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Vello:
I sacrificed my youth for family. Sponsored one outside the country and another through school (not fully though) gave all my salaries to elder sister for months so she could further her education. I sacrificed all my savings for entire family so we could be the envy of other families. I later secured admission to Unilorin years later, same sister called me bastard when I begged for N5000 loan so I could sustain myself till after exams.

I wish I hadn't remembered we were family

I wish I were as wise as I am now.

Those same siblings today are my strangers far as I'm concerned. They don't even know whether I live or dead. They don't care.

Sacrificing for family is good but, never at the expense of your life goals, dreams and ambition. They would only respect you for what you make of yourself and never for what you do for them.

Far as this topic goes, the choice is yours

Thank you for sharing your experience with me, it gives more room for thinking. I really appreciate it.

God will surely crown your efforts. Thanks.

IamMobisola:
I know. Like I said let your younger bro get a job now because Na still work e go find when he finishes his HND 2. Let him look for work now and save money for his HND2

Thank you very much for your advice I really appreciate it. He's currently learning programming/coding which I really like.

occfx:
There is need to be selfish... But do what you can to help siblings and also help yourself. Join the people that needs help.

To get help during this period is quite hard, I just joined a cooperative society, after some month I'll be able to solicit for help.

asid:
What's the amount needed?

Ha bros. It's roughly above 100k that's why I'm troubled.
My brother's fees and rent is 200k. My potential school fees and admission processing is around 150k. I have 100k and I know I will be able to push it to 150k next month which will be sufficient for me.

IamMobisola:
You have tried in your siblings life. Now that your bro is done with HND1, let him go and look for job and earn himself some money too. You need to start thinking of yourself too, pay for your part-time studies and continue working. Your brother needs to pause his HND 2 education and look for job. If your brother knows about your situation and is still bothering you about his HND 2 fees then he is a very selfish person.

Look out for yourself, you have tried enough ooo

I took up the responsibility in the first place because they're SS

Thank you all for your responses I really appreciate it.

My life have been stagnant for like 4-5 years now. I work in a factory and I also sow clothes.
I've not been able to spend money on myself or to pursue my dream as a result of family responsibilities.
I'm a drop out of FUOYE and I'll so much love to go back to school but the plan has been failing for 2 years now.

I've obtained a part time form from Adekunle Ajasin University Ibadan campus last month hoping to start the new session next year but my problem now is that I have a brother that just finished HND 1, his rent has expired and he'll pay his school fees this January.
I paid his rent and school fees for HND 1 and he has notified me for HND 2.
My fear now is that time us running out for me (I'm 27yrs now) as I sincerely wanted to go back to school but I can't sponsor myself and two siblings.

Should I wait for another year or everybody should carry his cross?

Ikinternational:
Guy you still dey here? Did you ever acknowledge 🤔

Once again, the good Lord will bless you. I really appreciate the kind gesture.

Ikinternational:
Have I entered wahala?
Guy no be by force to give out your account details

Not at all. Thank you very much Sir. As you surprise me today God will surprise you with life's good riches. Thanks.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Pls try abstain from gambling/betting.

Thank you sir but I've put that in check. Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it.

Ikinternational:
Your Yoruba name dey scare you..lol
Oga we're not like that o
We fvck with those that fvck with us

Alright Sir. But when in the beginning God created neither Hausa, IBO, nor Yoruba. We're all humans.

Sorry for wasting your time. Can you please edit your quote with my account details. Thanks.

Ikinternational:
You're the Pele of your village abi You no get surname 🤔

Afolabi David

Ikinternational:
My guy .....for this small money you want me to go n start touching buttons.

Oya send

Thank you Sir.

Ikinternational:
How much sir

#6,400 sir.

Ikinternational:
Very reasonable man
Send of course

Sorry to disturb you boss. Can you please help me out, I need to buy some drugs. Sorry for breaking into your conversation.

Yeah. We exist.

I'm not against drinking, smoking or womanizing. I just don't feel like it.

Despite the fact that I've worked in a brothel and I control at least 6 girls then but It's just like I'm dead to the three.

koolpal:
Bet9ja is scamming me

How are they scamming you? Can you please explain this?

kenearth50:
✅✅✅

Airtime received. God shall reward you abundantly for this.

Thanks.

kenearth50:
N500 worth of data/airtime for you

Network & Number?

Airtime received. God shall reward you abundantly for this.
Thanks.

Any good Samaritan in the mood of Christmas should please share me data.

Earthen:
Someone suggested Wema to me earlier..
I have also heard GTB and Access are relatively okay

Don't put access in that context. I stopped using access when I wanted to withdraw 3k and the ATM gave me 1.5k. I spent so much on transport yet dey neva rectify am.
Network issues is too frequent with access bank.

DiskJokeyManic:
Make we no lie to ourslves..... Hw many wealthy gamblers do we see??

I am talkin abt dose who were hustling ND gambling at same time nd still became rich.. nt de rich ones who already got wealth befor gambling came

It is very hard to be wealthy wen u re hustlin ND gambling at same time

For every 1 successful gambler u see...... Dere are 1 billion poor ones wrecked by gambing

Nd person go stil carry dis tin enter new year dis tin no b life.........

Sslcript I am sorry fr insulting u earlier

Alabi's humbling hour The hour you do some self examination after Alabi don injure you.

The truth is...
I don't know. Like seriously.

My legs. I too dey waka.

puskin:
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TopBallers:
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Icuib4cu:
Football is business take it or leave it.

Who says it's not? Even NGO is business.

Even if he turned into a cat, only a dumb fellow will expect him to say it's true.For people saying no human can turn into animal, just dey play.

Icuib4cu:
If you think the power that be, nor dey make money from football, joke is on you

I expect you to be smarter than this even Nigeria Premier League contributes to Nigeria GDP.