter-cards/
http://dailyindependentnig.com/2012/10/ondo-2012-inec-set-to-prosecute-staff-arrested-with-voters-cards/

Those are neither daily post nor the nation. What else will you like to see.

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