victorclean:
Gbam!!!!. Why must you ask me about my body counts.

What's the big deal? I know mine and not afraid to share with my significant other.

God1000:
So she has become a relationship expert because she failed to handle her several relationships well.

Money cannot buy true love

To all the ladies here, behave responsibly, don't throw yourself at any man

Respect lessons from people who have failed.

yinkus6750:
Hmmmmm.
Politrickcians and law.
Technicalities, always looking for irrelevant areas to defeat opponents.
It was obvious people voted for them.
Sad they didn't do their homework very well.

You go mind ganduje with peddling a paradox. How can inec grant somebody a platform to contest without him submitting documents of the party?

Secondly in Tinubu's case with PDP when the double nomination of his voice was in play, they said it was an internal matter, that PDP was doing busy body, also APC against labour party when they said obi was not qualified, tribunal told APC that that's internal matter they were doing busy body, that except that case is filed by a contestant of that party it's not valid in court to be filed by another party.

What baffles me is how these rules changed overnight in Kano? It doesn't make sense.

Resetinc:
Blow up everything that’s blowable in gaza 😂😂

If hamas have the power and weapon Israel has you think they will give a fvck about children in Israel hospital ??
bloody terrorists .. kill them all

God Bless Israel and their lovers 🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱🇮🇱

Modified: some terrorist sympathizers are calling Iran 😂😂 I laugh in Swahili because you people don’t know what’s on ground .. Iran is America’s main target … US is just waiting for Iran to make any direct move against Israel 😂😂 even Al Jazeera propagandists will not be able to televise what will happen in Iran 😂😂😂

You get bad mouth I swear.

mastermaestro:
All of you supporting this despicable strike action can now see that it was never declared to better your living, but to recover the bruised ego of a certain labour leader. Shameless people!

Very senseless comment.

1TrippleCee:
You are not prepared. Later you would realize her worth. Dont worry, time always correct nonsense

Words on marble

Liscolite1:
U see dat 137000 votes from 5 local government is what ododo or whatever is name is got from 1 local government in kogi state.... I've not seen that type of rigging in my life before....

Pls I'm still asking for someone to show me where a candidate scored over 100k vote in a single local government area in Nigeria... Kano or sokoto... I dey wait abeg.

D kogi guy won d election with jst 2 local government... 100k per local government okene and adavi.... Adavi and okene people Don plenty pass kano people arbi?

Lols, make we check thier voting strength during presidential election and the last governorship election.

DesChyko:
That's a lot.

People like this makes things hard for others coming after them.

Absolutely, that's why one needs to be discerning helping a destitute to positions where thier minds have not reached.

Magnoliaa:


A fairly used girl? Like you really typed that?

Lols, abeg borrow am English, but he spoke to reality though not properly phrased.

AbuTwins:
I don talk am say this man go win!

LP can never get that >90% votes that was rigged for Obi!

Hope is to Renewed Hope!
Imo get Hope!

And you think Hope will rig for Obi when he had elections coming? Think na haba!

Zonefree:
At 20-26 years, she had numerous men coming at her but she neglected them cos she was busy exploring and whoring her flower age.

At 27-33 years, she flooded religious houses, praying and fasting for same men she rejected and neglected during her flower age.

At 39, she's now blaming innocent spirit husband for her mistakes.
She didn't remember spirit husband when she was flying from dick to dick like a butterfly during her flower age.

Women should learn to take responsibility for their actions!

Ogbeni I understand where you're coming from.

But most of the situations you see online, believe me a spirit is involved. I know what I'm telling you my brother I use to be an atheist before, believe me when I tell you spirits are real, you don't know this lady's story, don't be too quick to think she spoilt chances.

MadamExcellency:
Sure way to assert supremacy. If the Labour Union is to allow the assault to stand without repercussions, that will be the death of Nigeria's democracy, especially collective bargaining and opposition politics.

Who born a monkey to assault the NLC President and go scot-free? No arrest, no apology by the Governor and no comment from the presidency.

Na presidency own day shocking.

Rich4god:
Instead of devising means to end the war, they are still throwing support.

You don't kill people's citizen's and expect an embrace bro.

If Nigerians were among those killed, you think Presidency will be siding Gaza?

Albeit there should be some form of understanding, at the end we are all humans, sharing the same planet.

OloYeOfEgbE:
Na so...

You won't marry your type and colour.. you want Posh..

E Don be...ndi class

No RIP to waste

Day try read before you comment.

Amotolongbo:
Stupidity.

This is how to know a brainless fellow
“Yahoo boys” are waiting for you for ritual specimen

Honestly speaking, I'm not a fan of Reno but this statement he made holds true in this instance.

Nazgul:
The man is very foolish. How can you be brutalizing your wife and not expect any kind of reaction from her? Like you beat her every now and then, and you're planning to relocate to a country where the rights of women are seriously protected by the law, and your relocation doesn't give you goosebumps?

Even Joseph in the Bible whom his brother's sold into slavery, when they discovered that he was now a powerful ruler and invited them to Egypt, they still met him secretly and pleaded with him that their father's dying wish was for him to forgive them. They knew what they did to him, and quickly apologized so that if he nursed any plans to deal with them, he'll abort immediately.

This is what this man should have done man if he was wise, he should have called his wife privately and beg her for forgiveness before she travelled, if possible kneel down sef. Let her use her mouth and tell him that she has forgiven him. Cos when you treat people badly, and the tables change, don't expect them to overlook what you did to them.

Besides, I don't even know how some men feel beating up a woman who can't fight back. Like you'd just keep punching and punching her, until you're tired or she collapses? That's horrible.

Anyways he has until January to find something doing, if he has skills, he might get something. Once he's back on his feet, he and his wife can iron things out.

Naz, great submission, I strongly support the woman, I would never allow any female friend stay in a consistently abusive marriage. That's very wrong.

On the flip side my brother some women can bring out the beast in men. I remembered one story where a guy well brought up dated a lady from a broken(the dad consistently beats the mother), my brother that guy use him eye see him back, the lady doesn't know what love really was, how to receive it and reciprocate, she abuses the guy for not loving her, even use objects or get physical when they get into arguments, I had to tell him to cut off immediately, you're dating a lady that's hesitant to change doesn't know how to receive love, bro there's nothing here.

I'm not condemning the lady, but you see it's one thing to know you have a problem, it's another to admit and work on yourself. The lady is always right and the guy wrong, anty haba! Everything cannot be about you.

In any case abuse is not one sided, it goes both ways, I notice most sincere and nice people have the habit of making wrong choices, until thier eye's don see pepper. Make person open eyes Wella and make God help.

Centpico:


It's my mental health im looking being wary of at this point. The pain of loosing months and having to reinvest even in those months is something else. Being advised to delve into tech and i think i might just send all my resources into that

Let me tell you a story, I learnt trading some years back, told my mom to sell her car and give me the money, that I want to trade with it and will gain the money back in six months, in less than three months I lost the entire money. Lols

I can tell you for free, there's something you need to check within, and if you don't it doesn't matter which sector you delve into, that limitation will catch up with you, it's better you heal from it and decide to stop trading, but stopping trading because you're repeatedly losing to do tech looks like an escape, something is bringing you to this point find out what it is, take a retreat and figure yourself out. If after your retreat, switching is the best thing, then you have don justice to your decision.

So look for those who have been doing this game for at least 10 years and seek thier counsel. From thier talk, discover your own limitation and the best thing to do afterwards. This is a deep research and self discovery bro, what you will find will be your edge for massive growth and proof against failures in this regard.

EmeeNaka:
The defence headquarters may not want to be drawn into the pettiness of idiotic Islamic cleric, who thrives in conflicts and violence

As simple as ABC, don't give life to meaningless talk.

1nigeriamyfoot:
Bait!!!

Don't fall for scam!!!

Account opened just a week ago, had contact number on his profile

Dem go come up with one story to lure unsuspecting members of public to their net

Stop speaking Trash.

@Centpico

You may want to write the following guys, to see how they cope, look for Ejimi the profitable investor or ICT. Write to these guys and get a response from them.

Your limitation at the moment is lack of insight as simple as that. There's something you need to know about trading full time that you don't hence you being overwhelmed.

These are full time traders and I know a bit about thier lifestyle, they live balanced lives.

I know the wahala that comes with trading.

Map1:
Kids are involved in marriage this days, When you see a growing up Man knee down for a Jobless lady to marry him this is what you get at the end,as a Man, you provide for shelter, food, clothes, education, health, transportation and many unforseen Bill,yet she still Insulting you because you can't create a business for her on time,then if i may ask, what is her own responsibility?My brother there are a lot of better women outside there who are well established and looking for a better husband to marry, when it gets to a stage that Woman don't appreciate your role,send her to her family let them feed her for a month,if she threatened to cheat on you,send her out , before any Man can give a woman 5k now,her Toto will cry for it

There's more to this story, a woman can't grow that disrespectful out of the blue, OP no day tell us something.

In this case there's two sides to this story.

KenOne:
Wait, is it that PDP is afraid of Wike or confused. Because i don't really understand the homage and respect accorded to someone that has aligned with APC as your member. What happens to expulsion.

Person way block PDP for court, say them no fit expel am.

TANID:
the Next Thing Na ta ta ta ta ta ta ta

Offkos, rekindle the cold flame!

Jewessgratitud3:


Life na jeje. Marriage is not a do or die affair dear.

Commendable writeup by the way.


Agreed, but you're also part of the reason you're single, which you've rightly admitted.

While you're still open to relationship I think you need to do some reading and praying. Why do I say this, Relationship life is stratified into four cadres:

1. Love relationship
2. Destiny relationship
3. Business/Work relationship
4. General relationship

Understanding the principles that govern each remains the key to success as regards relationships, but as pertaining our topic, first of you need to know how to recognize and spot a good guy, keep that you feelings first aside, you can fall in love with anyone if given time to know that person and if the same have value system that you respect, how comes you've ended up with people who are cheats? It speaks to your person, especially if it happens up to three times, the first two can be a mistake but the third time you're part of the problem.

You see I once dated a cheat, hopefully my first and last, when I now met a good lady, I was not so patient with her, so I called it off based on an initial reference, I knew this because, during prayer, God asked me to sit down with a pen and paper after prayer and think for three hours about my relationship life, at the end of that analysis I discovered I wasn't so much a patient person and I missed out on a good lady.

You have limitations you need to work on if you want something different in your next relationship, it's not so much about the other person, if you've done your due diligence, you can sense bull shit from afar and call it quits while hoping on God to help bring sincere and progressive people your way. That will not take out the place of understanding that a man is different from a woman and how you relate to both are different, respect, proper communication, conflict resolution and making sacrifices on the basis of a committed relationship.

There are men who will respect your body before marriage, yes there are (mind you they know how to fvck and make a woman cum), but finding them will now be the work of prayer and discernment, keeping them will now be the work of wisdom (reading to demonstrate sound judgement). Those kind of men too will be people God have worked on and have integrity as well.

Athena6:
So Nigeria have finally happen to me, I thought if I save a little to the 5M I have, it would be able to leave this country by next year.

But right now, it is impossible, I saw on Twitter how a lady was begging money for flight ticket which was about 2.2M, just flight ticket o.

Months ago, a relative of mine told me someone is looking for a dependent and he will connect me to the person, he said the payment was 4M and I was not going to pay much after that and I will stay with the person in the UK before I settle on my own but I was forming big girl saying I will do my process by myself.

Now look, dollar have increased, the money is now worthless, anyway when there is life, there is hope.

Nairaland please help me think of a business to start with 2M, I can't just leave the money in the bank to keep on depreciating.

Thank you

Having Capita is never a reason to start a business.

Let me tell you why this approach of someone advising you seldom works, because nobody understands you as you, your strengths, desires, weaknesses and passion. It's different if you're seeking advise on something you want to do and have done a bit of research and understand the value chain of that business but need guidance.

A business is born out of conviction having done your due diligence on the desire to venture in and it's sustained by passion and hardwork, against failures and setbacks.

First things first, fix deposit the money for 1 year, focus on your work and live off it, when the time is right you'll know what to do, most probably you'll fail the first time, so invest what you can lose.

And avoid telling people you have money and don't know what to do with it. You'll be fvcked on every level. Go and download or watch the film SHARPER.


Concerning japa, avoid that dependant thing if the person is not your relative and someone you know very well, emphasis on very well. Go on you own or stay in Nigeria and do something worthwhile with your life, that place is over hyped, I have friends there, don't believe all you see online, UK no easy if you can't fend for yourself from the get go, bills go choke you.

TheEndless:

Nobody really gives a fvck how you make your money, just make your fvckin money and use it to strategically buy people!

Words on marble as regards this case.

Tntsi:
Personally I have no expectations from the supreme court .
I will be deeply dazed ,shocked and stunned if they rule on sanity, justice, fail to legalize forgery, criminality and give the nation a hope of survival.

If they do, then tomorrow should be declared a national public holiday that will be in the history of Nigeria.
It will be called the day Nigera was saved from the cliff of death.

Same here bro, let's see what happens today.

Racoon:
The matter is clear as crystal but the compromised Supreme Court as usual are looking for their technicalities or corrupt ways to exonerate end exculpate Tinubu from forgery and perjury involving this CSU diploma certificate scandal despite the registrar of the institution categorically denying them issuing it to him.

If the supreme court is seemly confused which any well discerning mind know is not true, let the ask the registrar or CSU to issue another clarification about their disposition in the Chicago court again. Mean-while, the office copy they have was never collected by Tinubu. Stop giving a false uncorrected narrative.

As simple as ABC.

Kobojunkie:
1. No Nigerian we be? For Nigeria did you marry every gal you dated for marriage? Let's stop bullsheeting abeg!

2. Abegi!

3. Whatever you wish to call it. It has almost always been a part of Nigerian culture and remains so to date so pretending their are cultures differences as far as the handling of individual sexual needs is ludicrous!

4. Nigerians too carry meaningless culture for head.

Lols, I see why some randy guys bash Ladies, you take sincere opinions out of context and spin it to suit what you believe. If your experience points men to want a lady's body rather than values, then it is what it is, but not all of us date women for the purpose of sex.

Has it occur to you that one could be rejected based on region or culture which is no fault of theirs and a factor you don't have control over.

I can see you're comfortable with what suits you, I will rather not engage further. Happy Sunday.

Kobojunkie:
You say that as though back in Nigeria what many define as relationship is not almost entirely about the sex as well, and hook up culture has not almost always been celebrated down there as well.

2. I don't think it has much to do with cultural differences but the confusion most experience when they come here thinking themselves superior while much of what they complain of is exactly that celebrated by in Nigeria by many.

Addressing your first paragraph, not really so I can speak for myself and my circle when we're asking a girl out it's for the purpose of marriage, pure and straight.

Don't get me wrong sex is important, we Will talk about it and discuss each other's fantasy but it's never the driving force, there are more important things than sex, the lady's values system, attitude, mindset and fidelity.

On the hookup thing it's rather unfortunate.

I don't really understand your second paragraph.

Persephone1:
If you and some few others get my point here then I'm good . I'm really tired of trying to correct people that this is not a shade or avenue to downgrade a specific gender rather it is stating the irregularities in Nigerian marriages.

You are so right on this! Have you ever wonder why it is common to hear phrases like " Marriage is an eye opener" or he/she changed after wedding, or I married a complete stranger" in the Nigerian society? When we hear or read phrases like these we term the accused partner deceitful and evil but the truth is the accuser is not so innocent after all, further investigation into the supposed relationship/marriage you will realize the latter didn't do what ought to be done because he or she isn't informed. If a person refuse to prepare, read books, get information then on what scale or basis would evaluation of intending partner be? It's a very simple logic... When one is filled with necessary information, such will be intelligent enough to evaluate and be a good judge of character and value. A shallow person will go after a shallow one the both will give shallow outcome. Thank God for money and sex most Nigerian marriages wouldn't last.


On this, I may disagree a little due to my perception of modern arrange marriages. It sounds like the Ned/Regina kind of marriage and I don't subscribe to such. Modern arrange marriages is what I will term Marriage of Convenience and may or may not stand the test of time. While it may seem like both parties are playing their parts and everything goes smoothly, the moment the card is off the table from an end the other end bails.
Rather I will say a marriage where both parties are INTENTIONAL about one another thrives better. And it takes Love to be INTERESTED in other person's life, it takes Love to be INTENTIONAL about the person and it takes Love to be COMMITTED to that same person. Love goes beyond feelings, it's not a burning desire but a gentle gradual process. Love is built. Attraction on the other end is what you feel at first sight when it matures it turns love or obsession or lust or infatuation depending on who is feeling it and for whom it is felt. Love is very very important. Commitment waver at the death of Love, commitment may not totally end for some other factors but it will reduce if love is absent. Both go in hand .

You are right again and again ( two last paragraphs) the problem is finding someone who will meet you halfway at least. What we have these days is entitled parasitic people who aren't ready to come to the table with equal hands. Lol I will try not go over and over the shortcomings of Nigerian men in the aspect of togetherness, teamwork, humility to learn or interest in their women's life beyond the physical ( money, wigs,cars, clothes)

You day write ooo. Lols

Yeah I get your context on the arrange marriage but he further buttress his point by defining what Love is, not really far from what you stated and the building blocks of love relationships (commitment, sacrifice, humor......), when you piece that together you would easily strike out the Ned and Regina arrangement in the context you presented, it comes from a deeper place, again I don't know the arrangements with those two .

Do you reside in Lagos?

Kobojunkie:
You are not alone. Many Nigerians experience the very same problem because they are used to socializing only with other Nigerians and not others..

Yeah, I was thinking about it recently, there's no good dating site where you can just go there and get someone genuine, it's mostly people looking for paid sex on the flip side meeting someone on the street comes with its own risks as well.

I think cultural differences plays a role for regions outside Nigeria.

Unittyy:
The lady should socialize and mingle with people

My brother e no easy as you day talk am, I find it hard to socialize, will definitely have too now, because I recently learnt that loneliness is deadly and kills faster that some disease.

Singleness no be good thing for long, honestly.