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 Romance › Re: Should Our Boyfriends Assist Us Financially Without Us Having To Ask? by zarah(f): 11:57am On Jul 12, 2006 |
Diddy4 for once i have heard something sensible from you.  You know wat suprises me is this, a man expects u to look good, smell good, cook good, and f**k good at all times, and still thinks it is not his responsibility to know how u go about it all, even wen u don't feel up to it, love, romance or business i think is not the point here. and pls guys it is not a payment for services rendered. it is plain and simply taking care of someone. remember it is u who call us the weeker sex, so we must be taken care of. Someone asked if the women help wen their guy needs it, my answer is yes! but men feel it is a sign of weekness to be wanton. now for women it is not a matter of being dependent it is just a natural course. i wanna please my guy all the time i go out of my way to do things for him, so it's normal for him to give me an allowance of some sort, to show appreciation weather i ask for it or not, weather i need it or not. Where i come from, a man wants to eat ur food, see u look good for him, make him relax, and sooth the pressures of the day off him, so he makes sure he pays for everything just to show ownership. you can work all u want o, but use ur salary for urself and let me do my part, infact they claim it's their right. And for petes sake wen a woman loves you the last thing she cares about is ur doug, and men why is it dat weneva a girl moves on, u say it's cos the other guy is richer? No it's cos she doesn't love u simple. i guess it's just easier to say the former to console urselves. me thinks my guy knows my needs, i have never asked and will never, (afterall i can comfortably take care of myself), so wen my guy gives me, he does, not becos i need it, but becos he wants to. afterall e no easy to baf, makeup, smile and give a massage wen i would rather just drop on ma bed and go to sleep. |
| Health › Re: Do You Know Any Fitness Center In Lagos? by zarah(f): 4:16pm On Jul 10, 2006 |
There are too many, so maybe it's better for u to be specific bout the area u intend to stay at, so dat those in dat area can help u find out. Anyways there's Health Gate on Norman williams street, s/west ikoyi Big, well Equipped and very Expensive it's 40k a quater, 160k a year. daily is 1k. just make sure you drive one of dem beautiful, and very expensive cars. LOL Personally my favourite is ikoyi club, cos water,cheap beer, suya and p-soup dey there, u burn the calories and put them right back on be4 u leave.  4 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: Why Love Doesn't Last In Relationships? by zarah(f): 6:06pm On Jul 07, 2006 |
easy Easy we get ur point!!!  |
| Fashion › Re: Every Nigerian Girl Is A Model These Days by zarah(f): 10:43am On Jul 07, 2006 |
Correct me if am wrong but i dont think modelling is about pretty faces, it's about body language. wat matters is height, shape and carriage. and how in harmony ur features are, unless u r maybe a face model or something. The best models of all times are mostly ugly, but their bodies and movements are like wooowwww!  |
| Health › Re: Smoking: What Do You Think? by zarah(f): 10:13am On Jul 07, 2006 |
Nightrider ur the man!!!!  |
| Romance › Re: Why Love Doesn't Last In Relationships? by zarah(f): 9:33am On Jul 07, 2006 |
diddy4:[[color=#006600][/color] Pls get off ma back, i can preach wataeva i wanna, so far as it is related to the thread at hand. it is ur duty to either take it or leave it, i have a right to ma opinion dont i? and pls read thru again, i didn't say a r/ship must be based on sex, and i mentioned sexual harmony. sex is proly responsible for 85-90% of breakup like u said abi? try doing it right. wat i said is people don't pay enuf attension to it especially after marriage,it goes somehr to the background. am not talking of randy adolescents dat are counting names on their list. Most people who have great sexual compatibility are best friends, they can't help but be friends cos they will be miserable wen they are fighting with each other. And if a guys next move after 2 weeks is trying to get in-between a dogs leg and bang, the day lights out of you is the best u can think of, then am sure we are operating on different frequencies. |
| Romance › Re: Why Love Doesn't Last In Relationships? by zarah(f): 5:12pm On Jul 06, 2006 |
did like when you talk, say "personally" aite sweetie, This place is a dicussion forum where people come to say their minds and release the stress and not a JAMB hall where the best answer is required Yeah! and my mind is wat i am saying, and stress i have relieved. Did i say mine is the best answer or wat? or did i say am in a competition with you  |
| Romance › Re: Why Love Doesn't Last In Relationships? by zarah(f): 4:43pm On Jul 06, 2006 |
Seun you have a great way of looking at r/ships for someone ur age. u impressed me tremendously, with this one. why do most people think that love dies wen sex is involved? love and sex both have there individual relevances o! have u ever stopped to think that there are sexually based r/ships dat are stronger than most of our marriages these days. girl's seem to think that once a man has been there and done that, dats it he is out. am sorry to say dat is the greatest bull, although i would say depending on how much in harmony you guys are wt each other, a man will have sex and stay. yes there are sexcapades that are worth nothing, they start and finish as sex, and dats it. but there are times you wan chop clean mouth, and end up hooked. abi u neva hear man wey carry ashewo for road one night, and ends up marrying her, me thinks most gre8 r/ships, lasting marriages are based (not solely) but mostly on sexual compatibility. I have a friend whose husband tells me dat everytime he sleeps wt her is like he's never had sex wt her be4, and to think they courted all through university (sex involved) and have been married now for 4 yrs, sounds incredible. but true. they still have sex at least 3x daily. love in r/ship dies, and only god know's why. my solution is simple 'old fishermen never die, their rods just go limp' if love dies? move on damn it. life is too short to waste brooding. and for those who say sex is overated, i say u dont know nothing man. as a matter of fact it is grossly underated. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: The Eckankar Cult In Nigeria (Africa) by zarah(f): 3:19pm On Jul 06, 2006 |
4get_me Rottweiller! u r damn right, lightness and darkness definately don't go together, but you know wat i would rather be lost than go wt u, TRUTH my arse! Mrmayor dat was Hilarious! me sef don dey wonder dat kain tin. Lordimpaq, yeah right!!! covered by who or wat? and fyi i don't act, i am indeed crazy |
| Health › Re: Fastest Way To Lose Weight? by zarah(f): 8:48am On Jul 06, 2006 |
Zahymaka: |
| Health › Re: Fastest Way To Lose Weight? by zarah(f): 1:33pm On Jul 05, 2006 |
The fastest and most guaranteed of all ways. Eat everything you get ur hands on, chocs, pizza with double cheese, fries, burgers, lots of ice cream, and dont forget 8 cans of soda daily, meat meat and meat, then just go to the toilet, stick ur fingers down ur throat, and let it all flow out. you can eat everything you crave for time after time forever and still not gain an ounce. it's called bulimia i hear! Well i call it dieting |
| NYSC › Re: NYSC: Is Kaduna A Good Place To Serve? by zarah(f): 12:43pm On Jul 05, 2006 |
Jos is way more interesting I think. Nice cool weather and way more balanced ethnic wise. Fulanis and Hausas aint the friendliest Nigerians so who is in jos? |
| Christianity Etc › Re: The Eckankar Cult In Nigeria (Africa) by zarah(f): 12:29pm On Jul 05, 2006 |
Alheri, u be correct chic! chop nuckle jare. Grafikdon, e be like say we go come join you o! Gem87, we go meet for there be dat. Zahymaka and Lordimpaq,  at least i know my first point of call wen i start soul travelling. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: The Eckankar Cult In Nigeria (Africa) by zarah(f): 5:42pm On Jul 04, 2006 |
sure meen!! just hook me up first. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: The Eckankar Cult In Nigeria (Africa) by zarah(f): 4:32pm On Jul 04, 2006 |
You people are not talking to me oooh! tell me where to find this people so that i can go join them, experience this magic first hand, and bring back first class imfo to you. I have always been thrilled about cultism, cos iv never experienced it, so dont blame me. Damn how i would love to appear to some people & make them wee in their pants. 2 Likes |
| Christianity Etc › Re: The Eckankar Cult In Nigeria (Africa) by zarah(f): 3:55pm On Jul 04, 2006 |
If he wants to preach let him do it elsewhere, don't have a problem with it i just don't like it when people try to impose their beliefs on others. as far as am concerned that's wat he is doing. if the thread had said preaching i would have had a choice of boycoting it, but since it says eckankar and i entered willingly i should be reading wat am here to read. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: The Eckankar Cult In Nigeria (Africa) by zarah(f): 3:40pm On Jul 04, 2006 |
shut up!! say something about Eckankar, if you have something to say, or else just shut the f**k up, or do you think you are the only christian here? |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 6:03pm On Jul 03, 2006 |
Afeni:[color=#006600][/color] Na lie afeni! Nothing dey happen. am not talking of civil wars but coups. you think say the north go rule for so long and not import machines? o boy live am o and wake up meen!! u never see how den dey fight for lagos, 2 people go stand for street arguing for 2 hours, using the same old lines who are you my friend? and i will deal with you. but nodoby raises his hands first. for north u slap be4 u talk o, so beware. Anyway on a lighter note, i was just kidding ok? so draw back the claws. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Should Women Be Ordained To Head Churches And Mosques? by zarah(f): 1:21pm On Jul 03, 2006 |
I think there are female pastors all over now, like pastor Bimbo or is that different, isn't dat ordained? correct me if am wrong. Well i am sure it is allowed in christianity, but in islam NO it hasn't happened, and it will NEVER happen. a woman cannot lead a congregation in prayer, thus cannot be an imam. You know muslim women are still very local and submissive, so would rather be un-heard. |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 12:04pm On Jul 03, 2006 |
Ono Asaba is the capital of Delta state if i am right! (at least it was the last time i checked), and i agree with you (he) the illeterate Asaba chief must indeed be stupid. But you know, i dont blame the westerners, they are desperately trying to win favours from the south, (so dat they may take them with them), dats why they blame the north for everything. But for the North no shakings. worst comes to worst we will dig out our Guns again.  |
| Crime › Re: African China Arrested For Rape In London? by zarah(f): 10:11am On Jul 03, 2006 |
Hi ya'all, I was watching entertainment news on Stv this morning and heard this. African china arrested over rape charge allegations in the UK and i heard a couple of musicians comments, p-square said they spoke to him yesterday and they think he was set-up. they went further to say it could happen to anyone, on his way to fame, and likened it to R-kelley and Michael jackson. I can understand when you claim you were Raped by R-kelly, But African china! why and who will wanna set him up? how much is he worth? wat fame will that kind of allegation bring to the raped girl? Maybe am missing something here, Talk to me meen!!! |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 9:05am On Jul 03, 2006 |
MP007 now dats exactly what i am talking about! The said statement was not made by a northerner, But by someone from the deltas, now you say northerner's dey craze!! It's a pity. dat u find ways of turning the tables everytime, if odogwu makes a silly statement,(it is becos he is babangida's in-law), if the gov't in lagos is bad (it is the north),if obj is stealing (it is cos the north put him there), if ph is not developed (it is cos of umar dikko & co). the north is blamed for every one of your predicaments, but how can you as educated and sharp individuals let anyone have dat kind of power over you? so wat i ask myself is, who stopped any of you from carrying guns to overthrow governments? Davidylan u say the oil in the west isn't being tapped becos the northern leeches will come and steal the money! Are u guys dat weak, dammn But i must infact stress dat if nigeria as a whole could once survive on G/nuts, i am sure a couple of states can. but i doubt if certificates can be soaked like garri. |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 6:31pm On Jun 30, 2006 |
davidylan Have you asked yourself were the money to develop Abuja came from? Kano or Abuja? i'm sure you yourself know the truth. i had no idea abuja and kano were developed. i thot the reoson am in lagos is becos it's better than say like Yola (using ur example) so if my fellow northerners stole from lagos to develpo the north how come am in lagos? cos it's better! |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 6:22pm On Jun 30, 2006 |
abuja was once a forest. lagos was once an ocean!! wats ur point? |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 4:57pm On Jun 30, 2006 |
Zarah, please stop all that nonsense. You have access to the website now because you live in Lagos, why have you not gone back to your state and live there? I stayed in Yola for 1 yr, you should have seen how desperate those people are to travel to Lagos. I would not blame them, when cellphones only started working in Yola in 2005, health care is non existent, electricity is only on 2hrs a week, you have cows, goats, almajiris, beggars parading the same streets as you, government offices close at 11am and woe betide you if you think you can do any serious work during the ramadan period. To be sincere, that 1 yr exposed me to the lie that Nigeria is, i had never seen lazier people in my life. [color=#000099][/colour As a matter of fact i love lagos, the first week i was here in the highbrow area of ikoyi, i woke up in my in-door swimming pool infact me and my bed swam all night. and then it took mechanics the special grace of god to get my new car moving again. boy do i love lagos! do u know with four folds of traffic on each side i was mobbed in broad day light by area boys and not a soul said sh**t, the brave men all went their way. lagos is the fastest place to learn english o i didn't even know how to write my name wen i got here, but i learnt inside isale-eko where every comon man and trader is educated infact they won't sell their wares to you unless u speak english. Electricity and transportation is so cheap and regular in lagos. and they lock up all there danfo's, area boys, opc members, and those obscene beggars who open up their smelly wounds (mostly in the crotch), once i want to parade on the street. The people in lagos are so friendly, so much good air to breath, and the streets so clean. with no traffic at all. i live home at 5 and get to the office at 10, i close at 6 and get home at 11, its so energising. the people are so hard working, so much so dat they work 365days a year without rest, and build nice houses in creeks and waterways and they are so accomodating, that they will let u live in their houses for small amounts of money while they stay in face me i face you in ajegunle. infact all 12 tenants of the 12 houses on my street are from my village. And then every time i travel abroad i hang out with my landlords children who live in the uk and america and are so hard working they wash dishes and floors. and do inter-net scams. oh lagos how can u compare it to abuja? my parents live in maitama where their is never electricity, no access roads, so much traffic, no healthcare structures, nothing! just a house on top of a mountain, with no swimming pool, no garage, no tennis court, unlike my house in ikoyi. why would i ever wanna live lagos? if my office transfer's me i shall resign. |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 2:15pm On Jun 30, 2006 |
Idiot, you just did exactly what you said you wouldnt.[color=#006600][/color] Damnnnnnn am guud. I love how i affect people. |
| Romance › Re: Should I Call This Hot Girl I Met? by zarah(f): 2:01pm On Jun 30, 2006 |
Ahhhhhhhhh adolescence ha? Pls wait till u grow up ok? Your self confidence would have improved then! |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 1:29pm On Jun 30, 2006 |
Great, I can see I hit the right spot. Your consequent response above is baseless. I am not even going to get into inferiority complex or quality of life with you. Empty vessels makes the most noise. Inferiority complex? give me a break. Your incredible stupidity festers like a bad sore with every post you make. [color=#000099][/color] mrlawng, U r so, so pathetic! you expected me to insult you back and try to argue out dat i am better than dat abi? sorry to dissapoint you. i am not idle. believe wat u want. i know u cannot drag quality of life wt me, it's plain impossible. rant on genius, u didn't even see the carpet pulled off beneath ur feet, how much more dumb can u be. Bark on DOG. but i just dont care. |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 5:40pm On Jun 29, 2006 |
mrlawng: At least now everyone knows that you HATE. and we all know dat wat brings hate is inferiority complex, bobo u will be inferior to others for the rest of ur miserable life. i rest my case!!! |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 4:19pm On Jun 29, 2006 |
mrlawng:No one can cos it's only ur side of the story you see fool. yeah my post very un-intelligible, and my thinking faculty albeit very low is still higher than yours. A man who is not from the north comes here and makes his blunders and instead of criticising him ya'all turn the tables round and start criticising the northerner, wetin concern their sharia, g/nut pyramids and being beggers with wat ur foolish udogwu said or with oil for dat matter? I hate to point out the obvious but mrlawng, and afeni's we all have seen ur hate mails. directed at instilling hate in others. wo think twice be4 u insult me o. wawa. |
| Politics › Re: Oil In Nigeria Belongs To The North by zarah(f): 2:59pm On Jun 29, 2006 |
Na una sabi. The said man is indeed a southerner and na hin talk am. weather we are all the bad things on earth o! iwo lomo. na the person wey the thing pain reach e dey pepper for body. especially wen e sabi say NOTHING DEY WEY E GO FIT DO. so please re-direct your hatred to ur brother who made the utterances not to those whose arms are folded, AND WATCHING YOU. Go ahead hater's. but remember there ain't nothing u can do bout us, or to us. |
