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obaf: Thanks everyone, I really appreciate your comments & concerns!
No matter how much I really want to fight it, these people are well known in their community, & police work together with them,
If i do anythg out of law, will be d accused.
Have been working on my bro in law, & he's accepting d fact now! He's just afraid of all the money he'd spent & collected which I'd told him, time will heal d wound.
Its a pity we live in a country your right can not be guarantee, EFFC don't attend to any case below 2million. & there's no evidence in this case, after consulting with so many expert, they'll just say he came for cleansing & he paid for services! God will judge them.
Thank you once again.

i beg u please wateva and however the case end try and make it to the frontpage to let us know how u went abt it.
so odas will know how to go abt it.

i guess u must be a God fearing person and i might be dime wrong. for u to be asking for an advice on how to deal with scammers
i guess u must be rich to a gud extend . just imagine u guys were poor not aviod all dis money the spell wont wk to dat extend
The spell affected u guys to a gud exttend, i bet u. u wont have given this guy dis money if it is for a good reason, i bet u,u wont

Thanks

phraze: That baby wil Be Succesful in Life. For him to hav not fallen, it tells alot, lets thank God for saving his life tho.

IF THERE ARE DIFFERENT COUNTRIES OF THE WORLD COMMENTING ON DIS POST WIT UR COMMENT I WILL KNOW U ARE A NIGERIAN

WAT A MENTALITY

queensmith: It does- a man that grew up in a happy home is more likely to have a happy relationship. If you have a razmataz background it's possible to have a lot of baggage. Baggage that may affect your outlook on relationships. If your father beat your mother you will be abusive, if your father is a misogynist you will believe women are inferior, if you are a mommys boy you will have a very very hard time in your relationships.

Ideally ones partner should come from a 'traditional' home with 2 happy parents that are happy and raised him in a happy setting. Otherwise he'd be miserable and all his efforts will be towards making the woman/man in his life miserable. Of course this isn't a general rule but I do use family background to judge people alot. Then again we never know what is happening behind closed doors.

Never True

Goldieluks: Yes it does, for example one who is brought up in a loveless background, tends to strongly
believe that love is not important in a relationship. Or maybe one who haven't seen daddy say sorry
to mummy, will automatically conclude that saying 'sorry' is not a neccessity in a relationship. It goes on and on.

Often true but not always

ayobase: Its never built on pedigree, but on mien.
Relationship is based on trust, love, care, faithfulness, provision, sound intimacy and d likes.
Its a choice to possess those qualities!

Always true.

queensmith: It does- a man that grew up in a happy home is more likely to have a happy relationship. If you have a razmataz background it's possible to have a lot of baggage. Baggage that may affect your outlook on relationships. If your father beat your mother you will be abusive, if your father is a misogynist you will believe women are inferior, if you are a mommys boy you will have a very very hard time in your relationships.

Ideally ones partner should come from a 'traditional' home with 2 happy parents that are happy and raised him in a happy setting. Otherwise he'd be miserable and all his efforts will be towards making the woman/man in his life miserable. Of course this isn't a general rule but I do use family background to judge people alot. Then again we never know what is happening behind closed doors.

Often true but not always

MRbrownJAY: yes on some level:
- if your father is a polygamist and you were born to believe that there is nothing wrong with the act, then i understand why a lady (who doesnt believe in polygamy) would not want to marry you.

- if all your family members are Muslim extremists, then i understand why a liberal/free spirited person wouldnt want to marry you.

etc

Often true but not always

jude33084: Story tellers are here o

i am trying to help ur mum and dad who is over der nt to der, perphaps ur fada inlaws lives der.

spectator !

i am at ikorodu right nw and no evidence of dat, i am exactly at the ap filling station round about.

Agimor: There's another plane crash,
none survived.The plane was carrying all your Problems, Shame,Sorrows, Failure,Tears, Sickness,Weakness, Pains,Struggles.In Jesus name,did i hear you say AMEN?.

u see we nid wisdom, dis is nt the right tyme to do dis because of its diverse implication,

ok

ideylaff: Wetin fyne for this Pancake face chick... you peeps just dey fall for anything wey light

me a nor fall ooo. ds one nor be fine girl in my pwn books at all oooo LOL

after ur comment, i scroll up go check the lady again, i come realised say u be fool

AK 48: If jonathan vex!
That oba go loose him seat,ho ha.

e no vex for boko haram na oba him go vex for,the guy cant do anything.

Sagamite: You are a person!

You are a person for thinking Buhari can, and only Buhari can, resolve our problems today.

You are a person for thinking I support or ever supported Fresh Odour.

Typical reasoning and assumptions of a moronic Nigerian student.

You are a cretinous product of a failed education system.

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i wish dis kind of passion u use to insult can be channeled in the right direction
perphaps u will know that we need a strong will person to rule and if your father is beta let us know.

wandeay: Every country has its own problem, nd perhaps, d issue of boko haram only happens in some part of d north, nd i knw dis is temporary, soon and later, it will vanish,
@c.fours, those that knws wen Buhari was the military dictator knws dat he was a dormant, and dumb fellow, he was not active

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u are mad and crazy,after killing all the innocent citizen,anybody that says rubbish, i will insult the person.

maybe ur parents will die before the solution will come.

Sagamite: You are a mooron!

Out of all Nigerians, it is only Buhari you think is capable?

Let me be clear on that before I address your stupidity!

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u are mad and crazy.wat is ur priority now?is it the age of the person or development

hope u are enjoying the fresh air?

fuckherlord: well said sir. i feared you came to ban me. i will rebrand with another username and take it one step at a time.

the only tin i dis like in women. dey change so easily just because some criticise ur name u want to change it.

stick with it, u might be different from ur name.

i will send u a mail soonest there is something i no i want to be ur friend even if u are not sincere.

Funseeka: Permit me to derail this thread…

The truth is that men are like dogs that eat all rats. Too bad, but they can’t help it; that’s the way they are made. The game is, don’t tempt a man with sex, cos there is 99% chance he will fall. Too bad; again that’s how he is made. Most guys think they have self control but the truth is that the best control is to stay away from the temptation and not that you won’t fall if the “opportunity” presents itself. Especially, when he can chop and clean mouth.
Women think that men cheat when they are out of love or pissed with their girls. It a NO. Sex for most men has nothing to do with love but that overwhelming desire to Bleep. Sometimes you want to run away but your legs will fail you until you ‘’chop’’ that, then you come to your senses and start to cry. No wonder he forgot to use condom. For a woman, it’s difficult to understand.

The man may have tried to keep himself but failed. As we speak, he may not be proud of what he did but the power of sex usually impairs a man’s judgment. It is easier for the man to control himself when hez getting a good dose of sex from his wife or girlfriend; talking from experience. Don’t think your man can cope just because he said, sure he believed he could. Help him by saturating him with sex, otherwise he will fall even when he tried not to. Off course women do not know that many great men fell to that little hole between a woman’s legs. Great men conquered nations and lead countries, only to fall so cheaply to a woman’s pussy. Sampson where are thou!

So lady banker, count you losses and take your decision. If he shows remorse, then it’s genuine. Help each other to get over it. And put measures in place to avoid reoccurrence. I am enjoying my marriage and sometimes feel I am the only one who got it right.

Your comment which i bold makes me laugh,if he shows remorse then it is genuine,lol

my advice for the lady is dis if she is a born again christain so to say then divorce is not her option(depending on the church) but
if she is like me DONT PLAY NICE. send them packing or u leave.The guy will do more and more of it.
There are sign posts in every relationship but we all ignore it. u realised urs after ur marriage but it is no too late nw.dont follow the road that leads to WHAT WILL PEOPLE SAY.bet u some ppeople saw it coming and didnt tell u.

YOU WILL PASS TRU DIS BRIDGE.DONT KEEP THE CHILD IT IS NOT URS AND DONT KEEP THE MAN.

if i can have a picture of the housemaid den i will know whether to blame the man or not.

If there is one truth about the story, the guy doesnt give a phuck abt the lady.sleeping wit anoda woman without protection for an 11 mths marriage perphaps he is retaliating.

ajanaku2: Jeezus! You are certified, irredeemably Stu'pid Starfish! For your information, The Title "Ambassador" and some others like "Senator" and "Honourable" sticks even after the individual mentioned has left Office. Tinubu is still referred to as Senator Bola Tinubu, 'cos He was elected Senator sometimes in 1993 during IBB's planned transition to democratic Rule that never came to fruition. Ambassador Segun Olusola stopped being Nigeria's Ambassador to Ethiopia a long time ago. Understood? Idi'ot!...May your Father be the next to die...and if He's already Dead, May you Mother be the next!...and if you are an Orphan, May you die before this Month ends...Oloriburuku!

oh boi,

cheikh: texazzpete


@^^ It's unfortunate and Uncanny coincidence. Contracts have been signed long before the "Dana Air disaster". I don't think they have the kind of clout to cancel/renege on the already signed contracts pertaining to the venue, air tickets ,hotels and etc. Besides, Omosexy and majority of the U.K. punters, insisted that the premier must go ahead despite the unfortunate "Dana" crash. Her husband is a pilot so it's almost close to home for her. Life and show must continue anyway . The losses could cripple the "film" maker(s) as per reasons above if they did otherwise.

Never the less,it is just a typical nigeria way of doing things.
i am sure there was not a minutes for silent for the bereaved.

lucy1: Ybutterfly


Why u dey alwayz start racist talk in this nairaland? Is it for attention? Before, joining i have been reading some threads from nairaland and u and a few other make a profession of being racist. why nau?   

it seems u dont understand simple question, someone asked a question and she is giving her answer to the question?

so what is bad in that?

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Billyonaire: Easy bro, easy, speak only for yourself. You never can tell who incites the violence up north, except you know something we all dont.

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With this statement of yours if you were my friend u wont be again.

brownusagirl: In america, the older you are the more chance you will have of dating one.

Fyn, wat do u wish for urself and family

Wat is the right thing regardless to the society and location?

ariyokunle: First and foremost i did not speak i typed, maybe u are hearing the voice of the people u murdered,mumu,(i cant believed i typed dat)

u are actually replying to something that u dont understand, were

Always think of God recipe in marriage, He started the institution and it needs no version.

Marrying a divorcee should not be considered. @YAM***U so harsh!

No mind the guy!

gaddafe: My dear if you do not know how to speak/write proper english, why not write in your mother's tongue. It's not by force to speak english you know.

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First and foremost i did not speak i typed, maybe u are hearing the voice of the people u murdered,mumu,(i cant believed i typed dat)

u are actually replying to something that u dont understand, were

Always think of God recipe in marriage, He started the institution and it needs no version.

Marrying a divorcee should not be considered.

slimyem: what are you trying to say?
Please repeat in simple and correct english!
Thanks in advance!

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Am saying dat u should consider God recipe for marriage,it is the best.

Perphaps u ve forgotten dat the institution was statrted by God.

slimyem: is it advisable especially for someone who has never been married?
Does it mean your partner would be more matured?
Is it a recipe for disaster or another divorce down the line?
Would the new family be totally free from the ex-wife/husband especially if there are kids involved?
Please share your thoughts...and save a soul

i become fearful and i dont understand why people dont consider God recipe for marriage

An unmarried man with and unmarried woman before u can marry a divorcee the man or the woman must be died.

Just wondering.

feminine A: Before a woman delve into marriage with a divorcee especially one that has never been married, she needs to do her research properly. What caused her man's divorce? What re the 'irreconcillable differences'(that's the grammar they use this days) between the man and his formal wife.
The truth is like the yourbas will say its the same rod that was used to beat the 1st wife is the same rod that will be used on the second wife. This research is very important.
Ask outsiders too to be able to come to a firm conclusion.
Then is the woman ready for rejection from the mans kids?
Initially, she will be rejected and also there will be rift between her and the kids especially the mature ones how is she planning to handle it and show the kids she's not a rival?is she ready to share the love of the man with his kids?many at times women marrying divorcees ignore this but it is one of the majoor causes of rift in the home. Your place as a wife is different from their place as his kids never get jealous.

Finally is she ready to take this kids as her own?
Marriage to a divorcee must be handled with a lot of research and preparation and not allow ones emotions be cloud one's sense of judgement.

all what u have said is right but that doesnt stop the marriage from breaking up even after proper research, na God, Life is a Mess

As for me i am happy jolly fellow without anybody in my life the fear of unhappiness in Marriage i hear everywhere is disturbing me,

But i love companionship, i really love it.