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CrimeRe: Jamaica In Abuja Were All Sort Of Hard Drugs Are Sold(photos) by yahx(op): 1:56pm On Mar 17, 2015
Lilyomi:
Wow a daring job you did. Jamaica is da name n they r doin drugs? Hmmmm no offence but my thots...... Is not suprising if wat I hear n c in movies abt some parts of Jamaica is true..
Innocent ppl will suffer theft n robberies.
when I say drugs I mean even wt weed. Diazepan solution cocaine just mention
CrimeRe: Jamaica In Abuja Were All Sort Of Hard Drugs Are Sold(photos) by yahx(op): 1:52pm On Mar 17, 2015
1MCN:
No wonder we have a whole of Naught people in Abuja, especially along the Asokoro, Aso Rock axes.
sure bro +nyanya karuvillage . Just but a few
CrimeRe: Jamaica In Abuja Were All Sort Of Hard Drugs Are Sold(photos) by yahx(op): 1:52pm On Mar 17, 2015
1MCN:
No wonder we have a whole of Naught people in Abuja, especially along the Asokoro, Aso Rock axes.
they sale drugs freely without any fear in dem
CrimeRe: Jamaica In Abuja Were All Sort Of Hard Drugs Are Sold(photos) by yahx(op): 1:42pm On Mar 17, 2015
More photos dey paint dere dogs lik hyena

CrimeJamaica In Abuja Were All Sort Of Hard Drugs Are Sold(photos) by yahx(op): 1:38pm On Mar 17, 2015
Name of the place via photos is Nyanya located in abuja municipal area
This is the hub of scavengers that sale all kinds of spoiled or damage materials


But beyond the scavenging business
This place is the home of drug pushers
All sort of hard drugs are sold inside. All dis wooden houses

You will find dem drunk wit drugs crawling som even at d point of dieing


There is a photo that even show a guy raping marijuana

Don't ask me how I snap those photos because I use brain snap them if to say dem catch me hahahaha I for dey post this fr clinic



No ask wetin I go do dere

PoliticsRe: Fact Check: Six Popular Lies About President Goodluck Jonathan by yahx(m): 11:39am On Mar 17, 2015
Nigeria itself is a fat lie
GEJ till good opposition surface 2019
PoliticsRe: Buhari Is Nigeria's Mandela —okorocha by yahx(m): 11:35am On Mar 17, 2015
Mandela is dead so let him ..........
PoliticsRe: Buhari Is Nigeria's Mandela —okorocha by yahx(m): 11:35am On Mar 17, 2015
He must be dead since mandela is dead tooo
RomanceRe: In Need Of A Lady For A Real And Mutual Relationship by yahx(m): 11:31am On Mar 17, 2015
ozone2003:
Wetin all dis boys come here cum do? Na girl dem need no be boys.
the girls dey com wait small
PoliticsRe: GEJ Now Campaigning With Wrist Watches by yahx(m): 11:20am On Mar 17, 2015
GEJ don't waste your oil money gift without gift
Gen or nepa light I will still vote you
I will rather vote a man not a papa
PoliticsRe: Buhari's Bold Agenda For The Safeguarding Of Nigeria's Environment by yahx(m): 11:16am On Mar 17, 2015
The is nothing bold abt his agenda
All we knw is that he will nver have breakfast in aso rock except GEj invite him

GEJ till good oppositon surface in 2019



Is any body with me for gej ??
RomanceRe: In Need Of A Lady For A Real And Mutual Relationship by yahx(m): 11:09am On Mar 17, 2015
Notin person no go se fr nairaland!
Bros so no gals fr ur street! Chuch choir,youth fellowship or beta still u no get liver to stop that girl wey pass ur gate
Anyhow I wish u luck!
RomanceRe: I Need A Girl For A Serious Relationship by yahx(m): 11:05am On Mar 17, 2015
But bro are u shy to stop the. Lady in ur street! The one you look in church# dat lady that pass ur gate
huh? I wish you luck bro
RomanceRe: How Many Woman Can Do These To Save Their Man<pics> by yahx(m): 10:58am On Mar 17, 2015
Vvery few but I believe true love will make you do d extra odinary
Shout out to all the ladies who whole heartedly love their man
PoliticsRe: A Response To The Accusation From The Respected Rev. Fr. Ejike Mbaka To GEJ/PEJ. by yahx(m): 10:51am On Mar 17, 2015
Man of God uv lost your vision
Instead of preaching nd praying for ur leaders u lambasting them nd now u saying they want to kill you
Genuine Men of God are nver scared of death fr God is their protector*
PoliticsRe: Like Charity, Buhari’s Anti-corruption Must Begin At Home In The APC by yahx(m): 10:45am On Mar 17, 2015
Buhari is nver nd can nver b a solution to nigeria problems, when all his sponsors ar the most corrupt
Were is the change in APC when tinubu the great landlord
Ameachi kwankwaso buhari fashola bh etc are all corrupt fellows
GEJ till good opposition surface in 2019
PoliticsRe: 13 Shocking Atrocities Committed By Apc’s Presidential Candidate General Buhari by yahx(m): 10:41am On Mar 17, 2015
We know all his evil deeds
And he will nver get to aso rock
He may only be invited fr dinner when goodluck win agains





GEJ tilll good opposition surface in 2019
RomanceRe: Tips On How To Have A Better Relationship That Wil Lead To Marriage by yahx(op): 1:45pm On Mar 16, 2015
larrytopsy:
I read this and my heart blessed you for this write-up.
blesss u bro
RomanceTips On How To Have A Better Relationship That Wil Lead To Marriage by yahx(op): 1:23pm On Mar 16, 2015
consequences.  If you or someone you know is in the “getting to know someone” phase,  the following guide offers advice on exactly what to look for and avoid:

1) Do Not Marry Potential:  Oftentimes men consider marrying a woman hoping she never changes while a woman considers marrying a man she hopes she can change.  This is the wrong approach on both accounts.  Don’t assume that you can change a person after you’re married to them or that they will reach their potential.  There is no guarantee, after all, that those changes will be for the better. In fact, it’s often for the worse. If you can’t accept someone or imagine living with them as they are then don’t marry them.  These differences can include a number of things such as ideological or practical differences in religion, habits, hygiene, communication skills, etc.

2) Choose Character over Chemistry:  While chemistry and attraction are no doubt important, character precedes them both. A famous quote follows, “Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.” The idea of falling “in love” should never be the sole reason for marrying someone; it is very easy to confuse infatuation and lust for love.  The most important character traits to look for include humility, kindness, responsibility, & happiness. Here’s a breakdown of each trait:
Humility: The humble person never makes demands of people but rather always does right by them. They put their values and principles above convenience and comfort.  They are slow to anger, are modest, and avoid materialism.
Kindness: The kind person is the quintessential giver. They seek to please and minimize the pain of others. To know if a person is a giver, observe how they treat their family, siblings, and parents. Do they have gratitude towards their parents for all that they’ve done for them? If not, then know that they will never appreciate what you do for them. How do they treat people they don’t have to be kind towards (i.e. waiters, sales associates, employees, etc)? How do they spend their money?  How do they deal with anger; their own anger and their reaction to someone else’s anger?
Responsibility: A responsible person has stability in their finances, relationships, job, and character.  You can you rely on this person and trust what they say.
Happiness: A happy person is content with their portion in life. They feel good about themselves and good about their life. They focus on what they have rather than on what they don’t have.  They very rarely complain.

3) Do Not Neglect The  Emotional Needs of Your Partner:  Both men and women have emotional needs and in order for a partnership to be successful those needs must be mutually met. The fundamental emotional need of a woman is to be loved.  The fundamental emotional need of a man is to be respected and appreciated.  To make a woman feel loved give her the three AAAs:  Attention, Affection, & Appreciation.  To make a man feel loved give him the three RRRs:  Respect, Reassurance, & Relief.  It is the obligation of each partner to make sure the other is happy and this extends to intimacy as well. As long as each partner is fulfilled by the emotional needs of the other, the intimate relationship will thrive.  When a man takes seriously the emotional needs of his wife she will feel more encouraged to fulfill his sexual desires. Likewise, when a woman takes seriously the emotional needs of her husband he will feel more encouraged to give her the affection, love and appreciation she wants from him. Working together in this way encourages both giving and receiving.

4) Avoid Opposing Life Plans:  In marriage you can either grow together or grow apart. Sharing a common purpose in life will increase the chance that you will grow together.
You must know what the person is into. In other words, what are they ultimately passionate about?  Then ask yourself, “Do I respect this passion?” “Do I respect what they are into?”
The more specifically you define yourself, i.e., your values, your beliefs, your lifestyle, the better chance you have of finding your life partner, your soul mate, the one you are most compatible with.
Remember, before you decide who to take along on a trip, you should first figure out your destination.

5) Avoid Pre-Marital Sexual/Physical Activity:
Recognize that there is incredible wisdom in why God has ordered us to refrain from intimacy before marriage; they are to prevent great harms as well as to keep sacred what is the most blessed part of a relationship between a man and a woman.
Aside from the obvious spiritual consequences, when a relationship gets physical before its time, important issues like character, life philosophy, and compatibility go to the wayside. Consequently, everything is romanticized and it becomes difficult to even remember the important issues let alone talk about them.
Intellectual commitment must be established before emotional or sexual commitment.

6) Avoid Lack of Emotional Connection:  There are four questions that you must answer YES to:
Do I respect and admire this person?  What specifically do I respect and admire about this person?
Do I trust this person?  Can I rely on them?  Do I trust their judgment?  Do I trust their word? Can I believe what they say?
Do I feel Safe?  Do I feel emotionally safe with this person?  Can I be vulnerable?  Can I be myself?  Can I be open?  Can I express myself?
Do I feel calm and at peace with this person?
If the answer is “I don’t know, I’m not sure, etc.” keep evaluating until you know for sure and truly understand how you feel. If you don’t feel safe now, you won’t feel safe when you are married.  If you don’t trust now, this won’t change when you are married!

7) Pay Attention to Your Own Emotional Anxiety: Choosing someone you don’t feel safe with emotionally is not a good recipe for a long-lasting and loving marriage.  Feeling emotionally safe is the foundation of a strong and healthy marriage.  When you don’t feel safe, you can’t express your feelings and opinions.  Learn how to identify whether you are in an abusive relationship.  If you feel you always have to monitor what you say, if you are with someone and you feel you can’t really express yourself and are always walking on eggshells, then it’s very likely you are in an abusive relationship.  Look for the following things:
Controlling behavior: This includes controlling the way you act, the way you think, the way you dress, the way you wear your hair/hijab and the way you spend your time.  Know the difference between suggestions and demands.  Demands are an expression of control and if the demands are implied, than you must do it or there will be consequences. All of these are clear indications of abusive personalities.
Anger issues: This is someone who raises their voice on a regular basis, who is angry, gets angry at you, uses anger against you, uses put downs, and curses at you, etc.  You don’t have to put up with this type of treatment.  Many people who tolerate this behavior usually come from abusive backgrounds.  If this is the case with you or someone you know, get help right away.  Deal with those issues before getting married or before even thinking about getting married.
Beware of Lack of Openness In Your Partner:  Many couples make the mistake of not putting everything on the table for discussion from the onset.  Ask yourself, “What do I need to know to be absolutely certain I want to marry this person?” “What bothers me about this person or the relationship?”  It’s very important to identify what’s bothering you, things that concern you, and things you are afraid to bring up for discussion. Then you must have an honest discussion about them. This is a great way to test the strength of your relationship. Bringing up issues when there’s conflict is a great opportunity to really evaluate how well you communicate, negotiate, and work together as a team.  When people get into power struggles and blame each other, it’s an indication they don’t work well as a team.  Also important is being vulnerable around each other. Ask deep questions of each other and see how your partner responds.  How do they handle it?  Are they defensive?  Do they attack?  Do they withdraw?  Do they get annoyed?  Do they blame you?  Do they ignore it?  Do they hide or rationalize it?  Don’t just listen to what they say but watch for how they say it!

9) Beware of Avoiding Personal Responsibility: It’s very important to remember no one else is responsible for your happiness. Many people make the mistake of thinking someone else will fulfill them and make their life better and that’s their reason for getting married.  People fail to realize that if they are unhappy as a single person, they will continue to be miserable when they are married.  If you are currently not happy with yourself, don’t like yourself, don’t like the direction your life is going now, it’s important to take responsibility for that now and work on improving those areas of your life before considering marriage.  Don’t bring these issues into your marriage and hope your partner will fix them.

10) Watch Out For Lack of Emotional Health and Availability In Your Potential Partner:  Many people choose partners that are not emotionally healthy or available. One huge problem is when a partner is unable to balance the emotional ties to family members, the marriage ends up having 3 (or more) people in it rather than two. An example of this would be if a man is overly dependent on his mother and brings that relationship into the marriage; this is no doubt a recipe for disaster.  Also important to consider are the following:
Avoid people who are emotionally empty inside.  These include people who don’t like themselves because they lack the ability to be emotionally available. They are always preoccupied with their deficiencies, insecurities, and negative thoughts.  They are in a perpetual fight with depression, never feel good, are isolated, are critical and judgmental; tend to not have any close friends, and often distrust people or are afraid of them.  Another clear indication about them is they always feel their needs are not getting met; they have a sense of entitlement and feel angry when they feel people should take care of them and they don’t.  They feel burdened by other people’s needs and feel resentment towards them.  These people can not be emotionally available to build healthy relationships.
Addictions can also limit the level of availability of the partner to build a strong emotional relationship.  Never marry an addict.  Addictions are not limited to drugs and alcohol.  They can be about addictions and dependency on work, internet, hobbies, sports, shopping, money, power, status, materialism, etc.  When someone has an addiction, they will not and can not be emotionally available to develop an intimate relationship with you!
RomanceRe: Shocking: Yam Tubers From The Gods [see Photo] by yahx(m): 9:40pm On Mar 15, 2015
mperoakeem:
so?
fu#k off my. Quotes wink
RomanceRe: The WOOING CHALLENGE 2015 Selection Thread[female Edition] by yahx(m): 9:35pm On Mar 15, 2015
Not for sale beware of me
RomanceRe: Guys Please I Need Advice. by yahx(m): 9:27pm On Mar 15, 2015
Try and keep ur thought off it keeep urself busy at dat evening time
Be with frnds
Pray fr delivarance tooo
#piece of mind#
RomanceRe: Shocking: Yam Tubers From The Gods [see Photo] by yahx(m): 9:23pm On Mar 15, 2015
mperoakeem:
gosh... I dont mean to... Abeg i no get ur time
lol I don't even knw wat I wrote#aam use to pepz who dnt hvv my time! But dey frst ask of it grin
RomanceRe: Shocking: Yam Tubers From The Gods [see Photo] by yahx(m): 9:17pm On Mar 15, 2015
mperoakeem:
Pele ti e.
kuki na li
RomanceRe: Shocking: Yam Tubers From The Gods [see Photo] by yahx(m): 9:13pm On Mar 15, 2015
mperoakeem:
your ignorant no get Season two, so na yam Adam and eve ate or apple... Smh4u
na roasted yam dem evn eat for obalande angry cheesy

Na season 9 I dey now
RomanceRe: Why Do Guys Change After A Girl Says Yes To Them? by yahx(m): 9:10pm On Mar 15, 2015
Why guys change wen u acpt em is bcaus 1if you play hard to get fr long
D guy wil endure jas to win ur hrt to show u dat you ar not dat hard and by dat time he might hav lost interest on you


After a girl play hard to get fr me I try my best to get her nd rubish her back
RomanceRe: Guys!! Upload Your Pics Lets See How Handsome You Are. by yahx(m): 8:55pm On Mar 15, 2015
Midehi:
cool pics my dear
tnxwink
RomanceRe: Shocking: Yam Tubers From The Gods [see Photo] by yahx(m): 8:45pm On Mar 15, 2015
APc yam
Yam from hell
Harvested in sambisa
This is the same yam adam nd eve ate






I don't even eat yam except fried ym
RomanceRe: Guys!! Upload Your Pics Lets See How Handsome You Are. by yahx(m): 8:37pm On Mar 15, 2015
Lemme upload some og pix of me grin grin
Plzz insult but not more than 5lines cheesy cheesy

RomanceRe: Upload Your Pix Here Lets See How Handsome Or Pretty You Are by yahx(m): 11:21pm On Mar 14, 2015
;DSome mee








Waiting fr insultsss

EducationRe: Getting Admitted To Higher Institution After Your First JAMB, How Was It? by yahx(m): 12:25am On Mar 14, 2015
I was lucky I wrote waec once jamb once got admitted dat same year in my finals now lol

Godwin oooo

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