₦airaland Forum

Gofwane:
So what about the woman Abi na only man go dey show luv?

nah men them do love for, afterall God saw Adam was lonely and made eve off him

Vanillaskin:
It hasn't been easy being 30+ well established and a single lady. Yes people will argue saying when you are making money and doing well in life, who needs a man?

Yes who needs a man who will try to control my life or one day turn you to his personal punching bag...

But still as a woman, no matter how hard you try to justify being alone is great because you have peace of mind, it never is.

I've been around a lot of great guys and I believe there are still many good men in the world but getting them to show interest is now a big problem.

I'm currently working with this guy who seems to be decent and I've tried to get him to like me but it's like he's picked up the signals I'm giving him but not interested or he doesn't understand my signals and I need to step up my game.

The weekend has come to an end and I have to go to bed, and it's so sad I don't have anyone to talk to about my weekend or a movie I just saw. All I do is work work work work work.

strong words sweedie. the truth be told, you are feminine, most guys are prior shy and really don't know what they want in a woman, you are matured and probably know what you want in a man. if you see him, don't give signals, go after it baby. I know you may feel, for 9ja woman toast man, common. you can stylishly ask for a date, do more things the man will have done. anyway, I offer you myfriendship if that's okay by you

prestigiouslady:
Leave the man alone, he will regret the whole thing just that by then people will think his kids are evil.

What could have been your mum's offence that he couldn't keep his manhood in check, the manhood had to wander in between his wife friend's thigh...
Insisting the child must move in without considering his wife feeling is so cruel of him, infidelity is one thing, waking up each day to see the product of your husband's action is another thing..that's one big height of betrayal...Not everyone can forgive infidelity/betrayal

The family that insisted the child moves in, where are they today

Your dad destroyed his home, and now he wants to destroy any hope of the home coming back to life.

Let your mum be, provide for as much as you can, I do not advise she goes back to that home, her happiness and state of the mind matters...since her bride price has been returned, she's as free as the bird in the sky

As per your brother, why not let him get an apartment of his own, the whole issue must have a strong hold of him....
He is angry at your dad which is understandable but he'll outgrow it over time
you all should leave your father alone to live his life or what's left of it...if bringing in a new wife is what he wants, let him do it but please tell him if he's going to father more kids, he should have the means to take care of them, not make them a burden to you..

Your main focus now is your mum and your siblings, let your dad marry as much as he can. You and your siblings work hard and make it...make your momma proud

"your dad destroyed his home, and now he wants to
destroy any hope of the home coming back to life."
I don't know you, but that point discuss this whole issue in null shell, thanks for this little massive piece .

it all happened about 7 years ago, my mum had a feeling that a friend of hers gave birth to a 17year old girl and she suspected the father of the girl to be my dad. Eventually she confided about this with us the kids, I told her not to worry about the girl, until dad brings up the issue himself, but trust women, when they suspect something, they act. mum did all her findings and it turned out positive that my dad was the father of the child. she became mad and furious, she had no choice and confronted my dad on this issue. at first dad acted childish, claiming nothing of such had occurred. but from persistent pressure from the little girl and the lady who was the custodian taking care of her and other of my dads brothers who pressured him to take his child home, it became a thug of war at home between mum and dad, Dad insisted the baby must come in or mum should leave the house, mum insisted that the child must not come in, because she had suffered a lot in that marriage over 30yrs. in null shell, mum lost out of the battle due to my dads pressure and my dads family pressure, always fighting her in the middle of the night like a man under a spell, that the child must come home. to be honest, how does she take the blow in her face , having given birth to 4 kids, and what my dad is now interested in is the girl outside, that was brought to earth by her own friend ? how does she stay with the kid under a roof.

people talked and talked, I told mum to leave the house because the fighting was becoming wayward and I was scared one should not kill them self. mum was living as a total stranger in her house where she lifted virtually all the blocks in building the house (if u know what I meant by this statement).....
1-mum relocated
2-Dad lost his company
3-my kid bro became a drop out
4-the girl lives at home with them now
5- cars, houses where sold
6- everything changed drastically

-just recently I got a call from my father, complaining that my kid bro is a warrant officer under his roof, fighting around the neighborhood, engaging in vices(not stealing anyway). this truancy and nonchalant attitude erupted from no angle(reasons why you should not be thinking about polygamous home as an ambitious man. not everyone agrees with this anyway, Men with ojukokoro eyes) thanks to that super woman called my mum.

-Am taking much time here, let me round up on time, my uncles connived against my mum and me, "them go collect my mum bride price " without my notice. that means them no marry again.

- just yesterday my dad called and said he will lock up my kid bro for tormenting his life and making his life a hell blah blah blue. I told him to chill, I called my brother immediately to know why his sudden change of attitude and to know what's going wrong at home.

- my NL family I tire, what he replied is dad is planning to get married ,he just rounded up his Introduction which I wasn't aware of as his first son, although he knows I will never be in support of this irrational idea.

My NL family, Expatriate , marriage counselors , able mothers, sensible fathers , professors , students. and every well wishers .
what did I fail to do, And what do I need to do in this family affair giving me sleepless nights
*Dad and brother tussle
*I recently lost my job
*mums biz not in better shape anymore
*dad deciding to marry a new wife despite the ups and down in business
*and many more things am tired of typing here.




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God at work,doing miracles since the days of john the Baptist

IJOBA2:
AYIRI IS NOT A BILLIONAIRE

how much is he worth sir?

Cuddlebugie:
Yet another messy divorce in the offing.....


What is the wife baterer doing on a football pitch? Boxing is his calling

people with brains, see how modest they tackle issue, unlike that beastberry. (evaberry)...ogirl maybe education councilor would have being your calling .

Evaberry:
Men are beasts!!!

and some foolish ones will still come and say

maybe she insulted her husband or was running her mouth.


Bunch of predators

shut up, Beastberry. with their sagging Tongues, is that how you jump into marital affairs. I pity you

stellytwinkle:
Hi nairalanders! I need tons of your advice here. I am 26 - a female, but i have a man muscular arms. (Note: This is not hereditary). These muscular arms have made me loose confidence in putting on sleeveless without people staring and jeering at my arms as if i were some sort of strange creature.
I feel so insecure (moving around with manly arms) and i need help in getting back my sleek female arms. Thanks.

ogirl I go marry you with those arms I swear. after looking at your pics, I see no muscular arm. anyway, the truth be said, you can't reduce those arms.

Pelski94:
Kindly drop your mails and all the information's will be sent to you.Thanks for you co-operation.

zubinike@yahoo.com

activistjohnny:
Kogi Senator Dino Melaye, who is currently in Washington D. C. for the World Bank/IMF Annual meeting, stepped out in a red with touch of black and white casual outfits and red high top Balenciaga sneakers.

source:http://www.pressnewsng.com.ng/2017/10/photos-senator-dino-melaye-paints.html

king shango of KOGI. oya, change Chanel

justiceelvis:
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TAA......you Wretch, 250,000 dols and you still have time on NL, ...

jrusky:
Hello hello hello guys bear the the word of wisdom * to some the person that posted this thread might look silly but in real sense he or she is not the truth is Davido has joined the illimunati or illulimunasty and that is the truth* but can't say that was why his 3 friends died but my advise his all you that love following celebrities be very careful most of these guys are seriously in cult and cultism can not be completed without shedding human blood stay away from any celebrity you can not trust.

Google is your friend check Davido name clearly on the list of illuminati or illimunamadness or whatever damn they call themselves.

Take it or bust it. The more you look the less you see.

candid advice, whenever you wanna seek fame by posting a view, always put a citation for followers to verify. where is the link bearing davido's name on illuminati? iskabiamubari

fastgyal:
who else thinks she's just an attention seeker?

attention or no attention, that girls tongue is censored ....

unlessgod:
Two weeks ago we shared a story about a man “Mr Etoroma” who married to two wives at the same time in Orie-Irri, a clan in Isoko South of Delta State. Read here

Today View Nigeria correspondent attended the wedding ceremony, it was an event full of grace, I must say Mr Etoroma aka Akalaka is a popular household name in orie-irri. Below are exclusive photos and video from the event.



Source: https://view.ng/photosvideo-wedding-man-mr-etoroma-married-two-wives-orie-irri-delta-state/

the bride price of the one he married, is the gift of the other wife he got, bog off wives. how in the hell will u marry 2 ladies at the same time in Isoko land. ....I dey suspect them

surrogatesng:
How did he come to Africa?

from France to Senegal......drivable route.

ChangeIsCostant:
A Nigerian socialite named Ifeoma Loveth Nwalie has passed away in Moscow, Russia...According to people who know her, the woman was quite active in Nigerian activities in the European country before her sudden death last Wednesday. According to Chukwunonso Emmanuel who lives in Russia, other Nigerians based in Moscow are set to hold a meeting to discuss arrangements and raise funds to send her corpse to Nigeria.

May her soul rest in peace.

Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/09/nigerian-socialite-dies-russia-corpse-set-flown-home-photos.html

I will surely be there, she was inspirational to my Arrival to Moscow.

callydon:
http://thenationonlineng.net/nigeria-raises-concerns-electricity-debts-owed-benin-togo/

is this not madness. selling our own electricity yet no payment, and NEPA dropping wires anyhow for minimal bills, the only reason why this is of concern is, someone is actually looking for cash to Embezzle. now they remember their debtors

GloriaNinja:
I KNOW TRIBALISTIC NAME CHECKERS WILL BE IN HERE IN A MINUTE. NO TRIBE IS PERFECT. ENOUGH WITH THE BASHING.

Happy birthday to this ravishing, stunning, NL family member, may God bless and elevate you beyond measures

Rokia2:
Shameless.

quiet, she is being truthful, what's shameless about that. I call that open mindedness unlike others dying in silence

MIB1:
My fiancee confided in me two days ago that she had an incest relationship with her cousin yrs back. She said she told me cos she loves me and wouldn't want to hide anything from me. I love her too and still want to marry her but I am devastated by the news

She said she has fasted and asked God for forgiveness.

I have prayed on her behalf too severally,

I am supposed to come to Nigeria for our wedding next month . pls help nairalanders. I feel so pained . I need wise counsel .

Guy respect yourself oh...if she confided in you in private, while seek an open consel? please sponsor me to marry her

SillyeRabbit:
Are they saying if I want to deposit 5Million naira into my bank account, the bank will deduct 150,000 naira? For What?

its 7500 for 500k oga.......1.5% is not 150k

KingsleyTMTTM:
pls house can somone enlighthin me on this, A friend of mine has this passport he did for 25k and he has use it to travel to Malaysia and apply for S.A and dubai visa, though what is written on it is ECOWAS.. guys is it the same as international passport.

yes, although ecowas is larger in the sense that it governs west africa countries, and ours is covering nigeria alone......

Jholland:
Please, I got my passport some years back and also want to get for younger sister who would be turning 17 this month, Please how do i go about it and how much would it cost, I stay in Owerri Thanks.

walk to any immigration office there. its 35k

stevegreatest:
Great work Debbie really appreciate your selfless service here

Pease just got this text
can't remember sending an application
they look real from their web page though


We invite you for enterprise interview by 10am on Sat 13/8/16 at 2 Sunday Street,off Ikorodu Road, Palmgrove B/Stop Lag.
visit: www.dovegreenglobalservices.com


did anyone got same?

How did this interview go with this coy

phynofino:
How am I at fault? I know how many pussy I let go because of that girl and many women i friendzoned but I have bleeped once or twice if she asked Me I will tell her, the thing is I had a dream She was f..king other guys and confronted her she denied and said she has even turned her sexual ignition off since I left, No clue no nothing. Fear Women 22 Years old girl oh

Sowie to say, you surely don't understand a woman bro...this beautiful gender called Females have no manuals and can't be predicted... be strong and expect the unexpected bro....graze up men and catch up with her speed, in doing what a woman knows how to do best, I bet you can't be smarter than her so I beg you, don't try to outsmart her
...he don Tay wen we dey eat apples like Adam and we remain an object of ridicule when it comes to catch up to their moves....them be like cheese games, when u are jubilating that it is a mate, and the player makes another smart move to even put you on the edge....thank you for agreeing on cheating on her too with the bleep, just hope and pray....its well.

phynofino:
Guys so im dating this girl for like 2 years, then I had to leave Nigeria I chatted her with another details and He called Me by a guy's name and then i acted accordingly and found out They already had sex, I don't know if I should confront her to keep it cool , this is a girl who swore to Me that she hasn't f..ked anybody since I left the country.
Meanwhile I want to find out more details about her romping with the guy, like how can I get more evidence and stuff I wanted to marry her because I took her virginity.

I hope she is not on Nairaland and that her friends are not reading.

Like seriously, are u fucking kidding me? If you love that girl, dig no more, you may hurt yourself or loose the girl for life....you be c.i.a? Oboy swear say that abroad you went to, u have not had a taste on the birches out there? Man leave stories, she might love you but naturally she could not resist the dude she made out with, you are at fault there.......clinch strong to what you believe in

Berlynn:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME

Beautiful you, happy birthday sweedie, will you be my val?

[quote author=fagin1982 post=53543265][/quote]The viral disease is inside his blood, even when he applies all the applicable. The things go still come baq....he needs the test and know the possible treatment regimen for his body

[quote author=sugardad1 post=53536826]I need urgent help please. The picture below is my shoulder. The infection you see always appear on my shoulders anytime i stop using medicated soaps and good creams.

Dermatologist in the house, please help me solve this problem that has lived with me for about 2years now.

No insult pls.

Lalasticla help.




1- stop alcohol ranging from beer and gin
2- go to any medical Lab, request for blood culture test. That test will bring out series of preferred solution and medication you need for the treatment
3- please I advice, don't take drugs or apply any cream that is not prescribed in the Blood culture....
4- depending on the location, Culture should not be more than 5k in my zone of lag, don't know from other zones
5- don't forget to buy me beer after you treat yourself
6- for further explanation please mail me on Zubinike@yahoo.com
7- all the best, don't panic. All u need is blood culture.

vv