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BBBmall25:
Did U Find Out His Reasons For Cheating? Or U're Just Here Blowing Hot Air For Nothing Out Of "my Sister Sentiment?"

So there should be a reason for cheating on his wife on their matrimonial bed?
Like seriously?

Wow..God is wonderful

SweetDipBenny:
Calm down

Why should i

Wow...so beautiful
Congratulations!

He should be castrated

GreaterFuture:
Yòrùbá people will say Ibẹta, Taye, kehinde and ... what would be the third one?
Yoruba People in the house Pls answer
Congratulations to the woman btw

Edit: Pls don't quote me to say Idowu, Idowu is the child born separately after the Twins

And eta

Babalegba:
Jumia is okay.I get all my electronic items and phones from them.Theit customer service is top notch as long as you are not trying to be funny or deceitful.Many of the bad stories around are from people trying to be tricky. I'm typing this on the umidigi A7 pro I got from them six days ago

Same here..got mine yesterday

Orisirisi

Which kind endtime mothers be this? Just read one dat killed her two children;now this one again
O lagbara

Jeez..cute children like this..
Oga o
Endtime mother

Kriss216:
Where are they?

Around u

Beautiful woman

Chai..may God help us

Kriss216:
The question is, are there truly good wives?

Yes of course

Wow wow..very nice

Wow..beautiful

etrange:
<deviation>
I also know the talk of "skin-to-skin dey sweet pass", "condom is for boys", "real man go raw and withdraw", etc. Maybe those are what you shouldn't have listened to. If, when looking back, the major mistake you see and regret is getting married to her, then you need to think some more because getting married to her (though avoidable) was a only a consequence of a bigger mistake. The deed has been done, selective regretting can gain you Nairaland sympathy but that won't change a thing in your life. So don't just say you regret getting married to her (that makes it look like she is the protagonist), regret going in raw (a mistake you both made).
</deviation>

Sorry for that deviation, I had to let it out.

Now, I'm not an advocate of sticking to marriage if both parties are not happy, it makes zero sense and it could turn violent easily. Having separated parents is much better for the kids than a violent home. If you guys aren't happy together, I'll advise you go your ways to avoid stories. You have to understand this could result to you not participating actively in your baby's upbringing; a price you pay for your freedom. We just can't have it all.

If she's happy and contented in the marriage, it gets more complicated. Kicking out a woman who is happily married to you with your kid is not an option. True you can't easily cultivate love and you can't find what was never there but if what you don't like is her classlessness and not that she's always nagging, overspending and/or any such vices, then you could still make a friend of her. The so-called passionate love burns out after some years, friendship is what keeps couples going afterwards. If you make her your friend, at least, and she begins to understand you want her well-being, it will be easier to communicate the changes you want to see. Communication is key.

I know my take might not mean much cause it's a very difficult situation but the summary of what I'm saying is, don't be selfish in whatever decision you take, consider the other two parties involved.

Best of luck!

You've said it all

I've had d experience twice now..and i'm very sure I've not filled any form requesting for my bvn..i believe some of those bankers give out customers info to dis fraudsters..stupid people..i even wasted their airtime by having a long conversation with dem

Rest in peace rishi
One of my best actor
So sad

taven:
Like no single one? Okay.

Oh..dats weird

taven:
Is there any techniques to help me begin to remember my dreams, please any help would be appreciated.

U cant remember all ur dreams
Is very normal

ValCon888:
I came here hoping to see pictures of fresh nàked female doctors instead my eyes have been traumatised by man ass.

Lol..asewo

Wow...
Beautiful..
I really love them..

Sixfeetbelle:
I won't lie. You're really trying but because I can tell you're a good man, I'd implore you to exercise patience. She's not refusing you on purpose but I can see CS scars and pains, tiredness after breastfeeding and decreased sexual drive post partum as some of the culprits in this case.

Talk with her, and talk to her. Relay your worries, try to understand hers and then collectively reach a compromise. That place you mentioned about ignoring her due to sex will not work in marriage. That little seed of selfish will grow into something vile that may tear this marriage apart. Marriage works by understanding. Apply it.

You're a good man and you have a wonderful family: a loving wife and a beautiful daughter. Don't let selfish ruin that.

Exactly..some men are just too selfish

26
Puzzle2 is monday

edoairways:
Stable indeed!

Lol..are u in Ikere?

Very stable here in Ikere Ekiti
100%

Yes..have actually done that before..

Hmmmm
I'm even scared to

Omi oku ke?
Eleyi tun le o..
Dis is serious
May God save us from all dis wicked people..

I love dark skin!

Architectben34:
120,000 for mum, collect 20,000 from dad