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@debest1 - wat?

this is really hard! i dont think there's any basis for cheating & then there's also a kid involved so it is kinda hard, when i hear such stories i try to imagine myself in these women's shoes & try to figure out wat exactly cld ve gone wrong in the marriage to result to this, i pray to God that i never find myself in such situation cos there really isnt any excuse for such action!

@poster, i dont understand why pple are suggesting u monitor her! shes not a child,she knew wat she was getting involved in & for how long do u think u can play detective dude its ur choice but i ll break up with her if i were a guy!

@poster, let me get this! she has a man, she wants you & u want her, she s giving u the green light! so wats the problem here? did i leave anything out?

Fhemmmy:
Man wey never chop go chop egg rolls? and what do u drink afterwards? gutter water?

nope! getting an additional N5 for pure water wont be so hard! Nigerians are very compassionate pple u know, lol

@jaydees80s u welcome! let me know ok!

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fool obviously took advantage of u, u obviously have a lot going for u, a good job, nice apartment probably a nice car, he smelt the desperation in u & took advantage of the fact that u had everything else going for u other than a MAN!
i know u were trying to show u care but u should never ve allowed him to move into ur house, thats where the genesis of ur problems started not to mention the STDS, infidelity etc also u ddnt say whether he was also getting treatments with u since protection wasnt in the works for u guys hence the repeated infection! the

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fool bit the hand that fed him
Guys always smell desperation!!!!!! just take it easy ok! u ll be fine!

platinumnk:
Micheal Jackson

micheal jackson ke? u sure abt that girl?

debest1:
haaa u slack oooo i had it up 4 u and u alone, how come u missed that wonderful sight? ok will only put it up if u r nice to me , u know how to behave wen a gal wants something from a guy,

big time!!!! wondering how i cld ve missed that!lol how to behave wat do u ve in mind?

@poster, i cant tell u what i would do o cos like u said behind closed doors but i will tell u who the celebrity is LEONARDO DICAPRIO

debest1:
Did you not see it? I posted it as promised, had to take it down afterwards as i wanted it to be "FOR YOUR EYES ONLY"

i ddnt see it o!!!!! so now that im here think u shld put it up ASAP!!!!!

this is very shocking! must confess! used to think those guys were untouchable! guess not!

yeah just like someone said u must ve found a solution to ur problem as this isnt a new post but anyways the name callings a lil overboard someone even called her[b] lucifer[/b] geez, she asked for help! i actually found myself in this situation when i was in school, all my friends were doing it & i was like why not knowing fully aware of the consequences of my actions plus all the goodies i was getting as well! i was so carried away, it ddnt even seem like i was doing anything wrong at some point but i ddnt fall in love with him because i knew it wld do nothing for both of us especially ME since the relationship has been defined from the beginning! but some of my friends did fall in love with these men & got real broken! i just woke up one day & felt ENOUGH WAS ENOUGH cos at the end of the day the girl always looses out cos u just realise that its time wasting & that time could ve been spent building a good relationship! funny thing is the guys(married) actually do care but they never plan to leave their wives!!! till today we are still friends but i know better now!

@poster, u know wat to do, DO THE RITE THING!!!

@debest1 wat happened to the picture, still waiting!

hmmm maybe extreme makeover naija style -

y wont he ve a flu when he left us nko?

whitelexi:
Trust is associated to a serious relationship, except in such cases why would a gf turn up unannounced??

Just pray it aint raining cos u'll surely get a good soaking - that door will remain shut!

lol, that wld be mean o!!!!

Ben20001:
It depends on the level of the relationship.

i would ve to agree with Ben, it does ve to do with the level of relationship, if the relationship is a serious one by that i'm assuming both parents are involved that kinda thingy there's nothing wrong in popping in unannounced but if otherwise which a lot of ladies like to do(wonder y) its best to call before showing up not because of anything but i think its the appropriate thing to do!

Personally, i think dreams are some sort of medium thru which God talks to us! i believe this is one of the ways God reveals things to us as a way of guidance or direction abt certain issues in our lives! i ve heard some pple say " i dont believe in dreams, you probably ddnt ve a good nite sleep" but my question to pple who say that is how then does one explain it when such dreams evolves around certain issues or events happening in one's life that requires answers!

Dear Lord,
I thank u for today, thank you for the grace to wake up this morning, thank you for my family, my friends, my loved ones, pple i know even the ones i dont! I ask that you make me a channel of blessing to as many pple as i come in contact with today,this month & even throughout the year! I ask Father that what i am trusting in you for, you ll bring it to pass in my life! Let today yield good things for everyone of us! thank u for answered prayers in Jesus name i pray!
AMEN!

dont know, but it ll be kinda hard gettin their number but i know its on agoro odiyan street off saka tinubu!!!!! its opposite honeywell!!!!!!

hmm, 2 egg rolls

her name is Dr. Mercy Oredugba & her number is 08023414755!!!

Mr. Biggs bawo abeg no comparison jare!!!!!!! it should ve been TFC vs Munchies or TFC vs Barcelos!!!!!!!! as far as i'm concerned Mr. Biggs is rubbish except for their slice bread sha!!!!!

this one is easy, RICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

henryhemon:
@vjay,
same as nothing wrong in you having a handiwork of ur own n takecare of ursef like they do oversea,after all isn't it the culture you girls copy?

dont ve any problems with that either henry!

@poster - well it depends on ur own perception of who a gold digger is! cos there certainly aint nothing wrong with 'ving a man with all those things u listed!

pongwa:
they love guys who v cars, a fat bank account and all the flashy things of life, does this make them gold diggers?