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Hmmm

Why are you repeating this story

So what?

Because the world isn't the same it used to be.

Okay

Okay. We have heard

Who cooks up all these stories for God's sake

YourBestWriter:
So i met this girl at the mall, and we kinda liked each other, so we exchanged number. Fast forward to our chat on whatsapp, she asked me what I do for a living. I told her I work for Amazon Nigeria, but i didnt tell her the truth because i dont work for Amazon Nigeria but a chronic failure who has been unemployed for 9 years. The Amazon wey i dey do na kdp wey never give me 1kobo since i started in 2019.

This girl now is madly in love with me, and she's talking about how she will like our future to incline (she wants to come and live in my house and start her career as a teacher while she support me in my work). But which work? Even house wey i dey live in na my papa house, and i eat from whatever they provide for me. The worst is that I come dey like the girl sef, and i am afraid i won't meet someone with that kind of chemistry if i let her slip out of my hands. Everything is just peaceful and perfect, but it is like a mirage, and I feel so eager to see it as a reality.

Any advice comrades?

The problem with starting a relationship on lies is that you have to keep lying until the very end.

You're not the only one in this conundrum.

Listen to this young man who also started out lying.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4Xcub2ip4Y


You can watch the full video here: the lies we tell young women


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pzWY98kIUqE

I hope it helps you in your decision on what to do

Interesting

OP, you're not ready to date

Interesting

This is the best counsel here so far

GanagiBitrus:
Get a notebook & record all your daily expenses/income for a month. You'll easily see what drains your money. Nothing like curse or mysterious there.

Is this real?

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dominique:
Adekunle have started with this "the Ilebaye that I know" nonsense. Did he ever live with her? He nominated her for evictions in week 3 after which he told someone "I can't stand that girl" (in his EXACT words). Now he's going on as if he was the one nurtured from infancy till adulthood. Did he not say he won't do the same thing he did last year?

We need to talk. How do I reach you?

Haha

Women don't realize that their window for entering marital relationships is extremely small. You will see ladies waste so much time and the start asking for help when all their toasters have disappeared.

For example, in this conversation about the men who got away, everyday Nigerian women are lamenting about the high earning men that they missed out on.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dz8ZVqReCJ0

If in a few years, they need support, they won't lament about all the good men that they lost.

Okay. Next

If you need to ask 51 questioms, he definitely doesn't love you

Tunde kara

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GO0DHardDick:
Dumb as usual

A man hates your billing attitude. He is not your father for you to bill him as you like. Go and meet your father and bill him

Spot on

Following

Will you be comfortable with the consequences of your actions?

Infidelity

When people show you who they are, you better believe them.


It's obvious that man doesn't care one bit about you. It seems you're forcing yourself into a relationship against the guy's will.

Sadly, because you're enchanted by this guy, we know you won't follow any advice you're given. So it's best you hear from folks who have been on similar situations.

The ladies in this conversation: too good to be true are in similar situations as yourself. Listen to them describe what's happening, observe the similarities (particularly with the lady dating a policeman) and take note of the advice they were given. I believe it's applicable to you and other women who refuse to see the truth that stares them in the face.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EU3zIpAEQ64

I wish you all the best.

Don't complain about the disrespect you allow