IamKizzbrown10:
It is a known fact that men are the bread winners of the
family. So naturally it’s expected that Men should be
more richer than the women.
However as technology and civilization sets in, the status
quo is beginning to change. More and more women are
becoming richer than the men folks.
Though when looked into from the family perspective, this
of course means more money for the family. But will a
husband with a super rich wife still be respected and seen
as the head of the family?
It can be intimidating. Imagine driving an old fashioned
Toyota Tundra and your rich wife is cruising on her
Mercedes Benz.
So as women now smile to the bank everyday, getting
richer than some men, it leaves the question:
Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Much Richer Than You?
(Yes or No)

IF DURING DATING, the man can not LEVEL UP either through a loan or grant from her, THEN THEY SHOULD NOT MARRY, HE IS NOT MENTALLY FIT ENOUGH TO MARRY HER AND WILL NEVER BE SECURE.


A MAN WHO IS NOT RICHER BECAUSE HE DOESN'T HAVE FUNDS TO PUSH IS IDEAS/VISION is VERY VERY different from a man who is DEAD TO CREATIVITY AND WHOSE FACULTY OF REASONING IS SHALLOW AND WEAK TO PERFORM BETTER.


example, she is having 50-100m.... AND I HAVE JUST 20M......... or even 10m

It is simple, I have too many practical ideas for credible businesses in NIGERIA that would give me a monthly turn over of at lowest 30% ROI if i invest 50M into it.... So, in 2 years of dating before MARRIAGE, I would have reached up to her level and even surpass her and paid her back her money with interest. THAT IS WHAT I MEAN.

olaodun:
We make and sell both imported foldabe and permanent locally fabricted canopies tent and market stalls for adverts outdoor sales and exhibition we are at Lagos and can send to anywhere in Nigeria
pls call 08167608048 for anytype and for pricing

DO YOU HAVE A WEBSITE... SO WE CAN SEE A GALLERY FOR PRICES.

I mean your price for 500 seater tent. HOW MUCH?

Chingyyy878:
Why has dating become such a game?

You can’t show feelings, can’t act too excited, can’t respond to texts early, always let them chase you, act like you don’t care even if you do, can’t double text.

A lot has really change nowadays unlike in the past when we can genuinely express ourselves without being seen as desperate.

It’s so weird!

Because we allowed MEDIA and TECH to raise the children, thinking it was helping us... NOT KNOWING IT WAS WIRING THEM TO SEE EVERYTHING AS AN ALGORITHM.

GREED is what this is.

yeman1:
I was trying to plug my xiaomi android tv box to Sun king solar tv because there’s a space you can connect decoder . After when I connected it , it doesn’t come up again.! I tried to plug it on electricity but it didn’t on still. Pls any help ?

I’m in Lagos
My number 08101447315

change the HDMI cord, it should turn on.

Looking4massage:
Why una wey dey claim rubbish no use jazz find out who kill mohbad.
This is when you should practicalize this nonsense you are trying to make people believe. Show us mirror of who kill am. Make the killer confess as you guys claim.
To the useless pastors, why not come out and tell us what your useless god told u
Rubbish

I was waiting for someone to say this.

jackaustin631:
Hello all. I'm on a quest to find some easy yet emotionally moving piano songs to play. I've been learning the piano and want to explore the beauty of sad melodies that can evoke strong emotions. If anyone has recommendations for easy-to-learn sad piano songs or knows of any resources to find such pieces, please share your suggestions. I'd love to hear about your favorite songs or compositions that are both accessible for beginners and have a melancholic touch.

use CHAT GPT to get them and then go to YOUTUBE AND DOWNLOAD THEM.


Nairaland is not google and it is also not A.I enabled.

waleco2008:
5kva
48v
Price
220k

08022219777

this is VERY USED... and you didnt state how many solar panels it requires or what load it can carry like PUMPING MACHINE AND ALL THAT.

plsdisvirginme:
No job, no skill and no kids.

WHEN YOU ARE READY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE POSITIVELY....

HELPERS WILL ARISE.


It is not hard. THE PROBLEM IS.......... you are an OVERTHINKER.... this is why YOUR LIFE SEEMS SLOW and when you decide to move, ONCE YOU FACE CHALLENGE, you run away.

You had time to learn skills BUT you felt you can do it later.
FOR JOB, you have experiences UNIQUE Dissapointments like PROMISE AND FAIL......... ALMOST EMPLOYED BUT CANCELED LAST MINUTE.

YOU have had someone who promised to LIFT YOU UP but some how.... MISUNDERSTANDING SEPERATED YOU AND THAT HELPER.
You try to start something and soon you just get tired or frustrated and quit. YOU DON'T EVEN LOVE YOURSELF.... this is why you are angry.... you have blamed others enough, it is now you are admitting you have major problems.

The problem is ACTUALLY not from you alone OH.... it is from your roots.
even when MONEY comes to you, you can't explain how it vanishes.

MAY GOD GIVE YOU UNDERSTANDING. IT IS A SMALL THING FOR GOD

akinboye2000:
*Hot Direct sales*

Uncompleted Three bedroom flat with

Pop in the sitting room and dining
Normal ceiling in the rooms
Kitchen and store
All rooms ensuite
Visitors toilet
Well water included
Plumbing work done
It has reach 90% done

On a standard plot of land at agbomati olodo garage axis Iwo road Ibadan.

*It has ordinary survey plan, land agreement*

*Asking price 7m.*

PIX

Anjinsan:
Most men are lost.

They are suffocating in their relationships, especially the married ones.

Most men are under pressure to conform to what a 'nice' man should be. These pressures are even from fellow men in their family, inlaws, neighbours or religious circle. This pressure is put on most men without taking into cognizance the man's unique personality, background, marital situation, or personality of the spouse.

Some in a bid to unburden themselves have resorted to immorality, alcoholism, pornography, drugs, workaholics, etc.

All these have resulted to aimlessness. Forget his big corporate or business badge. Take that off, and the zombiness of such men will become glaring.

Others have found solace in the Alpha pill circulating on different social media platforms.

From my analysis, some of the items in this Alpha pill are good. Others are extreme. It's extreme when it condones promiscuity, selfishness, violence, exploitation, and greed.

No matter what society has become, the moral precepts I learned from my parents, religion, etc. is still a valuable compass to enable me navigate life's ocean.

The other extreme alternative to the Alpha pill is what is often regarded as the simp pill.

A man who is a walkover, a foot-mat for a woman, a woman's puppet. In recent times, a classic example for me on this was what Will Smith (an actor I admire so much from childhood) allowed himself to be in the hands of Jada.

The tipping point is what transpired on what I term the Oscar night of one slap. I will share my analysis on that event later in the next post.

What's the healthy balance, I ask myself?

A society with little or no Alpha+ males is a messed up society. Of course vice-versa for females.

My focus in on my gender - males.

The term I arrived at is the Alpha+ Male.

Alpha encompasses all the good nuggets of the Alpha movement. The + is the morality of the Alpha Male.

Morality as it pertains to marital fidelity and others which will be talked about as this thread continues.

The ideal nature of this thread is a place where men who are moral Alphas or aspiring moral Alphas can glean from the experience and wisdom of their fellow males.

What they can glean based on the stories and essays that I will do my best to share weekly.

I used the word aspiring, because most, I for one, I am not where I want to be on the Alpha + male scale.

I hope the essence of this thread won't be derailed.

I hope we can just make our contributions and leave it at that.

I hope if you don't agree with the concept of this thread, you see the wisdom of investing your time and energy in what you agree with.

With Love.

FIRST OF ALL, I MUST COMMEND YOU FOR THIS POST.... but it won't do the NEEDED justice

it won't even HELP 1%.


There are 7 types of MALES

ALPHA
GAMMA
BETA
OMEGA
SIGMA
DELTA



Yet in NIGERIA and even in AFRICA or around the world. THERE IS NO SAFE SPACE FOR THEM



Men die before women because HURTS AND EMOTIONS ARE BOTTLED UP UNDER THE SATANIC LIE THAT MEN ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO CRY

See, until there is a SAFE SPACE for men to be themselves.... THE WORLD WILL KEEP GETTING TOXIC AS MASCULINITY KEEPS BEING SEEN AS A BAD THING.

tobby20:
bros are you a pastor
I just got sea salt today so I want to try it with faith
But can I read the psalm and bathe with the water later

See, I am a Christian BUT I understand elements because my parents did a good job teaching me using scriptures and even herbs. Just do it and notice changes this month and your dreams.

ninpo:
Hey gamers of Nairaland, what was the last game you played?

pubg

PLEASE PEOPLE BE WISE AND GO THROUGH THE PREVIOUS POSTS OF THIS PERSON BEFORE COMMENTING

If your previous posts are anything to go by......... YOU TOO ARE NOT FAITHFUL.... so why hating on him. YOU HAVE BEEN CHATTING WITH MARRIED MAN YOU WERE ONCE WITH.

See, there is something wrong with you. YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND MARRIAGE...... you didnt seek wisdom at the beginning.

if your STORY IS TRUE..... then find a counselor offline and meet any wise person whom your husband respects and confess to your husband your FLIRTING chats and your misdeeds.


YOU BOTH NEED HEALING

PaigeTaylor:
Hello house. I'm too angry to type. Been married for 10 years with a kid. 10 long hard years. He always assures me and portrays himself as a faithful man. I have never suspected him of committing adultery, not because he he's not capable, but because I wanted to give him benefit of doubt. I wanted trust to be in my marriage because I'm extremely faithful to him. He disvirgined me on my wedding night. But he does A LOT of flirting on social media. This has caused a lot of problems between us, almost leading to marriage break up many times, until people advised me to stay off his phone, which I did. I lost my job since February and have been unable to get another one.
Now I'm learning some soft skills online, using my phone but it got to a point where I couldn't proceed because it's an old phone. I told him yesterday morning that I would love to use his phone, he said ok when he returned from work. Only for me to go to his browser to enter a website address, I started seeing past searches from him.
LOVE SMS YOU CAN SEND TO UR CRUSH
LOVE MESSAGES YOU CAN SEND TO UR EX GIRLFRIEND.
The one that shook me to the bone is, HOW TO SEDUCE MY SISTER INLAW.
She came to visit two weeks back. She is very beautiful and plump and he has always told me he had a crush on her. So I know.
And those internet searches are RECENT.
I feel so disgusted by his presence now, so much that I don't allow his body to touch mine on bed. I feel for my daughter, she's just 6 years and I don't have any money to take care of her. He doesn't take care of me either, but I have put up with him, I have struggled and suffered with him all these years. Only to see this on his phone. I'm beyond depressed.
He's talking of us celebrating our 10 years anniversary by December and thinking of inviting few family and friends. BUT I'M NOT INTERESTED. The love is dead. I've been played all along.
HOW WILL I HANDLE THIS?

how much.... state it here before contacting you

DaveHarry:
A study into the use of tobacco product Snus in football will be made by the Professional Footballers' Association and Loughborough University.

Snus sachets are put under the lip and release nicotine into the bloodstream.

In March the PFA said a growing number of players are using Snus, with some receiving help for addiction.

Snus, which has been linked with heart conditions and oral disease, is illegal to sell in the United Kingdom but it is not against the law to use it.

The study will seek to identify how many professional players are using the product as well as raise awareness of its negative health impacts.

The first findings from the study are set to be presented later this year.

Welcome to the REAL WORLD.

raphretle:
When a single father marry a Single mother, Can their children marry when they grow up?

The children they already have who aren't blood related, yes.

Any future children they have can neither marry each other or any of the children they already have, who would be blood related.

JRfromtheEast:

I know right! . There is Just no way it is 5k. Unfortunately, we cannot afford a lawyer . Is there no way to do it without one?

you can go to another investment banker and make due enquiries about the true worth and also open account in fidelity and use the help of your account officer

JRfromtheEast:
My Father bought some shares with Fidelity bank in 2008. 10000 units for #60000 naira(He died shortly after). Recently we saw the documents and decided to get the dividends. We met the Registrar and they gave us the requirements and we provided them. Now they are telling us that everything is worth #5000 naira after all these years even if the value of those shares have since increased and fidelity bank is still thriving. What should we do?

that's a FAT LIE.

Get a business LAWYER....

Then go to FIDELITY BANK headquaters and ask to talk to their Funds Manager. (open an account there, get to know your accounts manager and from there they will tell you who to meet)


YOU SHOULD BE VERY WEALTHY RIGHT NOW

visaclick:
NOW THAT FUEL IS DAMN UNAFORDABLE YOU WANT TO SELL A NON ELECTRIC CAR FOR 7m, oya put it up and see if you see it the next 1year. It is like u don’t know what car owners are passing through right now. I saw a highlander for 2m recently.

boss, you are right, BUT SHEY YOU SAW WHAT HE REPLIED TO THE GUY WHO ADVISED HIM FOR 2M?

He wants to recover his cash quick

Nsogbu001:
I have GLK 350, 2012 model
I just used it for one yr and I want to sell it. It is neat. White color. The engine is very sound.
If you're a car dealer, can you suggest to me how much to sell it?

I can post pictures if need be.
Thank you so much

5-7m

Freelancer007:


Thank you for the criticism... I truly appreciate... We already have a concept which we believe is better than what ChatGPT is at the moment. As you may already know, ChatGPT is text-based but our product is going to exceed text-based provision.

We will be incorporating Image generation, Voice Over, transcriptions and a whole lot of stuffs...

We are just looking for additional suggestions that you may have.

I gave you reality, you are saying it is CRITICISM.


Sir, I am more based outside African than in Naija..... SEE........ there is CHAT GPT 4.0....... it does TEXT AND IMAGES AND EVEN VIDEOS..... so you are not accurate or current.

Chat GPT is evolved.


Don't come here saying you have IMPROVED ON GPT 3.0 when there is 3.5 and 4.0 which you obviously have not paid to try.
IT IS MORE COMPLEX NOW O

Freelancer007:
Hello,

We are launching a new AI Software to help Nigerians quick access to information and allows users to get instant accurate answers to their questions. It seeks to work based on AI.

It is going to be much more than Chatgpt and will contain more features such as Voice Over, Transcription, Image generation from texts, research etc.

Suggestions are welcome.

You said in your topic- CHECK OUT THIS NEW SOFTWARE....

then we clicked to see it, ONLY TO BE HEARING STORY and you concluding with SUGGESTIONS ARE WELCOME.


It is clear that you have no clarity yet.

and as for your false claim of being better than CHATGPT, pls stop lying...NOTHING ANYONE CAN CREATE HERE FOR NOW CAN BE HIGHER THAN GPT.....


IT CAN ONLY BE A DERIVATIVE OF CHATGPT.... at best. NOT BETTER.


YOU WANT TO COMBINE GPT, MIDJOURNEY, CLAUDE, CHATSONIC into one??

In nigeria............ NA LIE.


Stop hyping yourself, PRODUCE WHAT YOU WANT TO PRODUCE.... but don't do it by saying it will be BETTER THAN SO and SO.




LET US DECIDE THAT.


We won't give you any suggestions.... IT IS YOUR PROJECT.

Matix222:
I haven’t had sex with my girlfriend since February in our one year relationship I’m very frustrated about that.

We agreed on seeing on Saturday that she is going to spend the weekend with me and now she has been chest pains since like a week now please should I proceed with our appointment or let her be

MARRY HER IF YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH HER EVEN WHEN SHE IS SICK.....

YOUR ERECTION IS YOUR FRUSTRATION.......... you think RELATIONSHIP must be all about SEX.... you are not even ready for COMMITMENT.

Take care of that girl and quietly break up with her...... LET HER GO... so she can grow.

YOU HAVE ALOT OF GROWING TO DO..........




A real man, dates for marriage NOT TO FEED HIS SENSUAL URGES FOR PLEASURE...


Don't give me the crap of... ITS JUST SEX.... or IS SHE NOT MY GF.... bro, NOTHING IS JUST ANYTHING.

Every thing has a deeper meaning in this life. LIFE IS SPIRITUAL.


Your FRUSTRATION has nothing to do with her BUT everything to do with your FALSE EXPECTATION ABOUT WHAT RELATIONSHIP SHOULD BE.


Before you realize, she will say she is pregnant and whatever small money you have will be BURIED in baby milk, diapers and other NEEDS.



ZIP up your TROUSERS, ZIP UP YOUR BRAIN.......... make sure she is alright before you go and appear in NEWS BLOG tomorrow for bangingg a lady till she died or worse.

You don't even know if she SPIRITUALLY CLEAN or if her health is a symptom of something infectious. HAVE SOME SENSE.

DON'T LET YOUR SUN SET WHILE IT IS STILL AT NOONDAY

You don't need ladies, you need money, growth, wisdom with understanding and a very stable high status.... THEN MARRY A LADY WHO IS AT THAT LEVEL TOO.


Anyway the choice is yours.

emperordachris:
Mi 11 lite or pixel 5a 5g

Help me choose.

Both are almost same price.
I don't really fancy pictures.
My priority is performance and battery life. Hence why I leaving Samsung older flagship.

since your priority is not PRIVACY......... go for PIXEL

brabie:
I feel really bad, tell me how I should go about it, am already starting to work on myself but I don't know how long it will take before I start yielding the fruits of my labour and will she still be around because I really want her to be the person that enjoys it

What do I do now you seem to really get this well

you can build with her right?

must you throw away the baby and the bathe water?

tobby20:
what about when you keep dreaming about seeing yourself in your previous school or village

sir,
THIS IS SIMPLE

it means backwardness and stagnancy ....... in rare cases it is for disappointment.
clean up your room.... if it is tiles, mop it with salted water.... then


before sleeping....bathe with salted water... use SEA SALT... then when naked, before you start bathing... READ OUT THE FOLLOWING PSALMS INTO THE SALTWATER....

PSALMS 51,35,44,115

And bathe with soap... do it for 7 days

pls dont sleep with anything BLACK on your bed or on your body.


you will see a difference in your dreams and in your physical life.

You knew you were not financially capable before you wasted her time.... YOU SLEPT WITH HER O,

now you are done using her and your eyes is clear.... YOU WANT TO QUIETLY LET HER GO.... so she will now become one of your FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS...


HUMAN NATURE is wicked.


THERE IS NO WAY YOU CAN DEFEND THIS.......... NO EVIDENCE.... you can not say, YOU JUST SUDDENLY REALIZED THAT YOU WERE NOT FINANCIALLY STRONG.


You can't eat your cake and have it

if you hurt her, things may go worse for you..... SHE WILL START DATING GUYS FOR MONEY AND CURSE YOU FROM HER HEART....


YOU CAN DECEIVE OTHERS but the truth is glaring.... YOU CHOP AM... you clean mouth.... NOW YOU ARE SAYING SOMETHING ELSE.