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Amodu is just angry that he got sacked. I would also have sacked him if I was in charge of the NFF. Whether Lagerback performs or not doesn't matter, what makes is if he changes the metality of the team and get us new players ( as if that is not performance on it own ).

I feel for the guy but I am happy he is being deported. He will only stand as an example to others who think running away from the country is the answer to their problems. It is true that we have a very serious problem in this country but no one runs away from a problem to solve it.

It is a very unpatrotic act to abandone you country and adopt another country because of money.

Hi nairalanders, I need help and not some stupid comedy that will only get me sad. Please say nothing if you have nothing to say. I am not trying to be rude but some nairalanders can be annoying.

Here is the issue :

I have been dating a girl for 4 years now ( November 20th this year would have been the 5th year ) but we have to call it quit mainly because my parents do not want her. Right from the first day my mom never liked her right but she stepped down at some stage.

We first saw each other November 20th 2005 but around August 2006 my mom claim she is not meant for me. She said her pastor said she is emere ( witch ). The pastor was given my number and he told me never to marry the girl that she is out to destory me.

Everything started happening when I, the girl and some of my friends were in my room one day. My friends were talking about how they messed up with girls of different colors and shape and my girlfriend had to leave the room and go to the parlour.

They noticed I was not talking and asked me to tell the my experience since my girl friend was no longer in the room but I told them I had no experience that I was a virgin. My younger sister was surprise and later called me outside to ask if it was true. I told her it was true that though girls can't seem to stop following me, I had nothing with them.

I told her the right girl hasn't come my way and that the current girl I am seeing does not want that for now ( I had the feeling she was the one then but she doesn't want anything before marriage ). To my surprise, it was in the same night that I caught my sister and my very good friend in the act.

I was mad, disappointed and betrayed and made the mistake of telling my girlfriend. She told me to keep it cool and never to disgrace her ( which is what I wanted to do ) but she never told me she was going to have a word with her. Having a word with her ( maybe ) made her get angry.

The same day, I decided to get some home videos to cool down. It was these films ( Yoruba films ) that I was watching in the parlour when my girlfriend came to join me even though she doesn't understand what they were saying in the tv as she is Igbo. She was seated on the same chair with me while my younger sister and 2 very young sisters of mine were also watching.

When the first dic finished, I asked my younger sister to change the disc but she said :

Can't your girlfriend ( I am not going to say her name cos some people may know me here ) stand up and change it? For christ sake, she was right in front of the tv and had the remote with her. I got angry and beat her up. She later twisted the story and told my parents I beat her because of the girl.

And that was were the problem started heavily and it was few days later or maybe a month later that the pastor issue came up but that did not stop us, we kept seeing but we made a bigger mistake :

We were seen each other and my mom knows about that. Along the line, my dad said he does not want to see her as well. Please note that my dad never objected to the relationship, he was the one that even made me hang on to the girl when the pastor issue came up.

Everything became tensed. My girl friend's friend tried to seduced on 3 occasions and because I did not allow her have her way, she started saying things about her friend and how she claim to be a virgil but she already had 365 kids for 730 men as a result of me making the mistake of telling my girlfriend what her friend was trying to do and she had to confront her about it.

I did my investigation and finally found out that the allegations were all false, she had no kid and she was a virgin ( more on her being a virgin ). We continued, along the line, my best friend died in a generator fire incident. The incident happened in my house but he died 7 days later.

I decided against my girlfriend's wish to stay with his family and offer whatever support I can offer to them as the boy was their bread winner ( we both yahoo boys but I am no longer a yahoo boy, I won't say more than that as some people here can easily figure who posted this if I had to tell my full yahoo yahoo story and how I stopped ) but they later changed and started saying I killed their son. I had to run away from the area to stay with a friend of mine. Meanwhile my girlfriend was supportive even when everything got bad even financially. I lost everything I had but she was with me.

One day, my parents came to check me with my friend cos I was sick and my girlfriend was around that day but we thought they did not see her. My friend alerted me and she had to run into the kitchen ( poor girl, she deserves more ) but they had already figured it and said all manner of things which she heard as she already started understanding yoruba.

That day we decided it was over and got emotional before we knew it, we had made love to each other and she was a virgin as the blood could not have been faked. My friend who knew what was going saw the blood on the bed sheet later and laughed about it as he was an experience womaniser.

Recently, she had some problems in school and did some nasty thing which I never approved ( she did not cheat on me ) and I decided we should call it off but I later understood why she had to do it as I believe any girl would have done same. We carried on but kept were having problems between us because there was this guy that always call her.

We both knew what the guy wanted but my girl friend said she had explained to him and he knows we have something going and that she will never date the guy but I messed up by yelling at her and being silly with her and that frustrated her. She said she wasn't sure of the relationship again and that we should go to a church ( must be catholic since she is one ) to pray to see if we are actually meant to be.

Her own elder sister had also said we are not meant to be together because her pastor had told her the same and that we should pray about everything before we make any long term decision.

She came down to Lagos, we went to a church to pray. We used 2 candles to stand as a point of contact. We said to GOD that if we are having the problems we are having because he does not want us to be, the candle on the right hand side should go off first while if we are meant for each other the candle on the right want should stay while that on the right should go off first.

The candle on the right hand side went off at a stage because nepa brought light and the candle at the right hand side went off and God told both of us that meant problems ( she said exactly what I wanted to say ) then I told God I had my doubts and he said there was going to be rain and there was rain ( I told the girl about what God said right before the rain ). We both doubted it and said the rain must stop if it is his will and the rain stopped immediately we got to the front of their gate.

We decided to involve our parents ( we were both frustrated especially after what her elder sister also said and needed to be sure if we are making the right decision ) her mom accepted to pray with us with the candles I had bought ( 8 of them, 2 for the girl, 2 for my mom, 2 for her mom and 2 for me ). I got home, gave the candles to my mom that I will tell her what to do by 12 am in the night.

When I told her, she said I should forget it, that whatever I do,the girl must have gone there to wait for me and that the decision can only favor her.  But I begged her to do it. To my surprise, what happened in the church happened in my house. The candle on the left and side both and the right hand was as if it was not burning at all.

But,

The girl's mom's candle both went off at the same time while the left hand side did not burn for the girl. Her mom prayed about everything and said no problem that we should only be strong. But days later,

I had a big fight with my dad and my mom because of the girl and they said all my of things and even cursing me ( I know it is not for me, I made the mistake of confronting them but I know the Lord knows it was a mistake and he has forgiven me ). I went to her parents, told them what happened and also told them that I was calling the relationship off as it was too much to bare for me.

They agreed with me, they said we should see what the Lord will do and the girl also agreed too. We said we should be off each other for the next 7 months. The girl also said she will never come back if my mom is not the one that called her to come back which I really doubt. I know my mom, I don't think she ca do such things. I know it is probably the end of everything, 7 months or no 7 months.

It is painful to take and that is why I am asking all nairalanders to help me.

How do I spend my time, I am not ready for any relationship but I don't want to live like a vegetable but at the same thing I don't know how to clear my head and concentrate again. Those who know what I can do, please advise me,

@ Poster, you are talking to me but I have learnt my lessons now. My 5 years relationship which is extremely close to marriage almost went with the wind this last week mainly because of insecurity.

I started behaving silly to the girl ever since she got admission in 2007. I have not evidence but still find myself doing it but it is over. It is not easy as girls can be silly sometime but since I don't like been watched I will have to give up such habits but that does not mean one should go to school and close his eyes even when there are evidences.

Hi Nairalanders, something funny is happening to me and I need you guys' and gals' help. A few years ago, my phone was sold with the sim card ( about 3 years ago ) and I decided not to retrieve the line.

Fast forward to this day, I keep getting phone calls from friends that someone is using my old number. I even called the number but was insulted. Now, I want to know if it is legal for mtn to allocate my number to another person with 3 years. I feel MTN must have done and not that the guy did it cos for the first 1 year, the number wasn't going through as I had it on pin.

The funny thing is that the girl who is using the number is calling me the thief and claiming she has the sim pack and that she bought it in 2004 ( same year as me ).

Is there a chance of me getting back the number since I have the sim pack and everything to proof ownership ( I can even mention 12 numbers that I used to call with the phone back then ).

Hi everyone, I have about $2k in my paypal account and would like to sell about $1k out of it. Is there any one here interested?

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Hi everyone, I have about $2k in my paypal account and would like to sell about $1k out of it. Is there any one here interested?

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Maybe I am heartless but sincerely I dont think I will cry. Tears may drop from my eyes but not like a kid. Mom cries and get scared anytime she hears that the man is sick even though the old man is tired of living.

@ poster, using a new ID shows you are TB Josuha's agent that we all know. How much did he pay you?

This may sound funny but it is actually not funny. It is my mom, her dad is 92 real age and ( 90 official age - you know what that means right? ) and whenever the man falls sick, she cries her eye out. Not that the man falls sick or the time ooo. He even still get farm were he dey go to keep himself busy.

Now the question is, will you cry if your dad or your mom at 92 dies? Or is my mom just another spoilt brat who can not cope with missing her dad.

Word and opposite : I Am One Of The Best Strikers In Nigeria, I Am One Of The worst and laziest Strikers In Nigeria.

Joke apart now, Yabuku is very good but very lazy. He can only be successful with Nigeria is the midfield is as good as that of Arsenal, Manchester United and the likes who give him tons of scoring chances.

I am currently using starcomms 1x and it is annoying. I have been using it for a while now but never had any problem. However, since December, I have been having a big problem with it and planning to change but I am a big clueles now.

Someone recommended ipnxnigeria but the thing is that u can not use it when there is no light which makes no sense to me.

Starcomms evdo has been recommended as well but I am scared they may not be in my area and I am sure their support reps will not be honest enough to tell me the truth if I go to their office.

I am in Iyana odo ( in between Ikotun and Lasu - just immediately after Isheri ). Can any one in anywhere close to me recommend an internet connection to me?

Does any one on Nairaland know if the match between Arsenal and Bolton will be live tomorrow? I am currently in Cotonou but I have access to both DSTV and HITV but not sure if any of this cable stations will air the match live.

A gift from an ex ( ex is a man here)? Woman you have got to think again. I am a guy and I know 90% of us are always after something when buying gifts.

Watch out for his next move. If care is not taking, you will find yourself falling for him again with his gifts. Na guy vs girl, no be so?

FOOL that is what HE IS. Why didn't he honour all the past invitations? We don't need strikers, we need defenders and solid midfielders so he can Bleep off.

POSTER any update?

For me ooo, it is the end of the road no matter what my family or her family says. IT IS THE END. Even if we are already married and have kids.

You too no do well for not calling her but if you didn't call them she should. I try to call my girlfriend everyday and if I don't call, she calls.

I can not bare it. My girl friend has done it before but she dares not do it again. She knows she can't even say such a thing when the guy ( or even girl ) in question is a member of her family.

If she is comparing you to another guy it means she is probably interested in that guy. You have got to let her choose between you and the guy. Simple.

Wenger in Nigeria? What happens to Arsenal's scouts? Sam must be having a laugh at those who believe this.

faakay:
looooooooooooooool     

@Poster

The ladies are cool  nice pics

But some of the men celebs disappointed me 

Wande CoaL is getting too fat!! somebody should please tell him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!      

[size=20pt]Nigerian Fashion Sense is still the best in AFRICA![/size]

Check other countries in Africa, you will vomit 

And that is cos you enjoy watching naked ladies. I know over 95% of the people here will critize me but most of the so called artist and addresses are a disgrace to the society. The people who are suppose to be role models to the young ones make it look as though they will not be attractive if they don't expose 99.99% of their body to the whole wonder.

It is no wonder that you can hardly see or hear of an artist celebrating his or her first decade of marriage.

I know not many Nigerians will know or be fimilar with this guy but he is currently with Arsenal and Barca are fighting the gunners for his signature. I have always thought the boy should be called up to the Nigeria youth side and now Barcelona football club's coaches think he is good enough for the team.

What do Nairalander think about this guy? Is there anyone who think ( just as I think ) he is going to be another big thing to happen to Nigeria ( if he chooses to play for Nigeria )?

I am not sure if this report is true but Adokiye Amesiamaka is someone I respect and I don't think he can lie. I think FIFA should step in and investigate a little further and if found to be true, they should give us a 2 years ban ( actually good for our football ) and the government should sack the current NFA board if they don't resign and the boy should be dealt with too.

It is shamefully but I believe it will help our football.

The girl who allowed a guy to have sex with her on their first date should not bother looking for a job or should resign from her present job and start prostituting.

The Question is IS SHE YOUR GOD? She has no control over you and what is happening to you financially and the fact that you are dating her when all these things happen means nothing.

When I met my first real Love Nneoma, I had nothing but afterwards I started making it in life but can I say she was the cause? YES and NO. Yes because he is got some financial brain NO because she was not working with me.

If you love your girl and you really want to marry her then ask God for direction, if you guys are not meant to be then you will part on your own without any crisis. Your financial problem may just be a coincidence.

I am not sure about Kano cos I am no where close to Kano but I sincerely believe PDP can win in Lagos come 2011. In fact they have a very good chance of winning considering what Fashola has been doing.

I know nairalanders will criticise me for saying this but it is the sincere truth. They will win if they adopt Fashola.

On a more serious note now, I wonder how on earth someone with some brains will think anyone can topple Fashola in Lagos. In fact I will be surprise if anyone is bold enough to confront him come 2011.

The only way PDP can win in Lagos is if Fashola/Ac decide not to contest. They can't even win if Fashola dies ( GOD Forbid ). Lagos is AC, AC is Lagos.

I think she has already realised her mistake and she should be forgiven. Love and hate is a decision, you can decide to love her again and adopt the little kid as yours but as someone said, it is better to discuss this with your family and her family. That is you know they are reasonable set of people anyway - not trying to insult your family but I personally will not bring this type of thing up with my family cos I know them very well.

How are we sure they letters are being sent by Nigerians? I wonder why the FBI is being stupid. Does it mean every online scam is coming from Nigeria?