TahariX:


I hate that word. I hate that being with someone means I have to lose myself. Regardless of whether I'm dating or married, I'm still an individual with opinions and principles that may be different from my SO's. The idea of submissiveness means -to me- that I no longer get to be a person. I'm just supposed to be okay with whatever my SO says or does.

And I cannot picture myself living like that.

[b][/b] if you think this girl is in for an early devours after marriage, kindly like.

sophieabou:
tch

Meaning pls

don't see anything wrong wit a gal cooking for a guy Shez dating........ur dating,u ought to help each other out. if so,den a guy shouldn't spend on a gal hez dating,afterall,ur not his wife don't see anything wrong wit a gal cooking for a guy Shez dating........ur dating,u ought to help each other out. if so,den a guy shouldn't spend on a gal hez dating,afterall,ur not his wife

Sapphire86:


Yes! She is still a guest after all.

...and he's a mugu?

Princecalm:
Look at what girls of this days are turning into.Imaging you went to your BF house and you met him cooking and instead of taking over the cooking from him you sit and watch him do the cooking and still serve you.Even the whites which you guys are emulating have not started doing this.

Dude you just made my day with this comment.

foxxynik:


I wouldn't know u were this lucky! Congratulation ma'am! And my warmest regards to him!

thanks darling.we should share ideas more on NL love ur sense of reasoning. u don't need to insult anyone cos dey don't agree to ur opinion.

Kirinwa:


Dude you just made my day with this comment.

really

Godmother:


Thank God every guy is not like you. The world is a better place cos of that.

I've told you the truth... He might have never shown it, but it's true

zoe123:


thanks darling.we should share ideas more on NL love ur sense of reasoning. u don't need to insult anyone cos dey don't agree to ur opinion.

You're welcome.... Come February, you'll prove urself to be that special person in his life..

Secretive pretenders, don't cook for him until 6 o'clock nack and pass you by. Mountain of fire go be last bustop of spirit husband die by fire.

tonyx4x44:



I've told you the truth... He might have never shown it, but it's true

We have been friends for over ten years so I don't really think that's true

TahariX:


Lmao. You do realize she is not under any sort of obligation to cook for her boyfriend, right? You probably think cooking is a "feminine thing" anyways.

cooking is feminine in africa even infact all over d world..if u ve been to d america continents or asia u ll knw wat am talking about its not only in africa...i ve met a lady from nigeria in america dat got married frm cooking in a house party..d earlier u tell urself d truth d better 4 u..its d only thing dat qualifies u being homely in eyes of men..maybe u re jst in ur early 20s

Tintingz


Are u saying you don't spend for your fiancé

Just like cooking for your bro, if you ask me. You don't get to do it all the time, just ones in a while.
Especially if he is a bad cook, you wont want to eat rubbish.

I use to think cooking was a no no, not until I fell truely in love.
Op. You need to experience true love

pickabeau1:
Tintingz


Are u saying you don't spend for your fiancé

Why can't I spend on my fiancé, my wife to be.

What I'm against in this thread is why should guys expect their girlfriend(not even sure of getting married) to cook for them?

Why most they want their girlfriends to cook for them when they will later dump them.

If they want their girlfriends to cook for them they should go and meet the girl parents and do the needful.

Is that hard to do?

Olaone1:

unverified girlfriend?
Seems you are intensifying your effort to please someone in here

When I said unverified girlfriend, do you know your girlfriend parents and vice versa? are you guys sure of the relationship?

tintingz:
Why can't I spend on my fiancé, my wife to be.

What I'm against in this thread is why should guys expect their girlfriend(not even sure of getting married) to cook for them?

Why most they want their girlfriends to cook for them when they will later dump them.

If they want their girlfriends to cook for them they should go and meet the girl parents and do the needful.

Is that hard to do?

When I said unverified girlfriend, do you know your girlfriend parents and vice versa? are you guys sure of the relationship?

OK...let me get this

Your point is that

A girl should only cook for her fiancée not someone she is dating

A guy should only spend for his fiancé not someone he is dating

Abi oooo! Its no big deal,u can't even cook for him with your own money sef. Some girls can lie and also pretend to provoke God....Chai

Sammypedro18:
don't see anything wrong wit a gal cooking for a guy Shez dating........ur dating,u ought to help each other out. if so,den a guy shouldn't spend on a gal hez dating,afterall,ur not his wife don't see anything wrong wit a gal cooking for a guy Shez dating........ur dating,u ought to help each other out. if so,den a guy shouldn't spend on a gal hez dating,afterall,ur not his wife

TahariX:


I hate that word. I hate that being with someone means I have to lose myself. Regardless of whether I'm dating or married, I'm still an individual with opinions and principles that may be different from my SO's. The idea of submissiveness means -to me- that I no longer get to be a person. I'm just supposed to be okay with whatever my SO says or does.

And I cannot picture myself living like that.

Don't u wanna be responsible for anything? SMH for u

chidyhels:
Just like cooking for your bro, if you ask me. You don't get to do it all the time, just ones in a while.
Especially if he is a bad cook, you wont want to eat rubbish.
I use to think cooking was a no no, not until I fell truely in love.
Op. You need to experience true love

Swerry you took those words from my mouth. When you truly love someone you think of ways to please them, cooking for someone you love married or not doesn't make you any less of a woman. I used to think I could never cook for a guy, but now I have realized I can. A real man will appreciate you for such and not see you as a cheap slut like few will think. I'm not saying you should turn to his cooking machine but once in a while does no harm, to make it fun you guys can even do it together. Cooked just once in a guys house my bestie sha not bf, infact no b food sef na indomie lol. But he sliced the pepper, onion, tomatoes and every every while I just had to pour everything in the pot, it was fun. What am saying is when you truly love someone naturally you would do things you didn't even expect and you wont see as a favour but just an act of love.

^^^Natasha catching fun. O wa tin tin

pickabeau1:



OK...let me get this

Your point is that

A girl should only cook for her fiancée not someone she is dating

A guy should only spend for his fiancé not someone he is dating

Yes... they have their choice.

tintingz:
Yes... they have their choice.

Which choice again?

Olaone1:
^^^Natasha catching fun. O wa tin tin

Lol which fun na?

Natasha2:

Swerry you took those words from my mouth. When you truly love someone you think of ways to please them, cooking for someone you love married or not doesn't make you any less of a woman. I used to think I could never cook for a guy, but now I have realized I can. A real man will appreciate you for such and not see you as a cheap slut like few will think. I'm not saying you should turn to his cooking machine but once in a while does no harm, to make it fun you guys can even do it together. Cooked just once in a guys house my bestie sha not bf, infact no b food sef na indomie lol. But he sliced the pepper, onion, tomatoes and every every while I just had to pour everything in the pot, it was fun. What am saying is when you truly love someone naturally you would do things you didn't even expect and you wont see as a favour but just an act of love.

nice one dearie. Happy birthday

pickabeau1:



Which choice again?

You have time responding to all these toothless feminist. they are all confused

Sapphire86:


Yes! She is still a guest after all.

And Still collect his money after all.
women.. deceiving men since 50AD

Natasha2:

Lol which fun na?

Don't worry. You're now a big girl.

@ Slimmy05 thanks dearie

pickabeau1:



Which choice again?

to be a cook or a maga.

All this stupid,dumb,brainless girls claiming they can't cook for their bf bla bla bla! in his house are still the ones that will go to his house and spread their legs wider than those curves in economic text books!! but you claim you're just his gf and you're not a house girl!! bitch!

Guy: baby, come cook for me na.
Girl: am i your wife?


Guy: baby I'm h¤rny, come to the house.
Girl: ok baby, give me 15 minutes.

By the way, people like @TahariX nai boyfriend they beat for house, and she will still be like " leave him, i love him, na you him slap?"