Is it good to have sex before marriage ?

Pls, i need ur advice.

To me it is good to have sex before marriage so that you can know who is faulty amoung the couples before marriage.

i mean to know maybe there is one out of them that is infertile.

i believe its good to have sex before marriage. I mean i don't see the point in you marrying then u findout that your partner dosen't meet your expectations in the bedmatics department

"bedmatics"?  That's a new one, to me!   

from a religious point of view,sex b4 marriage isn t rite, but havn sex wiv ur partner b4 marriage puts u at a sort of advantage. like others hv stated.d tin is,sex b4 or afta marriage but hv their advaantages and disadvantages like evry other tin in this lyf.
whether its rite or wrong is not a decision dat nyone can make for u.it depends on u as an individual

DEAR IT DEPENDS ON YOU HAVE SEX WITH YOUR PARTNER BEFORE MARRIAGE OR AFTER MARRIAGE LAYS ON YOU.
BECAUSE EVERYTHING IN THIS WORLD HAVE ADVANTAGE AND DISADVANTAGE
IT DEPENDS ON YOU THE ONE YOU CHOOSE TO DO.

Biblically it’s not good to have sex before marriage.

But due to the high rate of immorality in girls these days; we guys have no choice than to engage in sex before marriage; you can’t tell me you would meet a girl today and tell her no sex before marriage. You would live to regret that action because she would leave you and look for some fun loving guy who is ready to make her feel like a woman.

Its not good to engage in "blasting" activities before marriage.

crazykid:

Biblically it’s not good to have sex before marriage.

But due to the high rate of immorality in girls these days; we guys have no choice than to engage in sex before marriage; you can’t tell me you would meet a girl today and tell her no sex before marriage. You would live to regret that action because she would leave you and look for some fun loving guy who is ready to make her feel like a woman.

Help me understand this, crazykid.  You say that because of female immorality, males have no choice other than having permarital sex.   Isn't it a bit illogical to place blame only on the ladies?   After all, if the females shouldn't be doing it, then neither should the males, right?

Also, if a woman left you because you chose not to engage in sex with her, does that not say something about how shallow both parties are?  After all, there is so much more to a relationship than the "urge to merge."  If this were truly a consideration, then it would be to one's advantage to let him/her go and find somebody else whose values  are more in line with his/her own.

One more thing: There are many ways to make a female "feel like a woman" and a male "feel like a man" other than sex.

Ridiculous!! People leaving each other just because they can't sleep with each other before marriage!! Arrant nonsense! Testing ko, trial ni. For me o, I WON'T marry a guy who asks for pre-marital sex; it would show me that he's the wrong type of person, that he's not a virgin. Because if he's asking me, then he must have asked other people too and that means he doesn't take God's Laws as seriously as I would like and doesn't care about being chaste.

crazykid:

Biblically it’s not good to have sex before marriage.

But due to the high rate of immorality in girls these days; we guys have no choice than to engage in sex before marriage; you can’t tell me you would meet a girl today and tell her no sex before marriage. You would live to regret that action because she would leave you and look for some fun loving guy who is ready to make her feel like a woman.

High rate of immorality in girls? just imagine. _{shakes head}

if u know at end the relationship will lead to somewhere of which u will not regret u can go ahead and do it but if u know on the hand nothing will come out of it so dont.

@crazykid:
Is it that you're suggesting that females are responsible for males in terms of morality? In terms of immorality? Am I understanding you correctly? If so, please explain. If not, please clarify.

How sad that people are still taking crazykid and his usual retarded comments seriously

It really isnt.
Your body is supposed to be the temple of God - even your temple.
Dont 'awaken love until u are ready' - this men will mess you up sha.

But for real, i know that when u preserve yourself, God is not wicked He will always prepare someone for you.

For real it isnt ideal.
If you are a believer, its against what we believe but even for yourself - your body is a temple and its supposed t be treated as such. 'Do not awaken love until u are ready for it'.

Otherwise u wont like what u have unleashed.
I say that when you do have sex before marriage, the guy wont trust you - he wouldnt trust u for real (men are funny like tat).
If you an hold on for sure, you would be glad you did.

I can't speak for others, D-reloaded, but I take most things to heart because I have learned that, although there is seemingly no limit to the stygian depths of ignorance, all points of view must have some source.  If I can determine the nature of that source, or at least encourage those of such twisted ideas to consider that source, then just maybe they'll reconsider their views as lacking validity.

Quixotic?  Undoubtedly.  But, a small flame provides more illumination than none at all.