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New wives disrupt the existing harmony/ balance in the home. They always do.

oluwaseyi0:
Lol a 40 years man don't need a partner? But you are ok with him jumping from one woman to another in name of fwb thereby setting not so good example to his kids

Those kids will grow up, leave him home alone when they go to university or married

If he married new wife now by the time he's 70 he will have spent 22 years with his new wife, he has alot of time

If he ever clock 80 new wife without issue will spend over three decades with him

Remarry when the kids are grown and out.

Why the hell is he looking for a wife. Once he brought a woman into that family his relationship with his kids will sour. Concubines ok, girl friends ok. FWB ok. But never a wife; he doesn't need one.

incandescentena:
Career

Thanks

It's a tough one especially with his addictions and lack of seriousness in carrier. Nevertheless, it's not going be easy for you when you quit. Are you working? And how far have you gone or intend to go on your profession. Am asking cos if you focus and channel your energy to your profession and job it will temporary calm your tension and time can work wonders. But on no occasion should you take in again under this condition.In all am suggesting you stay and focus more on your profession and pls don't take in again for now.

No. Layers are to problematic and unpredictable while marketing broilers on time and at good price is almost impossible.

My Mummy is in Satellite town in Lagos, she actually stays alone as all her children have left house. If you wouldn't mind we can arrange for the girl to stay with her. Her well-being and education is guaranteed but proper documentations must be done.

Yes, you can't marry a second wife for registry of under the marriage act but you can marry for shrine or mosque or under your culture.

But I think after some years of separation, divorce becomes automatic.

Put it behind you and push on. Don't confront him, don't report him, don't call him out. You are young man and your journey in life is still far and the road is a winding one. You will still cross many parts, so just be calm, careful and keep moving. One day you will arrive, we have all been there.

Which policies have major impact on the country under Obj, Jonathan and Buhari.

The guys also own the largest construction firm in Albania

Dem dey tell us now (e no dey)

1990 dem go give us water (e no dey)

From united nations (e no dey)

Special program (e no dey)

For third world countries (e no dey)

I wan die o (e no dey)

Gimme water drink (e no dey)

Wey the government now (e no dey)

Dem no dey again (e no dey)

Dey e dey dey (e no dey)

It's a bit complicated and no yes or no answer will be satisfactorily correct. Firstly most men cheat, so his cheating is not too gross and they cheat mostly when their wives are pregnant or nursing a baby. So I can relate with his action and will not advise a divorce on the basis of that unless you are among the modern girls. Secondly and on a more serious note if he cannot provide for his family then he is of no use having as a husband. A man that cannot provide for his family isn't a man. Not that men doesn't go broke, they do but they struggle to get back on track. But the one that is perpetually broke is a no no no. So while asking your decision, consider more about his ability to provide for his family, that is primary. If you think he can, then go back otherwise stay off.

Talk to a lawyer

Na them them

Thanks, am actually looking for Guardian, Thisday and Vanguard, January to July 2007.

Pls where in Port Harcourt or any other location in Nigeria can one find 2007 Newspapers. Guardian, This day, Vanguard, Nation or any other National Newspaper.

Na una them used rig the election so enjoy

Chiefwhip001:
Where in rivers,i need to know now!

Rumuigbo

She has started clashing with the M/D, that will bring in- fighting and render the commission ineffective.

You might be right. After they cum, any subsequent sex with them is full of dryness that can even injure your pistol.
How woman go dey no go get clit?[/quote]I have dated two of that type and the results are same. Once they cum it's all over, there is nothing you can do, touching irritated them at that point in time, inshort seeing you naked irritates them. Having known their flaws all you can do is leaving them in the bedroom and head to the living room to watch movies, after like 20 minutes she will come to you that's will then be your turn to cum. It's not her fault, it a bit biological.

I think she is circumsized, it usually happen to babes whose clits have been sliced up.

Graciousheart01:
I tried begging the mother, just imagine she's telling me if the child grows, he'll know his father.

But she is right

If only you can calm down, get yourself together, focus on your job and hubbies this moment and it's torments will pass away. If you cannot do these things and let this moment define and dictate for you, you will be defeated.
This is all I can tell you. I have seen much worse scenarios and the men survived them by doing exactly what I advised you here. Do it and you will see how the table will turn.

Jman06:
Prof Osodeke and the rest of ASUU leaders are not very wise!

I was supporting ASUU before but withdrew my support when it became obvious that wisdom had taken a back seat in the struggle.

The best thing would have been to obey court order and return to class while negotiation continues.

When nothing has been achieved?

Kessy090:
CONUA doesn't need to call off any strike, for them to be registered means they've agreed to resume.

ASUU doesn't have a say in CONUA.

Watch how FG will instruct varsities to reopen and CONUA will go back to work.

See how ASUU lecturers will move to CONUA like they're being Swapped as an asset.

and that will make the universities better?

Location?

I have 1973