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christejames:
This is sad...

What sort of negligence is that?

How will eight children open a parked car and cramp themselves in the car and then go ahead to lock themselves just to play inside? They need to do more investigation.

RIP to the dead.

this kind of incidence happens often. It has happened though without casualty to me. I came in only to see my children inside my wife's honda car, sweating and crying profusely. They had entered it to play and locked themselves in. Also know that where no lock in existed most kids do not know how to open a car without assistance. The saving grace was my prompt arrival. Nobody was home. I shudder to think what would have happened if I didn't notice on time. We all need to be more vigilant. Children love vhcls a great lot. when driving out. Check under vhcl and even tyres.

I had a similar experience. Just too bad. And one idiot just made free with someone's sweat to spend illicitly with his sick cronies. Why do parents welcome these brats brandishing money and cars they have no means to get legitimately? How did the fraudsters compromise the bank a second time after being blocked??

Northern Nigeria is in a hurry to outclass Afghanistan and Yemen. They are getting there gradually. Who on earth armed this minor and for what purpose?

Hmmm. GTB is on a spot. They should react swiftly or lose creditors in panic withdrawals following uncertainty.

iamyemiakins:
I like men who give assurance and reassurance.

Men like me!

Today, I called my ex just to break up with her again.

What line of business is Bobrisky? What we refer this person as a he or a she? I am as confused as 10m being useless to the owner. If bandits come find money now u will start calling devil names. Nonsense.

The story looks embellished. But let's give it to them. Naija and odd news. Next is Civilian JTF rescuing police. It's well.

The elders have the answer. Me is here in the silent readers section.

How much did they pay for this lengthy advertisement?

Simply, not yet her time to go. Everyone has a timeline. She has significant roles to play in the future. When the slate is wiped clean she one can then exit. Glory to God for saving her.

So sad. God is your strength. Like Nehemiah, you will rebuild effortlessly, amen.

So sad. God is your strength. Like Nehemiah, you will rebuild effortlessly, amen

You people should also treat cases of violence initiated and perpetrated by fellow women against men. Gender violence should not be described to mean men against women alone. Though I abhor that deeply. If there are ways and means to curb the female gender side initiators - like stoking violence, infidelity, etc, they should foray it.

NwaAmaikpe:



Because I don't believe he did not know who his passengers were, I'd say he apparently died because he was stupid.

He was helping thieves escape and had the boldness to stop the journey to ask why their getaway vehicle was being rammed by their pursuers.

Even if he didn't know who they were, I still believe he died because he was stupid.
A wiser person would have sensed the urge to flee on his passengers or noticed the uproar around them.

Are you really there? read your comment again to see if it convinces u. He could not flee because he didnt know the identity of his passengers. You see, real thieves are very much alert to even the movement of an hair. If u were in his position u would just abandon ur keke and run because people u were carrying were running I bet if he were complicit he would not have stopped afterall. Get it!!!

Poverty is really bad. Just for 1m naira you will export billions of naira worth of mental poison to destroy. We have zero drug laws. Indonesia or Singaporean model is effective deterrent.

So sad. Thank God for his life. Just curious to know if he was drunk too or sober during the accident.

hashbag1:
Nlanders,
I have been married for 9 years now, amidst several incidences that gave me suspicions over my wife's infidelity. The one that happened of recent gave me nothing more than great suspicion over any other.

My daughter and son got infection, they were admitted into the hospital. On this faithful day, I was there with them and I left the hospital in the afternoon to get something for them to eat, I got back with the food and quickly rushed down to my office to tidy some work. I felt hungry and decided to drive out, on my way to the restaurant leads to the hospital, I was in traffic when I put a call through to my wife whom I asked how she was coping and how the kids were doing, while on call with her, I heard sounds of car horns so I asked if she was out, she said yes that she was going to get water across the stree, so i was like you shouldnt have stressed yourself since
the house maid was with her, next thing she yelled at me saying why am I making ascertion as to who should go get the water or not, I was like but that isnt a big deal to ask, she was like well the house girl have been the one running errands all day, I responded saying instead of yelling at me, you would have just responded by saying the above.

As a responsible and concerned father, I decided to suspend dinner and branch at the hospital which took me 8 mins to get there because of traffic. On getting to the hospital, lo and behold, my wife was not there, just the kids and the house maid. I asked the house maid where madam was, she said she stepped out without saying where she was going. I immediately put a call through to her. "Babes where are you at, just got here now and you are not here". She immediately hung up on me, I called back, she didnt pick, called her again didn't pick, waited few mins and called, she picked and yelled "why are you looking for me" I was like but you claimed you went to
go get water but its been up to 15mins and you are not here yet, next thing she said was I'm in a uber car, Wow uber car when you just said you went across the street to get water, how does being in uber car relate to that. I requested a video call, I hung up the normal call and called her on whatsapp call, she didn't pick, I called her back again on normal call and said you aren't picking, she responded saying am in uber car now, call me on video again, I did but she still didnt pick. So I decided not to bother since declaring her whereabout seems frutile. She called back on normal call saying she was on her way home to pick some her items to quickly do an advertising shoot to model to her customers in the hospital room, that she didnt want me to get mad at her reason why she didn't tell me before she left, I was like its not a big deal telling me that after which I have found out she never did go out there to buy water.

Husbands and fathers in the house, in this kind of situation, what could have been your thought? As for me, something was not just right, and the most damning part of all these is leaving the kids at the mercy of just the house maid, I feel if there is something she is hiding from me and leaving the kids like that is what
the issue of trust has led us to, I am left in amazement and total disappointment.

My brother, that woman is shagging some dick. You don't need any evidence at all. Check out for more signs. Holding phones tightly everywhere like her life depends on it. Please, stop troubling your head. She is cheating. There's no reason to lie to u if no ulterior motive. Leaving your two children to maid in the hospital is a no-no. She showed gross irresponsibility. My advice is 1. Don't confront her yet because u don't have any evidence yet. 2. Pretend all was well and don't ask any further probing questions that would put her on her guide 3. Track her phone if u can. 4. If she is ruling ur head, apply restraint and get a side chick to avoid full shock in the event u get her hand on the cookie jar. 5. Be careful and wary of her. Very careful. A cheating wife is deadlier than a viper in ur house! 6. One day is one day. She will get caught or expose herself. Dont ever ask any friend to monitor her. Do everything urself but dont let her suspect. QED

Hmmm. This is unprecedented. I am yet to see any African leader that can pull this stunt. I do not know why Africans lack conscience, self-respect and leadership foresight. Here, she would have berated the opposition, pushed money round and stood her ground. No shaking. I do not know if Africa will ever get there. A leader resigning hours after swearing in just to respect herself!!!

abobote:
The earlier we realise that nothing like love, but interest the better for us. Some people thinks their wife love or married them coz of love, my brother, nothing like that. Life generally is all about interest. As a man if you are not bringing money, you are useless to that your wife.
Few days ago my wife stopped talking to me, cos she felt offended over a conversation and she demands I apologise, but I don't know how to say sorry, so she stopped talking to me, after two days, I just dropped 10k on her account without any instruction, since then, she has been calling me baby, what is the money for . Bros, you can only husle to regain back your position as head of the family

You nailed it. Love doesnt exist at all.

Nigeria has become militarily weak. Too weak for comfort. In the era of IBB and Abacha, it's improbable to think of Cameroon overrunning a Nigerian village.

It's very unfortunate that the government cares nothing about workers and welfare. When one retires it becomes a nigtmare as pensions aren't forthcoming. All the government does is self-centered legislation and looting of the coffers. It's time for mass action.

hermionepotter:
Hello, guys. For the past two weeks I've been getting bitten on my bed by invisible insects. I've tried and checked for everything; bedbugs, biting midges, mosquitoes. I've cleaned and disinfected my entire room, and yet it continues. I've searched the mattress and even torn it open and I've not found even one single insect. It became so terrible I had to spray insecticides on my bed before I could sleep. But I still wake up with bite marks.

My friend thinks the dry cleaner I give my clothes who hand-washes it might have used juju on my bedsheet or something. We are in Nigeria so we all know this is possible. Also, I started refusing to give her foodstuff and other things because she kept asking for more. Please help.

Go for checkup. You might have internal issues. What you are suspecting is not the cause. Doesnt sound like an external complaint.

Befulfilled:
My head is not thinking right right now cos I'm going through a lot. I was in dire need of money for hospital bill when someone sent me some money due to my cries. Using ATM to withdraw it, I was debited but not dispensed. Going to 3 months now, the bank has not refunded. That money was to save a life but bank played politics with it.

What are my chances if I sue them for damages?

Dont be discouraged by all the negative comments. You have a neat case against the bank. They owe you damages. A good lawyer should be able to convict the bank, It's against CBN regulation to have debit without reversal for more than 24 hours. Consult your lawyer.

IbileIfe:
Dr. Chris Ngige's children are in universities in Nigeria.

He alone cannot redirect educational sector. He is Labour Minister. When all of them involved have their children here, you will see positive change.

She has to be eternally thankful. It was a solid turning point in her life and career.

There's not enough attention on the education sector. The major problem is that key decision makers in the sector have their children outside the country. Once we ensure that for one to be involved in education in Nigeria either as a lecturer or government parastatal that has to do with education, the one must have their children in institutions in Nigeria and if and whenever the situation changes the one must resign, we will be rest assured that ASUU strike and government apathy will end and glory will return to education in Nigeria. The same for the health sector once health tourism is outlawed for public office holders.

Very commendable effort. We need more of this to encourage and empower this class of people.

Good one. Representing effectively. There's ability in disability! More govt and citizen support!!!

This is a big shame for a party that has been eyeing Alawusa. It shows that APC is in firm control of lagos for now. No vacancy.

U didn't state ur salary at the ethanol refinery. But please go back there. Filling station manager is not good careerwise. The chem. Eng. Job will boost ur profile for better jobs. QED

Please let's hear word until the welfare packages arrive. It's the pensioners themselves that would appreciate and address a press. This publicity is odd.

Obey boundaries she set. Platonic friendships exist. U can't be growing feelings for every lady that comes close. For now you are the only one in love. One-sided love does not ignite a fire. Continue trying to impress her, if she does fall in love, she won't ever remember you are older.