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I'd rather stay in my father's house!

slegerman:
You have a PM.

Ok bro

Informative...thanks op!

Rukkydelta:
That's who Nigerian men are
Before I will get married I will tell hubby to be to please tell me anything I'm doing or putting on that it doesn't like. So that will can settle any issue before marriage
Can't look like a granny after getting married while he will look like young bobo

Lolz...abi o...well said

Clock 30

She still love doing dem..bt her husband has restrained her frm doing it..
Y can't he tell her wen dey were still dating?

yomi007k:



Dt is also cool.

Better..

yomi007k:



So we r actually on d same page...jus a lil misunderstood

No we r not...

oluwayimika123:
Their are men like d@ 4 real buh one thing I ve noticed is most men d@ do d@ feels insecure for nothing sake and are hypocrites. they will tell dier wives not to wear trousers and make-ups buh will still go around chasing girls wearing trousers and heavy make-ups

Abi o...on point!

PaperLace:
It's insecurity dear.
This is Nigeria where married women are expected to look a certain way and this way has nothing to do with decency or religion,but she should just look plain unattractive like a married woman .

If she rebels,he'll employ emotional blackmail tools_like, "who are you looking good for outside, oh you're trying to attract men?"

As long as she is decent, I see no reason to excessively dictate what she wears. You can switch up his/her style, but to take an already decent dressing below what it was prior to marriage? Mbanu!

The problem is, if it were the wife dressing this way on her own, same people supporting the husband will come here to threaten her_ they'll tell her so dress sexy or lose him to karashikas out there.

What do some men really want?
Don't be surprised he'll be admiring baby okus out there. I fear his type o, I fear them well well.

Yes...insecurity it is..
Dnt mind dem..after turning u to old woman, dey'll go outside chasing ladies doing same thing he stopped his wife frm doing..
Hypocrites..

yomi007k:
Nope...


Answer my question too.

I won't decline..

yomi007k:



I guess u answered ur own question.



So if u get married n ur hubby pleads for u to dress more decently, wud u decline?

So wearing trousers is an indecent dressing?

yomi007k:
If ur husband goes clubbing b4 marriage, wud u expect d same rate after marriage?


I knw u will say its not d same but it hovers around mindset.


Different folks, different strokes.

Like u said...is not d same thing..
U can only compare if d woman was a prostitute bfr marriage...so I wldnt expect it to continue after marriage.

So I was at a frnd's place today who is married...we wanted to go somewhere and saw her putting on skirt and rubbing white powder...we've known each oda for quite a while and hav known her to be dis exposed babe;i mean she no dey wear skirt at all...so I asked her her y,and she told me her husband told her to stop wearing trousers,using makeup,big earrings etc immediately after their wedding..and I could remember this same guy practically gift her things like dis while dey were dating..

So I want to ask...why is it so?
Why do men pretend dey like something wen dey actually dont?
To d married women;has it ever happened to u?
Let's hear ur views..

Cc: lalasticlala, mynd44

Av seen everything and I'm so single...

slegerman:
Lol, oya follow make I PM you.

hmmm..ok

slegerman:


So close but am still your elder brother, you know? Three days no be here oooo

Abegi...elder bro indeed
U will be my nairaland brother nigbayen

Ekiti state...

slegerman:
April 10. Anybody?

Aww..i'm 7th of april

Aeronautics engineering

Emaprince:
Biting finger nails and using my finger nails to cut my toe nails.

I have never used a nail cutter before.

I do these when I'm alone and thinking... So it happens with me not knowing what I'm doing sef.

Lol....me too o
Infact bfr I use to carry my toes inside my mouth with much difficulty o

Adeyeancah:
PM me ur number make I see if na true

Ko need..

Well...WhatsApp is active now..yipee

Have seen some ladies with tribal mark on their breasts..tot is mainly done on d face na

No I dnt..only wen I'm cold

Lol

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babake79:
(P. S, the 79 on my username is not my birth year or my age ) lol

Lol..u sure?
38yrs?
Not bad now

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edimolu:
An elder with no better sense?....must be tough for you...fuxkin ninny....

We all see how much sense u've got!
Happy now?

edimolu:
Ayam not understanding you oooo, u mean a girl dat stands in front of a club,dat gets paid for sex as long as money is involved is no different from my ex whom i deflowered last year nd is gettin married few months from now
You must be fvcked in tha head

Oh...u shld hav asked in a more simple way...
And I would hav given u a simple explanation..
BT since u r already fvcked in tha head, I see u r nt normal nd u dnt knw hw 2 speak to ur elders....
Go learn how to speak first maybe I wld reconsider answering ur question..okay?
Oya run along now kiddo