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LDR and 'internet' dating are two completely different things. I also agree one has to be mature and optimistic. remeber tru love doesnt come easy and every relationship will encounter thier challenge. BEing miles apart might be the hardest thing to do, but as long as you remain faithful and communicate as much as possible you should both be fine! ie his words to me yesterday!

well thats why its good to be good, because you have been bangin all the women in the estate he will not allow you bang his sister, either ways your relationship with this girl is doomed!!

^^ problem is its a symbol to the start of a relationship with an insecure and generally selfish woman!! it is her day but can u begin to imagine what other things she will do? like refusing to go to events cos the hostess is hotter than her, forcing her children to compete in beauty contests and talent shows nagging her husband for not dressin as good as the other husbands in church! She will be spending money and time trying to 'outdress outlook' every woman she comes accross! The woman needs to do alot of work on herself, i dont see her husband bein particularly happy with her in years to come!

@poster you are fine, tell the brother that you really like his sis, if your a good person and your intentions are well then he should be fine with it. if not remember he knows the sister more than you, you should listen to whatever he says if he says the girl is a slutbag listen to him and end it if he says he doesnt want you with her then remember he is only protecting his sister. if he finds out later in a bad way it wont be good for any of you!

God forgive bad thing, the feelin will come and go, I will never stoop that low! i dont still ove anybody!

how u gonna spank her all the way in nigeria?? over the tphone?? shior!

you havent been to many weddings have you?? there is almost always a stunning woman sittin @ the back!

^^ it is, but people will still remember who is getting married. i will be proud to have gawjus gals at my wedding! So they all get hooked up and i have more weddings to attend!

Im not doubting its difficult, just make sure its in your head that you need to leave, try and hustle money off your parents and siblings once in a while, once youve saved enough to pay rent for a year you should be fine. Trust me yoru depression will worsen every minute you remain in that house!!

I never thot negatively about him, i just never saw him as datable, dont get me wrong the guy is good lookin, he;s built, i just thot he was a bit too immature for me, im guessin now after a gzillion failed relationships im looking his way, im pretty sure he thinks the same but he isnt saying anything. Your right mbj i think its best we remain friends. . . .which is a shame cos i was begginin to like him!

I am legend, i want my 3 hours back!

Dont sell yourself short, it sounds really hard but its the truth, you need independance you parents dont appreciate you, they never will until you leave! you need to start looking for a job, get away and establish yourself by yourself, so your parents cannot continue to control you with thier behavoir. Dont rely on your boyfriend try and develop an attitude that is independant of anybodies approval. Thats the reason why you are suffering now. You have spent soo much time trying to keep your parents happy you have forgotten yourself in the process! You have done what you can as a daughter now do all you should for yourself!

the lady is a good person, dont let the fact your parents are not appreciative spoil that, they are human beings your job is to respect them !I think its time for the lady in question to leave the nest, it sounds like boys are much more important to the parents, in that case they should rely on the boy to look after them the same way when they are older, because there is no way in heaven any of you will do a good job taking care of parents who mistreated them in the past.

^^ nigerian men?? who told you they think of all that! overconfident idiots! they will go for an attractive woman before they go for an educated one! shallow mofos!

*TESTIFY* GHANA HAS PBBBBBBBT BOOBIES!!!

if you like me 075 meeeee!! ghana chick aye im far away @ the mo ill buzz u wen i get home wat u up to today?

HOW COMES? HOW IS HE DOIN IT? TOO MUCH TO LEFT? TOO LITTLE TO THE RIGGHT? TELL US!! AYE IF U WANNA LINK UP WIT GHANA GEL CONTACT ME

She was actually trying to distract people with it! all part of the 'illusion' lol anything that will get a woman to the top! i love her style!

^^ we heard you the first time! tryna make us all jealous with your humagous jordan boobs! wont work!! AYE AYE ghana gel does your man ever go pbbbbbbt with those boobioes?? LMAO!

[quote author=paddy_lo link=topic=452846.msg6108079#msg6108079 date=1275049519]men thats sad. . .i once dated this german chick and she told me about racism in their country
she said its from mostly east germans. . .

she also said raising a mixed kid in germany would be tough
cause they get bullied in school and ish. .

i was like b.i.t.c.h. . i dont intend to have no kid with u lol. . . [/quote]prolly the reason they are all soo rascist int he first place!

omg a gang bamg!!! you hoarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!! , how many men?? 3? 4? 7??

skeen!

I would love a party!!

tkb417:
exactly. . . .
i like this.

The photo album will look like argungun festival with some worwor people masquerading as VIPs
jeez!!!

DIES! @op did she refuse to invite attractive people too??

Thats what you call dedication to a movie role!

Thats actually the dumbest thing ive ever heard!! your supposed to have an attractive bridal train! IMAGINE! some are having problems for refusing to cast thier short friends! some hire models! Dumb woman shes not even thinking about how awful her photos are going to look!