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Nairaland GeneralRe: Hurray!!! Nairaland Is 10 Years Today!!! by XwhY(m): 12:08pm On Mar 10, 2015
Happy 10th Year Anniversary Nairaland. Congrat Mr Seun Osewa. Congrat every Nairalander
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Most Hilarious Interview Conversation by XwhY(m): 8:59am On Mar 10, 2015
Funny sharp guy
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Graduate Engineers by XwhY(m): 9:52pm On Mar 09, 2015
What is the name and venue of the company?
EducationRe: What Is This Babe Doing? by XwhY(m): 8:48am On Mar 07, 2015
superneutral:
lautech
And what happened with lautech
EducationRe: See An SS1 Classroom In Bauchi [PHOTO] by XwhY(m): 8:34pm On Mar 01, 2015
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RomanceRe: If You Talk To Girls In These 3 Ways, They Will Fall Crazily In Love With You by XwhY(m): 1:35am On Feb 23, 2015
I've been using these tips b4 especially the first two only that I didn't realize it. Ill take note of it now. Bravo! @OP
EducationRe: Dear Jobseeking Graduate, Here’s What You Should Have Done In Final Year by XwhY(m): 4:21pm On Feb 13, 2015
This is so useful and timely. Kudos!
CultureRe: The Yorubas.... Your 'arodan' Experience.... by XwhY(m): 6:53pm On Jan 15, 2015
Ohhhh. Story..... Storyyy. Once upon a time, I was stubborn and stupid but now I'm gentle and wise. My elder brothers really frustrate me back then with this endless journey.
Nairaland GeneralRe: The Four Most Valuable Things In Life by XwhY(op): 7:16am On Jan 09, 2015
shyna01:
them plenty small oh, like 5m dollars, etc.
. Yes, money is important. But what is money without good health and Joy in your heart.
Nairaland GeneralThe Four Most Valuable Things In Life by XwhY(op): 11:07pm On Jan 08, 2015
Dear Nairalander,
Even though we can never know for sure what
the right direction is, we should spend time
reflecting upon our direction, trying to
understand ourselves and what we want out of
this life of ours.
Perhaps we should even dear asking ourselves
the question of questions:
What are the most important things in life?
The four most important things in life are….
1) Take care of your health
“Health is life. Care for it as you would care for
your newborn child.”
Poor health will both reduce the time you have in
this world and your capability to live the life you
want to live. Therefore, if we want to live for a
long time with a mind and body that can take us
where we want, we must take care of our health.
I’m not saying life can’t be good if we’re sick,
disabled or have other health challenges. I’m
saying that people would like to feel capable of
living the way they value and to live for a long
time. Health, consequently, is absolutely
fundamental.
Unfortunately, most of us only realize the
importance of health when its gone. That’s a
great shame. The good thing is that we’re
capable of influencing our health and it’s easier
than most people think.
2) Invest in your relationships
“Spend quality time with the people you love and
the relationships will grow stronger. Don’t, and
they’ll slowly fade away.”
When talking about life we’re used to hearing
ourselves and others say that the most important
thing in life is family and friends. It’s hard to
disagree and the evidence supporting this is
overwhelming. What’s not as fully understood or
discussed however is the importance investing in
relationships have for their ability to flourish
and grow. To be frank; many of us have little
knowledge about what “investing” means in this
respect and consequently how to go about
investing.
The above is likely one of the reasons why we
see so many people divorce, why the time we
spend with our friends steadily declines as we
age and why many of us spend more time in-front
of the TV or computer than we spend with our
kids.
Personally, I don’t think these things happen
because we want them to. I think they happen
because we don’t allow ourselves the time to
reflect on what really matters and consequently
we’re not fully aware of the impact small choices
we make in our day-to-day lives have on our
relationships. In order to have good
relationships I believe we need to both spend a
considerable amount of time with the people we
love and be really present during that time.
3) .
Install a positive view of yourself
“How we view ourselves is the foundation on
which our life is built.”
When we don’t have a positive self-view we
typically compare ourselves with other people,
feel insecure about ourselves and are too
sensitive to the opinion of others. We also tend
to make choices based on other people’s
expectations rather than do what truly feels
right for us.
Having a positive self-view on the other hand
means accepting ourselves for who we are and
what we believe in. It means having the courage
necessary to make our own decisions and to live
life the way that’s right for us.
Personally, I realized not long ago that I’ve lived
most of my life without having a strong enough
self-view. Only during the last few years have I
been able to understand and accept myself to the
degree where I very rarely feel “below” anyone
or feel afraid to say things I believe because of
other people’s judgment. I still have
improvement areas however, especially with
regards to dealing better with negative
feedback and rejection.
How you think is one of the key factors that
influence the view we have of ourselves. 4) Live your purpose, values and dreams
“Reflecting on what kind of person you want to
be and what you want out of life will increase
your understanding of yourself. Living according
to this understanding will give you a sense of
purpose, fulfilment and peace.”
Being healthy, having great relationships and a
positive self-view is wonderful. But who’s the
“you” in you? What makes you different to
everyone else?
Let’s talk about purpose, values and dreams.
Your life-purpose
Your life-purpose is a clearly stated, high level
description, of what you want to do with your
life.
Understanding your purpose is a journey that
requires time and reflection. Personally, I feel
I’ve only understood my own life-purpose
reasonably well for a few years and for all I
know my life-purpose might change in the future.
Let me share my personal purpose with you so
that you have an example of what a life-purpose
can look like:
The purpose of my life is to feel good, do good
and leave a legacy.
Why are you here on Earth? What’s your
purpose?
Your values
Values are the thoughts and behaviours that
define how you want to be as a person.
The following analogy is a good way to
understand values:
Picture yourself being in a boat. You’re sailing at
night and the sea is rough. Unfortunately for
you, the weather is horrible and you don’t know
if you’re steering the boat in the right direction.
Suddenly you see a lighthouse straight ahead!
You quickly steer the other way and get yourself,
the boat and your crew out of danger.
Values can act as lighthouses or guiding stars
like the Northern Star. Values help you become
aware of when your thoughts and behaviours
aren’t alligned with the kind of person you want
to be, just as a lighthouse make you aware of
where to sail. Consequently, values can help you
make better decisions in life
Below are some of my core values:
Live
Love
Learn
Give
Believe
It’s important that your values are closely
aligned with your life-purpose. As for your life-
purpose, understanding what your values are is a
journey that requires time and reflection.
Personally, I had never thought about values until
about five years ago. At the time my life wasn’t
in balance and spending time understanding my
values helped me make better decisions in my
own life.
What are the words that define how you want to
think and behave?
Your dreams
Dreams are things you want to experience in life.
Want to travel the world? Want to become a
world-class teacher? Want to make the world a
place where every creature is treated with
respect? I know I do.
Dream a little every day. Think about what you’d
like to do, see, think, feel and so on. Don’t let
your current as-is situation define what you dear
hoping for.
Dreams exist to be pursued! Many dreams do
come true and the more positive your self-view
is the easier it will be for you to achieve your
dreams. Source: www.rethinkingtruth.com/2013/01/31/the-four-most-important-things-in-life/ What is the most valuable thing in your life?
RomanceRe: Must Have Before You Toast A Nigerian Lady by XwhY(m): 11:36pm On Jan 04, 2015
Unibenstudent:
wow so can't u do some sugar coating that u have some cash in bank but for now I have only 1000 to spend.
oni yeye :
Jobs/VacanciesRe: What Is The Least Amount You Can Collect As A Fresh Graduate? by XwhY(m): 11:21pm On Jan 03, 2015
150k. Dnt need reading ur write up.
RomanceRe: Guys Only; What Trips You More In A Lady? by XwhY(m): 12:02am On Jan 03, 2015
Beautiful face and moderate shape does it for me. That's according to appearance. I love smart and intelligent girls.
RomanceRe: 10 Top Reasons To Find Love On Nairaland (For Guys) by XwhY(m): 11:52pm On Jan 02, 2015
Ok, let the search begin cool
RomanceRe: 10 Fabulous Facts About The Female Body by XwhY(m): 11:38pm On Jan 02, 2015
Interesting!
Christianity EtcRe: T.B. Joshua 2015 PROPHECIES by XwhY(m): 6:19pm On Jan 01, 2015
Ok
PoliticsRe: Photos: Jonathan Worships At Dunamis Gospel Church On New Year Day by XwhY(m): 6:18pm On Jan 01, 2015
Ameeeeennn
Christianity EtcRe: Why Did It Take 2,000 Years For The Gospel To Reach Nigeria? by XwhY(m): 5:35am On Dec 28, 2014
A thousand year is like a year in the. Sght of God. Spreading the Gospel across 6billion people on earth is not a day job. Some countries have not still heard of this gospel, the more reason we should evangelize.. The one that knows the reason why you are born this century and not back then has a plan for you. That is why He is God. He knows the end from the very beginning.
RomanceRe: Why Men Are Helplessly Attracted To Ladies With Bigger Butts – Study by XwhY(m): 10:10am On Dec 27, 2014
Juliaann:
You are not far from the truth
let's now confirm. So are you intelligent? cool
PoliticsRe: Chibok: Girls Who Escaped From Boko Haram Arrive In The US To Finish School by XwhY(m): 9:48am On Dec 27, 2014
Better
CelebritiesRe: Check Out Cossy In Her Santa Bikini ‘outfit’ - Photos by XwhY(m): 10:58pm On Dec 25, 2014
Creamish:
It's time to move on...
from where to where?
RomanceRe: Must I Give Her Transport Fare Every Time She Visits? by XwhY(m): 8:45pm On Dec 25, 2014
sexyseun:
The OP isn't worried about giving the girl the TF, he is only concerned that the TF is just 150 naira which the girl should be able to have "sometimes" @ OP: Dont give her TF all the time, if she sends you a bad sms next time, gladly know she is only after your money, because i know you wont give her exactly 150 when she visits, it might be 1000 or 2000. Girls should sometimes learn to be independent naaaa!!!!
Best answer!!! I like the way you reason.
CrimeRe: SHOCKING PHOTOS: 2 LAUTECH Students Striped Unclad & Beaten For Stealing by XwhY(m): 5:52pm On Dec 25, 2014
Good for them. And d guy Hollumcoch. Been forming welfare officer fighting for students right. Thank God he's exposed. So shall your equals be exposed. Ole, barao
RomanceRe: Why Is It Right To Tell A Girl"i Miss You" But Wrong To Say To A Guy? by XwhY(m): 3:54pm On Dec 24, 2014
Fraih:
I Miss you or I love you shouldn't be restricted to a particular sex, for goodness sake, you are expressing urself and its not about homo or not, that shouldn't even come to our miind at all...
I do tell my female friends I miss and love them because I really do and cos we had great moments together, I see no biggie when a guy tells that to his guys-man...
PERIOD
But don't you think telling the opposite sex you love him/her could mean something. I support the 'miss' part tho.
RomanceRe: Signs You Are A Boring Lady by XwhY(m): 12:15pm On Dec 24, 2014
You just described her. And I've started teaching her by ignoring.
BusinessRe: Free Tutorial On How To Make Over N250,000 Online With Little Or No Investment by XwhY(m): 6:16pm On Dec 23, 2014
...............Following
FoodRe: What's Your Worst Cooking/kitchen Chore? by XwhY(m): 10:56pm On Dec 20, 2014
I hate washing dishes and cutting onions like mad
RomanceRe: Ladies, Would You Date A Guy Who Won't Have Sex Until Marriage? by XwhY(m): 11:10am On Dec 16, 2014
hmmm. I think it depends on the personality of the guy we are talking about here. Aa guy with high sex drive and experience should not tell you this and you believe him. He will get it done somewhere else. The only guy you can consider is a religious and virgin guy. He is inexperienced and might not really know what's there for him. An experienced guy may want to keep you and get serviced somewhere else. Some ladies are cool with that though.
CelebritiesRe: Tuface Idibia's Pretty Daughter Celebrates Her 6th Birthday [photos] by XwhY(m): 2:06pm On Dec 11, 2014
coolCute idibia cool
FoodRe: Fruits You Hate! by XwhY(m): 12:30am On Dec 11, 2014
Sugar cane

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