₦airaland Forum

DaRapture:
WHOA, slow down,  you give that Fool too much acknowledgement, he's here for our entertainment, just laugh and pass.   

PAGAN 9JA:
AA's WANT to be called African. But they are nothing more than mixed breeds.

Brielle86:
I really have to get something off of my chest 
But first let me reput I said I HATE BEING AFRICAN AMERICAN but love being black it's a difference trust me

I too am AA and I couldn’t help but respond to this garbage you are talking.  You speak like you have nothing and on your way to nowhere. (SAD)  You seem to be the one with little to no self-esteem who can’t see what’s in front of you.  You might want to go back and read what Setp-G said “many are willing to be in your shoes and you are here crying”  If you are in the USA, where the land of the FREE is then you might want to take some time and start appreciating what you have.

Do us all a favor…. Give thanks for what you are now, and keep fighting for what you want to be tomorrow.

brooklyn99:
I believe that, naturally, we as black people have a distinct odor

Mynd_44:
People need to own up to their mistakes. If you a guy uses and dumps you, why blame the guy? You fell for him didn't you? If you did not let your guards down he wouldn't have been able to use you

Mrs, Chima:
Last time I have checked, non-American and American women are complaining about Nigerian men.

Get it right nugga!

Mynd_44:
one thing is certain, the OP only has her silly self to blame

Shy-One:
@ Poster

From reading your initial post, It sounds like one of 2 things have occurred:

You have let this person live in your home with you, and you are paying the majority of the bills.  Hence your statement about selling cars in Nigeria and then asking him "where's the money?"  You are looking for his financial contribution.

Or you have helped him purchase these cars and are looking for your cut and/or reimbursement.

Or all of the above.

I hope I am wrong but that is what it sounds like in layman's terms.  Steve Harvey - get his books - start putting "requirements" on men before you open your legs and open your doors.  Spend some REAL ALONE TIME focusing on YOU - - GET YOU TOGETHER.  If you need to lose weight, go back to school.  Put STANDARDS on yourself, once you do that, any ole thang ain't just gone walk up to you.

Because IF you look like, walk like, talk like a woman of quality, usually quality sees quality and you won't have too many undesirables who just needs a place to lay his head rolling up on you and in turn he won't even be a consideration as your "options in men, have just increased tenfold and your available selections have multiplied and improved."

Be something that an educated, well dressed high roller of a man wants to sport on his arm, improve you so you can increase your selection.  You chose wrong, there are a ka-zillion amount of men out there.  Throw your net on the right of the boat.  Focus on you for a few years, go solo.  Trust me, they will come running in droves.  Once they do, put requirements on them and lift your standards.  There are Nigerian men all around me who aren't waiting for money to come from Nigeria.  Why did you choose the one that "has it on the way?"  - check these guys out - africanlove.com

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]^^^
Your IQ just dropped further. . . And guess what? You are even dumber than when you began replying me!. . . No Offence! [/color]

sexkillz:
[color=#000030]And i keep asking how st[i]u[/i]pid some people are, if after finding out he is Nigerian, you go ahead and date him and then Run to Nairaland, start a sh[i]i[/i]tty thread, make a senseless generalizing post, compartmentalizing Nigerian men as crooks, all because you fell for 2 idiotic Nigerians, and then ask why! Why do you ask why when you already had all the answers?

You fell for the first one, and foolishly fell for the second one! What does that make you? It makes you very what? VERY DUMB!
So because you read a lot posts on here that Nigerian men knows how to treat their women like Queens, you believed it? And expected to be treated like a Queen too? Smh! Do you see how gullible you are? Do you now fully understand the extent of your "DUMB" Status?

Am i to be blamed if your IQ is quintessentially low?. . . Nonsense! [/color]

First off: You are contradicting by saying "if after finding out he is Nigerian, you go ahead and date him" I'm in America and it's a free country I say and do what I want within the laws of the land. You must be mad because I have attracted your  Nigerian man and you are lonley and angry. Am I to blame for that?

Second off: I wanted to see what  the culture is really like and I see that its no different from anyother culture. People are jelalous and have to blame someone for their misgivings.

The status wasn't so DUMB because it captured your attention.
From now on when you see my post, keep moving.

If you read this post and take offense, I apologize. My intent is to let sexkillz know “I got the victory” don’t’ hate.  

tpia@:
poster you dont sound AA or is it just me.

you're not typing in either ebonics or standard english, but as if english is a second language to you.

Mynd_44:
^^^
I was wondering when you would show your face here

Mrs, Chima:
OP

It were the types you and others have attracted.  There are decent Nigerian men, you just have to screen them the same as you would any other men.

edydeyemi:
I have always wondered, why is it that Good Guys always lose out, especially in matters of the heart? I am a perfect example of a good guy: We don't cheat on our girls, we treat them like they are the best to happen to us. We devote all of our time and energies to making tehm happy, We never lose our temper with them, or raise a finger against them, we don't go through their phones or stalk them, in short I treat them like they are goddesses. But after all said and done we get played for fools. Is it that we are too predictable or what? Do ladies truly want guys that would treat them like they were eggs? Why is it that the Bad Guys end up having all the fun? Are we too "good" for our own good?

Sweeeery Zila.  you get your hair done but is it yours?  when waz the last time u saw a black woman with real hair?  they dont exist (No ooffence)

Mr, Cork:
white women dont do that!

Nigerian men don't go on family outings with their ex-wife and be smiling(divorces here are craziy).