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|Romance / Re: My First Gee Plus. by Yusufisraelj(m): 9:33am|
This one na another level be that.
Marine spirits brutal be that? Lols
|Politics / Re: Ex-French President Sarkozy Jailed, Can This Happen In Nigeria? by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:19am|
The challenge is that the Judiciary and Legislature currently in Nigeria doesn't function with the level of autonomy as enshrined in the Constitution.
As far as they can be poked and influenced from wealthy or powerful quarters, justice and laws of the land can be adjusted to accommodate criminals who should rot in prison.
|Foreign Affairs / Re: Zimbabwe Vice President, Mohadi Resigns Over Sex Scandal by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:10am|
Why not stay and prove your innocence? Even Bill Clinton that was guilty fought for his name and presidency not to be dragged aground, which was even wrong in the first place, you that is innocent is bowing out.
|Romance / Re: I Was Embarrassed For Trying To Help. by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:26pm On Mar 01|
You should learn to have emotional "shock absorbers" when dealing on a public forum like this, your opinions will be subject to varying opposing ideas, so operate from a point of conviction or be open to better ideas and ignore silly depositions.
|Romance / Re: My First Gee Plus. by Yusufisraelj(m): 4:52pm On Mar 01|
Lols, let's say I know a little bit about my FAITH. Some discussions are beyond NL. Cheers
|Romance / Re: My First Gee Plus. by Yusufisraelj(m): 3:29pm On Mar 01|
Lols, hmmm you don't know how far I guess. You think people love going to jazz men for the fun of it? Life and situations pushes people to such ends.
There was a case like that, as I was told the husband lost his job, couldn't find any, the wife was supporting the family alone, things got so bad that they needed more than what the wife was earning to meet a dire need, long story short, she slept with her boss to raise that fund.
Believe me, people are not stupid, however I will never ever advocate going to such ends like compromise or meeting spiritualist for money or help.
But you see every man including you @Feddytune is limited by their level of mentality or relationships or help he can source from the unseen; these three influences the kinds of problems they can solve, results they command and heights they can reach in this life.
A wise book I love so much says it is those who know their God that will be strong and they shall do exploits.
OP the Alfa didn't give you the full gist, there was something that was exchanged for that money, you will need someone with thorough understanding of the things of the spirit to tell you the transaction that took place between you and the wealth. Lols
Life is deep ooo
|Romance / Re: Some Reasons Why Many Women Don't Marry On Time Or Will Not Marry At All... by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:56pm On Feb 27|
Thank you, simply the truth 100%, good people still exist.
|Romance / Re: Why Will A Girl Always Say She Will Call You Back by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:54pm On Feb 27|
Hmmm okay, you must be really into her then.
But my guy relationship na two way street, make she no keep you on a leash, while she is doing her thing.
But if you think she is worth it, then find out what's important to her and work at it to get her attention from a place of sincerity, and if she can't see your honest efforts to woo her and make it easy for you, then my brother block her line and move on.
No time for unnecessary drama.
|Romance / Re: Why Will A Girl Always Say She Will Call You Back by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:41pm On Feb 27|
This guy you funny ooo
Well tell her now, about the cutting and calling.
But you self wait ooo, you wan make girl fall for you when she nova check you out and day comfortable around you? Hmmmm
|Romance / Re: Some Reasons Why Many Women Don't Marry On Time Or Will Not Marry At All... by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:33pm On Feb 27|
You just nailed it.
Equally I will add that @freethesheeple
You who want a good lady, are you a good man, do you understand what it takes to accommodate the personality of a lady, accept her past, partner to eliminate her weaknesses and partner to amplify her strengths?
Bkos for me, I look at the mirror first and make an honest assessment of my strengths and weaknesses, and strife to be better.
Bkos I believe when a man works on himself so well, he will know how to see and spot good ladies or ladies with potential who are sincere but living wrongly.
But even more importantly is that the guy and said lady must be willing to have a plan and set goals to become better in the relationship, bkos a relationship is platform for growth, if that is not present then wahala is close by, maybe that's why so many people don't enjoy marriage, no strategic plan to grow in any area of limitations and find answers to lingering questions on why the relationship is not moving the way it should, the two parties must be willing to work at it for God sake, anything that works is being worked at.
Am not so particular about a girl's past but is she willing to strife and commit to a better life?
This my take sincerely.
|Family / Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:38am On Feb 27|
|Family / Re: Save Me From Entitled Inlaws by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:38am On Feb 27|
badmusarati this point above may look brief but much wisdom in it, for me the priority is your immediate family not extended, yes you can help to the limits of your ability that's even the petty cash in your budget, once exhausted no more giving. Simple
Equally never allow any soul bully your wife emotionally, psychologically or even physically, end that communication channel, no matter who the person is.
It will suffice to say that prayers be made for your sister's brother, a mindset or spirit is what influences repeated cycles of bad behavior in people. You don't attend to the latter cause with words, a superior force is needed to bring him back to his senses of responsibility. God speed.
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|Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Strictly Friendship by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:57pm On Feb 26|
Yes, I have responded equally. Have saved your contact.
|Romance / Re: Why Do I Find Female Leaders More Attractive Than Other Women? by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:53pm On Feb 26|
Very on point brother
|Family / Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:26pm On Feb 26|
My man you have to sit down and balance this thing else you will get worn out. Sincerely it's not easy growing up on this side of the globe, but with proper planning, execution and more importantly the help of God, everything is possible.
Another thing I must emphasize is a willingness to always be a man of prayer and due diligence to God and life, my brother there is more to this life than meets the eye.
|Romance / Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:17pm On Feb 26|
Very well then, I have. Looking forward to your response. Cheers
|Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Strictly Friendship by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:13pm On Feb 26|
Yes I have responded, pls check your email.
|Romance / Re: Most Nigerian Girls Can't Hold A Conversation by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:07pm On Feb 26|
This is brilliant and balanced.
From your insightful depositions, I should suppose you are science inclined?
May I send you a direct mail?
|Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Strictly Friendship by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:20pm On Feb 26|
Have seen your mail, will reach out by 11pm, currently busy. Cheers
|Family / Re: HOw Do African Youths Deal With The Numerous Bills From Family And Friends? by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:16pm On Feb 26|
This one way to go
My brother, na you day do yourself.
You see I've been in this shoe and I can tell you with all sense of responsibility that if today you leave this Earth (God forbid) your parents, siblings and friends will survive 100% without you, I can tell you this for free, you shouldn't attend to every books dropped at request, sending your siblings airtime, What! You must be joker sincerely.
Your approach is making your circle very weak, complacent and entitled.
To circumvent this, you will have to create systems that generate money for your parents since they are old, equally you may want to encourage them to find avenues they could raise money for themselves within the capacity of strength they can muster, without overstressing to themselves, either open a small shop, or a biker to remit funds to them every week or something, just think, you understand your family better than I do.
Secondly you sister must develop herself to become a person with valuable skills she can exchange for money, maybe a hair dresser, tailor, a writer, sells cloth or something, there are businesses she could start with as low as 20K and make good profits to take care of her immediate needs like airtime, pad, transportation to school etc
You keep employing this approach of a miracle worker for every single need within your circle, you will soon become an angry man. Haba
The way it works for me is that I attend to cogent needs that could stress my parents especially when it has to do with heavy payments with short deadlines (school fees and rent), I can't imagine my brother or sister in University expecting me to recharge their phone! I have ensured they develop themselves to become people of value, who can exchange that skill for money.
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|Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Strictly Friendship by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:38pm On Feb 26|
Okay send me a mail then. Cheers
|Family / Re: What Would You Do In A Case Like These? by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:23am On Feb 26|
Very on point
|Family / Re: Ten Commandments For Ladies Before Marriage. by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:14am On Feb 26|
Op are you married?
But great write up. Let me check your channel, if I don't like the content I won't subscribe.
|Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:10am On Feb 26|
Sincerely you did well
|Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Girlfriend by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:09am On Feb 26|
|Romance / Re: Confused About My Friend by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:37pm On Feb 25|
|Romance / Re: Confused About My Friend by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:01pm On Feb 25|
I read you correctly Joseph, from your depositions I could say the lady is hurting from lack of care and a show of love from her family first, and with the disappointment from her previous love relationships it has hindered her capacity to really accept being loved, this is a very fundamental issue.
The lady must one to the realization that first she is doing herself a disservice and she represents a person who I angry and bitter about love, life and success.
The fact that she talks about celebrities and life at a superficial level tells you deeply she craved attention and live but hindering herself by a mindset that rejects love from genuine people and who mean well.
The solution I will propose is this Joseph, psychologically related issues and a truncated love life like hers can be settled in two ways either by therapy or prayers, she would have to become a woman of prayer for God to help her with the ability to be able to appreciate being loved and accept being loved.
Equally try to find out what is important to her and start doing it, find a celebrity she likes study the person and wow her with the discussions of those that you've studied, you see in getting people to open up, you must find common grounds they appreciate and is important to them, without that you will never meet the real person. So when she begins to talk and talk, she will find herself opening up, but your discussion has to have an emotional effect on her, hence your need of finding what's important to her and not you, but my brother this is real work, well if you feel she's worth it, then try one last time. Sincerely wish you luck.
Concerning your health, I will like to share a link to something you would find useful on a path to solving the issue permanently;
|Romance / Re: Why Do Girls /people Use Jealousy As A Way Of Expressing Love?? by Yusufisraelj(m): 11:11pm On Feb 24|
OP there are things you are doing that your ladies use to spot weakness, hence their using jealousy to check if you love them.
They are sending a signal to you that you are not expressive of what they consider love. Since this is a reoccurring event. Check your vibes
|Romance / Re: Confused About My Friend by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:59pm On Feb 24|
OP, a long read, that's not short brother
Well well well
You see your lady has a mindset issue, fundamentally speaking, from your tone, you sound agreeable and a person of reason.
What I will like you to investigate is how she grew up?
Who are her clique of friends bkos these are the board of directors, when you are asking her out her clique of friends must matter, how she sees life must also matter.
Behind all those fasad is a deep resentment for wealthy people subconsciously or a limiting mindset that tends to see close friends who are successful in a bad light.
Your lady's mind is as important even more important than her body.
Well you shouldn't dwell too long with her, relationship is for two willing people, understand what she's not saying and let her see reasons.
Stop trying too hard to please her at all cost, lady way wan do no go make am hard for you, just be yourself and maintain integrity.
|Romance / Re: Don't Mercy For Any Lady In Her 30 To 40 Unmarried by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:15pm On Feb 24|
This your idea is very childish, when you grow up more and life happens to you, you will know better.
|Romance / Re: She Would Start Laughing Whenever She Wants To Cum, How Is That Possible? by Yusufisraelj(m): 8:13pm On Feb 24|
Wahala be like bicycle
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