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BlindAngel:
You think I would have acted in such a way and manner if my mind body and soul is still in the marriage? I'm only there physically, but to be brutally honest with u, I'm really no longer interested. And this is why I was able to showcase such boldness with our fear of any repercussions.

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

Peledonomy:
Let God lead you.

Chicagograduate:
Na yahoo boys full delta.

Peledonomy:
What kind of hustle

MotivationKG:
Lol, we are matured men so I can't take it personal.

Like one guy said above, they really have anger issues like my sisters too but not all of them.

80% of the ijaw girls fair in complexion are always beautiful.

If you meet the ones with big yansh sef, na you go tire for sex.

haddeylium:
This God's name Jehovah appear originally more than 7,000 times in the bible. It's so sad that Man (not God) has removed and substituted God's name with mere titles like LORD and God (in some bible translations).
Note: Title is different from a personal Name.
Buhari is not the same as President.



Most answers claim that the reason is because “Jehovah” is not the correct pronunciation of God’s name in Old Hebrew. But that does not explain why Yahweh —or whatever the correct pronunciation is supposed to be— is not in most bibles either.
So, I’d say that that is not the reason.

Another , some considered that God’s personal name was too sacred to be pronounced out of respect for Judaism superstitious belief , of whom Jesus said: “You have made the word of God invalid because of your tradition.”—Matt. 15:6
This is baseless as well.


it's impossible that we'll be in close relationship with a friend that we don't know his personal name. God is not nameless, his titles are not his name. He has a real personal name.

Ex. 3:15: “God said . . . to Moses: ‘This is what you are to say to the sons of Israel, “Jehovah the God of your forefathers . . . has sent me to you.” This is my name to time indefinite, and this is the memorial of me to generation after generation

Psalm 83:18(KJV)
That men may know that thou, whose name alone is JEHOVAH, art the most high over all the earth.

Conclusively, the central part of Jesus assignment on Earth is to make this God's name known.(Read John 7:26).
Is God's name as important to you as it is to Jesus?

Having a close relationship with God involve getting to know him by name

MaxInDHouse:
Good!

Surely the one taking account of those who will be remembered {Malachi 3:16} has heard you loud and clear. Romans 10:10

MaxInDHouse:
You're watching our annual meetings!

So how do you hope to grasp what we are saying when you don't want to learn from the GB?
Well the Bible says those who deliberately chose to ignore their conscience will not be remembered during resurrection! Psalms 9:17

MaxInDHouse:
It's not about being gay or lesbian, it's about humility!

People who have hurt others in the past due to circumstances beyond their control or out of ignorance will surely be resurrected.
But people who deliberately chose to ignore anything having to do with God or conscience will not be remembered during resurrection! Psalms 9:17

MaxInDHouse:
I love this!

You tried but it's

PREACHING, TEACHING and RECORDING the numbers of people in whose brains we have erased:
use of force, use of weapons, military services, racism and politics so we can continue anticipating a Paradise where people won't think of killing one another due to disparities!

MaxInDHouse:
Please the highlighted is enough because i'm nothing beside millions of my brothers and sisters throughout the world, don't single out Max as someone special, i'm just Maximus one of Jehovah's Witnesses!

So your first sentence "All JWs are fake" is enough for all of us globally, it's just that you don't care about God's word otherwise i would have begged you (on my knees) to present a better performing group than Jehovah's Witnesses because that has always been my song!

Janosky:
You have ZERO moral authority to point accusing fingers at JWs.
Continue your Hypocrisy luminously.

achorladey:
E get as e be. You see some of them saying it is rumours lies and false stories to downplay it.

When they can go as far as denying what was written in their publications. Then one can only expect the unexpected. Even prominent members amongst them are FAKES going by their comments here. The reason you see them coming here to say they look upon their fellow brothers and sisters with SUSPICIONS because some of them are HYPOCRITES.

Janosky:
Did you understand the screenshot you are posting on this forum?
Over 36,000 were expelled from JEHOVAH's service because of sexual immorality, sexual abuse in obedience to 1 Corinthians 5:9-12 Psalms 97:10.

Yippee, are you obeying 1 Corinthians 5:9-12 and Psalms 97:10?

Until you provide evidence that your Christendom expelled 30,000 because of sexual immorality, you are a hypocrite.

Continue WAILING and make empty rants.

Janosky:
1 Corinthians 5:9-13 & Psalms 97:10. deal with the truth in your Bible.

Shebi Watchtower wrote that in your Bible?

Janosky:
Go & clean up your life and stop practicing your hypocrisy on this public forum.

You're sleeping with her (you know it's sinful lifestyle) & still call her "pretender", then what are you?
Partner in crime

Janosky:
Fallacy of generalisation, Achorladey deceptive man.
Acts2:42,44, Is sexual immorality the teaching of the apostles?
Is the man in 1 Corinthians 5:1-2 having "one line of THOUGHT" with Jehovah's servants of Acts 2:42,44?