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Criminals everywhere...

Only four days left.....we are waiting..

This is it's good to marry a virgin...

Alhamdulillah...

Wow congrats!!!

NobleAngell:
Something baffles me; why do the rich women use beautiful veils while the not-so-rich use hijab? Is there a rule to that?

Just asking.

there is no exempting rule
they just decide to neglect it may be due to them claiming they are civilized

EfonAlaaye2023:
Op is he from ijebu town? ijebu man that studied business administration/Economics na double wahala o

Lol...as in..

Erisirisi....

My Alma mata..... better by far...

ICPC!!! Shun corruption!!!

OK3:
Please, how do I reach you. I'M in need of that fruit called Ackee.

I have no Idea about it..

I could remember then after our Secondary school.. if you suddenly meet your secondary mate by road side
he'll be the one to ask "where are you now?".. just for you to know he's now in a University..

I heard pharmacy in OAU no be beans...

Tomjazzy2:
It's always sad reading things like this. No parent want this for their kids.

Forgive me OP, but I think you and hubby should share the blame on this. You both clearly haven't dedicated enough time towards parenting these kids.

You see, "enough time" in the above context is relative. Kids generally, can be classified into two: the regular ones who would still be well-behaved even if their parents spend less time at home or with them, and then the special ones who require a more pragmatic parenting approach.


Your kids fall into the later category. They are very special and thus, require an equally special parenting, in order to enable them use the potential they've got positively.

As a remedial at this stage, I will strongly advise against going "tough" on them. I can assure you this would only exacerbate the situation. Rather, try meeting them halfway. The one that wanted music, is it not going to be wise to give it a serious thought? How is her progress in school?

Oh, and please, for the sake of your sanity and home, try and make peace with your husband. Remember you both want the same thing -- the best for the girls. Forgive him for blaming you too much. I'm sure, like you, he did so out of frustration.


Above all, do not concede that those girls are beyond redemption. Okay, they may have lost their way a little bit, but I can assure you, just like other kids, they can fulfill their potentials, too

thumbs up...

Any professional course that you can establish with on your own....

What a shame!!!

subhanallah.... see someone's father

Patience is what you need
I don't think this is a problem at all
Do you think all that romance and cuddling will keep going on forever without depreciating?

The truth is it depreciates with the age of marriage especially when you start breeding kids.....So get use to it..

If truly what you said is true then you husband is not serious....

Inna illaHI wahinna illaHI rajiun

Baba stylishly sit on the fence...

Odaran...Is it by force?

I don't think there is anything wrong in that....

Yes if it's certain she has been healed....

Atleast far better than stealing and fraud....

If it's a government job I'll advice you give it second thought because government job is very hard to get....and considering some other advantages attached

I think I've seen some similar on WhatsApp before...

Who is Sala?

Haba this is too much....

Yes coupled with action....