XhosaNostra:


Which one? Your crush? No.

From your previous comment, it seems you've never actually had the discussion or you'd have given a clear answer, not this my country what what thing you were saying.

Lets talk about southy babes generally ,

Andrewgame42:
Lie lie

This are spy my brother . Dont take story hook line and sinker

chuksjuve:
A classic definition of a goal getter ..

Whatever you set your mind to to, other thing being equal you will definitely accomplish it...



Nice one!!


Contact us for your landscape and gardening service ....

This are spy my brother . Dont take story hook line and sinker

XhosaNostra:


Rather say you don't know because the reasons you gave are a bit vague.

Vague how ? I just said it and its on point. Hope u are not the one sha?

XhosaNostra:


Riiight.

Can you believe the nerve! I'm not sure if it's two different girls or not, but the one carrying a selfie stick definitely lives in a shack by the look of the room & yet she has these outrageous expectations about what she thinks she deserves. Nobody said you shouldn't be ambitious, but she's taking it too far lol.

I know u will never disappoint me for once . Thread like thisvis what your spirit feast on for survival. Been looking for u since. Mrs nwamaikpe future wife.
please whsts is ur take in this ma'am.

XhosaNostra:


How can I say that? I don't even know the girl. I'm only curious about why she left home.

Okay ! But theres nothing wrong about leaving the country . Atlrast she can learn.the ways of other peoples culture. Especially , a country like ours who love being our brothets keepers . Im sure a popular politician must have contracted her for the job.
I learnt majority of her staff ( her hair stylist ) have absconded due to her unbearable nature.

Iro lon pa oo

XhosaNostra:



Hmmmm...do you know how she ended up in Nigeria? Something kinda doesn't make sense.

Are you saying shes an olosho?

Is it a time machine

XhosaNostra:


It's not about pride but cultural differences or rather "cultural shock" to be precise. I've been reading through the threads & found out some shocking revelations about what widows go through. That could never be me lol.

I'd advise you to drop the shallow minded approach if you're really interested in her. Xhosa women are not in awe of men. They get attention effortlessly because they're not the shy type. They go for what they want, no time for beating around the bush. Plus most are good looking. It's a fact But the thing is finding the right man. They have a reputation as man-eaters & golddiggers because it's a shallow world, most guys are about the looks. So they often use that to their advantage by playing the field, until they can find that rare gem of a man that's worth settling down for.

I hear you. My first meeting was hell. Shes the head of a beauty shop. I went to ask her about pedicure and her first respond was rude for a customer service officer.at a point i was forced to ask her the part of the xountry she hails jokingly and she lied about it. But tongue gave her away.

XhosaNostra:



Lol, no Ipob man for me, thanks. The culture seems to have practises I wouldn't be able to stomach.

Xhosa girls sha........u.na get pride oo. Theres one in Nigeria who works with a cinema house ( the only and biggest in benin) she so full of her self and very proud . I.like her butty though ,very curvy

XhosaNostra:
Don't they say the bride price is high over there? X2 = he must balling.

Women don't have time for jealousy & pettiness when there's a stack of cash to deplete

You heard that?

Its time to book down......or are you not interested in ipob men?

EMERALDGIL:
this kind nonsense men don finish?

Long before you envisage .........you better grab your copy now before its too late .

PatrickOkunima:
The world contains over 7 billion people. Chances are, at least 7 persons are aspiring for what you are aspiring for. Resources ( jobs) are scarce, hence there is the need to allocate the limited resources to the one that can utilize them the most.

Every industry has its own rules, jargon and guidelines. It is proper for you to acquaint yourself with the little etiquette that job interviews require. This might be the only distinguishing factor between you and the person sitting next to you at the interview.

Thank God your application has been considered. You have been applying with little or no success. The call to interview is an opportunity to show the employer that you are what you said on paper and much more. However, little things could jeopardize your chance of securing the job.

Employers usually have tons of applications to go through every now and then. Some of whom are more qualified than you. Hence, they are looking for means to cut down the stress.

In addition, the work environment is different from the normal environment you are acquainted with. Certain behavioral patterns have to be shown. Since the interviewers do not reside with you before now, the only way they could identify these desired traits is what they can see during the interviews.

Some interview etiquette

1. Calmness: There is the temptation to be hypersensitive during interviews. Your adrenaline could betray you sometimes and make your anxiety very palpable. But what you need above all else is your calmness. This will ensure that you don’t knock off the water during the interview. It also present a sense of maturity and makes it difficult for the interviewers to read your weaknesses.

2. Be a polite guest: Have you ever see a situation where someone comes to your house for the first time and started rearranging your house for you? It does happen; and that is a trait of a rude guest. Be careful not to be a commando in the interview room. Do not sit until you are asked to do so. And remember to thank them afterwards. Do not remove your smelly shoes in the interview room for any reason. Laugh with them if they throw some jokes your way. Put on a calm and polite disposition-they don’t care about the fact that you were jobless for years. Be a polite guest.

3. Avoid lies: Have you ever met some terrible liars? They are liars and they are stupid at the same time. Imagine someone telling you she has a Ph.D in English and cannot express herself in the simplest term in same. Do not lie to your interviewers. Some of them have interviewed so many people and they literally know what you would say next. A lady lost a job just because she said she could play chess. The interviewer brought out chess, gave her the black pieces and asked her to play first. She did and she lost the job. Be honest and be yourself.

4. Dress for the occasion: Ever heard the saying “dress the way you want to be addressed?” Well, it is almost a universal truth. Dressing scores you high at the interviews. However, you don’t have to put on luxury cloths. All you need to do is dress simple and smart.

Follow these simple guidelines and land yourself the job of your dream.

Source: https://patrickokunima.com/2018/02/03/job-interview-etiquette-4-attitudes-that-can-increase-your-chances-of-landing-the-job/

Please oga Patrick i want to do a very good c.v. kindly check ur mail i just dm you.

Same way my first cousin's wife took his immediate younger brother's wife to church and the pastor of the church gave her fake prophecy that her husband's siblings her the cause of there problem. And the lady being an obervant person ,met her mother inlaw and spoke to her about the prophecy and the mother in- law asked her a salient question "since they were married as any of her children comes to ask you for water to drink let alone asked for cash and kind and u all refused them? She said no she asked her again ,since u were married to my son have you had any altercations with them ?" he answerwd in.the affirmative .
Most times thats why i will sometimes want support daddy freeze in his criticism about the religious leaders.

Mugabe u about see the kama dance to one corner dance .

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Oh my rupepe

e10nzy:


Then I guess you'll be dying very soon, cos my father is late!! RIP in advance

You guys should all this childish attitude already .

dfriendlyadvice:

whoops ask your momma then or is she croaked too?

You guys should all this childish attitude already .

Yeye husband

Its explorer again.

Picture or.........

RIP SIRE

U don meant it ?

TheGenius001:
We've known for almost. a year now.Am a student just as she is too(the same Skul).But then I have focus on so many important things pertaining to my studies.I love her (but who love help?), and she knows, but I don't know if she does the same.


Anyway I don't I need to be in any relationship now because I feel its a big distraction.So I want to quit.But I don't know how to.The last time I tried doing that,I told her to her face that I'm tired of this relationship (I no go kill myself) even though it is going smooth.But she Was heart broken and wanted to cry(I felt for her that day).


I want to stop chatting her up or maybe not spending much time with her (if at all there is any).I have done it tho.But I feel like I have done something very bad by leaving her just like that.She calls but I don't pick,and sometimes when I pick,I wouldn't want to talk too much but instead, I make the call as quick as possible.And When I think about her,it makes me feel like a bad person.


Pls anybody with an Idea in how to tell her I quit!!! pls help
Thanks.

I hope u wont regret your actions in future,that girl.might turn out to be your helper or barrier to succeed . Call her and you both should work things out ,telk her u want u and her to live like broda and sister .
If u break her heart kama dey dance one corner for back.yard oo. Watching u.

Seperating anger from a benin person like severing the head from the body . They are both compactable you cant seperate them. Is what i see both at work and at the market place . I have been in benin since the report of a car thst was hung on the fence, around ring road . Which i read here on nairaland before moving to benin.

Benin indigene and anger be like......... ,please someone should help.me with that zuma meme. Im am in and i know what i see on a daily basis ,so please no one should mention me .

Visit elewo omo,

micseyi:


You dont know what goes on. Health care service In this country is already seriously subsidised by the govt. M in the system so I know. I'll give u an example.

there was a tym one of my friends in The US wanted to do an herniorraphy(Hernia repair). The total cost was about #900, 000 after conversion to naira.

In Nigeria, (Asokoro District Hospital to be specfic), the cost of the same Operation is around #40k. So u can imagine...

Bros like i said our govt needs to.do more. The equating of the naira to the dollar was caused by who ? Me and you or the govt? Because the #900,000 naira u just mention before abacha died it was not up to #100 to a dollar .
So my point is that we are not asking d govt for too much.Make a better policy and impliments it,we are not telling them to build factory for us or white collar job, but an enabling environment to better our lives. If u are in a hospital to witness this i was in libya to witness what murman gadafi did as a head of state. He made live easier for the libyans as a president. The Libyans dont work every friday was when people like me who are foreigners have better pay .( over time)
After there prayer the muslims go home while we tge Christian stay to cover for them ,hence higher pay for me and others. Hospital bill was at the expense of gadafi and his govt. Free bus to and from where you are going to or oming from. Not untill hillary and obama killed gadafi. That year was when i came back to Nigeria .
So my brother,govt should stop shying away from there social responsibilities. Like i said im not in support of over population . But government need to do alot. Because tge issue at hand is like a time bomb ticking . Sooner or later yam ,garri and rice which is d pooir man's food will become rare and expensive to get . All because herdsmen are now driving our local famers away. Have you noticed that we import palm oil from Malaysia ?

modelmike7:

Another good point you made there.

Bros he has made no point. Just about a day or two ago ,someone post a thread about how Singaporean govt planned given out a bonus of 300$ each to its citizens . Since u and i were born how many of our leaders had done 1/4 of what countries like this have done? This is part of social responsibilities if our govt afterll d govt abroad we all copied pay social benefit to its citizens.
mind u im not trying to support over populating the country but my question is this when will our govt start acting right?

NwaAmaikpe:


This is so true.
No woman should give her kitty out for free.
Because that's the oil well nature has given them...

Just like in the parable of the talents, on the last day; every woman will account for how much she made with hers.
Woe betide you, if yours couldn't generate income.

Money remains the best aphrodisiac, if he can't give you money, you have no right to be hörny for him.

Nwamaipka again ,always a hit. Im sure dey must have come for u.