mpowa:


SMH! so Funke should just keep quiet while someone is smearing are name to make Money? the way we reason ehnn! some people are even saying Freedom of information, she doesn't have the same freedom to express her grievances when she's wronged? so you think you can destroy people in the name of freedom of speech? Everybody have freedom, including the person you're slandering, if you use urs to threaten mine, I'll make sure you pay for it dearly to the last kobo.

Go back and read the story Linda posted,she only narrated what happened between Funke and her fans on IG,she now made reference to the fight between funke and toyin which is probably y many people assumed what funke posted was about toyin and she then ended her story by asking people what they think happened.as far as am concerned she only reported what she saw no where did she actually accuse Funke of anything. na guilty conscience dey worry funke and her team

All over the world paparazzis and celebrity news paper always trive on assumptions and gossip,always creating imaginary fights btw celebs or imaginary divorce,if Amber Rose buys same car as Nick Canon it will be assumed they are dating,if Beyonce sings about divorce it will be assumed her marriage is about to break up,if don jazzy sings oga titus they will assume he's talking about dbanj.thing is most times these assumptions could actually be true or plain assumptions,i read something on stella dimoko's blog yesterday about a secret pix that someone wants to sell to her,she's yet to see the pix and know the real content but she had already written a big headline "Tu face where were u last nite" and people are already speculating the pix will be about tu baba caught in a compromising position with a female.paparazi's are not always kind that's y most celebs are cautious about what they say or write on social media.It has nothing to do with Linda being ibo and Funke being yoruba,Linda is a professional amebo her blog says so too, so she can only report amebo news people should stop tribalising everything.

i pity people that believe this gist.Follow all krall post and you go understand why

RIP Muna.didnt even know he was married such a private guy

Tosang am gonna share something a man of God once said: he said he once had a trance and in this trance he saw himself talking to Jesus,while they were still talking a lil monkey came out and started making noise so much that he cudnt even hear Jesus anymore, he new that monkey was a demon and he was expecting Jesus to do something but he kept on talking.wen he cudnt bear it anymore he said master cnt u see this demon that is disturbing us do something, but Jesus replied I cnt even if I wanted so d man of God commanded the monkey to leave and it did.it was later that he got d understanding that it is no longer Jesus's job but his cos Jesus has given him that authority wen he died on the cross.many Christians do same thing today, they shift the responsibility to God.go and read matt28:18,roman8:11. Ques is if u are a born again Christian what are u doing with the authority Christ gave u?even when peter wanted to heal the man @d beautiful gate he said silver n gold I have non but such as I HAVE give I thee.he acknowledged the authority he has a a Christian and made good use it.bible says he has given u ALL things that pertain to life and godliness question have u received it?stop blaming God for everything.

Bode2:
I notice that our people from the east are usually very intimate with their opposite sex siblings including cousins, niece, nephews and what have you. I used to attend one tutorial centre, kon see intimidation! two Igbo brother and sister as in family member, robbing, touching bobby, hugging,patting... Then, I usually wished I was in the guy's shoe as if I should disappear and be the one doing the touching tinz. I remember our tutorial master saying to them 'e ku gbadun nitiyin ooo'
Bottom line is that the Igbos are very intimate but they don't penetrate. For me I don't usually play with my sister cos I don't find her attractive at all but many guys do. I don't even touch her cos her body seems repulsive to me.

Abeg go park well.which one be they are intimate but don't penetrate? me and my elder brother close die,my mother will always be like una two ehn person wey una plan for no go ever escape una trap,whenever his in Nigeria am always all over him,he calls me his portfolio,mind u in Igboland if u so much as touch ur blood sibling u will be excommunicated from ur town. if u find it difficult playing with ur sis cos u don't find her attractive then something must be wrong with u,in the first place are u suppose to find ur sister attractive to be able to be close to her?are u even suppose to find her attractive at all?and by the way define PLAY.I am not a tribalistic person but yorubas una dey tire me sometime,that's how one yoruba guy i dated was forming unneccesary trouble because i spend a long period on the phone with my brother whenever he calls.D guy will always be like ''haba is it not ur brother?what can u too be talking about for this long?abi there's something ur not telling me''my own blood brother kwa?Tufiakwa unu vu aru!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ashyrule:
there is one thing God has created between male and female, and HE warned us as to this regards that when they are both matured u shld try as much as possible to separate there rooms. I guess both religion agree with me on this one. Prevention is better than cure.

Where is it in the bible?

If Christ needed us to pray with his blood &holy-ghost fire he shouldn't have given us his name:the bible said that God exulted Jesus and gave him a name that is above every other name that at his name Every knee must bow of things in heaven,on earth and beneath the earth and every tongue must confess that him Christ is lord(phil2:9-11)(mark16:17-18),no wonder when Peter wanted to heal the lame man he met @ d beautiful gate he said"silver and gold i have non but such as i have give i thee rise up in the Name of Jesus"(Acts3:6).Bible also said that the NAME of the lord is a strong and the righteous run into it and they are saved.(proverb18:10) i really dnt see wat d confusion is about.Christ has told us what his blood is for in Matt26:28 .When d bible talked about overcoming by the blood of d lamb in rev,its talking about our fight of faith.the devil is called the accuser of the brethren in d bible he accuses them day and night before the father (rev12:10)he questions their salvation and eternal life,but for each time he brings forth those accusation the BLOOD of the lamb which was shed for the remission of our sin counter it.
so y use something else when i can get the right result with all conquering name of Christ.People should use a study bible like scofield it will give u a further insight to a particlar scriptural verse.

jnrbayano:


Intelligent guy!

Believe me, I didn't see this before I typed mine

Rechargeable lamp I guess

SeverusSnape:
The guy is just like me... BTW this heading is misleading "she can't sleep with lights on"

Sorry dear i was working and typing this at the same time.i will let her log on to NL so she can view the comments

Super mods in case this is not where this is meant to be help me move it.

Nairalanders i need your advice on a matter pertaining to a friend that i met during marriage class,Her wedding is coming up in a couple of weeks,but she is worried about sleeping arrangement.from the little she told me,she had a terrible experience while growing up and as a result she finds it very difficult sleeping without light on.According to her the few times she slept over at her fiancé's place she noticed that the guy cannot sleep with even a flicker of light on and that he likes soft music on while she detest any kind of noise.she actually asked that question during one of our classes and the marriage counsellor just told her that she needs to adjust that marriage is all about sacrifices and compromise,she really need help on what to do so i told her about NL and she agreed that i can post this get other people's opinion.



NB:Please this will be her 1st experience of NL,please if you know you dnt have a serious suggestion try not to comment and all FTC,Nairaland and i school in where ever can we try to take this post serious you can be helping someone's future home.Also any medical advise will be welcomed

marieolae:
exactly! How person go have 200 shoes! U go wear one shoe for everyday of the year ni..

My dear its possible.I have a neighbor wey be applicant but she get over 100 pairs of shoe.me way dey work no even get quarter of what she get.she can starve to get a pair of shoe.Omo I twale for that chic

Congrats to them both

MissMeiya:


And I'm sure he carried the bulk of the funeral cost. Sorry o. Smh.

He did o,it still no do them,2 of my dad's sisters died recently n they still sent him a bill notwithstanding that it's barely a year since he buried his dad.

High time these villagers stop interfering in people's affair.they did same to my brother when my dad died,simply because he is not living in Nigeria they kept on bringing stupid and irrelevant bills for him to pay.where dem dey when he dey hustle for his money?mtcheww

Pain,more pain everywhere hurts,b00bs,tummy everywhere.will spend the whole day rolling on the floor.am pissed at everyone and everything.hot lipton helps for some few minutes,most times i take ibuprofen.omo i dnt look forward to that time of the month.have been that way as far back as i can rememer,but surprisingly this month was pain free.wonder what happened.i just pray it remains this way.

So sad.RIP sir.you blessed your world through your inspiring messages

as years go by n maturity sets in,most of d people commenting on this thread will change their tune in favor of marriage.at some point u will get tired of waking up with different faces, hanging out with different people.u start craving for some kind of stability, even ur so called success becomes meaningless cos there's no one to share it with.believe me @some point in ur life loneliness creeps in.u become wat d ibos will term" ono na igwe enwe mmadu"(meaning u are in d midst of a crowd but there's non to call ur own)marry if u like, don't marry if u like but I bet u by d time u turn 60 u will be wishing u did get married. if people like George Clonney can finally figure out that bachelorhood sucks I think there's still hope for most of u.
am a woman n this is what I tell most of my female friends:ur man's success is not sexually transmitted hustle to make ur own money cos u will be better off that way.OP not all women are a burden

killjoy:


wot is dis one saying? who asked a gal to cum cook for a guy? go n practice ur good African wife crap in ur fadas house y do u seem distobed DAT men r nt as interested in marriage as u tot? don't worry about d people who apply d crap I wrote Bt worry about urself my friend.

sorry oga killjoy cos no be me kill ur joy.pls take out ur e-frustration on someone else.besides am entitled to my own opinion just like u are to urs.besides weather u marry or not will not improve my life in anyway.

NL guys n their hypocrisy,marriage sucks but u still want a girlfriend that will prove her wife materializm by coming to cook in ur house abi? so if she come learn all these una rules n regulations of what a good african wife should be like,who she go practise am on as many of una no come believe in marriage?anyway anyone that applies most of d crap written here in real life, I sorry for am

nawa o,odikwa risky.ladies una don hear.

1st Na cooking,now Na kissing I tire for una.n for all those wey dey form oyibo sabi kiss better define d oyibo wey u mean cos I have worked with some Germans n French guys Omo their mouth ehn kai no see smell o.maybe due to all those coffee n cigarette.

kendrick93:
trust me when i say i'm quite gud at it... just lyk u said,i don't force it

n how did u came to d conclusion that ur a good kisser? did u kiss ur self? just asking.

foxxynik:


I wouldn't know u were this lucky! Congratulation ma'am! And my warmest regards to him!

thanks darling.we should share ideas more on NL love ur sense of reasoning. u don't need to insult anyone cos dey don't agree to ur opinion.

foxxynik:


Thank you!!!
The very reason why you should do everything in ur power to see to his happiness... Coz u wouldn't knw what he'd use as a criterion to marry you!

Most guys will marry for food
Others for sexual desires!
Some for beauty/looks.
A man could even marry a girl simply becos she's brilliant or becoz she speaks good english.

But one very thing will supersede others... Doesn't mean he won't consider others! That very thing will be his outstanding point...

he's never been a food person not dat he doesn't appreciate my cooking. n my wedding bell is for February n he's not hooked by any exterior thing about.

foxxynik:


Ofcoz...its now down on me that I MUST marry her!
She isn't the type that changes attitudes...
Unlike most girls...
She's just natural in her doings!
She doesn't front herself...
She's the quiet type!

It isn't a criteria sweethrt..
I'll marry her for a lot of reasons.
Including the cooking.

So u get the vibes ?

good luck to u darling hope to. hear d wedding bell soon, at leat am pleased her culinary expertize isn't ur sole reason for choosing her.my opinion is actually for those guys who believe no cooking no marriage or because she ain't cooking she's not a "responsible" girl

foxxynik:


We're almost not saying the same thing sweethrt....

I respect ur ideas and ur reasoning as well...

It's totally a nice idea to cook for him! Am nt saying he won't do the needful if u dnt cook for him...
But he'll respect and place u above every other thing in his life...

My gf cooks two different soups every weekends and whenever mum comes visiting she keeps telling me to do and marry her before I lose her... Mum enjoys her cooking as well... The day I took her to meet Dad and mum was plating her hair...she help mum to plate the hair properly and dad said somfin dat made me very happy..dat most girls dnt even knw hw to braid hairs and here she is...d

lt same night she cooked for the house...Dad had no other way of getting convinced than to enquire abt her and they r best of pals today!

My point is....if u're a girl then u have a power to make a man decide to marry u or not...acting like u are a woman even when courtesy demands! Doing those little girly tins could drive a man as far as to get obsess for you!

that's cute sha ,real African woman.but what happens years from now wen she stops doing that? but I still like that in her its cool been trying to learn how to braid. marry her but pls not becos she sabi braid n cooks for ur family.that's y most people are like "but she wasn't this way when we were dating"

besides girls should stop expecting material things from guys, success is not sexually transmitted hustle for ur money Jor.that's y most guys expect certain things from us because they believe they have paid for it.

foxxynik:


Know this....a man will look into you and hav many reasonz to stay faithful....but ur other attitudes will destroy it... One of my ex' was a good girl...she does everythng in my house and she was a good cook...yet she sleeps around... On one catch...

The other one was pretty...does every house chores seemingly...but she was too lousy...will return from work jst to realized that she had fought my other neighbors... #tigress.

Most of u'll do the cooking and laundry and captures our mind...but ur other behaviors will drive us away and u'll all cry this cry of men dumping u after everythng u did.

we are saying same time,cooking doesn't mean u will automatically become wife material, did u ever read a thread someone posted once saying a woman who cannot cook is irresponsible? point is most men focus on irrelevant thing n forget d core.am sorry about ur ex, just that in my case I wasn't posh enuf.Omo my dressing for d 1st 2yrs for school ehn

foxxynik:


Know this....a man will look into you and hav many reasonz to stay faithful....but ur other attitudes will destroy it... One of my ex' was a good girl...she does everythng in my house and she was a good cook...yet she sleeps around... On one catch...

The other one was pretty...does every house chores seemingly...but she was too lousy...will return from work jst to realized that she had fought my other neighbors... #tigress.

Most of u'll do the cooking and laundry and captures our mind...but ur other behaviors will drive us away and u'll all cry this cry of men dumping u after everythng u did.

we are saying same time,cooking doesn't mean u will automatically become wife material, did u ever read a thread someone posted once saying a woman who cannot cook is irresponsible? point is most men focus on irrelevant thing n forget d core.am sorry about ur ex, just that in my case I wasn't posh enuf.Omo my dressing for d 1st 2yrs for school ehn.every relationship. differs wat works for u might be a no no for anoda men shud stop judging a "wife" material based on how she cooks

Successdude:
your tale is touching . i hope you are strong again.

my dear I am o, my fiancé understands o n it never causes quarell btw us, its like a silent rule.wen am in his house he makes sure there's food, but even when I cook in his house its no longer wit d notion of trying to prove I can make a good wife but simply becos am hungry n he's there so y cook for 1wen I can do it for both.besides if I turn out to be one of those women dat cannot stand any smell in their 1st trimester it will not cause any issue btw us cos we have managed to build our relationship beyond cooking n cleaning.so b4 one over zealous bros go start to quote me remember its my experience n my choice u don't need to agree to it.

if u are up to 29 chances are u must have had more than one relationship if ur a lady what happened? ur cooking cudnt hold him? if ur a man wat happened? her cooking is not good enof? like I said in my earlier post I have played d cooking cleaning & laundry girl.I even sponsored his final year in school with my money, went to write one of his exams for him cos he said he was "sick" not knowing he was avoiding some cultist,those guys almost butchered me when dey didn't see him but me.it still didn't stop him from screwing n marrying my best friend,some said its just young school experience I shouldn't carry it for mind, bro it was 3yrs of my life n near death experience. ladies if u wan cook for ur bf by all means do.but it won't guarantee marriage. my opinion sha

Fit2Rule:

Why don't you step up your IQ. This guy is simply saying that the girl isn't qualified to enter his kitchen, but his bedroom. Maybe you don't know what that means.. Even when he said he doesn't like pestering? I pity some people anyway. When you clock 30, No one would ask you to change your mind.

you don't need to subscribe to my opinion,n I perfectly understood what he wrote.my white wedding is in February n I didn't catch him by cooking for him.every man on earth does not believe cooking makes a woman wife material.keep looking for osho free food.