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I was expecting to see an old man, but nah big boy dey here o...you sure say Dss no dey take mkpurumiri sha

NewDelhi:
Chicago, one of the most dangerous cities in the world.

I think las Vegas is still more dangerous than chicago

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!!


God when!!! Abi music is not my way ni, my song sweet na, abi e no sweat ni? Check my signature and download it to confirm

bros make I no lie you need to understand Nigeria music.. list 10 best artiste in Nigeria, and put your songs among their songs. Be sincere if you will listen to your song over and over again.

2 play your songs in a neutral area, where no one knew you. If people can dance to it and which to know who sang it, then you are on point. If nobody cares, then you have a long way to go

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright.....this na old format na

But the way way some humans take dey sleep and forget themselves ehnnn dey baffle me

Sometimes I keep on wondering if I am normal because I don't sleep both day and night...even if I manage to fall asleep....then any little movement and sounds will just wake me up

my guy you nah Efcc dey make you fear o...I tell you.

One thing I admire about your personality is that you are a very sincere person. You always say what's on your mind.

IgiveLadiesBj:
Hello people of Nairaland, I am at the point of my life where I want to stop pleasing people regardless.

I find it difficult to say no especially to family and close friends and this has affected me badly in all ramifications especially in financial terms.
Please how do I say No and stand my ground without feeling bad or even care how they feel after I say no

just say zaazu zeh

sokera:
ppl like you was those that cut short Awolowo and Abiola .. Yoruba enemies within …

you are comparing awolowo to tinubu?? talk true, you don smoke kwale weed this morning...

Metrofox:
Nigerian youths have no idea about the value of time... keep allowing useless old thieves waste your lives and watch how you become a wasted old fool at forty wallowing in poverty with a 30k -50k npower job .. 8 years is not 8 minutes .. But alas you will tell the story to your grandchildren who will be at their mercy and have to repeat the same vicious cycle to survive..
stop existing and start living !

I love what you said sir, you just spoke the absolute truth

Martins9756:
if you like go and jump in the lake, on Tinubu mandate we shall stand

seunmsg:
Keep it up guys, on Tinubu’s mandate we stand.

how much Dem give you, no lie o...

Magnoliaa:
i see Nigeria doing the same in the next five years.

this I have seen.

you no see well o my sister go and sleep and see again.

dasparrow:
I pray she is found. Something must have happened. Nigeria is not safe at all with all the kidnappings going on.

. Honestly bro, nah so so kidnapping news almost everyday, Nigeria is in deep shit

Joezinho:
Shut up!!!

zaazu zeeh

Mhychael:
Zazuu

zaazu zeeh

dodoatirice:
Lora lappy ko wa hacker si malay arigini ginini arigini arigini woja

dodoatrice baba go update dat your thread make we see story read today

Sanmel:
Lol.. Don't even add job interviews, I also get there late.. I'll just give an excuse once they ask me why I'm late.. It's been like that bro.

This your own no be ordinary true true...

DroppingLiquid:
If truly the guy came with his girlfriend why did she need to lie in the first place? And why would she allow a guy to bang his girlfriend in a house that’s not hers?

This is the first time I’m hearing this one ohh. vagina people no go kill us.

he didn't leave with the girlfriend. And I guess no sane man will do that in another man's house

WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.

don't move on with her, imagine someone that just came back into the country doing all that. My guy don't marry her, move on with your life

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

tell your family and friends about what you did to him, and how he's acting unbothered.

Ensure you apologize and still make sure your family calls him for a meeting. even if he's planning to hurt you eventually he won't be able to do so. Cos he will be aware that they will trace it to him cos the family is already aware of what happens between the two of you