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aisha2:
Woman, dont torture yourself psychologically, You have done nothing wrong its not your fault, you have given him four lovely children, if he cheats on you, its his loss. Dont let anyone tell you its your fault.
I am single but i can tell you many married men have serious issues. When they ask you out and you refuse citing their marraige as an issue, they look at you as if you are crazy because you remind them of their marriage vows. They feel they have immunity to cheat, i dont know why. Then on top of it they have the audacity to blame their cheating ways on their wives. I spent over 2 hrs yesterday lecturing a married collegue on why he should work to make his marriage work. He keeps chasing chicks, and he asked me out and i asked him why he doesnt respect his marrige vows, he told me his wife has gotten fat, i told him to register with his wife in a gym and do so nicely instead of berating her and hurting her.
What am i trying to say: Marriage is work, and men need to know that both of them need to work to make their marrige a success, its not the womans job to make the marriage work its a collective issue. In am tired of men not wanting to take any responsibilty.

you talk like an expert in the field , when are you getting married? Most men and women mopst times r5emain a covered pot until they get what they want(marriage)

it is good to be hygenic in what ever we do but the fact you have to know behind ur mind is that we live in a big world and what people take as priorities and importances and non essentials.
you can talk about been hygenic in some places and people will accept you while in other places you become their enemy. Dont be too over hygenic and dont stress too much on it because you have more enemies than friends in your house and neighbours especially you have relatives that dont emphasis on it.

THARE ARE OTHER VIRTUE ONE CAN EMULATE BETTER THAN KEEPING HYGIENE MANNERS LIKE HONESTY , FAITHFULLNESS, KINDNESS AND A WHOLE LOTS OF OTHERS, I RATHER WORK WITH PEOLE THAT HONEST, KIND ETC THAN MISS, MRS, MASTER HYGIENE

@TINAOGE,
THIS IS ONE OF THE MOST SYMPATHETIC STORY I EVER READ IN NAIRALAND
AND YOUR STATEMENT SHOWS YOU ARE NOT HAPPY AT ALL. AS A MAN I WILL NEVA DO THAT FOR WHO I WILL MARRY. IT SEEMS TO ME YOU ARE ALSO A VERY RESERVED PERSON TOO.

TELL GOD ABOUT IT AND I WILL ADVISE YOU TO SLEEP WITH HIM ANYWHERE HE WANT TO SLEEP.

IT IS CUSTOMS AND TRADITION TO SLEEP IN THE BEDROOM BUT TO ME IT IS ROMANTIC AND LOVELY TO SLEEP ANY WHERE ELSE WITH YOUR HUSBAND OR ONES WIFE.

HONESTY IS THE BEST POLICY AND YOU WILL BE HATED FOR THIS
BUT WISDOM IS THE PRINCIPAL THING, IN ALL THEIR UNDERSTANDING GET WISDOM

Life can be so interesting,
I Love and appreciate people.
Nothing can be like the good old days.
I missed several things both good and bad.
I do wonder how i have grown so big.

neo_welsh:
Yam is developing a new trick to gist gabry. Gabry beware, that boy na ashawo

@neowelsh, GEORGE ORWELL told the world in his master piece that all animals are not equal, what do you think of men , do u think all men are the same?

gabrywyl:
Yam, you make it seem like I don't appreciate life. Since when did I mention it?

@gabrywyl, i am not saying u dont appreciate life but the fact remain that the resason for the season wasnt what u were doing, i am not sayinging as if i did really share something on that day but it is a moment of reflections and thanksgivings,I wonder how u can reflect with gratitude for the past years and hope for the new year with wat i am seeing perphaps later that day when u are on u are alone and ur conscience comes telling that FANTASY AND REALITY ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS, REALITY IS WAHT COMES AFTER AN ACTION, YOU WILL REMAIN MY UNKNOWN FRIEND.

ojubi:
I spent mine saving lives in the hospital.
On the 25th of dec. there was a less fatal accident involving a jeep, in the new road area of porthacourt near air force junction. Many people including motorist, okada, legedies, and some aero contractor staff who`s office was close to the scene came out to witness the accident, all of a sudden a trailer from no where lost control and ran into all of them.
An eye witness said 9 persons lost their lives at the spot, while they broth 4 to my clinic 2 including one lady where already gone, i personally saved one who was having neurogenic shock by giving mouth to mouth respiration without even covering his mouth with a piece of cloth, because if i ve waited for the next 3 minutes the guy would have been history.
The other guy was saved by my colleagues.
on the 27th of dec. they broth another 3 casualties 2 were already gone so we saved only one and reefed the rest to the mortuary. EVEN on new year day i was going around town with an ambulance.
May GOD deliver us from this phenomenon called Christmas rush.

gabrywyl should learn from this dat d reason for this is to have a sober reflection on how God has been nice to her, knowing most people are not as priviledge.It is a moment to share with peole than having fun.

compliment of theseason, pls i will going to the village to buy a new dvd rom for my client on monday 5th on his laptop, can the house direct me where to buy ,emergency

God has a judicial standard by which He measures and weighs the actions of all men. The divine observation, evaluation and verdict on Belshazzar teach us that every human being of every class is under the accurate observation of God’s sleepless eye. It is therefore of infinite importance to be conscious of God’s watching eye every moment of our lives. On what will our destiny be determined on the day of reckoning? We shall be tried and judged, not by the laws of the land, but by the law of God. We shall be weighed in the balance of God’s judicial standard. Who, tried in this balance, could hope to come forth triumphant, without Christ’s redemption, forgiveness and salvation? Only through Christ’s merit, who has satisfied the demands of God’s perfect law, in its minutest demands, can anyone hope to stand before God justified and uncondemned.
Weighed in the balance of human opinion, Belshazzar might have been approved. But while he was being approved and acclaimed by his lords, princes and people, another judgment was going on! He was being weighed in the scales of conscience. “His thoughts troubled him”. Many people who are accounted good men by their neighbours, are nevertheless accused and condemned by their consciences. Stricken by conscience, the “still small voice” stings them and, dries up the fountain of inner peace and joy. There is in every man’s soul something which calls him to himself, holds up the mirror before him and puts a check upon the praises of men.
Belshazzar was ultimately weighed in the scales of divine justice and condemned. “Thou art weighed in the balances and art found wanting.” These words brought the deepest dread and despair upon Belshazzar. As his soul approached the final day, the scales of the balance were before him. In one scale of the balance was placed the divine moral requirement, in the other was his sinful, immoral, idolatrous life. The turning of the scale fixed his destiny. “Weighed and found wanting”! Belshazzar’s last day on earth had come and those words of divine judgment struck him with indescribable anxiety. His judgment was irreversible. Let men and women of wisdom and spiritual vision anticipate and see the handwriting on the wall and ask for forgiveness, salvation and grace for righteousness before it becomes too late.

thanks for this forum

it is not a missing devices, it is called drivers.
from experience all you have to do is to download the drivers by going to the site of the manufactuer of your system with the model number and look for the particular system.
if you are using a laptop.

IT IS OBVIOUS YOU HAVE NO KNOWLEDGE CONCERNING THE SCRIPTURES BUT TIME WILL NOT PERMIT ME TO IGNITE YOUR SPIRIT.

My hands are crossed as events unfolded but trust me, i am on the Lord side.
how are about you?

how much s the lappy, iam system enginner u can also contact me for help or u add me to your meesenger let chat about it, folorunshoshittu2000@yahoo.com.
thank u

I TOTALLY DIS AGREE WITH assignment on this points.it is immaturity to express fellings any time you feel

Children start out emotionally honest. They express their true feelings freely and spontaneously. But the training to be emotionally dishonest begins at an early age. Parents and teachers frequently encourage or even demand that children speak or act in ways which are inconsistent with the child's true feelings. The child is told to smile when actually she is sad. She is told to apologize when she feels no regret. She is told to say "thank you," when she feels no appreciation. She is told to "stop complaining" when she feels mistreated. She may be told to kiss people good night when she would never do so voluntarily. She may be told it is "rude" and "selfish" to protest being forced to act in ways which go against her feelings.

From the foregoing, you would see that there is a lot to be done most especially how children are brought up which if not properly done, it could make such children to become men pleasers when they grow up with low self esteem .

toothpaste is not te cause of the breakbreak incase the story is true, there is more to it than the eyes can tell.

Even the company denies it.

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I think his decisions are worthy but i get bored about people that think the former chairman of EFCC deserves what he is going through.this people for this reason are hyprocritical to Chief Gani principle and ideas.

it is a wellcome idea, i believe strongly in the progress ot this nation, we will get there.

it is a great oppurtunity indeed but tthe fact is that i will not ask god any question from this my point of view because all questions of men are already given in the bible all i need is faith to be believe him the more

I CORDIALLY INVITE EVERY MEMBER OF THIS FORUM AND THEIR WELL WISHERS TO THIS WONDERFUL RETREAT AS YOU COME THE THE LORD WILL BLESS YOU IN JESUS NAME,

WHATEVER MAYBE THE PROBLEMS IN YOUR LIFE, THE LORD HAS PROMISED YOU DELIVERANCE, THERE SHALL BE FREE ACCOMODATION AND TRANSPORTATION

THE LORD WILL BLESS YOU AS YOU COME IN JESUS NAME.

FOR FURTHER INFORMATION, GO TYO THE NEAREST DEEPER LIFE CLOSEST TO YOU.

THERE IS AN AVENUE TO KNOW WHETHER THERE IS HELL OR NOT ALL
AS YOU VCOME TO THIS PROGRAMME , THE OWNER OF THE WORLD WILL REAVEAL THIS TO YOU
YOU CAN ASK THE NEAREST DEEPER LIFE BIBLE CHURCH CLOSEST TO YOU FOR THE LOCATION OF THE PROGRAMME

I COULD HAVE WISH TO COMMENT MORE ON THIS ISSUE BUT WHATEVER WIIL TAKE A MAN TO BELIEVE IN ANY WORD OF GOD IS FAITH. IT IS A SUREST ANAWER TO MOST ISSUES PEOPLE DONT WANT TO BELIEVE

AS FOR THERATIONA;[s][/s] ALLYOU NEED IS FAITH IN YOUR LIFE

FAITH IS EVDENCE OF THINGS NOT SEEN,

I CORDIALLY INVITE ALL OF YOU TO THIS RETREAT, YOU CAN ASK THE NEAREST DEEPER LIFE CLOSEST TO YOU

A christain should not have tatoo. i want to invite you to this winderful retreat as you come the LORD WILL BLEE YOU,IT TAKES PLACE ANY WHERE YOU ARE

I am happy to a  member of this forum
i want to invite us to this great gathering as you come the Lord will bless you in Jesus name

the fact is that it doesnt really make sense to me to think that fruit of your labour is eating and relaxing.
it does so much about your perspective of life and your perspective is a stingy one unless you are trying to be funny if not that it doesnt make sense at all.
what about the work you give her to do that your children perphaps might not be able to do
and the late hour sleep and arising very early in the morning and while you wake up at 5 doent she wake up and prepare for you.
i am sorry you are just being narrow minded.think abroad.

it is a priviledge to write this but i get bother about people that give silly advices whose names i wont like to mention and this shows that most of them are having problems or will likely have problems with their marriages God helping them.

we cannot talk about marriage without the creator or the originator of this institution and any advice out of this scope is render useless regardless to emotions, feelings and other human sensitivity.

my advice to you which most peole did not say or ignore is that if a man beats his wife is not a friend of God talkless of divorcing, which brings the wrath of God upon yourself.
my advice then is that you need to restitue and bring back your wife and continue the relationship. God will suprise you if you take this action,pls notify the house for the testimonial.and for the rest of the house please caution on your advices, it says so much about who you are.thank you.