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presido1:
Stingy BF=Good Husband

says who? thats a big lie!!!!!

no comparison at all, Cowbell isnt milk! its tasteless!

heard pork takes longer to digest, chicken for me thank u very much!

@poster, they are some pple who arent really good with remembering special days like birthdays & stuff, maybe u shld try giving hints some weeks to ur b/day & see wat happens?? if you feel like he can afford to give u lil treats & he deliberately doesnt, DUMP HIM!!!!!!! he wont change! they never do! Personally i CANT stand thingy pple!!! dont understand y the guys are hurling insults,

Ujujoan:
Of course some sensible guys still do that, but most dont!! According to NLders, there's no need for all that because of the following reasons:

Economic Meltdown!!

Girls are no more worth it!!

Why bother when you can just smile at them and they'll jump right at you!!

Why spend a dime on a girl that prolly will still say 'no' to you!! and so on and so forth . . .

The conclusion is that most guys will prefer to have sex with a girl first before they even ask her out . . . .  At least even if she say no, dey don chop already!    

It just doesnt make any sense!!!
- if all it takes is for a guy to smile at a woman, wont the world be a "perfect" place for men! but we all know that isnt the way it is dont we?
- why spend on a girl who ll probably say no, how do they know she ll say no? no one is asking anyone to break the bank to get to know the girl better by taking her out
- For the last part, that says it all! doesnt it! if sex is all the guy wants, guess it now comes down to who's smarter?

Ujujoan:
Of course some sensible guys still do that, but most dont!! According to NLders, there's no need for all that because of the following reasons:

Economic Meltdown!!

Girls are no more worth it!!

Why bother when you can just smile at them and they'll jump right at you!!

Why spend a dime on a girl that prolly will still say 'no' to you!! and so on and so forth . . .

The conclusion is that most guys will prefer to have sex with a girl first before they even ask her out . . . . At least even if she say no, dey don chop already!

That is total BS!!!!!

Guys, what happened to treasure?

What happened to those days that guys pay bills, shower a girl with gifts, take her to exotic places, just to get her to say 'yes'!!

What happened to spoiling her to get her on you side?

Please, someone tell me what has gone wrong?


@uju, i think some guys still do that or dont they? i mean they see a girl they like & want to get to know her better, take her on dates to the movies or a nice restaurant that kinda thing rite? they still do!

@poster well im not so certain abt ur theory but i know pple date for different reasons regardless of their tribe, i ve had friends say that ibo guys are better lovers & know how to care for a woman than the yoruba brothers, but at the end of the day they still take the crap from the yoruba guys than marry the ibo brothers,

sweetbee:
dat i know but like i said i'll find a guy even if it meant bribing him to play along cos dat thing wey dey sweet man dey sweet woman too

i guess!!!!!


@poster, i ve seen where girls flirt openly even when its glaring to them that the person they are flirting with is with someone! they just dont care!!!!!! guess its left for the guy to handle it appropriately! but if he flirts back then it just goes to show how he truly feels for the person hes with,a guy that genuinely cares abt his woman wont!

sweetbee:
im yet to see a woman who would flirt with my man in my presence, firstly the woman has to be more good lookn than me for me to be worried which im yet to see. and if my man flirts in my presence, i ll look for a cool guy to flirt with and men its gonna be hot

guys dont necessarily flirt with good looking girls! she might be not so good looking on the face but ve a 2 die for body & very sexy!!!

@mhawkchic, many thanks!

i heard almond oil is really good! u can also try jojoba oil or lavendar for a lovely fragnance!!!

@shoms2002
my candid advice to u is to see a "MEDICAL DOCTOR" & i stress that because all those herbal doctors or whatever they call themselves dont know sh**t & like Muzbo said just ignore all the pple who are saying give me a call or send me an email, u ll be more confused than u were! someone very close to me suffered this staph or whatever, from wat ive heard its a viral infection but all these herbal doctors will just assume its an STD that cld led to HIV which is a lot of BULL! I will tell u, i followed her to a lot of them eg doctor ogaga, kingsnature therapy, yemkem, oko oloyun & they dont come CHEAP! but they just give herbal drugs & injections that dont do shit! she went to the hospital, did some tests and there really wasnt anything wrong with her, a doctor at the general hospital said it has to do with nerves & asked her to buy Bcomplex & overall she s more careful abt her personal hygiene & stuff, lots of fruits & supplements! she still experiences the symptoms once a while but shes doing much better! so PLEASE STICK TO THE MEDICAL DOCTORS!!!!!! & not those IGNORAMUS(herbal practioners) WHO PARADE THEMSELVES AS DOCTORS!!!!

just remembered i ll give Tantalizers a pass mark for their ofada rice, too small sha!!!!

to be honest NONE!!!!! i stay close to all these eateries & not impressed with them!
BUT TFC - , Magrellos too though relatively new - won try!

it would ve to be mangoes, hate the way they get stuck in between the teeth!

Outstrip:
How can I lose weight without changing my diet and not exercising at all. Thanks

same here!!!!! exercises are just a bore & a lot of hardwork!


@Romeo4real- I would like to know how to flatten the tummy area! im 5'5 & i weigh 60kg! i take fruits everyday & ve been doing that for abt 5yrs now & lots of water too! i dont take junk, though i do crave for it sometimes so i indulge myself though the indulgence happens maybe once or twice in a couple of mths! i would like to get rid of the little bulge i have in my tummy area! clothes look more sexier with a flat tummy! shld i increase the quantity of fruits im taking as i really dont want to exercise wat do u suggest? the fruits i take daily are water melon, apples, bananas & pineapples!

i would like to ve ofada rice, plantain with plenty orishirishi & pineapple juice to wash it down - not to much!
can i ve desert afterwards - a chocolate cake will do just fine!

VOR:
Vjay,

Depending on how soon you wish to come to the UK I'd re-apply.
Re-submit the statements [all of them] again with an explanatory
letter from your b/f explaining the source of the funds.

If however you are in no hurry, then by all means appeal.

thank u very much Vor! as im in no hurry i ve decided to appeal! many thanks again 4 ur response! ll keep u in the loop!

VOR:
Vjay,

A letter of complaint would get you nowhere. On the basis of the facts you have narrated
the ECO would be fully justified in refusing your application.

When you submitted your b/f statement did you also submit the other two statements and explain
the source of the funds in the first statement?
Furthermore, unless your aplication for a visit visa was for a family visit you have no right of appeal
against the refusal.

In summary, I would suggest that if you are still minded to visit the UK you re-apply and address all points
raised by the ECO. Was this the only reason for refusal? Normally ECOs give at least 2/3 in order to strengthen
the refusal.

Finally, even if there was only one reason for refusal make sure you comply with all other requirements of a genuine visitor. These include, but are not limited to; sufficient funds, adequate accommodation, proof of significant ties to Nigeria, eg job confirmation, evidence of studies etc.

Good luck.

@VOR thanks for replying Vor !no, i did not attach the other statements explaining the funds! also it is a family visit and i included all other documents like my letter of leave from my boss, my personal savings account, letter of employment, payslips, id card & yes thats the only reason they gave they said the account was probably inflated for this purpose & for this reason they were not satisfied with the financial capabilities of my boyfriend hence the refusal! they also did say there was no explanation stating where the money came from! i was however given the rite to appeal! wat do u think?

@VOR - can u tell me wat u make of mine? thanks

[b]hello, i recently applied for a british visa to go on holiday & was refused. my boyfriend was planning to buy my ticket and this he stated in his letter to them.my refusal was based on the fact that he put lump sum in his account in a space of two days and there was no explanation for it so they said his account was artificially inflated. he works with bank phb as a branch head. i told him i would rather use his salary account as i presumed this would help so he gave me the bank statements for his salary account but withdrew N400,000 from his union bank account & also N600,000 from his bank phb savings account which explains the N1,000,000 that the embassy talked abt, so my question! is it justified that i was refused based on that since he owns both accounts that they money was transfered from and statements from these 2 accounts can prove it & also can i appeal though i heard it takes a longer process but i dont mind since i would go to dubai instead & dont mind waiting & cld travel next yr, a friend also adviced that i send the embassy a mail to state my complaints abt the refusal and they would respond & ask me to make a copy of the mail i sent and ask me to reapply, wat are my best options many thanks!
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SophiaLisa:
Pls who has d address for the Charisma Glow store, I know its' at Ikeja but where exactly?,

sophia! my candid opinion! dont even bother trying out their product! its a load of crap!!!!!!!!! but if ure not convinced, please feel free to try it out! but i can guarantee u, u ll be back here looking for solutions to remedy the damage done to ur skin!

mohawkchic:
~Ta. for sharing your article on Antioxidants . .

~ I strongly agree about sunscreens. . . The number of folks that are ignorant about using suncreen is staggering. . . one lady actually asked me if "Black People" are suppose to use sunscreen! 

~Having read up on  Antioxidants. . i realise they are somehow incoperated into my meals. . Fruits & Veg, Potato, Garlic,Whole Grain,Spinach. . . I didnt however know they cud slow the effect of ageing! That was a pleasant surprise!

~I hear a lot of good reviews on Olay Regenerist Serum. . . have you tried it?

olay.co.uk/product-range/regenerist/index.php

not surprised abt wat she asked u at all! even my cousin that is supposed to be "exposed" said the same thing! "black pple dont need sunscreen" wat she said.

abt the regenerist serum!!! read a lot of reviews as well o! been trying to get it! been difficult getting it here in nigeria! i even asked my friend in the uk abt it and she was like "wo ma bother ko kin shise" hope u can read that? she was like dont bother it doesnt work & i was like but bola a lot of pple are really talking abt it! guess its the same nigerian mentality that has refused to go away, when we try out something we expect fast action, lol not moved though by her own convictions o! its just been difficult getting it here in naija! i actually ve a few other products i wld like to try! do u know anything abt ROC products? heard good things abt those as well!