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Yeah right!!!
but it didnt say forget thine fathers's name
what's in a name anyway?
although it's gross for a man to take up his wife's name, i dont see what all the fuss is about.
i am thankful am not required by any law to change my name.

I am claustrophobic too.

men are not the only users here.
so you must mean they both use each other for wat they can get, afterall the chicks arent aimless.
being with a man cos of money, sounds like working ur butts off too to me, my dear dats husling too.
if i am working my butts off and husling to make ends meet, by working 9-5 in the office then the girl walking the streets of being with an aristo can say i got there with my sweat too.
so wats the point?

my dear having sex for money is labour in itself, and it is ur sweat you are eating. shikenan!!!

hey babymine,
i think we have all lost track of ur question.
the question she is asking is HOW DOES ONE BREAK UP FROM A WRONG RELATIONSHIP?
she never said there is no love, or its gone, or she wants out or he abuses it, or all those tings dat make u wanna run, from my observation i think everything is just perfect but the relationship is wrong. in the sense that it could be he is married, or they r of diff faiths or he is ur bestfriends ex, or ur sisters husband or wateva, but u sha know the relationship is wrong abi?

well in dat kind of situation i think i have a little experience, therefore i know there is no easy way out, if u have time you can let it burn out by itself if not i think you should find other ways of spending ur time.

for example in my case i built my life around him, so i retraced my steps when he was away for a week and started hanging out with people, i joined a swimming class, made new demanding interesting friends. so he might call and i am with my new friends so we cant see, or i might be at the club swimming or something, so we started drifting apart and made other friends. and slowly stopped depending on each other, so much so dat we may not see in a week, which used to be impossible.

what i am trying to say is bury urself in something you enjoy, make other people a part of ur life, and meet and enjoy their company without his presence. dats the only way i know, it is slow but it is sure. simply because the relationship is wrong doesnt mean u have to hurt him afterall u were in it together, believe me you, you wont have to spell it out, it will spell itself out.

You may hurt a little, but not as much as you will if you just straight break up,you would have adjusted to being without him in all of these processes dat other things will fill the void after he is gone.

well i dunno if i am dating an aristo or not, cos ur definations are rather confusing.
all i know is dat av had relationships with young men and they are nothing but a pain in the arse.
i am not poor, i am not in need, i am an independent woman, comfortable with wat i have.
wat i know is dat i do not need any emotional hassles, so am with an older guy who knows just how to treat me right.
a young single guy chokes me, i hate all the breathing down my neck thingy, i like my space.
the truth is from experience i can tell you dat an older guy is the bomb, and most girls who try it out, will never be satisfied being with a younger man, and i know thats what infuriates our young men. therefore they assume it must be the money, not that some dont do it for money o! but mostly its the caring.

cool, really cool.

Idekeson:
By educating our illiterate brothers up North.

OBVIOUSLY, NIGERIA CAN NEVER MOVE FORWARD, WITH PEOPLE LIKE YOU.

the reoson i mentioned that (anobscase) is because someone suggested that no woman is marrying the ready made man for love, and dat its better to marry a man who will love you. read through the clips again u will see its relevance.

the reoson i mentioned that is because someone suggested that no woman is marrying the ready made man for love, and dat its better to marry a man who will love you. read through the clips again u will see its relevance.

Rottweiler:
. He's that guy that feels he has the right to beat up his woman, collect his car keys from her and kick her out of his house and he's sure she won't leave him because he's MADE. He's that man that treats his woman like one of his possession....  do I keep going on?

am not sure you know wat u are talking about.
are you suggesting that poor men dont think its their right to hit their women? urs is a rather shallow thought am afraid, cos i know pple who married for love, but were constantly fighting cos no be love dey full belle, and i know alot of very rich and made guys who are gentle men to the core. so make we no loose focus. i understand men"s sensitivity when it comes to this matter, it bothers the ones that are not made to think that the made ones get all the girls, but have faith and work hard u will get there too.

wats up pple,
like someone rightly said it is a matter of choice, i am a woman am supposed to be taken care of, not the other way round.
and not forgetting that even men dont wanna marry poor girls, or girls from poor homes anymore. status is important in any society and so we create a standard for ourselves and try to live by it, and stick to it.wats wrong with that?

The First Affair

Jack was dying. His wife, Becky, was maintaining a candlelight vigil
by his side. She held his fragile hand, tears running down her face.
Her praying roused him from his slumber. He looked up and his pale
lips began to move slightly.
" Becky my darling," he whispered. "Hush my love,"
she said. "Rest, don't talk."
He was insistent. "Becky," he said in his tired voice, "I have
something that I must confess."
"There's nothing to confess," replied the weeping Becky, "everything's
all right, go to sleep."
"No, no. I must die in peace, Becky. I slept with your sister, your
best friend, her best friend and your mother!"
"I know, my sweet one," whispered Becky, "let the poison work."

The Second Affair
There was a middle-aged couple that had two stunningly beautiful
teenage daughters. The couple decided to try one last time for the son
they always
wanted. After months of trying, the wife finally got pregnant and sure
enough, delivered a healthy baby boy nine months later.
The joyful father rushed into the nursery to see his new son. He took
one look and was horrified to see the ugliest child he had ever seen.
He went to his wife and told her there was no way he could be the
father of that child.
"Look at the two beautiful daughters I fathered!"
Then he gave her a stern look and asked, "Have you been fooling around on me?"
The wife just smiled sweetly and said, "Not this time!"

The Third Affair
A mortician was working late one night. It was his job to examine the
dead bodies before they were sent off to be buried or cremated. As he
examined the body of Mr. Schwartz, who was about to be cremated, he
made an amazing discovery. Schwartz had the longest private part he
had ever seen!
"I'm sorry, Mr. Schwartz", said the mortician, "but I can't send you
off to be cremated with a tremendously huge private part like this. It
has to be saved for posterity."
With that, the coroner used his tools to remove the dead man's private parts.
He stuffed his prize into a briefcase and took it home. The first
person he showed it to was his wife.
"I have something to show you that you won't believe," he said opening
his briefcase.
"Oh my God!" the wife screamed, "Schwartz is dead!"

The Fourth Affair
A woman was in bed with her lover when she heard her husband opening
the front door. "Hurry," she said, "stand in the corner."
Then she quickly rubbed baby oil all over him and then dusted him with
talcum powder.
"Don't move until I tell you to," she whispered. "Just pretend you're a statue."
"What's this, honey?" the husband inquired as he entered the room.
"Oh it's a statue," she replied nonchalantly. "The Smith's bought one
for their bedroom. I liked it so much, I got one for us too."
No more was said about the statue, not even later when they went to sleep.
Around two in the morning, the husband got out of bed, went to the
kitchen and returned a while later with a sandwich and a glass of
milk.
"Here," he said to the statue, "eat something. I stood like an idiot
at the Smith's for three days and nobody offered me as much as a glass
of water."

The Fifth Affair
A man walks into a nightclub one night. He goes up to the bar and asks
for a beer.
"Certainly, Sir, that'll be 1 cent."
"One Cent?" exclaimed the man. So the man glances over at the menu and
asks, "Could I have a nice juicy T -bone steak, with chips, peas and a
fried egg."
"Certainly Sir," replies the barman, "but that comes to real money."
"How much money?" inquires the man. "4 cents," the bartender replied.
"Four Cents?", exclaimed the man. "Where's the guy who owns this place?"
The bartender replied, "Upstairs, with my wife."
The man says, "What's he doing upstairs with your wife?"
The bartender replied, "The same thing as I'm doing to his business."

The Sixth Affair
A married man was having an affair with his secretary. One day, their
passions overcame them and they took off for her place, where they
made passionate love all afternoon.
Exhausted from the wild sex, they fell asleep, awakening around
8:00pm. As the man threw on his clothes, he told the woman to take his
shoes outside and rub them through the grass and dirt. Mystified, she
nonetheless complied.He slipped into his shoes and drove home.
"Where have you been?" demanded his wife when he entered the house.
"Darling, I can't lie to you. I've been having an affair with my
secretary and we've been having sex all afternoon. I fell asleep and
didn't wake up until eight o'clock.
The wife glanced down at his shoes and said, "You lying bastard!
You've been playing golf.

A 90-year-old man was having his annual checkup.
The doctor asked him how he was feeling.

"I've never been better," the old man replied. "I've got an eighteen-year-old bride who's pregnant & delivered a child. What is your opinion about that, Doc?" the old man asked.

The doctor thought for a moment, then said, "Well, let me tell you a story. I know a guy who is a hunter. He never misses a season for hunting. But, one day he's in a bit of a hurry and he accidentally grabs his umbrella instead of his gun. The doctor continued, "So he's walking in the woods near a creek, and suddenly he spots a lion in some brush in front of him. He raises up his umbrella, points it at the lion and squeezes the handle.

BAM! The lion drops dead in front of him."

"That's impossible!" said the old man in disbelief. Someone else must have shot that lion."

"Exactly"... Said the Doc.

Hi my name is zarah and i am new too.
and i have a B.A English.