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SonOfTheLion:
from cms, board a bus going to Eko hotel round about, alight at Eko hotel and cross to the other side. Ask for oyinjola yemi I learnt that's their new place because they were formerly at oko owo which is a street before the oyinjola yemi. When u get to oyinjola yemi, the first street by the right, cant remember the name of the street. ask for VLA. Ppl will direct you. All the best.

Wow thanks. 'Will let you know..

SonOfTheLion:
its a contract offer

Yeah, how do I go about it please?

ToroJah:


he abandoned us when I was a yr old

he abandoned us when I was a yr old

Big big hugs

Utchgirl:
If this is d mother,she wuld hv carried d child no mata d child's weight and d distance and use d umberalla 4 d two of dem .Whn she is tired, she can rest for some mins and ctnue wit dia journey.This is where mothers shows dia motherly care most. Seems u dnt knw dt d BOND between a mother and child is very strong.Stronger dan Covalent bonding..Lollzz.

He jus did dt because he is a man. Most men r nt used 2 child carrying,dt's why he gave d child d umberalla. I'm nt saying dt fathers dnt show care.

If it's an African woman,she wil tie d child @ her back and make use of d umberlla 4 d 2 of dem.

Of course dear, that is what a mother would do. I was referring to the men of Naija. (Most)

SonOfTheLion:
Vic Lawrence & Associate's BOSS. Good for u. but stop recruiting fresh graduates for banks and taking almost half of their monthly/annual salary. thats very unGodly. i wish u longlife in goodhealth and more larger wealth.

Please dear, enlighten me: you mean they can give me a bank job? I have always wanted to work in a bank. How do I go about contacting this Lawrence & Associate's Boss? Thanks for your reply.

cococandy:
You mean they'd cover themselves and leave the child to soak?
I don't believe that joor.

No dear, they cover themselves half and cover the kid half. They both get soaked. They seem to think it's a fair deal that they both share the umbrella

ToroJah:


I hate mine!!!

Hello Sweetie but why?

Utchgirl:
D dad shld hv carried d baby,and use d umbrella 4 d two of dem naah......

Using one stone 2 kill two birds.



Unless dt pix is 4 anoda tin.

Can you stop for a moment and consider the weight of that child? You want the dad to bear that weight for a distance you & I have no idea about but that the dad knows? Carrying a baby alone is tasking speakless of that child. The dad took the best option, I think

Kilokeys most Nigeria men may not do this please.

It happened to me too (not becasue of a 3rd party), I was just tired of the disconnection.
I almost threw my ring away just less than 6months to the wedding. Thank God for genuine advice!
Emmyrichie too bad for your EX.
Girls love good life. It's how they are wired. Even if they have their money, they need their man to show that he cares for them financially too. You were taking good care of her but, she was definitely materialistic. Now she missed out altogether. (I wish you didn't cut your sory short)
Squig I hope your Fiance doesn't find out about the new guy before you get the time to make up your mind because he will never believe you are not cheating all the way. (And what if he set you up with this new guy to test you? (very wrong though, because God did not say test but love your neighbour))

broxymall:
they should steal my story, coz others will still benefit from it, that why there is love in sharing,

last bullet no ©

Amen.

broxymall:
well story na story
it dont really matter
we are just here to read
no need to burst the bubble

Until someone else steals your exact story or idea and label it as theirs..
Don't forget to quote me then and tell me how bad it hurts

MegaMindSet:
But the poster is lying. This is not a true experience of yours. This happened way back in 2008 and it happened to my friend. He narrated the story to me and on twitter as well. You just changed the brand of the phones involved but copied every other parts of his story word for word. mehn! You guys should learn to be original.

You can find the original piece here. http://mobilityarena.com/the-b29-story-phone-swap-gone-bad/ .

Please learn to be original or at least, acknowledge that this isn't your story.

Hello everyone, Heazy2015 edited someone else's story. I just read he original in the link above
Heazy2015 state it in your main post that it is not your personal story.

ifyalways:
@ Emboldened, wrong !!!!

Rev Dele George will not and does not accept children just like that, don't spread wrong info please.

@OP,If you are for real,it's not your place to decide to give up a child cos you did not get yourself pregnant. Nobody will attend to you at social welfare office without the presence and consent of the childs dad.

Excuse you??
I heard her say so with my own two ears.
She said,"please don abort that child, bring the baby to us, we will take care care of hm for you"..and everything else I previously stated etc etc
Imagine quoting me to refute my claims like you are Dele Geroge herself mtcheeew.

1love4all you don't know them! You remember the parable of the sower that sowed good tares only to discover bad tares in the feld too? Because God hates divorce, the devil has sent out messengers whose only duty is to sow devious seed (divorce) in the mind of weak-willed men and women especially on this forum.
How else do you explain someone asking a man to divorce his young wife simply because she is unhappy whenever there is scarcity of money, without even finding out if the man is a careless spender or not
Everyone here is citing violence, but we all know we have read cases here where a man is asked to divorce his wife simply because she has a very high libido.
Go through Family section, non-violent cases marital issues are all getting the "get separated" advice!!!

Cutehector has already told you what to do, you don't want to hear abi?
Beg her on your knees one last time (again), and stop calling her. Wait till she calls you even if it takes a month.
This will give her real time and space to think; if she really can weather the storm of marriage with you.
If she calls you and agrees to go ahead with the marriage, go on your knees and apologise again, tell her you were scared of loosing her, of her running away that's why you didn't tell her at first.
This will help her regain her trust for you; tell her the reason you didn't tell her the whole truth at first

Bafe01 so sorry about your pain.
You can take the Child to Little Saints Orphanage.
You can give the child away for Fostering.
That way, you are still the parent, someone else just helps you take care of him & you can have your Child back at an agreed period. Or the Orphanage can help you take care of him with little input from you from time to time.

Why the betrayal from both frriend and man?

5minsmadness:
A friend of mine is having a guilty conscience. His ex came to visit him over the weekend from another state when his wife was not at home. Even though he took precautions to prevent any untoward advances by lodging her in a hotel away from his home, he is still wondering wether he should let his wife know that she came.

Ladies would you want him to tell you or is it unnecessary information?

You don't understand women at all, but your friend, the culprit does.
Please, allow him tell her.
Her intuition will sense something..even though she doesn't know what it is, without his telling her.
His telling her will make her trust him more.
Please, stop discouraging your friend from doing the right thing. Please I beg you

[quote author=Bonita101n2 post=37705019][/quote]Modify your very first post and state it there that you are working & rich too. New readers will keep being rude to you Sweetie..

thorpido:
Actually,it's something deeper than that.It's even rather appealing to the 'man' inside the man than the 'child' in him.Children are ruled by affection,attention e.t.c

It's a sense of commitment,discipline and love.When a man has that in his heart,his actions are ruled by that rather thanjust the way the woman dresses.It's good to dress well and make yourself appealing.You must as a woman learn to spice up yourself no doubt.Sex too can be made more exciting by not following routines.

Okay, I get you completely, thanks

dapsin999:
Mr. . . U neva see anything. Wetin make me come talk, my gf of 4yrs farts like anything! Infact we compete sef & I'm leading now! Fun though. I trust she'll equalize as soon as she's pregnant.

4years?
Please, marry her already!
#teamshortcoutship

HungerBAD:
When you get to 18 you will know.

Lol please reply, I'm interested in knowng too.

NifemiOlu:
A wise man once told me that when I find myself around single women, especially when I find them attractive or interesting, I should mention my wife and family early in the conversation. I have found this advice to be very useful on many occasions. 

Fellow husbands, I have found the above advice and the other tips at the bottom to be essential in keeping my marriage healthy and strong. I want my marriage to be strong and healthy, and so should you! In fact, it’s one of the biggest responsibilities in your marriage.

 So let’s dig deeper into this subject. Where are some common places that you might run into this scenario? For many of you, it could easily happen at work. You could be starting a new job and find yourself around a lot of nice, new women. When this happens, you have to make the choice to embrace their attention or extinguish it in a friendly way by mentioning your beautiful wife and family.

 For some of you, you have been working around the same women for some time. You might have chosen many times to engage in flirty conversation or to go out with co-workers after work. If this is you and your wife is at home waiting for you, then it’s time to step back and assess your position as the husband and leader. Take the necessary steps to make your relationship with your wife the most important one again and don’t forget it. Lead, gentlemen, lead!

 Even though those were only a couple of quick examples, I know there are a few of you out there who need to step up your role as a husband. Those examples don’t apply to you? Then consider who you know and talk to at your gym, the grocery store, the local hangout or wherever. These “simple” places could produce difficult relationships that will harm your relationship and love with your wife. Man up and do what needs to be done for your marriage!

 Now that I have your attention, here are five things every married man should do around single women:

 1. Keep your ring on. There are very few exceptions for when that ring needs to be off, like when operating heavy machinery, swimming in shark-infested waters and the like. If you are about to enter a situation that makes you look at your ring and consider if you need it on or not, leave! Run! Get away from there! Seriously, get out of that situation; your vows, marriage, children and more depend on those important decisions. (Read Luke 16:10.)

 2. Hang up pictures of your wife at work. A married man in this position would be wise to pick out a couple of great and fun photos of him and his wife and keep them displayed at his office or place of work. Pick a time that was fun for two reasons: It will remind you why you love her so much, and it will make for a great conversation tool when others, especially women, ask about it. Update the image as needed to keep the people around you knowing your relationship is continuing to grow. Get that picture up this week and extinguish those flames. (Read Psalm 119:37.)


3. Keep eye contact simple and short. Don’t read this the wrong way; I’m not saying to be rude. I’m saying to be careful where your eyes travel and how long they travel when you are in the presence of an attractive single woman. You know that once you engage in the first serious look, you have signed the dotted line for more eye trouble. (Read more about that “first look” here.) Keep it short, keep it decisive, and move on. Get back to that image posted at your desk. Go! (Read Matthew 5:28.)

 4. Keep conversation general and professional. If you work around single women, there is no question that conversation will come up. It’s up to you on how you decide to speak with her. You can choose to keep it short and general, you can choose to keep it professional, or you can choose to keep it off of those and allow it go places it shouldn't. Be polite but very intentional in your conversations. If needed, again, always be ready to bring up something about your wife or family. Pull the pin, aim, and extinguish. Safety first. (Read Romans 6:13.)

 5. Talk about your wife and family often. Did I mention anything about talking about your wife in conversation yet? I believe I did, but this last point brings the idea to a firm home. The single women you engage with each day, if you have to, should be no match to your wife and family. Your family should be your first priority wherever you are and with whomever you encounter each day. Yes, each and every day. Keep it short, keep it simple, and mention your beautiful wife. Now pat yourself on the back and keep it up. (Read Ephesians 5:25-33.)

Important note: No matter what you have done with your current relationships with single women, these steps can and should be started at anytime. Your wife’s feelings are and will always be more important than the woman you need to take these steps with. Get on it!

 I challenge you to take these bold steps for you, your marriage and your family. Again, it’s your responsibility to lead!

Source: http://stephanieoarhe..com.ng/2015/09/5-things-every-married-man-should-do.html?spref=fb:

Mention any Mod's name so that this can hit front page. Our men need more role models and helpful guideline.

Come on guys, this article is an advice to men. Stop dragging the ladies into this. Simply create another thread with advice for ladies

whizqueen:
Bread of life

*gives their mouths a flying kick each!*

AgapeCharis:
[color=#27408B]Sent down from heaven. [/color]

Nice. Thanks. For sharing.
Men are also the spiritual head of the home.
Women are anchors.
Christ is everything

thorpido:
Some people don't understand that it's not about the dressing sexily in the house.

It's good though.

Hello Thorpido, please can you explain it? I feel you can make me understand. What is it about?I read an analogy that referred to a constant search for affection or something. Something that has to do with the child part of a man?

Please what's your version?
Thanks

abdrazak:
@Op,
Your husband is still there for you. Are you seducive enough? How did you dress in your matrimonial home? How often did you satisfy him when the needs arises? How did you welcome him when he returns from work?
If you can't answer all those questions correctly the way its suppose to be answer, you need to adjust.
Those ladies he is seeing outside are not better and/or pretty than you.

Your name sounds Muslim but those things you wrote up there were the exact words our Pastor taught the congregation last sunday.
Nothing missing nothing added

onunwa21:
Really happened on my birthday, she gave it to me as a birthday present (gift). Luckily for me a lady whom i invited 4 d birthday party took over. Today we re living as husband nd wife.

With the lady that took over or with your Ex?

greggng:
She called me on phone and gave the phone to her new boyfriend to insult me and that one foolishly obeyed her.

Lol..what is it called when guys play the fool until they get what they want?

ATMC:
What's this one saying?

Lol..he is saying something naw

SweetSoup:
She gained entrance into my apartment on a week day with the key i forgot to collect back from her, broke my 32inch TV, damage my home theatre, tore my chairs with Razor blade or something. The rest is too painful to disclose, she called to tell me she just left my home to drop the key and decided to do some minor cleaning in my apartment. Remembering that evil act brings back the pain i felt when i got home that day.

Hmm..unbelieveable!!

mildflame:
She still had d spare key with her n when I returned home NUCLEAR BOMB na joke, my CV thank ALMIGHTY JAH was at d family house

Man, that was cray