Your friend has fallen for the classic love scam. I'll advise him to stop engaging with her immediately, watch this video: too good to be true and take notes. Even though the victims here are all women, the ideas and strategies explained apply to men also.
It tells how vulnerable people can get lovescammed if you're lonely, badly seeking marriage and gullible enough.
rtdCivilservant: I can see senile decay has set in. Nevertheless : I want to place a curse on all scammers (using WildChild00 as a point of contact to other scammers ) especially here on nairaland, it shall never be well with them, they shall die a miserable death, vultures shall feed on their dead bodies, misery shall forever locate them. Woe betide all scammers. WildChild00
Are you denying you e never scammed anyone here? You've sent your account number to countless people naw
rtdCivilservant: I can see senile decay has set in. Nevertheless : I want to place a curse on all scammers (using WildChild00 as a point of contact to other scammers ) especially here on nairaland, it shall never be well with them, they shall die a miserable death, vultures shall feed on their dead bodies, misery shall forever locate them. Woe betide all scammers. WildChild00
izonborn098: Oga van' allow the singles to breath, don't suffocate them' As man if you never see any wifeable materials' Just give one of your girls belle and take the child'' i am currently flexing life with my children' Don't go and kill urself because one fish brain mentality' likely a liability.
Also, where are these men finding such women like this ?
OP, you are dealing with emotional trauma and you need help. You need to learn how to reshape your trauma and not plant seeds that will destroy the future of your family.
I'll advise you watch these conversations and listen to the counsel you can apply in your personal life.
There's a reason why the elders say that he who want to revenge should first dig two graves. Truly you have been betrayed but you're obviously not a saint yourself. If you can't forgive her, then don't ruin the lives other people.
If you have a daughter, would you sit idly by and watch a young man leave her with a son to raise by herself.
I keep telling people, whenever something or someone appears too good to be true, it usually is.
In this hard times, we need to fortify ourselves against fraud and scams, especially from those that involve greed and romantic relationships.
OP, you're lucky that the person who tired to scam you is a stranger and not a professional. If he had been a lover, one just like the women in this conversation: too good to be true, yu would have fallen hard.
OP, A few months ago, during a discussion on dating and hookups, undergraduate girls came out to publicly confess about their female escapades and hookup businesses.
See the video below, the secrets your girl keeps,
So I'm surprised that you're surprised. That's why if you want to marry any girl today, you need to:
1. clarify her expectations,
2. observe her financial and sexual habits,
3. check if her family's traditions are compatible with marriage longevity and finally
4. confirm she grew up and lives in a culture where female promiscuity is frowned upon.