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Health / Re: Adanna Ifewulu, Nigerian Girl Who Beat Blood Cancer (Pix) by yemsai(f): 6:18pm On Oct 09, 2020
Wow..God is wonderful
Crime / Re: Man Who Raped Stepdaughter In Lagos Transferred to SCID, To Appear In Court by yemsai(f): 9:35am On Oct 08, 2020
SweetDipBenny:
Calm down
Why should i
Events / Re: A 10 Years Love Story: My Pre-wedding Shots by yemsai(f): 1:58pm On Oct 07, 2020
Wow...so beautiful
Congratulations!

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Crime / Re: Man Who Raped Stepdaughter In Lagos Transferred to SCID, To Appear In Court by yemsai(f): 1:54pm On Oct 07, 2020
He should be castrated

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Family / Re: Woman Gives Birth To Triplets In Edo After Her Husband Abandoned Her (Pix) by yemsai(f): 1:52pm On Oct 07, 2020
GreaterFuture:
Yòrùbá people will say Ibẹta, Taye, kehinde and ... what would be the third one?
Yoruba People in the house Pls answer

Congratulations to the woman btw

Edit: Pls don't quote me to say Idowu, Idowu is the child born separately after the Twins
And eta
Phones / Re: Scared of Buying From Jumia by yemsai(f): 1:42pm On Oct 07, 2020
Babalegba:
Jumia is okay.I get all my electronic items and phones from them.Theit customer service is top notch as long as you are not trying to be funny or deceitful.Many of the bad stories around are from people trying to be tricky. I'm typing this on the umidigi A7 pro I got from them six days ago
Same here..got mine yesterday
Romance / Re: Nigerian Lady Narrates How Man Offered Her N150k To Eat Her Faeces (pixs) by yemsai(f): 1:35pm On Oct 07, 2020
Orisirisi
Crime / Re: Woman Roasts Her 11-Year-Old Son's Hands Because Of Food In Akwa Ibom(Graphic) by yemsai(f): 12:00am On Oct 05, 2020
Which kind endtime mothers be this? Just read one dat killed her two children;now this one again
O lagbara
Crime / Re: Jealous Wife Kills Her 2 Children In Kano After Husband Took A 2nd Wife (Photo) by yemsai(f): 11:57pm On Oct 04, 2020
Jeez..cute children like this..
Oga o
Endtime mother
Religion / Re: 3 Nigerian Pastors Who Divorced Their Wives And What Led To The Broken Marriages by yemsai(f): 10:05pm On Sep 29, 2020
Kriss216:

Where are they?
Around u

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Celebrities / Re: Joke Silva Celebrates Her 59th Birthday With Stunning Pictures by yemsai(f): 9:52pm On Sep 29, 2020
Beautiful woman
Crime / Re: Akwa Ibom Man Commits Suicide After Killing His Wife Over Infidelity (Graphic) by yemsai(f): 9:51pm On Sep 29, 2020
Chai..may God help us
Religion / Re: 3 Nigerian Pastors Who Divorced Their Wives And What Led To The Broken Marriages by yemsai(f): 9:49pm On Sep 29, 2020
Kriss216:

The question is, are there truly good wives?
Yes of course
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Chadwick Boseman: A Nairalander's Photorealistic Drawing!! by yemsai(f): 10:54pm On Sep 07, 2020
Wow wow..very nice
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Guys, Abeg Rate My Work. by yemsai(f): 6:03pm On Sep 06, 2020
Wow..beautiful

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Family / Re: How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? by yemsai(f): 9:43pm On Jul 07, 2020
etrange:


<deviation>
I also know the talk of "skin-to-skin dey sweet pass", "condom is for boys", "real man go raw and withdraw", etc. Maybe those are what you shouldn't have listened to. If, when looking back, the major mistake you see and regret is getting married to her, then you need to think some more because getting married to her (though avoidable) was a only a consequence of a bigger mistake. The deed has been done, selective regretting can gain you Nairaland sympathy but that won't change a thing in your life. So don't just say you regret getting married to her (that makes it look like she is the protagonist), regret going in raw (a mistake you both made).
</deviation>

Sorry for that deviation, I had to let it out.

Now, I'm not an advocate of sticking to marriage if both parties are not happy, it makes zero sense and it could turn violent easily. Having separated parents is much better for the kids than a violent home. If you guys aren't happy together, I'll advise you go your ways to avoid stories. You have to understand this could result to you not participating actively in your baby's upbringing; a price you pay for your freedom. We just can't have it all.

If she's happy and contented in the marriage, it gets more complicated. Kicking out a woman who is happily married to you with your kid is not an option. True you can't easily cultivate love and you can't find what was never there but if what you don't like is her classlessness and not that she's always nagging, overspending and/or any such vices, then you could still make a friend of her. The so-called passionate love burns out after some years, friendship is what keeps couples going afterwards. If you make her your friend, at least, and she begins to understand you want her well-being, it will be easier to communicate the changes you want to see. Communication is key.

I know my take might not mean much cause it's a very difficult situation but the summary of what I'm saying is, don't be selfish in whatever decision you take, consider the other two parties involved.

Best of luck!
You've said it all

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Business / Re: Have Fraudsters Invaded The BVN System? by yemsai(f): 8:23pm On May 23, 2020
I've had d experience twice now..and i'm very sure I've not filled any form requesting for my bvn..i believe some of those bankers give out customers info to dis fraudsters..stupid people..i even wasted their airtime by having a long conversation with dem grin

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Celebrities / Re: Rishi Kapoor Dies Of Leukaemia Aged 67 by yemsai(f): 3:04pm On Apr 30, 2020
Rest in peace rishi
One of my best actor
So sad
Nairaland / General / Re: I Can't Remember My Dreams, Hope This Is Normal. by yemsai(f): 5:16am On Apr 30, 2020
taven:

Like no single one? Okay.
Oh..dats weird
Nairaland / General / Re: I Can't Remember My Dreams, Hope This Is Normal. by yemsai(f): 3:06am On Apr 30, 2020
taven:
Is there any techniques to help me begin to remember my dreams, please any help would be appreciated.
U cant remember all ur dreams
Is very normal
Health / Re: German Doctors Pose Nude To Protest Lack Of Protective Masks, Aprons (Photos) by yemsai(f): 2:11pm On Apr 29, 2020
ValCon888:
I came here hoping to see pictures of fresh nàked female doctors instead my eyes have been traumatised by man ass.
Lol..asewo
Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Showing Some Of My Drawings, To Help With The Stress by yemsai(f): 7:59pm On Apr 26, 2020
Wow...
Beautiful..
I really love them..

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Family / Re: My Wife Wants Me To Beg For Intercourse by yemsai(f): 7:56pm On Apr 17, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


I won't lie. You're really trying but because I can tell you're a good man, I'd implore you to exercise patience. She's not refusing you on purpose but I can see CS scars and pains, tiredness after breastfeeding and decreased sexual drive post partum as some of the culprits in this case.

Talk with her, and talk to her. Relay your worries, try to understand hers and then collectively reach a compromise. That place you mentioned about ignoring her due to sex will not work in marriage. That little seed of selfish will grow into something vile that may tear this marriage apart. Marriage works by understanding. Apply it.

You're a good man and you have a wonderful family: a loving wife and a beautiful daughter. Don't let selfish ruin that.
Exactly..some men are just too selfish

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Career / Re: I.Q TEST 2: Can You Figure Out The Right Answer? by yemsai(f): 11:58pm On Apr 14, 2020
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Puzzle2 is monday
Politics / Re: What's The Electricity Situation In Your Area Like During This Lockdown? by yemsai(f): 9:33pm On Apr 13, 2020
edoairways:

Stable indeed! angry
Lol..are u in Ikere?
Politics / Re: What's The Electricity Situation In Your Area Like During This Lockdown? by yemsai(f): 12:21pm On Apr 13, 2020
Very stable here in Ikere Ekiti
100%

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Romance / Re: Ladies, Will You Turn Down A Guy Because He Is Too Handsome? by yemsai(f): 1:35pm On Mar 12, 2020
Yes..have actually done that before..
Family / Re: What’s The Hardest Part About Marriage That No One Ever Talks About? by yemsai(f): 6:08pm On Mar 06, 2020
Hmmmm
I'm even scared to cry
Crime / Re: Food Vendor 'Mama Aroma' Burnt To Death In Delta For Cooking With Mortuary Water by yemsai(f): 11:18pm On Mar 03, 2020
Omi oku ke?
Eleyi tun le o..
Dis is serious
May God save us from all dis wicked people..
Fashion / Re: Tips In Becoming A Black Beauty! by yemsai(f): 8:36am On Feb 28, 2020
I love dark skin!
Family / Re: N100,000: How would You Share This Between Your Parents? by yemsai(f): 12:06pm On Feb 26, 2020
Architectben34:
120,000 for mum, collect 20,000 from dad
grin grin grin grin
Autos / 2004 Lexus ES 330 For Sale..pictures Attached... by yemsai(f): 10:54pm On Feb 18, 2020
2004 Lexus ES 330 for sale @ 1.9 million, non negotiable.
Location: festac ,Lagos.
Tokunbo grey color, custom papers available.
Interested buyers should contact +234 909 387 2023

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