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you guys should stop judging him

where you there at the final days/hours of his death?

do you know if he made peace with his maker?

r.i.p

i understand the part of the man living in nigeria and the wife and kids abroad (good education for the kids, etc)

the one that is the most rampant and painful is cases where the man travels abroad in search for the 'gloden fleece' and then never brings the woman over to join him. Rather, he comes home every 3years to impregnate the wife and goes back.

yet the foolish wife. yes, very foolish wife, opens her legs for him each time and allows him to feel her up.

so man is 'married bachelor' abroad, while he has wife and kids in nigeria that he send money to every month.

there are soooo many of such men littered in US and various countries abroad.

shameless men !

i had the (mis)fortune of falling into the hands of such. the cow didnt tell me he was married. but when i found out, i show the guy shege.

Ladies,

Please, i need the name and address of a VERY GOOD salon located within london where i can fix my lace wig.

I will prefer a salon that has experience in fixing the wigs and wont end up ruining the expensive wig for me.

Not compromising on the quality of the service, i would like a salon thats reasonably priced as well.

Thank you

Arik air

I got aril for about 121,000 few days ago and it's valid for one year.

My Internet connection is Wack right now.

When I return back to my base and have access to broadband, I will upload the full album.

Meanwhile, are you in Lagos or anywhere in Nigeria. The cd is just 150
naira. Let's support our local artists.

Which one is 'parent access right to child' visa again?

Kindly post an official link to support this visa category.

Ayettymama

Wetin the guy do you to the extent that you are contemplating setting up to get deported?

May none of my ex-boyfriends never meet a woman like you . . . . . AMEN.

You go wicked gan as I dey see you.

Yes he can state his past deeds. But I can almost place a bet that he will be refused again.

How many bedroom is his girlfriend's council flat?

I bought this CD at lekki two days ago. I was shocked!!!!!!! The girl don craze finish !!!!!

I was just screaming while I was driving at listening to it. I no fit listen to am finish sef.

It's a funny album but my mama and papa while send me to ori-oke ( yes at my age) for purification if they ever hear me listen to such.

And to think she uses popular gospel songs!!!!!! She don craze finish.

But give it up her. She has created a band name for herself and she will find her niche in mushin, car parks, ojota, etc.

I can imagine her doing a collabo with this fuji 'tosibe' guy ( can remember his name . . . He featured cossy In his music videos) and then bayowa records promoting the album. She
will smile her way to the bank. Lol.

I won't mind watching her perform live sha!!! Lol

In the second paragraph of my post above I meant APOLOGISE in the form for staying longer than two weeks.

Cutefinger, I do not see how sending a mail to the secretary of state of whatever will help your case.

You just happened to be unlucky but sentiments apart, the deportation order was in place.

You wrote 2 weeks on your landing card yet you spent 4 months. Immediately after that, you dashed to Nigeria and came back again few weeks later.

What did you claim to be doing in Lagos before you applied for the visa? Schooling? Working? So you left all that to sit in UK for 4 straight months? The immigration people must think you were working in the UK illegally or you had plans to work in the nearest future. Or the found other things in your back to suggest you were doing other things while in the UK.

My advice::::
Apply afresh. Based on the new student visa rules. Apply in the form for staying longer than the 2weeks you stated in the landing card. Aplogise for taking the distance learning course ( although I see nothing wrong in what you did) but aplogise all the same. Oyinbo loves to words. PLEASE and I AM
SORRY.

state in the form that you never knew it was wrong to take the course. That you were only thirsting for education. Which is the reason why you want to do this properly now by applying in line with the new student visa rule.

Good luck.

Fiancée? Yet he has knocked her up twice!!!!

Why can they both get married and then he applies for a spousal visa to join her

Okay!! I get it. She is claiming 'single mother' and getting free council house, and money weekly for the kids abi?

Make them carry go!!!!!

P.s. I seriously doubt if he will get the visa looking at his numerous visa denials and the fact that he was refused again based on deception!

Ayettymama

You heard it?? And a very foolish you believed it.

It is not rocket science but mere common sense and wisdom to know from my previous posts that I am female.

Platinumuk.

Your x has a good heart.

Your case also shows the result of communication. You told him during a chat that you have never had an Easter basket before. And just to show he cared about you, he went out of his way to get you one.

I have told the poster what to do. Follow my advice and you will be surprised it might work.

On a final note, you get mind oh. Dating someone in the same workplace. My dear, I no fit!!! Are you sure that is not part of the reasons the guy is treating you this cheaply?

When it comes to romance, I keep it clear from any man in the same workplace.

Ayettymama

Na wa for you this girl. Yesterday you adddressed me as a monkey. Today, professional prostitute.

I don't know how posting in politics section could tell if one is male or female.

Look am female. Get that clear. Go through all my posts and show me any that has suggested otherwise.

A popular nl member on travel,funkybaby has met me before and she can attest to the fact that I am female.

It's not about taking money from a guy.

When you are in a relationhip with someone and you claim you love each other, you are to treat each other well and ensure the love blossoms.

It's a different issue if the guy is broke or does not have the means.

I have one policy I stick to. If a dude has 100pounds and cannot give his babe 20 pounds, then carry your shoes and flee cos if he has 10000000 pounds , he won't give you nothing.

It has nothing to do with been twice lucky or my bf being generous.

A guy that drives a toureg, yet finds it hard to treat his woman right

Girl, there is something you are doing wrong or the guy is not just into you.

I still stand by my post that it is how to present yourself to a guy that he will treat you. It's been the same with all the guys I have dated. Infact, during my years in uni in Naija, my Uk based student bf put me on an allowance of a 100 quid monthly. Ever month, I picked it up at western union. And the money was for simple reasons: do your hair, look good and take yourself for treats.

If appear cheap or as a slut and a guy will treat you as one. Even ashawo sef get grade. Ask heidi fleiss.

I will suggest you pull away from the guy. If you have been sleeping with him, stop. Give room for him to ask you what the problem is. Then open your mouth and tell him that you wish you two can hang out together more, Restaurants, cinemas, etc. That way he will be forced to spend money and even come up with nicer places you two can go to. If you play your cards right, you might earn yourself a trip to the Bahamas.

Am sure the guy spends money to maintain his car and power bike. He should also spend money on his babe.

Na wa oh.

Me thinks it's the way you present yourself to a man is the way he will treat you.

My ex bf and my present bf. These Boys spend on me. Infact, am even the one that complains they overdo and always looking for bargains.

For example, am presently in Naija. My darling paid for my ticket. I wanted to fly with air maroc and save him about 150 pounds. My boo said nope. He insisted I fly with virgin and he paid my ticket.

Please note. Am not flashy. Am not the girl with 500pounds lace wig. But I have got class. My body language, content of conversation and attitude reeks of it.

So if you appear cheap, a man will treat you cheap. Show you have class in a HUMBLE way and he will treat you like a QUEEN that you are.

One last thing. NEVER APPEAR DESPERATE TO A MAN. play cool and calm.

Am not picking on you.

I just find the SHALOM a bit hypocritical. I guess you want us to believe you are a born again Christain, and so on.

But were you not the same person that had a faceoff with justwise and you used one or two 'unchrist-like' words.

Just drop the SHALOM, okay?

Btw: do you say SHALOM after every word that you utter from your mouth while having a conversation in real life with someone? So why bring your SHALOM into 'cyber world', eh?

You this suxes2005. Must you put SHALOM after all your posts

Abegiiiii, This nairaland sef. All sorts of people.

1) are you working as well
2) do you stay in the same town?

Am wondering. Why is everyone asking for this form? Abi is there something 'in vogue' that I am missing? Is this form needed for the SIA license for UK people?

Lol. You two should stop bickering please!! Although flekan started this mess by making sooo much ado over nothing !!! It's only normal for iz2much to attack you back.

Let peace reign, okay guys?

Yes, here in UK we can see the end results of the billions of pounds spent on mainteanace. Can we say same for Lagos, NO.

Yes, here in UK we can see the end results of the billions of pounds spent on mainteanace. Can we say same for Lagos, NO.