Family › Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by zynzyn(m): 2:17pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme: Dear reasonable people on Nairaland, please I need your advise
My wife whom I love so much and also loves me too is entitled to 17.2% of my monthly income, my salary is 175kpm and she take 17.2% of this amount, yet she feels very uncomfortable with it
I pay the bills, buy food stuff every month and take care of our little baby girl
My baby girl does not take any local food, she takes only fresogold, tea and pap, the cost of fresogold is very high and she can consume 4tins in a month
My wife isn't not working yet she is still schooling and I pay all her fees,
I've never complaint of my duty as the head of the family yet she still feels unsatisfied with the 17.2% I give to her
Her primary duty in the house is to take care of our baby and prepare my dinner every week days and both break fast and dinner during the weekend
Recently I told her to take our baby to the hospital for treatment, our total bill was 11,500 naira but my wife suprisinly told me that the hospital bill is 22,700 naira which I immediately wired to her account
So I called the hospital to make inquiries about the exorbitant bill then I got to know that my wife inflated the hospital bill to 22,700 naira
I confronted her and she spoke to me very rudly I was not happy about this, I kept quite and didn't say anything about it again
I am thinking I should penalize her for her rude behaviour and the dishonesty she has melted on me
Will it be advisable not to pay her her monthly salary for two months ?
Will this correct her brain to default and what would possibly be the implication of doing this ?
She has not apologised and she has not seen anything wrong so far in what she has done Another one chance wife?  Never allow a woman marry u for what you are earning! |
Health › Re: My Experience And My Stand With Other People View On Dr. Oji Alllwell (suicider) by zynzyn(m): 2:05pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
It is good to trust in God and accept that life will not always be a bed of roses because:
The ruler of this world is EVIL!! |
Health › Re: Man Gets A Baby After Joystick Transplant (Photo) by zynzyn(m): 7:57pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Ishilove: While other countries are making strides in virtually every field, Nigerians are holding meetings and conferences over uniform, planning how to start producing toothpicks and pencils locally, stealing enough for their generations yet unborn, fighting on Nairaland and shouting 'Afonja', 'Igbo', 'Igbo' 'yoloba' etc.
A man has had his sexual organ restored through science and the grace of God, and it was done in Africa. Nigerians wake up! Tell them o, TELL THEM! Na so so cotton wool full Dem ear!  |
Properties › Re: Abuja Houses For Sale With Pics: 3,4, 5 Bedroom Duplex, Bungalow, Town House. by zynzyn(op): 7:48pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
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Properties › Fully Fitted 4 Bedroom Duplex For Sale In Jabi, Abuja by zynzyn(op): 7:23pm On Mar 23, 2017*. Modified: 7:43pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
4 bedrooms terraced duplex with a boys quarters and 2 sitting rooms for sale in JABI.
Every room is ensuite. The subject property has a swimming pool and generator.
Title: Deed of Assignment (the main plot has Certificate of Occupancy).
Call Seyi on 07037372080, 09050607437
Pics will be added
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Nairaland General › Re: Justice Chukwudifu Oputa, Nigerian Judicial Legend's Law, Legal Publications. by zynzyn(op): 5:13pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
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Properties › Re: Abuja Houses For Sale With Pics: 3,4, 5 Bedroom Duplex, Bungalow, Town House. by zynzyn(op): 8:44pm On Mar 21, 2017*. Modified: 7:50pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
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Properties › 3 Bedroom Bungalow For Sale In Garki 2. by zynzyn(op): 8:40pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Quick Sale!!! 3 bedroom  bungalow with 1 bedroom @ Garki 2 Price 55m Contact Seyi on 0703 737 2080, 0905 060 7437
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Properties › Abuja Houses For Sale With Pics: 3,4, 5 Bedroom Duplex, Bungalow, Town House. by zynzyn(op): 8:14pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
We will keep u posted with posts! |
Crime › Re: 23-year-old Man Sentenced To Death By Hanging For Stealing Phone by zynzyn(m): 9:10am On Mar 21, 2017 |
oluwafrizzy: Source http://www.frizzyhub.com/2017/03/3-year-old-man-sentenced-to-death-by.html
A High Court of the Federal Capital Territory (FCT) has sentenced a 23 years old Tope Abiodun, to death by hanging for stealing an android LG phone valued at N87, 000.
The court also sentenced a teenager, Godfrey Emmanuel, to 14 years imprisonment for the same offence. Another suspect, Samuel Egbe 24-year-old trader at Wuse Market, Abuja, who was charged with dishonestly receiving the LG phone from the 2nd accused (Tope Abiodun), with knowledge that they were stolen, was, however, lucky, as he was discharged and acquitted by the court.
The court was amazed by the ingenuity deployed by the convicts in carrying out the robbery attack on the owner of the LG phone, Jacob Habila, who they attacked with a knife before disposing him of his handset.
According to the prosecution counsel, Assistant Commissioner of Police Simon Lough, the convicts had, on October 3, 2013, at about 9:21pm, positioned themselves half naked, at Impresist junction, Karmo, Abuja, and upon sighting the victim with his LG android phone, approached him to allow them make a distress call to their brother.
They told him they were victims of a robbery attack and would need his assistance to call their brother to bring some clothes for them to put on.
The unsuspecting Habila was touched by their story and in the process of dialling a number that was given to him, the 2nd convict (Godfrey Emmanuel), brought out a knife and stabbed him on the head, while Tope Abiodun escaped with the phone.
With blood dripping from his face, the victim raised the alarm, shouting “thief, thief” which led to the arrest of Emmanuel. The matter was swiftly reported at the police and Abiodun was arrested a few days later.
The convicts were slammed with a three-count charge by the Commissioner of Police, for armed robbery, contrary to section 6(b) of the Robbery and Firearms Special Provisions Act, Cap R11 Laws of the Federation of Nigeria, 2004.
The convicts were represented by Nnamdi Nwiwu, who made frantic but failed legal efforts to get them off the hook. The lawyer, however, succeeded in saving the teenage robber (Godfrey Emmanuel) from the hangman’s noose by pleading with the court, after he was found guilty of the offences, to consider the provisions of the Child Rights Act, particularly section 221 and section 405 of the Administrative of Criminal Justice Act and reduce his sentence to 14 years.
After evaluating the submissions of counsel, including exhibits and documentary evidence before her, Justice Chizoba Orji found the 1st and 2nd accused persons guilty as charged.
She held that from the totality of evidence before her, the prosecution had successfully established the case of armed robbery The boys were heartless!  Nevertheless, death sentence is an overkill. The victim did not die! If he did, the judge would have a case!!  |
Celebrities › Re: 'How Iyabo Ojo Disgraced A Blogger Who Tried To Interview Her At A Wedding' by zynzyn(m): 8:27am On Mar 21, 2017 |
henryanna36: According to an event blogger Helen Ozor,she was disgraced/humiliated by actress Iyabo Ojo when she tried interviewing her at a wedding.She took to social media to share the news and wrote.....
'MY ENCOUNTER WITH NOLLYWOOD ACTRESS IYABO OJO AT A WEDDING - EVENT BLOGGER, HELEN OZOR I remember getting an invite to attend Queen Ayo Balogun son's wedding (#jjginger17) some weeks back. At that time, I had wanted to shoot the first video for my YouTube channel #partymomentswithhelen and I was so excited. After interviewing a few vendors/guests during the reception, I walked up to Nollywood actresses, Iyabo Ojo and Fathia Williams and requested for an interview. Faithia politely told me she doesn't grant interviews at parties (I bet she would have agreed if it were Ovation TV or Goldmynetv). Anyway, I was glad she wasn't rude to me. Meanwhile, it was my second time talking to her; First time was at BON Awards where she allowed me take a picture of her at the event and I had just started blogging then. Iyabo Ojo on the other hand, looked at me, collected my branded jotter where I had written my interview questions, she went through it, handed it over to me and turned her face away. This same Iyabo Ojo that I introduced myself to as a blogger in 2011 and she said 'pls what is a blog' I explained what a blog is, to her. I laugh anytime I remember what happened. Truth is, at some point in your career, some people will treat you nice while others won't. Some will help you instantly just because they love your personality while you will chase and chase some people just to get something from them. Always remember that, It is your duty to keep pushing and never give up because you are responsible for whatever you make out of your life'.
Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/03/my-encounter-with-nollywood-actress.html?m=1 Madam. truth is SHE DID NOT LIKE OR TRUST YOUR INTERVIEW QUESTIONS! Remember she has been getting bad publicity of late. She wanted to first find out if u are for or against her or at least neutral! You failed her test. Her reaction could've been much worse!! |
Politics › Re: List Of Top Nigerians Remanded In Kuje Prison by zynzyn(m): 8:19am On Mar 21, 2017 |
I do not seek the honour. That is why I am very careful in Abuja Property Business!! One property go get several ' owners' all of them with ' original documents'!!  Naija I hail!  |
Family › Re: My Husband Beats Me For Not Bearing Male Child, Wife Tells Court by zynzyn(m): 8:11am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Idiot is not even happy the children are actually his!!  |
Celebrities › Re: Mimi Ubini: "An Actor Had An Erection Playing Romantic Role With Me” by zynzyn(m): 1:13pm On Mar 20, 2017 |
alonzoiv: So? MODIFIED : He was professional by having an erection ( which normal humans do have ) and not coming onto you after the movie shoot, while you're being unprofessional by coming out to spew this trash. All breasts and no brain.
FINAL WORD : Erection is no disease No mind am! If the guy no get erection she go talk say e be impotent!  |
Nairaland General › Re: How Much To Get Nigerian International Passport Currently by zynzyn(m): 11:01pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
olaide4you: How much to get Nigerian International Passport Currently ? Also can anybody kindly tell me the retirement or any document needed to get the passport...and where can i get it... Urgent answer needed!!!! thanks Nairalanders!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have a contact in Kaduna |
Romance › Re: Lagos Girl Offers MouthAction In Exchange For Transport Money, Twitter Nigeria R by zynzyn(m): 11:01pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
EdifiedCEO: It's an interesting Saturday on Twitter as Nigerians debate over the story of a Mouth Gig offered in exchange for transport fare.
The Story which was tweeted on the platform yesterday by a user seems to be garnering alot of attention today after it was retweeted by a popular gossip handle. See tweets and reactions below:
http://www.newshelm.com/2017/03/twitter-outrage-as-lagos-girl-offers.html I am betting she is a drug addict and money will not be used for transport fare!  |
Nairaland General › Re: Justice Chukwudifu Oputa, Nigerian Judicial Legend's Law, Legal Publications. by zynzyn(op): 8:32pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by zynzyn(m): 8:18pm On Mar 18, 2017 |
ikechkwuegone: Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.
I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.
Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.
I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.
Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".
I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.
Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering. The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.
With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.
I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.
Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice A smart woman will never give you CLEAR EVIDENCE OF CHEATING!  She knows the implications eg your family and hers! A lot is at stake! If I were u I would opt out! Or maybe u set a very good trap 4 her  But BE SMART about it. No slips! |
Romance › Re: Instagram Porn Star Shares Bishop Oyedepo's Poster, Fan Asks "U Dey Go Church?" by zynzyn(m): 7:14am On Mar 18, 2017 |
FunkyMetahuman: Even vampire dey go church
Like I always say, you can do anything and back it with bible.
Kill in the morning, ask forgiveness in the night, doesn't matter who you kill,even if its a baby, god will still forgive you. That easy 
And some people will be tell us morality comes with religion. Religion usually does not follow the Bible. TAKE NOTE! Religiosity is a weapon of Satan to deceive many, and that includes 'christian' religiosity. So our IndecentStar here also feels free to claim God's blessings even though she is clearly disregarding the Bible!!  Let's not get it twisted! God CAN NEVER be fooled by religiosity!  |
Politics › Re: Man Shares Last Chat With Soldier Killed In Borno (Photos) by zynzyn(m): 9:05pm On Mar 17, 2017 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: UEFA Champions League Quarter Final Draw by zynzyn(m): 12:30pm On Mar 17, 2017 |
bettercreature: Atlético Madrid v Leicester City
Borussia Dortmund v Monaco
Bayern Munich v Real Madrid
Juventus v Barcelona UCL still dominated by Spanish and German teams!  |
Nairaland General › Re: Justice Chukwudifu Oputa, Nigerian Judicial Legend's Law, Legal Publications. by zynzyn(op): 10:45am On Mar 17, 2017 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Justice Chukwudifu Oputa, Nigerian Judicial Legend's Law, Legal Publications. by zynzyn(op): 10:39am On Mar 17, 2017 |
Set of 7 sold together.
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Nairaland General › Re: Justice Chukwudifu Oputa, Nigerian Judicial Legend's Law, Legal Publications. by zynzyn(op): 10:31am On Mar 17, 2017 |
pics coming |
Politics › Re: Man Shares Last Chat With Soldier Killed In Borno (Photos) by zynzyn(m): 10:16am On Mar 17, 2017 |
cummando: Abeg wet in be RIP? From the day he signed that NDA form he is dead. Dying was his job. He did it so we could live free. Meanwhile some people are looking for ways to bring the army down. That is why i get upset when some numbskulls don't appreciate these guys! This fellow is certainly less than 5 yrs out of NDA. Among the few that felt Nigeria was worth dying for.  Young man. I believe you will be vindicated!  |
Crime › Re: Suicide Note Of Airforce Officer Who Killed His Girlfriend, Pic In Military Cell by zynzyn(m): 11:15am On Mar 13, 2017 |
cummando: Dead man walking! Jealousy kills. Where women yapa!!!! Them plenty gaan!!!!
Everybody should be like me on women affairs Girl vex me.....drink Goldberg She dey cheat..... Drink Goldberg She be olosho... Drink Goldberg She get belle outside.....drink Goldberg
They aren't worth the stress!! U finish 3 cartons of Goldberg!! Dat one no pass suicide?  |
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Celebrities › Re: Success Asibor: No Big Deal In Exchanging Sex For Movie Roles by zynzyn(m): 11:25pm On Mar 11, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: Residents Confirm Helicopter Supplies To Herdsmen In Delta Community by zynzyn(m): 12:06pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
I expect someone to take a video of this if it is true!! Quite Alarming but Not Entirely Surprising!  |
Romance › Re: Lies Women Tell To Themselves. by zynzyn(m): 11:48am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Cheating is bad and even dangerous these days of STDs!! However a woman's cheating is more dangerous because of paternity fraud ( which is extremely painful, more painful than what a woman can feel because her man chested). Many men have been known to commit even murder if they suspect their woman cheated AND made them Father a child that isn't theirs! This may explain the apparent ' double standards' applied when women cheat! The rejection of that supposed double standard and the idea that if he cheats, so can I is what is troubling the marriage institution today. The men are still expected to propose and the offspring still generally bear the man's name. So many guys have settled for baby mamas so they do not have to marry a girl who will cheat on them in revenge! The baby mama arrangement makes it more convenient for them to ask for a DNA test if the lady claims pregnancy for the guy in question! So I think op has a realistic point, if u are not submissive enough to remain faithful and loving to a guy even when he cheats, make your own money and stay out of marriage!! The inequities are naturally fixed! That being said, it is observable that at least some of our mothers who accepted the inequities and stooped to conquer eventually derived the benefit of the awesome power a woman can get when her husband trusts and respects her more than he trusts himself!!  It is all down to a woman's freedom to choose! |
NYSC › Re: Edo Corper, Gbadamosi OluwaMayowa, Arrested For Sleeping With His Student by zynzyn(m): 11:22am On Mar 10, 2017 |
Imoy: i hope dey get to roast his balls Habbbaaaa!!  |
Romance › Re: 10 Countries Where Government Beg Citizens To Have Sex by zynzyn(m): 4:28pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
jashar:

But OP, do you know the reason why those people in those Countries are not making babies? 1.Babies will be made if Ppl are having sex. 2. There will be sex if men are interested in having sexual relationships with women. 3. Such normal relationships in those societies had a lot to do with the homeliness and submissiveness and almost certain fidelity of the women, which provided the men with the natural incentive for relationships. 4.Western civilization has empowered (so they say) the women in these societies, so the men now see them as competitors, not loveable, not marriageable or good mothers, no longer compelled to be faithful. No more incentive for the men to father children who the women can easily make their fathers' enemies as often happens in America and Britain. 5. Add to that the proliferation of prostitution, pornography and intimacy gadgets! It may eventually come to Africa! |