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philcz:
This new found love between Davido and Wizkid is boring. Music and beefs are inseparable. Ask Nas and Jay Z, Tu Pac and Biggy, Nikky and Remy Ma, Taylor Swift and Katy Perry.

Even the retired once self (Dionne warwick & Aretha Franklin) this are renowned mother soul in there respective field .

sunbilor:
So Sierra Leone is now a tribe in Nigeria? Next time go look for an appropriate picture on the net to support your anti-igbo campaign. This one shows you have issues with your mind.

He has brain crisis , Libya and Serra Leon are connected to Igbo and Europe ,right ?

Lies ,bed bugs and kwarikwata infested private part . Gotten from the slay queens .

enny4real23:
. Dude, why is there so much hate in your heart? You've got to lighten up and take a chill pill, its no use getting emotional over something that has nothing to do with you, she's just trying to know about the Igbo culture and if you don't have anything informative to say, sit back, relax and read other people's comments, peace

.get the Bleep out of my mention. Is Google no more ?
Moreso ,who is hating on who here ? I think u need to get ur brain checked okay , because I see nothing like hate here . Majority of the people ( especially black American ) I try to chat with online hate Nigerians like poo ,simply because I'm chatting them up right here in Nigeria . She's in America and the guy in question is also based in America ,why going too far by telling the world who the guy is ?
I beg get ur miserable life out of my mention ,bf thunder fire u there . Knowing igbo culture ,u should have told her avoid the guy ,just like ur normal way of using a tribal remark on the Igbos right. Amadioha hammer u there !

Corps1000:
I wouldn't hack any guy's phone, that's kinda extreme.

You're right. I guess I just felt maybe since this is a Nigerian board, they could see things differently. Which some of the suggestions have been helpful. Hopefully, we re-connect because I do like him. If not, life goes on.

Mind you not everyone will give u a better advice , but then again u shouldnt have started by telling all how's getting a job that will fetch him plenty money ,how he wants baby from u and how was born and raised there . With the aforementioned I will blame u in all this . U should have open a post or thread that will simply not give u a away as a foreigner. Such thread will spring up reaction that won't satisfy ur curiosity .

Corps1000:
I wouldn't hack any guy's phone, that's kinda extreme.

You're right. I guess I just felt maybe since this is a Nigerian board, they could see things differently. Which some of the suggestions have been helpful. Hopefully, we re-connect because I do like him. If not, life goes on.

Good to hear that . So be patient try as much as u can never look for solution where u least expect it .
Go through the front page and see a post about how the Igbos travel home for the festive holiday. I'm not an ibo man and neither do I know the person u are talking about but I will b the last person to judge s person due to other people's irrational attitude .
Accept my apologies for my comments

JasonScolari:
This article long pass naira bet slip.

Savage

dieBYfire:
Spot on bro...
Pls can you explain what he was trying to narrate, I don't understand he's English at all! I guess his from Oyo.

Oga English have u taking cognizance of your own grammatical mis-fire 'HE'S' instead his Do correction first before you clamp down on another person written words

Corps1000:
At this point, stop replying to me. You're rude and making assumptions. I am not stalking him nor am I crying over this. I simply wanted a different perspective on this. I won't be responding to you anymore. BYE.

Then stop being a spy ,stop spying us . Enough of how u guys spy us . Whereever i see ur thread I will stalk u and let Nigerians boycott u silly and nasty post . Look at pot calling kettle black. Leave nija men alone if u have no patient ,we don't date women with ego.

Corps1000:
I am not white and what does that have to do with me. Nothing.

someone s giving u an advice to hack him and read is text . I will advice u for your own interest never u try it ,u want to encroach is private life when u ain't married to him ? See the road to any successful relationship is rough and full of torns ,so don't expect a relationship made from heaven . People will tear ur heart apart just so u dont marry him or her but with patient and Endurance what will be ur will be urs.
Besides , u started what u are experience now ,the impression u gave him from the word go . Again ,put away ego and pride . Be humble and stop seeking advice like someone going to a native doctor or psychic to know what the future holds for her .

Corps1000:
I am not white and what does that have to do with me. Nothing.

Really and under one day u have written an epistle just to find out about a man and u think u can get the truth here? Keep fucking ur self . I think its high time mod starts to censor thread like this .
If u want a better relationship ,stop being emotional and sensitive. This how it works here , with patient and endurance u will get the man of your dream . I'm sure if u were this man ' wife who 's relative told him not to marry him simply because he can't afford to buy her a bottle of coke on her visit to man's house I'm sure u would taken to ur heels .
I will advice u ,stop this,it makes no sense . U csnt continue to stalk a man and hope to get to know him ,this is not good for u. So quit trailing or stalking him.
Now read this ,for your own good and stop crying about this .

https://www.nairaland.com/4251948/man-buys-wife-ship-2017

Fabuloski:
lol, It Is Kinda Crazy. I Guess The Lady Do Not Know How Things Operate Here In Nigeria.
Christmas Wey Be Say Returnee Sef No Dey Get Time For Themselve Not To Talk Of Your Supposed Girlfriend Who Does Not Want To Go See Mama. Lol

No.mind her cry cry baby ,e wan know how nija men dey behave . Tell him to ask Donald Trump or CNN,after all they carry fake news about us. I read her post all I see is ego ,pride and disregard for our men . U wish to know about Nigerian . Is she in anyway better of than the white ladies coming to registry ikoyi to marry our men? No wonder they said blacks are the problem of blacks . @ op go take a hike and stop disturbing us with ur watery question . U are still under suckling I guess .

Corps1000:
Translation? lol

As I said, we only been dating for 2 months. To do a big trip overseas with a man I started dating is a big deal to me. If I knew him longer, like at least 6 months, that would be different. I would be in his Territory with his family. Is that not a big deal to some of you?

Also, it's short notice. I guess I should have told share that concern with him but I didn't want him wrongly assuming I am not trying to take him or us dating seriously. Also, if he was that bummed out I didn't wanna go, he should have communicated.

So, seems like there is a lack of communication on both of our parts?

I actually caved and texted him Merry Christmas and no response. But i will give him a day or 2 to respond as we are in different time zones.

Besides that, not much more I can do.

We have got whites ladies coming to Nigeria to marry ,so why making mole hill out of mountain ? I beg gerrahere men!

Corps1000:
Hello all! Hope everyone has a good Christmas.

I am new to this forum and would like some advice...

I will try to keep it short:
I have been dating this Nigerian American man for 2 months. Then, he went out of state for work but in the mean time we talked/texted regularly while he was away. I actually visited him as he invited me, and stayed with him for a few days and it went well. We vibe well, wasn't awkward at all. According to him, he's ready to settle down and have kids in the near future. He is 35, a little bit older than me. I am not Nigerian but I am Caribbean Black so we have a similar upbringing, where we came from a religious background, fathers placed heavy emphasis on education. Also, on the 3rd date he asked us to be exclusive...

I, too, said I am dating for marriage providing it's the right person.

He told me he was offered a higher salary to relocate. The area where he is staying at for work is a very quiet neighborhood. He said he could imagine staying there if he had a wife and kids. I said what wouldn't he be bored there living on his own and he said, "I wouldn't be bored if you were here." He even said earlier if we lived together, we would have so much fun. Again, in the few days we spent together, we laughed a lot as both of us are goofy but we had serious conversations about our upbringing, goals, past experiences, future plans,etc

He even asked me what I want for Christmas but I didn't answer.

Anyway, he told me he was going to Nigeria to visit his family for the holidays. He actually invited me to come and I would stay with them. I declined and he said "Why not?" I said because of work which is partly true. But it's more so the fact I haven't known him long enough and that's a big step.

Anyway, on my last day and when he dropped me off at airport he said how he missed me already. But I noticed since the trip, a week ago, I been the one mainly initiating communication, when it use to be mainly him. So, then he said he is flying in Saturday and I replied I can't see him because I am at work all day. He replied with a sad face. So, I suggest Sunday and he said he doesn't think it's possible since he will fly out to Nigeria that day. I then said I wanna see him and he thumbs up the comment but never replied.

I feel since I made an effort to see him in Florida, he could have made the effort to see me or at the least call me and say he wants to see me but too but can't and that we will re-connect when he comes back. To me, it's an indication he isn't that into me. I told my friends and most of them think I am blowing it out of proportion, but one friend sees it as a lack of interest and effort on his part.

I am kinda bummed because I liked him but seems this is the end. I deleted his number and don't plan on contacting him again...

Bia op just like your usual way of listening to gossip about us from your wack ,gossip tv station cnn and or big mouthed president who call my beautiful country a hut ,why not listen to there advice and quit this moronic questions about Nigerians ,ehn? Or his planceta tied to Nigeria men alone ?
U deleted is number simply because he didnt call u. And again u said it urself u refused to follow him down to Nigeria ,so when u first shown a 'NO' interest about knowing his people ( if truly u love him) do u expect him to jump around the whole street of nija he's in a blind date .
I beg quit telling us u love him t ,if u do u won't come to social media to find out about him. And mind u, nothing is hidden here because he will find out soon enough ,how u are sniching and stalking him.
This is public domain and as such issues like this is not suppose to come to the public glare and view.
So go get ur Jamaican men ,they ain't better . I have a cousin who lives in u.k the first lady he dated was a Jamaican . He told me how this lady get piqued over little altercation,one short Jamaican lady who look like " black Chyna ' the wife of Robert kadashian.

GraGra247:
If you want to marry a Nigerian shine your eyes well well. Really look before you leap.

Well I could say that for any type of marriage at all.

Subject him to every possibly known test to confirm faithfulness and preparedness.
If possible hack him and read his chats and messages,e-mails.

Once confirmed go ahead & leave the rest to luck.

If u are a Nigerian and u are spewing this gibberish thunder fire u there .are you telling the world we are the worse of all men ? Or in your entire village don't u av men ? The writer of this topic is she not a grown up to find out herself in America? After all they have cnn and there president who know a lot about nigeria ,so why not let her ask them .
Spy will be sent to know about us and all we do is give out first hand information . Now u see it's not only triba and religion that is problem ,aproko too . If u come from a home where other families are easily gossip and blacklisted this the spill over .
U are killing ur self over another man hustle .
Why not bend ur miserable and frustrated head to pray come next Sunday night make God deliver u from this back yard gossip and prosper u come 2018.
U dey tie wrapper dey do aproko with one Jamaican lady dey condemn Nigeria ,are you better off ?
See if the thunder wey I send still dey do press up I go send the one wey don do road work finish to harmner u there . Anuofia

Corps1000:
It's me again

Since I made a thread on my current situation, which I am trying to deal with. And since this is my 1st time dating a Nigerian, and some people have insinuated I am clueless about Nigerian culture, why don't some of you educate me?

Of course, I asked my dude but a Nigerian male friend painted the culture totally different...

FYI, the dude I am dating is born in America but has lived in Nigeria for a bit. And I myself am born here too but Caribbean.

What is Nigerian culture like, or parts of it like? Specifically Igbo? How is dating culture overall? Marriage expectations? Beauty standards?

One thing I have noticed is Nigerian men, or the ones that pursued me, have been aggressive. They all pretty much mentioned marriage/kids within a short time. Is this cultural?

Why don't you stick to your Caribbean men? U go about trying to know other people's culture because you know the Igbo men spend lavishly on there marriage right ? If u are good yourself the Jamaican men should have married . So quit ,tarnishing our image woman , enough of how ur foreigners soil our names and image on the mud . After all u ain't the first to date a Nigerian man ,so why the hell would u want do an investigation about us here ?
I'm most likely sure the op is known to me . Rubbish ! Gold digger ,u better go get a job . U want to strike gold.
And please no one should quote me or else thunder will fire the person before New year .
You all will say Nigerians are the most corrupt and there u are coming for our men ,why not stick ur dirty ass in your home land and get to look for a Jamaican with igbo version . Rubbish ole buruku .

LuvSwollenPussy:
If you check am well, na different papa get each of the kids.

America promoting single motherhood since 1900

U never Sabi ,ask ebue Emmanuel. Let him tell u why baby mama is bae for u.

Foto or I don't believe it

Most people don't like using phone that enables them to whatspp or Facebook . So they rather prefer to use a phone that won't make people think they are avoiding them ,hence the Nokia phone he is using .

hardbody:
She was in the inside world. Truth is she has been criminally moulded and the society will suffer for the social injustice. Gbam

God bless u for your respond,I have had to receive queries from Two Illuminati and athiest member ,my offence i was I mention the name of God . As if I have committed sacrilege with God's name in my comments.
See things happen for a reason and when that happens we learn from them . It behoves on us to know which part to follow ( good or bad ) and for me I believe two things would have happened to her while in prison death or alive . But she's alive today for a reason and the lesson of life is learnt that way .
So I don't know why some jerkass chose to see my comments like I have mentioned there enermies name which is God. My opinion is entitled to me and vice versa ,so if anyone feel disillusioned about the mention of God's name let him or her take a dive in the bottomless pit of hell .

onegig:
This is why things like this persists.

We always look for ways to bring God into everything. Wtf are you talking about ? God kept her in bondage so she couldn't have died? Like seriously? Why didn't the same God put her in a better place to shield her from this same death. You all lots talk like people are going to be inmortal with God or something.

Questions we should be asking is...What has happened to that IPO? Nothing. What is his name? He is somewhere looking for the next victim. Until we start purnishing misdeeds and not leaving things to God the country would never ever ever get better. You do wrong and get the consequences of it.

slowpoke ,I'm entitled to my opinion and I see no reason why u should be frustrated ,am I d cause of your problem ? Or do u have any problem at the mention of God"s name ? Go take hike on a cliff and leave my mention .

Larryslim:
How is this connected to God??
Why dint God put her in a better place to avert anything,why must it be in a prison for a crime she knows nothing about??..
When bad things happen,people will say"God knows why he did it"but when a good thing happen,nobody will ever mention it..
She was at fault tho,why won't you know your boyfriend's real identity..
And that IPO ehnnn...
Anyways that's the country we live in..

Guy why not take ur frustrated life to another place ,why stalk me like a mucus? Get the Bleep out it my mention,if u are an athiest must u vent ur anger at me ? . Dick head !

OMG ,ipob ti take over . So now the competition of ritual killing is now between ipob and afonja ..let's see who takes the trophy .

But why this guys too dey bleach sef

God have mercy ,imagine a whole six years of her life being twarted because of pleasures of this world . Well God knows why dis happened . Maybe if she were to be in the outside world who knows she might have died,God must have kept her for this reason to. I'm sure she has must have learnt a lot from the inside world

Lols

pocohantas:
This is what I want to be seeing!
A Naija man with good foreign exchange value.

Good to know she overcomed the PCOS.
I heard it is common and not so difficult to treat. I don't know how true that is, in all...this is her testimony.

The kids look so much like her.
Very dominant gene she gat there

Taa madam no let them hear u oo. The kids looks like there papa ,check the fore- head of the man and compared with wife or the nose of the little girl with her father . Nice pictures .

hollawaley2:
This face mehn, I dey look for caption for am

Use " I don't believe your are this stupid " that sounds cool

The first picture is a good meme for whenever we see the post of danjuma Carolina butt , the description ,be like "idi yen fe " the ysnch big

midolian:
with her nose like PDP Umbrella. I hope the surgery will be on only her nose.

yeye pipu with fake lives

Ibo ladies are known for living a fake live . I use to live with this family of 5 girls and one boy being the last .the girls can form wetin wetin for me and some of my mates ,at a a point a guys had a fight with there late father for making advances over the third girl in the family.some years later they got pregnant before finishing sec skool ,with guys outside the area.

akeentech:
who pvssy elp

Na so who pussy epp? E go take ur time ,money ,favour and strength after which u look eppless in society . Useless pussy abeg u na carry this thing go potopoto republic jare