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Farouksenior:
Hahaha. Na so one hook ma cousin 4 nyt club just few days to im T.M. If no b say...na ginger oo ginger; We sing 4 m by lax ft. Wizkid Our bros
4 cast. Nd she was jazzed up.


@ op. dt babe go jazz u. Or trap u. 32 no b old age joor. Babes still marry at 35. Bt b wise

Na d jazz tin me con dey fear o. Na why I delete am 4 bbm join blocking for whatsapp.

Farouksenior:
Hahaha. Na so one hook ma cousin 4 nyt club just few days to im T.M. If no b say...na ginger oo ginger; We sing 4 m by lax ft. Wizkid Our bros
4 cast. Nd she was jazzed up.


@ op. dt babe go jazz u. Or trap u. 32 no b old age joor. Babes still marry at 35. Bt b wise

Na d jazz tin me con dey fear o

If a woman contests midnight tonight, I'll risk my life going out in the dark to vote for her!

Rhaphy:
Was about to sleep when I saw yo thread! It's sooo funny. I get all wha u been tryna explain but I figured something out! You r very jobless sir. The same joblessness u exhibited when u were chatting with her, u exhibited it on here too. Fine what u did was justifiable and if I were in yo shoes wulda prolly done d same thing. But y do u feel d need too defend yourself against all criticisms? U feel u deserve a pat on d back? Dream on aii, continue paying attention to little things and end frustrated. Btw some women r FOOLS! D stupid woman is one of d reasons y I don't like being a lady....Shes totally gross and a shame to womanhood. Good riddance to bad rubbish!

Lolzzz @ joblessness! Anyway I was on a week leave and just resumed today. That's why tonight is my first time here today. I was not defending myself against criticism. I only explained my own side of the story just the way I tried all my best in chat to convince her(offline included) but all to no avail until I realised I was talking to a she-goat. Well, I'm just the meticulous type. But what's a forum for by the way? Abeg na u get your mouth jorr!

cruz22:
smh......dahz nt hw a whatsapp conversation lukz lyk

So how does a whatsapp conversation look? Funny dude! I use a bb. Go to a whatsapp conversation and click option. Click 'send to mail' and mail it to your inbox to see how it'll look.

cruz22:
smh......dahz nt hw a whatsapp conversation lukz lyk

So how does a whatsapp conversation look? Funny dude!

swaystunna:
Wow that's a mess bruh,Buh Frm ur conversation I tot u gave her a lot of attention like chatting wit her early mrning,even while u were at work (I wldnt do dat to a nasty ex).

Yeah its true. I only tried my best to convince that it won't work but she felt she got the attention. I blocked already.

amokeme:
;Dthey are going to start using it for shuttle service too imagine students well dressed inside the keke.. lol. Its going to be really funny


see the number of people viewing this trend! Like say na ball. Anyways, the chancellor never said "they built it from the scratch" I dont know where the Op got that information.

Learn to appreciate something coming from your own immediate environment. If the keke were to be from yankee now, you wouldn't have any issue with it I guess.

sparklie:
Lesson learnt.........borrow only what u can let go, no matter who it is. Only borrow what u won't be bothered whether the person decides to pay or not.

Yeah mehn. That's the real deal. @op I think its better you let go and learn your lesson. Its a hard one but just assume you were rubbed. I know how u feel because I'm in the same condition now. Since about two years now, 2 different people owed me 40k, one person owed person owed me 30k. Na by fire by fight I collect from the 30k debtor. The remaining two people! I just palm dey look. I don assume am say dem defrauded me but now, person wey go borrow from me go give testimoney if I borrow cos I already learnt a heard lesson.

Safari29:
Well bro from all indications I ll say this girl loves you so much. I bet you ll miss her after she might have moved on nd u don't a suitable chick yet. people do stupid things when they are in love.

Goodluck to her.

Ishilove:
Haaa, Yoomi! E sora gidi gan. Haba, how can you make such a silly mistake?

Oda, next time be very careful and wise.

Yeah you see that she's desperate to see me but am determined not to see her again.

intbizoil:
my guy i can c u have no feelings for this lady. is all good. i want to know this ugly issues is that she sleeps around? thanks

So I heard bro but it could have been in the past. the deal of the matter is that the allegation against her of having an affiar is with people that are known to me. I asked her of what she has with few pple around but she said she is close to the. These people are bosses at my office. By the time you are close to about 3 of my bosses, your level don pass my own na. No be so? In the course of the relationship, she has reported me to two of them that I accused her of dating the. I have to apologise to this people and explained my position which they reasoned with me. So I feel its better to just severe all ties with her.

omega2128:
well, Be a man and stop asking about who is feeding her info about you- if she is your ex, pls let everything about her be put behind you as well.
Sit her down and talk senses into her head about reasons you will never ever marry her. Let her know better men are waitin for her and you don't want to waste her time by lying to her.
I can't blame Eni, life is crazy. Desperation takes best decision out of sight. It happened to me, so i know what i'm talking about. I wish you two best of luck in life journey

No ooo bro. You got that place wrong. What happend was that after I broke up with her, she called, screaming at me on the phone that I should warn my girlfriend to stop disturbing her. She claimed someone was calling her and threatening her to leave her man alone but with private number. Days after she called again that the person's phone has displayed that she used the number to search for the person on facebook and it displayed the person's picture. She now said the person actually works in my office that the person said she was jealous when she knew that myself and the eni in question were dating each other because she wanted me for herself. Now for her to reveal who the person is, she wouldn't. That's the person I was actually asking her to reveal but I discovered that it was all lies. She only used the ploy to seek my attention. You get?

Etetejake:
in order to make him believe she is not a sex maniac

I never said she was a sex maniac. I was not just satisfied with the prevailing issues in the surrounding environment. I even advised her to accept love from another environment entirely. I knew there was this ex of hers still disturbing her and then another one in ibadan but she no wan gree commot for that environment. Don't misquote me to have issues with other guys disturbing my girl o. So far she still dey with me and keep other guys away, am ok. In short, e no good make woman no see disturbers o.

Ishilove:
Na you use your hand find trouble. You have negative reports about her, you broke up with her and yet you still went back to sleep with her. Am i missing something here??

There was re-occurrence of those ugly issues we've had and I told her I have had enough. She den told me that I owed her two things that I should give her and she'll go. I asked what those things were but she said she'd only tell when we see. So she came to my place. You know what those two things were?
I once promised her a phone. She said I should buy it and then since we never really had sex, I should give her sex because she doesn't know when she'd get it again. I asked if I could chose one of the options but she said it had to be the bleeping. So I did it. In fact, she pulled her cloth herself and even removed my cloth herself. And she left all to call say we should still be friends but not on dating terms this time around but friends with benefits. Na hin I flair up say I no dey do anything wit am again. See where I find myself?

ronald4lif:
Normally, its not must one force themselves on others if the person ain't interested but this girl is in love, people do worst things for love. You have a right not to want her and she do also have a right to fall in love with you lol

Yeah she has a right love me but not to frustrate me I guess. Girl wey don ask me when I go con see her parents to formalise marriage process. Person dey look for where to keep her head, you dey talk about love. I have been able to learn that in relationship, tolerance should be considered first b4 love because when you are able to tolerate her, then you'll not have much problems. Well, the deal is that I couldn't tolerate the ugly issues she has with people around. Because people keep shouting luv every now and then, that's why we have so many broken marriages because the issue of tolerance was not properly sorted. As a result, they are not able bear little little ugly cases. Therefore, they break up. Tolerance should be placed above luv cos love is only possible with God.

ronald4lif:
Normally, its not must one force themselves on others if the person ain't interested but this girl is in love, people do worst things for love. You have a right not to want her and she do also have a right to fall in love with you lol

Yeah she has a right love me but not to frustrate me I guess. Girl wey don ask me when I go con see her parents to formalise marriage process. Person dey look for where to keep her head, you dey talk about love. I have been able to learn that in relationship, tolerance should be considered first b4 love because when you are able to tolerate her, then you'll not have much problems. Well, the deal is that I couldn't tolerate the ugly issues she has with people around. So?

MarthaK:
Things happen... When a couple break up, neither one of them will wanna accept that they were at fault.
As long as you were cool while dating her, you shouldn't be bothered about what she tells people.
She'll paint you black to hide her faults but remain calm. You have nothing to prove to her or anyone she has lied to about you.
Rumors are carried by haters, spread by f00ls and accepted by idiots.

Martha, there has never been anything cool while I was dating her. In short, she called my atten to it the day the relationship was a month old but the was that the then 1 month relation had already gone through turbulence because I have had to hear nasty things but the first time I confronted her, she initially denied having anything with anybody around my force but later said she is just close to some people. The second time another case happened during that one month, she started begging me not to end the relationship. But thr deal is throughout the relationship that only lasted for like 3 months, ugly issues keep raising their heads. So, was there anything cool in that?

ronald4lif:
I don't get it really, shouldn't a girl profess her love to a guy? What if it were you in her position will you still consider yourself to be desperate etc. I see little or nothing wrong in her actions, its obvious she's in love and it takes loads of courage for a girl to do such. I understand you're in a relationship and don't want her which is plausible for an average guy who would have taken advantage of her thereby cheating on his babe but I don't think she deserves to be berated. Its no crime of hers she's in love with you or is it?

I don't think you read the conversation. Ok you luv someone hu doesn't feel the relationship aint working. Must you now force urself on him. Read my comments

Rapsainot:
to show us a woman's begging him... So childish

Begging me! Sorry you got it wrong. I showed you a man frustrating my life. If you read the conversation very well, you'll see places when she was more or else telling me ' we are still on'. You'll also read the place she said the relationship started by 'force' and you'll see the place she said 'wetin dey do you self? I luv you pass al these one wey u dey do'. Now ask yourself. Is that begging? NO. She aint begging me but out to frustrate me. And I sense her next plan is to trap me with pregnancy. You can see she asked me if missed if I miss and I told her ' I moved on' but she wanted me to tell her I missed her by force when I didn't. Now you can see she is not begging me but frustrating me through self-imposition on me. For your information, the whole lasted for less than 3 months so you should not think bleep her tire and I wan dump. So don't just assume. Read the conversation word for word.

jideomowunmi:
Lolzzzz....heartbreaker....

Lolzzz. Am not a guy who'll just refuse a lady for flimsy excuses but this girl only wants to frustrate my life. If I even marry her self, any small thing, e mean say she go go report for my ogas dem na. See me see trouble na!

MarthaK:
You shouldn't have shared your conversation to half the world. What's the point?

For a girl that wants to frustrate with love by force Of course no body here knows her na. I sent the conversation to some people she has been lying to, telling them I said I don't want her again yet I have been disturbing her, asking for her number. I have treated her with respect in the past but I discoverd that this is someone who is not even worth any form of respect. There is this animal that you can say almost killed because of an offense but turn around, you'll see it committing that offense again. Its a goat. That's how her behaviour has been. I guess u need to read through the thread again.

Missonas:
She's chiildish.op how come you allowed your romance get official?kept reading abt ur office.not good!

Well, that was the place I actually met her. She sells things like clothes, perfumes etc. I just got transfered to that branch and I discovered that most people in the branch knew her b4 I got there. I wanted to buy some things from her and she promised to bring them so we exchanged contact info.

jideomowunmi:
Wao....dis is huge....why not just block her from your whatsapp...cos u even replying her chats might be giving her a little bit of hope...like say u still angry cos of wa u've heard abt her and all...let her know u r done for real....

Ur very very right. My responding was an attempt to convince her that it won't work but she actually took it that I missed her. I already blocked her though.

babystathopoulos:
You biggest flaws was having seex with her after the break up, when you knew you can never marry her..even if it was a free offer..

I had about girls who do crazy things to trap a man, from the conversation that girl is up to something. And you stil much at risk since she knows your office( that's if she really mean to see she can)
My advice, if you storm into her any day, be polite her and don't I mean DON'T go to any lonely place with her(home or place less crowdy) and don't collect any gift from her. If she insist beg to let you be..God help you

Now I know better bro and I'm now wiser. I think ahead now.

Vikky014:
LEMME TELL U.a MAN shld b a bonus to any single lady out there.she made herslf so cheap.a fullfilld lady career wise dnt act foolishly like ur so called frnd.u will even b d one begging her.

You can say that again mehn. But am not just usually lucky with ladies.

Babygal4eva:
I can't read through all the comments so i apologise if this has been answered before... who posted this is it the current girlfriend or the guy himself cause the first page of comments threw me off.

That said this babe comes off as obsessive and really cray cray... maybe you should try talking to her again and make her get you have moved on(if it is the guy that posted, if it is the gf then tell him this maybe) or maybe you have some unfinished business with her... all in all she sounds a bit unbalanced.

It is this kind of people that will end up stalking you your whole life and threaten your family, be firm now or you will have a big problem on your hand in the future.

Na me post am. I have tried talking to her but for where? That's when she'll start asking me if she's not good enough for a wife. Besides, she always want to use cunning methods to get to me. Talking to her is helpless because she will ask if I don't miss her. Everything is in the conversation. Avoiding her is the only way out now o my brother.

Piloeternity:
Hmm...... So lengthy, pls bro u need to be very careful o cos she might want to use charm (ẹsẹ ilé tọ́ọ) in this matter. She's freaking desperate.

Thanks, na why I no dey even see am make e no be say she don enter one place wey dem don tell am to go do one tumbo tumbo wey I go fall for. I know her and I know the things I have heard from her mouth in the process of this marriage-at-all cost thing. What I have come to understand is that they don't like the truth. A relationship that had not even stayed for 2 weeks but has already gone through many issues. I had to tell myself the truth.

Piloeternity:
Hmm...... So lengthy, pls bro u need to be very careful o cos she might want to use charm (ẹsẹ ilé tọ́ọ) in this matter. She's freaking desperate.

Thanks, na why I no dey even see am make e no be say she don enter one place wey dem don tell am to go do one tumbo tumbo wey I go fall for. I know her and I know the things I have heard from her mouth in the process of this marriage-at-all cost thing. Thanks bro.

Vikky014:
d girl is desperate bc she hvnt achievd anythn good.a family frnd went for MBBS @ D AGE OF 28 Got married at d age of 35 afta her studies.she is blessd wt 3 brilliant wonderful kids.mind u dt ws her 2nd course afta her first degree in botany.AGE MY FOOT!

Well, no problem. You can wait till 40 if age doesn't matter 2 u.

CANTICLES:
Its Clear the girl av been giving her body to men bcoz of Pre-marital Sex pleasure ! .... Anyway the truth is that MOST MEN WILL TELL YOU THEY CAN NEVER MARRY A GIRL DEY AV HAD SEX WITH ( some do bcoz the girl is pregnant for them, and since they dont love her Dey Cheat On Her !! ) , for many reasons , and one reason is that there is no trust , the guy wonders " if she had sex with me, who else is she having sex with" and vice-versa for the girl too , I tink this thread should let ladies think deeply and stop giving their bodies cheaply ! ( hmm Isa 48:17,18 )

Pls this is not a case of using and dumping. You can see in the thread where she herself said the relationship started by force. Its a case of what I don't want but she trying to force herself on the next available guy around which is me. Its not even about whoever she has asked sex with or not. There is something like that in the conversation where I told her that even if she don be ashewo be4, its not really the matter but the real issue she is too familiar around my place of work in which her own father even told her to avoid that place and to let go of any amount of money they may be owing her. She actually sells mens' clothings and assessories. It was that my office environment she went to fight a particular in a salon over an hairstyle that had a problem just few days later. Bro, I wasn't gonna settle for such. That's not the kind of woman who I want: a very stubborn person.
Moreover all along, I have across people like you who try to tell me if I luv her, I should stick with her when no body really tries to put himself in my shoes. This is a lady who will suddenly come up with lies just because she wants to keep a man that was never her own. She even told me one day that she was frustrated, by me and other occurrencecs around but this time around, she would just run away because she doesn't want to hurt anybody this time. I told that to one of her siblings but she just smiled. All attempt to make them explain that statement have proved abortive. Pls try to be in my shoes b4 u judge me.

[quote author=balaclava post=26905757]1 thing i'm sure will happen if they meet is Sinzu! They'll Sinzu their self.
D length to which Yomi continued d chat shows he's still interested. This level of interest has no problem if he does nt see d lady, bt 1nce he sees the lady the interest will b spiked.
The zeal, playfulness, wittiness, carelessness n ruthlessness with which d lady is communicating with him signifies she'll mk him Sinzu her. It will end in Sinzu sinzu

Sorry 4 the new girlfriend. if u r d 1 dt posted this sorry o.[/quote

Interest! Person wey dey fear me now say I dey para for am. Person wey I don tell face to face say I no fit marry am? No am not interested in her but more or less scared of her that she fit don do juju to charm.