₦airaland Forum

showboy2301:
For you to be wealthy, you must be ready to take a lot of risk.
You must believe in all your plans.
Rich people don't think about it, they do it.
No one can get rich through salary.
There's no clean wealth.
If you want to be rich, get ready to be envied. I mean that the more your money, the more people that will envy you. It's normal if you want peace.
Get ready to allow your heart to guide you, not by sympathy.
Be a cheerful giver.
Love GOD above all.


These are few I can remember from my experience though.

No one can get rich through salary?
You must be a joker.
I know people working in Multinational Oil and Gas companies like She'll, Chevron and they are very rich. They have their private companies sef and go on vacations anywhere in the world.

February30:
You won't understand bro... It is possible to earn 5 million monthly and still feel broken broke.

Ahhh. Really!
With 1m/month, I'm set for life provided that the economy condition remains like this, I know how to manage well.

pedrilo:
if u be guy, no dey do dis tin again, enter street, meet fellow guys, dem go show u way and u go fit help urself. life hard for man, dis kind begging for 2k no go help u at all. Congrats to u as u challenge urself and take the bold step. Gow will help and raise u

But if e be woman, she no need hustle, you go give her because she get pussy. SIMP!

Davidlaw419:
I swear...I find myself struggling on 285k salary

I guess you are married.
I'm still single, if I can be earning your salary, I will be fine.

geoworldedu:
When they ask their seemingly rich 'family man' uncle for money and he could not provide it.

Another one is when people on 30k salary think that earning 100k salary will make an end to their woes.

And people earning 100k salary think that they have blown if they can start earning 300k salary.

Then those earning 300k salary think that they have reached their destination if they can start earning 600k salary.

As regards to your first paragraph, why is it so?

Some people are very rich and when one ask them money, they won't want to help. It is not about being entitled. If I'm very rich and a relative ask for my help, knowing that the person is serious with his/her life, I'm going to give.

Imagine someone earning over 4m/month ignoring you because you asked for 20k.

Kobojunkie:
Are you sure you are OK?😶😶😶😶

So, it does not matter to you that behind the scenes, such women are taken advantage of — some having to sleep with their bosses to remain employed, something she needs—since you have made up your mind to consider it an advantage?

I don't care abd don't want to know what happened behind the scene. My point is that HR and CEOs are always soft on women and they employ them ahead of qualified men because of their appearance.

Kobojunkie:
That has never been true in Nigeria and is still not true even today.

➜ What you saying is that the sexual exploitation of women is an advantage for women over men? I hope you would think this way too if the one sexploited is either your mother, your wife, or your daughter?

It is true. It is something I have experienced many times. A lady will be selected ahead of a guy just because she is beautiful, meanwhile she isn't capable of the position.

nairalanda1:
Let us look at this thing from another angle.

Women marry men who can guarantee that her children from him won't go hungry and end up in hospital with severe marasmus and kwashiorkor.

Yes, go to any Nigerian hospital...there are children who suffer from severe malnutrition in the wards. And you see their mothers and they do not look happy at all...until the child is about to be discharged having gained some weight.

This society looks down on women...so any woman getting a job won't be paid as well as a man. Man has better chance of job compared to woman.

So, at the end, women compete for the man who can guarantee that any future kids they have won't starve.

That's why she would dump her boyfriend if he becomes broke.



Note that I still think the girl is a materailistic person. The boy would be glad to be rid of her. But my point still stands.

Women actually have better chance of job compared to men. The lady just have to be beautiful and bursty, most companies will employ her, while the over qualified men will miss out on the job because he doesn't have ass and breast

PJtech:
You guys dated same girl. You're one of the 3 guys 🤣🤣 Juzz kidding


Well you go still unblock her or you'll welcome her back anytime she comes begging

You sound like you're still so much in love with her

I still love her to be honest. Just that she has been showing some red flags and I can't tolerate them. But I love her die

PJtech:
You guys dated same girl. You're one of the 3 guys 🤣🤣 Juzz kidding


Well you go still unblock her or you'll welcome her back anytime she comes begging

You sound like you're still so much in love with her

lmao 😂
I don't think so. Actually she blocked me first and later unblock me, we chatted after then and she said she can't change her mind that she has moved on. I told her to block me back after the chat, she said there is no need that we can still be friends.

Me? Friend with a woman that I love? She doesn't want us to chat romantic, and doesn't want me to say anything related to love. I just ghosted her since then. And today, she told someone about me and painted me bad. I reached out to her, she denied. And I blocked her immediately.

Cutezt:
I am her ex, not her enemy. I felt happy for her, but sorry for the guy. I had my own flaws, but this lady is violent, like when she gets angry, you won't believe this is the same sweet girl you know. She once said to me 'If not for God, I for don kill you this night', All through, I could not sleep well.

She was very pretty no doubt, and I had the intention of marrying her before I had to run for my life, I even took her home to see my people, after some time, she told me that when we marry, we will move far away, somewhere far from my poepl and her people so they wont come visiting, me that is very big on family? First red flag. So when I eventually told her I no dey do again, she tried all she could to get us back, even traveling to the middle belt to meet my family to beg me, but I o gree o, about 3 years later, she sent her invitation card to my sister who sent it to me. After my little investigation, I found out

1, She got married without her father's permission, this is someone who has been taking care of her since she was a baby, sent her to the best schools, until she moved over to the mainland for uni. In fact, she removed his name from her IV, man never attended the wedding as the man sef na tough man.

2, The man she got married to is the exact opposite of everything she stood for in a man. Not good looking, round, very dark, and to top it all, she wasn't tall, probably around 5.4, but she was taller than the husband, plus, he wasn't rich too, so the marriage na mystery.

In summary, I felt happy that she finally got married to someone she can control, but I felt sad for the man cos he will be the wife in the marriage, without a doubt.

I dodged a bullet.

This is almost similar to my story.
I love this lady so much and she use to be a sweet person. At some point she started becoming bitter, getting angry unnecessarily, getting moody and I asked her what's happening.
She was just giving different excuses. At that point, I knew she wanna break up. I sacrificed so much for this girl. She said that she is tired of me and needs space.

I just blocked her this afternoon, she has been affecting my mental health.
Women are loyal to their feelings and they don't care about us.
Wicked set of people!

shereef19:
My advise to corpers once they starting paying that money don't wear ur NYSC uniform to d market ooooo

Everything is already inflated but with this new payment now corpers will pay addional money


Masses is d biggest problems of the masses

And is 77k a big money?
I'm about to start my service and I'm not freaked or excited about the payment.

Jennyclay:
RIP to the departed

No matter the situation you’re going through in life, Suicide should never be an option

It is very easy to say ma. I pray that you don't find yourself in that situation.
I'm currently feeling suicidal. I'm at my lowest. Coming from a humble background and as a first born isn't easy. I have been working and surviving on debt. I have skills, graduated well but nothing seems working. Nobody is ready to help even when I know they have the capacity.

Mammangaddafi:
No employee earns that much in this country.

Senior Engineers in the Oil and Gas earn this. Monthly bonuses inclusive.

EdiskyHarry:
I always say no matter what suicide should never be seen as an option, I don't really know what people go through that suicide becomes the best option 😢

Just pray not to find yourself in that situation sir.
I'm currently in that state, like I'm extremely depressed. I can't even do anything illegal because I value my dignity. Nothing seems working. Even after learning skills, studying a professional course and graduated as one of the best in the class from a top school in the country.

It is very difficult to be successful in this country in a legitimate way. Many times, I have been temped to meet yahoo guys to teach me work. Life doesn't worth it.

Good day everyone.
I just graduated from OAU, Materials Science and Engineering department with a CGPA of 4.37/5

I would please like to seek for assistance in getting a job. I am a fast learner and also ready to develop.
God bless you all

stanleychi:
Met/Mat Engrg is the mother of engineering and am so proud to have my ist degree in it. It is one of the most difficult courses in nigerian universities. Having 2.2 in it and from ABU is a good grade. I did my Nysc in ABU in met mat departmt so I know what am saying. For the person that open dis trend send ur CV to my email. I will talk to some senior colleagues in the field about You. t.chieke@jmglimited.com

Good day sir.
It is nice connecting with you sir.
I'm a fresh graduate of OAU, I studied Materials Science and Engineering and finished with a CGPA of 4.37/5

I'm skilled in python programming language, I can also learn very fast.
Can you please recommend me for a job sir.

with 2;2 I think it will be hard for you to fit in: all the same God dey

mat and met engineers; remain one of the most sort after engineers.

Go to port harcourt and see them colonizing the oil city.

Good day sir.
It is nice connecting with you sir.
I'm a fresh graduate of OAU, I studied Materials Science and Engineering and finished with a CGPA of 4.37/5

I'm skilled in python programming language, I can also learn very fast.
Can you please recommend me for a job sir.

Good day sir.
It is nice connecting with you sir.
I'm a fresh graduate of OAU, I studied Materials Science and Engineering and finished with a CGPA of 4.37/5

I'm skilled in python programming language, I can also learn very fast.
Can you please recommend me for a job sir.

dipopooo:
Discouraged? Hw I wish I studied met&mat. The most lucrative n less competitive profession in Nigeria. Well I guess u had a poor grade or something

Good day sir.
It is nice connecting with you sir.
I'm a fresh graduate of OAU, I studied Materials Science and Engineering and finished with a CGPA of 4.37/5

I'm skilled in python programming language, I can also learn very fast.
Can you please recommend me for a job sir.

I'm getting frustrated already.

Please, how much is the starting salary?

emoboy4u:
Okay, so make use of your uncles too.

I don't have connections, that's why I'm on this thread

emoboy4u:
It doesn't work that way. Finish your NYSC, apply for graduate trainee roles as they become available. If you can influence your PPA to a good organization, that would also be golden

I really appreciate your response.
But it actually works that way, some of my colleagues have gotten jobs in Oil and Gas already without writing any exams just because they have uncles there, infact just before our Convocation. Connection is still working.

Emmamillionaire:
Fried rice ,jollof rice n Chicken. I'm even tired of the food , especially the chicken

Someone even tired of food when I don't even have food to eat. Are you in Lagos sir so I can come to collect it

How I wish I can share mine too. This is my worst Christmas ever, I'm just tired of everything, to eat isn't easy.
Financial success is the most difficult success.

zebszebs:
STOP LYING!!!

Using a fake illness you don't have just to tug at the heartstrings of people to dupe them of their money, just shows the Piece of shit that you are.

I have been noticing this post of yours under frontpage posts since January.

If I should pray that this illness really happens to you in real life, wont you say I am cursing you?

Why lie with a sickness?

why not go become a laborer at construction sites?

Isnt it more honorable than this nonsense you are doing online?

change your ways

I just pity hima anytime I see this post.
I have been asthmatic for more than 10 years, I can't wish my enemy to have asthma. One can lose his/her life within 5 seconds if inhaler isn't available.

ebenezer880:
Co nammesite, how are you, I'm a finalist from fuoye, are u on the nation group

Co-metals. I'm good bro.
I use to be on the telegram group, but I don't think it's active anymore.

Good day everyone.
I just graduated from OAU, Materials Science and Engineering department with a CGPA of 4.37/5

I would please like to seek for assistance in getting a job. I am a fast learner and also ready to develop.
God bless you all

Good day everyone.
I just graduated from OAU, Materials Science and Engineering department with a CGPA of 4.37/5

I would please like to seek for assistance in getting a job. I am a fast learner and also ready to develop.
God bless you all

Good day everyone.
I just graduated from OAU, Materials Science and Engineering department with a CGPA of 4.37/5

I would please like to seek for assistance in getting a job. I am a fast learner and also ready to develop.
God bless you all

Good day everyone.
I just graduated from OAU, Materials Science and Engineering department with a CGPA of 4.37/5

I would please like to seek for assistance in getting a job. I am a fast learner and also ready to develop.
God bless you all

Good day everyone.
I just graduated from OAU, Materials Science and Engineering department with a CGPA of 4.37/5

I would please like to seek for assistance in getting a job. I am a fast learner and also ready to develop.
God bless you all