₦airaland Forum

Kingcid:
Mine is stressful due to the different time zone

But the pay is definitely worth it ($500 per week)

Bro please can you put me through any remote work, I will greatly appreciate.

GO0DHardDick:
Unfortunately, I am already engaged to my russian girl I met way back in late early 2020 in Dubai.

I can't post her pictures here. It'll be rude to do so without her permission. God bless my russian girl. God bless russian federation! God bless Europe

Baba how far, help me find Russia woman I beg of you, am really serious bro.

ednut1:
There are 200m Nigerians with about half being youth. It is not realistic for everyone to japa. I have colleagues who also said they cant japa but of recent they are changing mouth. One in Chevron reached out to me, he wants to learn french for Canada express entry. The last time i came to Nigeria and visited him he was still anti japa. E go better

I know say you be tunde ednut. Bro help me make I japa too o...am very serious bro, God fit use you for me. Am a graduate though

Sucre6:
No kidding bro, and dude hardly read, he will. Just give u area of concentration and if u don't doubt it, it comes like that 100% in exam hall, dude is truly mysterious

Did you know any of his family?

naijamanyoutube:
Thank you for the nice reply.

This is a soft life of a stock trader. More wins to you sir. I believe you working at your own convenience afford you the chance of freedom to travel. More wins you once again sir!

KosiGee:
You are the one with no insights about what you are saying.

Bamboo have higher tensile strength than iron rods?? You should be arrested for this? Your certificate if you’ve got one need to be withdrawn. The man constructing this building should be banned from building sites.

the person you quoted is absolutely right, just check google and rest baba. He his extremely correct. At first, I disagreed, but I check literatures, and discover bamboo is of better tensile strength than steel

AllDModsAreMaad:
Forget about car unless it's for business purpose which is also an investment.

Buy acres or more and also buy one or two plots in a pretty developed area, leave it and focus on your business or whatever gave you the money in the first place or whatever you want to do to generate money.

After few it some years, sell part of the acres in the developing place to build on the developed area.

That way, your finance/business funds will be free from being caged by building project.

Too much wisdom in your head, I just screenshot this for future reference. I was going through comments, to see the best advice, but it came out you sound d best to me. Thanks for the advice

1 tears of the sun
2 17hours in Benghazi
3 Gully boy

UnconventionalT:
Copied

"I am a Nigerian student living in Scotland, A Nigerian Christian guy got in touch with me via WhatsApp and asked for a relationship, saying he got my number off a church whatsapp group that I haven't been to for almost a year now. He said he's prayed about me and God has told him we are good to go. He is a student too.
I was single at the time and haven't been with a Christian brother before, so I decided to give it a chance. It's roughly 2 months and I am at the point where I want to quit.

We got talking on the platform and also through calls, about a week into our relationship/talking stage he asked me to come to his place and cook for him so he can have enough food for the coming week. I was surprised because we hadn't even seen each other at that at time. I told him I cannot, he made a big deal out of it and said stuff like it's not a big deal for me to do that as his wife to be. We got over that and arranged to see for the first time, he suggested my house and I said I don't feel comfortable with either of us seeing for the first time in our houses and we finally concluded on a Bugger King outlet which isn't far from my house. This didn't go well with him tho.

We met for the first time and talked, after that he said he wanted to know my place as it isn't far from Burger King. He came to my place and stayed in my bed till around past 10pm, he tried touching and kissing, I told him I wasn't comfortable and he needed to leave because of time. He got annoyed said his intentions was to stay over at my place, he already told his housemate he isn't coming back home and it's so late now to go back. I told him I cannot allow him sleep at my house for the first time we're meeting, I have a small single bed and you intentionally didn't even say you'd sleep over before. He grudgingly left and dropped 3 packs of youghurt and a bag of unfried chips which I later discovered where all expired at the time he dropped them.

I told him about it and he made a mess out of the situation. He attends a pentecostal church and critisizes other churches, he doesn't really believe in adult taking responsibility for their actions as the devil is most likely responsible for everything, we simply have to pray against the devil.
He's asked for sex multiple times in less than 1 month, I stopped talking to him one time for about 2 weeks and we picked up again. He said he doesn't have to penetrate, we can do every other things to satisfy our flesh. He said doing all that with him is the proof of my love for him which I have strongly disagreed. Sex isn't a prove of love, we are adults and can have protected sex with anyone without loving them.
The only single thing I enjoy about him is that we communicate well, he talks a lot too and that makes our communication half argument, he finds fault in any little thing and blows it out of proportion. I have told him I don't have strength for argument in marriage since we won't be arguing over minute things that get him pissed off now.

Both of us have been getting multiple 12 hours night shifts from work and two nights ago, he asked me what he was going to eat when he gets home the following morning, I knew he was up to something. I told him I can't say, we don't live together and I don't know what you currently have at home. I suggested he buys bread on his way back home. He then asked me to cook for him to eat the following morning, I sincerely let him know I have no soup or stew myself. His response changed and he later called me on same subject, citing how I don't care enough about him to be concerned about how he is gonna eat since he's been working few nights now, he compared himself to a married man that always brings food to work at his workplace. Even gave the guy his phone to talk to me, that one too said I should do things in my power to make my man happy.

I tried to make him understand he isn't married and it might be difficult to enjoy what his married frnd is enjoying. Youve never bought me foodstuff, you haven't worked before and sent me 50 pounds or less for groceries, we are both working night shifts and I sort my own food, why are you angry I can't make out time out of my rest period to come cook at your house to stuck your fridge?

I have been in relationship where I cooked, I personally enjoy cooking, but I have never been with a man that feels to entitled to me doing that for him. He says I'm supposed to be the one cooking for him. He also believes in women abroad sharing bills, but he is too traditional to share house chores"

UncoventionaIT cut off the relationship totally, it will be hard, but do it for the sake of your peace at the end. That guy is a randy guy, take it or leave it. If he dearly loves you like he claim, he will never go want to do or say anything that will hurt your feelings, and he will be very scared of loosing you. Do you know how much you protect your hard copy school certificate, why? Because of the value of that certificate, though is a peace of paper, but is a compendium of all your years in school, that's why you guide it.

Nobody genuinely raise unnecessary issues with whom they love, be careful. And do yourself good of cutting the relationship, is not healthy, don't think of it twice

ADURA123:
Good evening fellow NL members,
My story may be long but pls endeavor to read to the end so that you can make proper suggestions or advice.

I have been married for more than 10yrs now with beautiful kids, my marriage is one that many Young guy will wish to have, but along the the line I don't know what happened things begin to nose dive. In the last 6yrs I discovered that I struggle to make love to my wife, she will either tell you ohh, she is tire or she don't like sex much..this I have endured for all this years with no cheating.
Her qualities are
She can cook
She can keep the house clean
She can manage resources
And she is accommodating to my people
In all this years I have never cheated on her, proudly saying it coz my dad warned me of cheating on my wife rather I should divorce her and go for another wife.

My qualities are
I work and earn like about 700k net a month.
I give feeding allowance and personal total of 100k a month while I invest the rest on a project which she is aware of.
I don't drink or smoke
I don't keep late night
and I am the best friend to her and my kids.
Honestly having talk to her for over 5yrs on this issues of love making and she refused to change, then I have decided to yield to my dad advice and ask her to leave...she is not aware of this plan, but trust me it will hit her.
I allow her to do little job to have her own finance is not as if she contribute anything in the house, but she is claiming stubborn, I love her so much, it will hurt me to cheat on her, something I have not done since I got married to her.
I plan moving to a new place in February, and she doesn't fit into my plans.

My decision between now and December is
1 Avoid asking her for lobe making
2 Continue taking care of her so she won't suspect anything
3 when she comes close I avoid her.
4 February I issues divorce papers and give her like 1m to go get her life back

Is there anything more I can do for her?
Advice me pls...

@ Adura123 i have a feeling that you might ruined your family including children by that decision. Call your own family and her own family, and tell them exactly how you feel and what you've planned for her, towards divorce, and how her not satisfying you has affected you.

Honestly, I don't always put mouth in peoples marital affair. But i just have a strong feeling you will regret alot, honestly, maybe is because of your children am even typing this. Please in the name of God, I don't know you and have never met you, please call the family to interfere, dont divorce your wife

Aboguede:
Na u still get helinus moniker


How much be that salary now? 2022 was 30k

Anyways, u are doing ur work well sha

I pray make them no owe u sha

and what gave you the impression that am the owner of helinues moniker.

helinues:
I don't even know which is the best governor currently between Sanwo Olu and Zulum.

Both are really trying their best to develop their respective states. Other states governors should wake up from their slumbering

zulum no be samwo olu mate for project, that guy dey try. Lagos has a lot of internal generated revenue, which has been pit in place by different administration, before sanwo olu emergence, this actually gives sanwo olu an edge. If zulum had that advantage, Bornu will be a continent on is own

PrinceOfLagos:
Below is Bola Tinubu at the G20 Summit standing alone as if he was expecting someone to say "Hi" to him

No levels

Omo, DAT picture made my day. I don laugh tire. Like, nobody even care about him

joseph032:
Mathematics is Easy... Physic... Chemistry. You need more than math to understand them.

Lol...

tuzle:
in my school o, physics is harder

well it depends on your personality though, but to me physics is not that hard

tuzle:
Math is even better, those people doing physics I respect them a lot. The math there is just so crazy and all the proofs. The stress the course put u through isn't worth the certificate u get at the end.

physics is not had, though it had some proofing, but not as much as people doing mathematics as a course of study

Slynation:
As long as I've come in contact with it, I don't sleep if I can't solve it... Calculation courses is my best during school days!!

But you see anything that has theory, those are my weaknesses!!

you for just study mathematics as a course

Chimaobi302:
Solutions to quartic equations,(Numerical Analysis)..
Did understood to some extent, even solved some but didn't have a better text book or materials to get a full knowledge of it..
And also
Proving by mathematical induction PMI (that topic is a pure math-magic) + other Advance Mathematics wey I escaped them(Engineering students can relate)

shey nah mechanical engineering you dey or electrical

Omoawoke2:
I found mathematics really easy in school.
Among the subject I never missed an A.

Maths is just common sense, logic. There are far more subjects tougher than mathematics.

which subject is difficult than mathematics again, Lol.

Samsunny99:
Construction and Locus

that's the most easiest mathematics ever. Honestly is too simple. Though is a basic mathematics though, if you had talk about Laplace transform, that is still understandable

alpharoyalty:
I advise you watch the video.
Very hilarious 😂

is not funny at all, I felt the girls pain. That's too much for her to bear. Imagine him calling that prank, not even in a room, but a whole shop rite. Am even happy as hecbroje his windscreen, he too should feel the pain and see how it is to be pained

Thomasankara:
[/color]Even if she dey nairaland na romance section she go check,she no fit see diz news,ladies hardly discuss socio-political issues[color=#770077]

that's just an assumption you just currently made.

Jestin:
What is your take home monthly? Some private sch teachers are still earning 30k monthly.

30k Lol, go ilorin or oshogbo, some school still pays teacher 15k per month

markidoo:
Raseedat my Crush 🥰😍

Lol, hope you know she's on Nairaland

Chioma4eva:
God will make himself known to you soon. Never give up on him. Remember the story of Job? What could be worse than that? Dust yourself up and keep moving and improving yourself. Your breakthrough is near.

Wow, that's a wonderful advice you gave him.

priceactionx:
This Idiot never complained about unending inflation and directionless policies. It's power retaining he is after.
Why can't he put pressure on his government to fast track policies that will be directly be felt on her citizens.
Why are the ministers never get portfolios and start work immediately?.

You dey mind the man,Nah only tinubu not been overthrown is all about, while is followers are wallowing in poverty.

Cheapgadget:
Nigerian military are worst and most corrupt in the history of mankind so nothing will happen.
Na today nyash dey back 😂

Over to falseprophet, let's here is plight on this

talented321:
When women say god fearing man:
1. They are talking about a yahoo man with the touch of adeboye''
Or'
2. A man who have money that can simp for her.
Or
3. A man she can manipulate to get her needs''
4. And pls don't forget when a woman said to u that u mean everything to her '' just know that u don mumu for her well well''
5. Lastly whenever a woman is coming to your life whether as a girlfriend' friend or wife, she has her target. Women are very good in calculation' so if u mumu u will turn to samson.

You are absolutely right on never 5, you are very correct

Jennyclay:
Please, let them strike . The hardship in Nigeria is getting worse

Dear men, If you’re in a position to help anyone Biko help them, some people are really going through a lot especially widows, single mothers and single ladies.

May God help us

Nag that single ladies you take spoil am. I agree with widows and single mother, but single ladies, mbah. Nag the way man take get hand single ladies take get hand.

Is not a bad thing if the single doesn't have a job at the moment, but you have job and still looking for Toro kobo from men, ko le work

Taylor90:
Make the strike loud

Reasons for the 6 months strike during Buhari wasn’t even this bad

This strike suppose last 3yrs

Cripple this evil government

The country just doesn't have direction again. How I wish you are in Lagos and see the way adult people, I mean married people lap their self's in public buses, cos they couldn't afford the transport fee.

Nigeria is gone. But am sure Labour Don collect bribe. Nag so them go talk without no action.

All what labour are saying is just to fullfil all righteousness, so that it won't be as if they never said anything.

Those guys Don collect money. While didn't they teach tinubu small sense during that first warning strike, the strike ought to go for 1 week, make tinubu know say den mean business

Jewessgratitud3:
*From a concerned lady*👇‼️

My husband is not the same man I fell in love with.

My husband changed totally after wedding day, in fact, it started on the wedding night and its giving me a lot of concern.

It's not that he is not talking to me or we are fighting, but he is not the cheerful happy person anymore.

After months of trying to get what the problem is, he finally opened up to me and I don't know what my fault is, I think he is overreacting.

My husband works in an insurance company and he is just a junior staff, he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad.

When we wanted to get married, my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once.

We had little issue then but he later resolved it.

He brought everything they asked for.

During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow, rent a hall and decorate it then they'll take care of other things. He said he didn't have money for a big hall and he would prefer a field ground but my dad insisted that rain could disrupt things and he has many people coming.

That almost cause issues too, I had to support him with 50k to get the hall because I know who my dad is, he won't back out.

I didn't know how he did it, he took the hall and designed it, he bought cow too.

His family brought food and everything went fine and that was it.

I don't know what was keeping him moody until he spoke up.

He said I couldn't fight for him, I was there supporting my parents and watch them extorting him, did I even know he had to collect loan to pay for those things?

I got angry because he used the word 'extorting'.

He was the one that wanted to have my hand in marriage and if he cherish me, he should do all they wanted since he is not paying twice.

After I said this, he stopped talking in the house, he comes home, eat and go to bed.

I tried talking to him but he would listen but not talk, he is cold to himself and prefer his privacy.

Have I said something wrong?

I don't like whats happening. My marriage is too young to be going through all these.

I am tired, I don't know what to do.

Advise this lady

If your dad is to be in the mans shoe with the same salary how would he have felt with the man's meagre salary in this present economy.

Your dad was only concern about the wedding day and not the aftermath of your wedding, and the man was actually right that you didn't support him in pleading with your parent.

Though I don't advice divorce though, but you deserve the cold attitude he showed towards you.

Not withstanding, keep apologizing to him that it was your ignorance, he will still get over it. He just felt betray and pained

RiyaGoddess:
Here it is sir - zero eight zero six five five seven four two six three.

okay thank so much ma