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Lovemee:
its really baaaaaaaadddddddddd

That we r putting up with men's irresponsible acts.

I too caught my husband at it. And did nothing. Am still here in d marriage.

Wait a minute, did i catch him? Nope? I was told.

And u know what I did? I confronted him. But that has made me to (if u know wt i mean)

wow, well you will know if he is cheating, and only you can no for sure, a womans best bet is not to marry an unfaithful man!

What is funny is that the woman is complaining, why complain if its not enough to be unhappy about, infidelity is not just an act of unfaithfulness its a sign of disrespect, him being able to do it in your face is a show that he holds no regards for you, I don't know what women expect from such relationships, such men are more likely to physically and emotionally abuse you too, because they have no respect for you!

no need to worry at all! some men will tell you they dont like to argue wit women so they live longer!! lol

[quote author=African_queen link=topic=458078.msg6166595#msg6166595 date=1275897277]He always agrees wit what I say. . . I tell him hey I don't like this he says I'm sorry. If I did something wrong he'll just say don't do it again. . . I've not seen him angry and I've not seen anything wrong with what is doing to quarrel wit him. . . I talked to him abt it and he says why should we argue? We re two civilised people. . . Its annoying so I got mad and started quarreling and he just sat there staring at me smiling. . . The next thing he said is u look sexy when u're mad. . . What is wrong wit him, can't he just get angry or something. . . Its somehow.[/quote]lol your anger turns him on!

its not true, not everybody enjoys arguing some people are generally soft spirited and dont like trouble, if you are with a like minded man you will never need to fight, its a very wrong perception that every couple have fights or disagreements, its not true, even though im a very strong minded person, my man will rather ignore me than get into an argument! Or he just does what i say! but no fights!

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=458001.msg6164893#msg6164893 date=1275855573]@Zebra543
Asko ooh! Ibeere. . . I have done my research go and do yours Oshofree lol. How unsuccessful was M.K.O Abiola? but yeah you are bit right
As for toys please they just get you warmed for the big thing when you find that man that knocks your lights out you would burn those toys. Khaki ain't leather Ma'am[/quote]unless your a woman, you really cant speak for one, forget what youve been told!

poster isnt makin it up, some women have unstoppable gobs and talk too much, men will gvet up to the same thing and wont say nuffi, not to mention her stories are rather foolish!

is your guy a fish?? or a bird?? how uncivilised!

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=458001.msg6164561#msg6164561 date=1275851967]I don't think anyone here is wiser than King Solomon that had 700 wives and even more concubines on a serious note though its up to both parties to decide what they will or won't put up with

@Ebonyeyes
I would be pleased to inform you that 6-8 out of every 10 lezzie couple has either or both individuals cheating on each other with a member of the opposite gender

Vibrators would not keep you warm when its cold at night neither would they bite,lick or talk dirty when its necessary lol[/quote]I highly doubt any unfaithful man can ever be half as succesful as he was!, he probably gave each concubine her own condo!

i never get tireds of you nigerians and your made up statistics, may i ask where you got that precious info from? the department of social sciences in Harvard would like to know!

You will be soooo suprised what intimacy gadgets and haagen daas can do. . . . .something most men cannot!

the girls abit of a sket isnt she!!

texazzpete:
[b]This is a sterling example of why Nigeria is in such a mess today. [/b]Truth be told, the OP is little better than the thief himself. He has twice turned a blind eye to theft and yet you people are coddling him.

If he cannot report this matter to the relevant authorities, then let him stay where he is and stop whining about it on Nairaland. if the management catches the fellow now and he confesses that the OP knew about the crimes, guess who's also gonna get the sack?

thumbs up brof youve said it all!!!! The most ridiculous morals nigerians carry!

Its funny your telling him where to pick up women, thats not a good start! Love lives in strange places, you will meet a girl like yourself by chance! Devils dwell in churches, i learnt that pretty badly! @op is that a question? or is it a joke?

Think of it this way, someone has to remain with an unfaithful man? They are called insecure women!

Dont approach him because you dont know how desperate he is, You should report him, you are thinkin of his family? Think about yours if employers are encouraged to steal and the company is run down, will you have a job to feed your own family? As an adult you know what is wrong what is right and what the best options are, if you report him you may even be given a promotion!

is mikel really out??

^^ he had her all along, and left the blogger to her, women, we are our own greates enemy! Never allow a man to take anything of yours with him, that includes your pride, your happiness and your dignity.

If someone is unable to have children, one cannot be forced to adopt!

oops james unidentified 007 now publishes paper under anonymity! People on this site are full of shite! If your proffesor has published a paper why are you hiding his identity? Actually im very credible, unfortunately abortion is illegal in nigeria so that will stop REAL REASEARCHERS from publishing anything contrary. The figures you pulled out of your arse wont go anywhere with me! I didnt school in nigeria, and so have a great understanding on the prorportion 90% represents SMH!

eldee:
I don't know why you guys are acting like raising a family is not the most important part of marriage.

Ill rephrase what i said, you dont have to ever 'be pregnant' to raise a family, biologically conceiving a child wouldnt make a family any greater! Unfortunately, many are still beyond understanding this and extreme and expensive actions are taken, when theres millions of children waiting to be adopted!

Well i guess if the man is only marrying to have children, and ditto for women to take the sperm count!

I dont believe it, but it has to be said RCCG pastors are breed for ignorance illiteracy and a very primitive mentality! If Jesus came today he wont even pass thier tests, they have a need to judge. Its only miracles that keep people going to the church.

You claimed to have read a paper stating 90% of nigerian women have had abortions, thats not a point of view that is you claiming to state facts, hich are very wrong, post me the name of the professor and location of his hospital, where he published his paper on performing illegal acts, and lets see who is ranting anbd raving hogwash here! I would love to read hat this professor has to say and the basis of his statistics. I can imagine 'if you see the number of women that come here everyday, 90% of the nation' SMH!

snowdrops, do you understand what you have written?? the proffesor is no doubt quack! because large numbers of women turn up in ONE hospital he has deduced 90% do so?? do you know how many women in nigeria 90% is?? talkless of the fact its illegal?? talkless of the sky high rate of teenage mothers?? SMH SMH. this is terrible, illiteracy is indeed a disease!

hmmm- im at the fence on this, just remember nothing is for free!

why?? well im not yoruba. so no! plus im not muslim, so i dont believe my husband has any 'power' over me nor do i believe we are 'unequal'.

Length of fertility, cyclic changes and all the other technicalities regardless, not a lot of women can be pregnant 14 times! Take the poor countries for example, they never use contraceptives but they continue having sex, each woman with an average of 2-5 children! Getting pregnant is still a bit of a miricle in terms of probabilities and such, hence why the woman with 14 babies in america is soo popular!

The question poses for men and women alike. I have to admit the men on this forum are a serious bunch of fools. Abortion is nothing to be proud of, its a traumatic experience and women should refrain from discussing it with these type of men. I wonder where the statistics most of you fools quote come from? It will be almost impossible for a woman to have 15 abortions just like it's almost impossible for a woman to have 14 children!

ill name this the razz thread!

what i dont get is how she is found guilty of money launderin in london?? there is definitely something fishy goin on, though th ewoman may be guilty people who are involved in tranferrin money from nigeria should look into it, so they dont wrongly find you guilty of the same thing, i agree they might have just punished her because she refused to talk. Just because its the UK doesnt mean she will have a right trial

ghana girl?? wat u up to?? im home now??