₦airaland Forum

Na only girls outside this shore dey appreciate everything about Nigeria and Nigerians.

I once approached one disjointed godforsaken Nigerian girl with my thick owerri dialect and she said I'm too local.

superCleanworks:
1. what kind of month is that?

Fabulous month

I'll rather pick, nurture and train a stray dog.

Kindergarten relationship.

tesppidd:
Lol

Nigerians love to play politics too much

The Masses are down there wailing and suffering from rising cost of goods and essential services,
People are still getting killed daily in the North, they are here praising Tinubu.

Sad.

Most Nigerians are gullible, obviously.

Imagine what they're celebrating. Appointment of service chiefs

Flows001:
I didn't mean training the children will be traumatising for her, of course he will be responsible for their upkeep.
I meant that the shock of having to be forced to accept what she didn't plan to live with will actually be traumatising for her.
Of course I will personally advice to treat them nicely, because the man himself has been really nice and responsible to her all along.

No one is forcing her to accept anything. Stop using the word "force" here.

Can we see profile of their Grand Commander, starting from his early life, primary and secondary schools he attended?

olamydey:
No need to rush anything at this moment. She should cancel the traditional wedding immediately till she gets a clear direction. He cannot be trusted. Its so unfortunate that she was dragged into this in her ignorance. Turn to God for help and wisdom because It's going to be a long ride.

No one dragged her into this. This is what she wanted... MARRIAGE.

Women are eager to persuade men to come and know her family without making efforts to know the man's family.

she took him to see my uncle (because our dad is late), alongside with one of his brothers, they also went to see some of my aunties; as well as my Mum. So basically everyone knows them together in our extended family, as well as the street where my sister stays

The lady took him to meet everyone around her without even making move to know anything about him.


Nigerian girls should learn to pay more attention to their potential husband's family and social life instead of forcing him to know everyone and everything about them.

2. Stay with him and accommodate the children from his former wife (which can be traumatising for her).

How is accomodating your husband's kids traumatising?

Men do marry single mom with kids, accommodate and train them without using the word "traumatising".


If your beloved sister should take the first option which is, "Leave him and become a single mother at her flower age"...when she finds love again and wants to marry, don't you think it would be traumatising for the potential husband to accommodate her child?

Make una try dey use una sense for this country!

ebenezary:
that normal thing after election from the time of Obasanjo

And some buffoons are already praising Tinubu like as if it's not long expected

tiswell:
A.hnie should top the list

We are talking about "ladies" here, please.

virginprincess:
I don't sleep over at people's houses so i don't have any experience.

Oya, share your short time experience.

siofra:
Is it by force?

Yes. You must share your worst sleepover experience so guys can do better. We want to learn how to be good guys.

Evestar200:
How do you expect ladies to be free to share their stories when what most nairalanders guys do every day is bash and insult Nigeria women at every opportunity.

I shared my story on one thread on Monday and one idiot insulted me, I insulted him back and he reported me to the mod and I was banned for five days.

Now tell me if I will be happy to share my story on Nairand again.

Sorry, you follow for ladies too

Don't we have females here again


Siofra
Jennyclay
Persephone1
Virginprincess


You people should come and share your worst sleepovers, please.

Kobicove:
The appear humble cos they're broke

A broke man is a humble man.

But, why follow her to the mall when you're broke?

Tell her what to get for you, sit at home and be consuming your blunts. That's how sensible broke guys pioneer their relationships.

Russians are blessed to have a president like Putin. Can that be said about Nigerians?

Mahul:
The team cannot afford to fail

When the centre is failure personified

Mrshape:
Find h

Person wey lost H should find it...

fyzaila:
Hmmmm
Your hatred for Nigerian girls has clouded your vision that your don't see anything good in them be it the good ones or bad ones.

So, you believe there are good Nigerian girls?

Na so life be.

You didn't even rate him to help you. You only called to get a number for your supposed helper not knowing he's your helper.

Queendera:
Pics of the fake first lady https://tinyhost.com.ng/news/just-in--fake-dss-officer-guarding-the-first-lady-arrested

Post the photos of the useless fake first lady here same way you posted that of the man.

Jennyclay:
Biko, let us hear word

Why would the okada man leave home for weeks just because of little misunderstanding

The okada man don’t have money yet he left his wife at home without caring how she was faring .

Assuming the reverse was the case, I’m sure you nonsense men would have been using derogatory words on the woman.

Shame on all broke men!! Shame!!

Read the post again, this time read with your brain.

Jovialjune1:
So why didn't he tell his own family so that everyone can come together and apologise? She made a mistake by telling her people yes, so he has to apologise if not he will be antagonised going forward.

I just don't understand you.

So, husband and wife have to invite their family members every time they exchange words, bah?

A man should NEVER take marital advise from a woman, obviously.

Does it mean Nigerian men are the most promiscuous and highest patronizers of prostitutes?

Yes, we are. Do you have a problem with that?

Most Nigerian men went there just to hustle not to start keeping girlfriends or getting married. Some are married here while others get girlfriend waiting for them.

So, when konji arises, they patronise prostitutes. Cum and Go. No feelings, No emotions.

Jovialjune1:
You insulted her family, she told them, so the right thing for you to do is call a family meeting and apologise to them.

So, you didn't see where he stated she did same also?

Jennyclay:
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Only Heaven knows the kind of rubbish you're typing now.

Foodqueen:
Her father is in charge of your home.

Are u back home yet??

Chai
This your question enter my body like cold water

Imagine a full fledged man absconded from home cos of a woman he accommodated in form of marriage. A married man squatting with his colleagues just to enjoy peace of mind

A man gains absolutely nothing in marriage. Marriage was designed, orchestrated and championed for/by women.

Most men married to Nigerian women don't stay up to 65 years. Nigerian women are making marriage horrible for men.

Ireportlive:
Abeg I need loan oo...

Even Dangote sef no reject loan, who I be

Chestbeating Kanu people sef

Go and present your Emilokan card to any Nigerian bank, you'll be given a loan of 50k to kick-start your career.

Ireportlive:
Guy... President Bola Ahmed Tinubu GCFR is giving out loan for students

Go and pursue a career in marketing

Masters Degree

You no go regret


.

Dbull is better off without your Tinubu's loan. Na you need the loan pass sef.