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poster doesnt find religous women attractive, basically what he sees as attractive he cannot relate to one who is religous! @poster its one or the other mate!

bgees:
Ok. I get it. Its a Nigerian thing.

you took the words straight out of my mouth!

Theblessed:
Go for it!  But what do we all need in life?  Is not to be happy and fulfilled?

Having your own child is the greatest achievement that could ever happen to us all.  The greatest investment one could ever have made and, the most rewarding/emotional fulfilment we could ever ask for - our own seeds.

you can preach from now till 2015 this statement will remain untrue- where exactly does the bible say all of this? How is having a child ones 'greatest investment'? because its th emost emotional fulfilment to you doesnt mean for others it will be likewise, ignorance runs through th eminds of most that claim or belive themselves to be religous, someone who knows God and follows Christ wouldnt need to be told the greater joys that will come from adopting, there is no special serum or additional luck given to childrn growing up by thier birth parents, a child is a child. . .regardless and giving birth doesnt make you a mother donating sperm doesnt make you a father, its a human trait. Dont use your religion to try and confuse or poison the minds of well meaning individuals, study your bible properly and revise the little essay you have written up there. its trash!

poster has an identity crisis- not all women fix weaves and not all white women have long hair! you obviously have some sort of fetish you cant blame black women for not conforming to it! Its actually fascinating that blck women can wear different looks- its not fun to look the same everyday, probably why you got tired of running your fingers through the white womans head! yoU go find you a woman that rocks dreads and stop babbling here!

i dont think you know what bisexual or lesbian means!

she might not be gay- alot of women 'experiment' with each other

hey bro im only correcting the lies that were printed dont jump at me please! he's not on a salary he doesnt collect from the 'money box' of the church his income comes from his books- if anything that is noble- some pastors make money from publishing in addition to being on a salary having thier mortgages and childrens school fees being paid by the church. Pastor Ashimolowo is a very smart man to say the least even if he was corrupt it will be extremely difficult to prove it!

^ you kill me! @aga ur hilarious even as a woman i dont pick the phone during an episode of eastenders, how will having a conversation during football prove he truely loves her? no everybody needs his/her space the girl just sounds annoying as hell!

The information on Matthew Ashimolowos salary is inaccurate- hes not even on a salary he makes money from publishing, im guessing because its a nigerian paper theres no consequence to printing false information!

Kgdavid:
i never said they r not intelligent, i said they do not engage in meaningful conversation, u can be intelligent but choose not to apply it to reasonable purposes.

if u want a meaningful conversation go and meet 'one of the boys' you cannot expect a woman to be both! same a woman wont expect her man to chose her clothes paint her toenails take note of her horoscope and 'gossip' abt the neighbours with her!

evertrue:
Thinking and loving urself alone that must be a hell of a life.

how exactly?

evertrue:
u will bore urself to death

by pleasing myself only?

evertrue:
share some love, make others happy and it invariably comes back to u.

not true- people will only love you as much as you love yourself, you dont need to go through life trying to please others!

Its definitely a gender thing, reason why most complaining on this forun are women- men seek to only please themselves not many will do what most women do! spyker- worrying about family and dependants will send you to an early grave- if you cannot afford dependants dont get any!!! but its not all about money, its about general well being

Kgdavid:
the guys thread went up to 7 pages but the chics thread is on 20! this should tell u wat u need to know bout NL ladies. they re a narcissistic bunch; mostly rude, with a strong unjustifiable superiority complex who largely do not engage in meaningful conversation and as such are found in large numbers in the romance, fashion, celebrity and of course food sections but are almost completely absent from the politics and technology section. there are a few somewhat friendly, helpful and intelligent ones but there are hardly any who do not consider themselves to be the hottest thing on the planet and therefore behave with the level of ego expected of such.

reason why they are 2 different genders- they generally like 2 different things, a woman doesnt HAVE to like politics or technology, it wont make her any less intelligent! gosh!

madlady:
That's so cool, so much more to life than clubbing.

was abt to say the exact same thing about your cat!!! i cant stand cats though! dogs are cool!

I set goals for myself. . . . thats what keeps me going, i dont seek approval from others im abit of a non conformist so im a heavy opposite, everyday i think of new ways to suprise myself and treat myself- i travel alot, do lots of odd courses and admire the city!

ghana gel y are you tempting the population of nl? even the chicks came out to see some hot chick! oya show us a photo of your 36GG!!!!

your girlfriend needs a hobby, when you want to watch your football simply send her shopping or away to her friends- or invite her and your friends arnd so she has something to do when your enjoying the match- everybody needs thier personal space nobody wants to be suffocated by thier partner if she is being too selfish just cut her loose- life is too short to waste on women that behave like puppies!

What your going through every woman has gone through- you dated a jerk he found (what he believes) is a better opportunity and your left depressed and feeling worthless, the truth is he doesnt want you. . . . . . . . .why should you spend soo much time dwelling on somebody that cannot love you? Its ok for you to mourn but theres something you should know, he is moving on with a different woman, whether you live die or jump off 3rd mainland bridge he will continue doing what is best for him. So you should start doing what is best for you, believe it or not there are millions of men in nigera- men that will love you once you fully understand love is a game and the best players win- heal yourself and learn how to become a winner!

i will delete the fool off my facebook!

Im soo tired of hearing women go on about what they want to change about themselves, what men like, how men cheat, this n that this n that

Has it ever come across to any of you that you should only ever do what makes YOU feel happy? Do you not know that 5minutes of a mans fake charms lasts only that long? FIVE MINUTES!!! Do you feel like you need a man to take you shopping? take you to dubai? take you places? What is wrong with taking yourself? when last have you done something out of the ordinary to please yourself? Are you going out of your way to please a man? worst still at your inconvinience?? STOP IT! little do you realise your not making yourself happy, no man is worth it!
Im not trying to bring out an independant woman charlies angel feministic chant here all im trying to say is life is soo much better when you only focus on loving yourself! I tried it and it worked soo well for me, i spend my time, effort and money on MYSELF not letting other peoples opinions, men matters or religous opinions even get in the way

i call it the zebra-pill! pop one now and tell me how it goes for you!

nigerians and thier useless awards

i love you- very popular back in the day. . . . . . . .