There's this guy i met on afri-chat.We met physically in Lagos nd became frnds. Some mnths later,he asked me to become his girlfrnd.I accepted,not becos i loved him but becos i was having no boyfrnd nd i was desperate to have one.He seems to love me so much bt he is still a student though older than i am and i'm a fresh graduate.It's a year now that we've bn dating n he's bn a very gud guy though he doesn't spend on me cos he's nt rich.He has agreed nt to have sex with me since that's wat i want.I never thought of a lifetime committment with him,though he talks abt it. Now am beginning to fall in love wit him bt he asked me to wait for 4 yrs for him to complete his education.wat do u tink i shud do.I don't want to be heart-broken waiting in vain.

This is ao i will like to start: what do u av in mind to do? Don't tell me u av none.....coz thatz where d confussion starts from in d first place.......then d fear u dont want to b heart broken.

u might av in mind that u want to get married immediately u grad. Or u want to wait @least a year to work bcoz u dont want any man to make yanga for yu......

4yrs! 4yrs!! 4yrs!!!
tell him its too long bcs a lot can happen, if he is serious? he will make a move and not just promises.

Dah.....babe....no put ya eggs in 1 basket o!!!

love him for now bcus of the way he treat you. Don't love him forever bcus there's nothing like forever.

btw, you said you guys are s*x buddies if i'm right?

Nobody here can tell the future if that's what you seek. Short of having a better option and starting to loving him now, as you claim, you may as well just stay put and see where life takes you two.

DO NOTHING!

Don't put all ur hope in him. Just take life step by step. I pray one day, he surprises u with an engagement ring. But if he disappoints u, just dust off and move on. Life goes on!

Rano's take!

ur already soundin desperate! dats my issue wit ladies. always in a rush! because ur now fallin in love wit him, u want to start rushin him abi? wat if he had rushed u wen he was doin all d lovin? pls take tins easy before u fall out of love wit him pls!

Four years?
Are u that ugly or bad mannered that no one is ur social circle can develop a relationship with u?
Guys change. You may not be as attractive to him as now then.
Even in marriage people lose interest after 3 years but are together just for the sake of marriage , in ur case , nothing legitimate holds the two of u together.
But its not a bad idea to keep a sexmate for four years till when u r ready , u find someone fresh
Four years!

Slimshuga: Dah.....babe....no put ya eggs in 1 basket o!!!

i pray someone else tells ur Gf this

^Amen