₦airaland Forum

ndcide:
How do you define smart work.

Using a machine to chop off a tree rather than using a cutlass.....

Ordering for goods from online shops via shipping, rather than traveling to scout for goods.

Etc....


Reducing man-power by using machines and your brain!

Ladylite:
Since 2019 begging for man... Your market never sell. Sister get a business and grow your life

Please, reply the OP.

Which silly unity are they praying for??


God should please reveal to them that the destability will make Nigeria sit up and rid off corrupt politicians and restructure the country, so we can have a future with good hospitals, good educational centers and good roads network and manufacturing companies. And a future without Boko Haram and ISIS.

ignis:
You are a typical Nigerian...

I don't have your time

You sound even more of a Nigerian.


This is corruption. How are we going to ever make things right with our corrupt mindset...


If you support this, I hope you wouldn't see anything wrong with paying for bail and or getting extorted at police checkpoints.... Or buying MTN N100 recharge card for N120 instead.

dominique:
Na wa for our people sha, even chooking nose into donations for an ailing person. I hope this greed doesn't consume us

I have issues with the line below though



Whose fault is it that he didn't invest in a property when he was making a lot of money? If the state government gives him a house, they should give other veteran artists houses as well.

Isn't this obvious?

The vibrant celebrities should learn from this.....

To them, this act is politically beneficial to the Islamic govt of the North...



If we scale through with restructuring the country...Where every man will labor from its natural resources to feed it's states... I'm very sure, this act will be condemned and abolished.


Until then, we are just a country that's sharing the oil money gotten from the south to feed abokies in the North.

I forgot to go to the church with my Vaseline.

OP, I am in the church and my Vaseline is at home....

With this being said..... The African leaders will not take any precautionary measures to retreat and prevent this ailment from penetrating into Africa..

DRY.....


The boy is looking wretched and unfed......

This is the real beauty with the brain......

Islam is a religion that has been hijacked to preach terrorism and raping of Leah.....

Is this all he has to say??
Gold is way too mature to be this average!!

pocohantas:
Mine is low?
Well, yours is non-existent.
What is your beef with my bf? You gay?

So, if a guy beefs a guy, then he's gay.... right?

You're the dumbest feminist I've ever seen....

pocohantas:
-I hope you will also support her when she creates a thread on how her husband is cheating and not taking care of her and her kids.

-Or when he leaves her homeless for another woman.

-Or when he creates a thread on how his in-laws are always begging his wife for money and she has to come beg him.

-Or when she creates a thread that her husband doesn't have time to knack her well. Then some teen boys will come blame it on her joblessness and unproductivity.

I am sure you won't support her in any of the above situations. We have seen it play out here over and over. Whichever way it goes, the woman gets the shorter end of the stick.

Hit me with your best shot. Try not to use feminist/feminism this time. Can you surprise yourself? Pfffttt!

You are a feminist..... And it's obvious that you are depressed and forsaken.

Btw, The OP doesn't sound irresponsible like the guy who dumped you last...

He created this thread because he's very considerate and wants nothing of the lame things you've listed above to happen in his marriage.


You need a chill pill to wake your brain up.... I'm done educated a sorry-ass feminist.

pocohantas:
Smh. Shots as weak as your erectîons.

Bungalow brain with nothing upstairs. You can't give what you don't have.

And your IQ is miles below the weakest erection any man has ever gotten.... Including your slowpoke boyfriend!

pocohantas:
Is feminism a word Nairaland guys come up with when their brains fail to come up with a reasonable rebuttal?

I am really struggling to see the sense in your post. I doubt there is any, honestly.

His major concern is the distance, what do you think will be her major concern and that of her father who got her the job? Is he alone in the marriage that only his MAJOR concerns ahould be addressed? You think OP is silly for adding those details? Use your brain as often and actively, as you use your dick. Jeez!

You're still thinking like a deprived, depressed, forsaken feminist...

The OP gave the details with respects to his considerations and his plans for his kids.

If you will stop thinking with your empty brain... You'd read where he stated that the locality isn't conducive to raise kids there or for him to risk relocating from the city to the sub-area.

I hope you will support her, when he create a thread about his wife cheating on him with other men because of distance marriage.

Oyindidi:
I'll rather remain single than to marry a man that raped me, don't want to relive the experience daily

Ever heard of Stockholm syndrome?.. Most of the captured victims are always raped.


Just pray you don't find yourself in such a messy deal.

He's lying.....

pocohantas:
You travel for your own work, no problem.
She travels for her own work, plenty problem.

Well, your concerns are valid. However, what is in Benin City for her? Would she resign to come stay jobless in Benin? Some women have done it and it only leads to resentment and anger when they get nothing doing there. Especially "career" women.

If she resigns the job her father pressed buttons to get, to come stay with you. You have bought her father's market o. Not like you will be taking care of her family without nagging.

I don't even envy your situation. Talk to her about it. I will suggest you move to her location (if it is developed), since your own job is a traveling one. Couples need to be together in the early stage. When they are tired of each other, they can start their long-distance-marriage.

Or just find a girl in Benin City ehn.

His major concern is with the distance.... This your feminism stance is really ruining your level of reasoning.



OP, you have to discuss with her and then both of you can decide on the way forward.

But, it'll not be easy as new couples staying far from each other. There will be lots of road risk during those traveling moments to quench konji.

I don't support distance relationship... Whether it's 40sec drive like tontoDike's entrenched husband or not.

Many of the above listed Grammys winners are abroad based....


But we want an indigenous winner, Who recorded locally, got local promotion from local airwaves to the int'l airwaves to bring us the Grammys.


Burnaboy is that guy....



Although, I've always wished, 9ice will be that guy.


And who the hell is Blackmagic??

Op..... You said, it's not money, but being romantic.....



Without money, men can easily misplace their confidence to make approach. And can easily loss his words.


There are many ways to make a romantic life to stay active as to make a relationship have memorable moments.... Saying sweet words alone isn't enough, taking her out to sightseeing and sports view and picnics and carnivals and hiking and many other things will involve MONEY.

You must have money to be romantic. You must have money to look good for her. And for her to look good for you.


To be a man, you need to have a built up mentality of being reserve and gentle. And you can only be able to attain that level, if you have a reasonable amount of money in your account. Poor guys blood too the hot.


You can't set a goal for yourself as a man without having a penny....


Op.... with money, one can easily attain everything you've listed up there.


Women, like it, when a man is averagely tall and wears a gentleman's face, say, an outward looking Mr. shyguy. With good physical built muscles and good/fitted/expensive wears with a perfect dressing sense and good color combos.... Then have manners and tolerance and must know how to treat a woman very well with words and gifts.

You have to be financially buoyant to be that guy!

Leah has been raped!!!

Some years back...We almost lost it.... We neglected our musical heritage and brand to foreign rap and hip-hop musics.... But we staggered and fall back with great tunes from tuface and wizkid and a great number of others who consistently updated us with branded jams and move-steps to go with..... Then, we had Ojuelegba penetrating the foreign airwaves again... Then Davido, Now. Burnaboy.

In the nearest future, we will have many foreign artists come to Nigeria to get their songs produced and advertised. Just in the nearest future.


More grace to you fireboy..... Fire on!

So, he had to kill his best friend to get the money all to himself...

Baba God, take away evil friends far away from me.....

Hell-Rufai has his darker sides but I can't hate him all out...


Even as a minister of FCT, he did great in some areas and was terrible at others....



This is highly recommended just so the North can deal with this Almajiris for ones.

Where there's tyranny, the media and it's reporters suffers the most.....

What happened to the current state House?

No maintenance culture in this country....

Although, the much awaited evidence is taking a new turn to prove that Trump could get impeached. I still want to believe that, Trump will have his ways. To me, he's the best potus so far and Obama is just an inspirational president.

NK should just stay wherever he is...... Coming to Nigeria to bury or honour your father's last days on earth, isn't a must.


Buhari will use you to teach Amotekun a lesson....

There are many jobs out there..... People resign every day... People get promotion every day.


If you feel uncomfortable with a particular job and you want to switch.... State out your plans and your duration of search. Work towards it. Be free and happy. Don't tie your self up because of stress of work.

That Nigeria is zoo/shithole country....