Efemena_xy:



Are you both supporting this woman because the unfortunate guy na Oyibo??

Sagamite has answered you. ;0 ....i am not supporting her but she has carried out her job effectively....maybe i should hire/ employ her for my upcoming agency...which will be to; "milk" foolish rich men.

Can you imagine!!!! the guys parents should go into that ward with nice kpankere and flog that madness from him.

Sagamite:

Not if you a sensible adult male.

My love went to Specsavers. It can see.

Ideed-ie!

Sisi_Kill:

Bet you thought I wasn't gonna come back, eh?

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Huh! Like this is my first discussion with a woman. The last word is a woman's birth right. No woman in her right mind let's it go.

Here's my last word. Men got burned and started insisting on prenups. Women have also now got burned and are increasingly insisting on prenups. Google THAT assertion.

I'M OUT!

bebe4u: What if the gold digger is a man. How do you handle the situation

Its not about if the golddigger is a man or woman . its about, if a prenup is really necassary and has it checkmated the aims and ways of a goldigger(man\ woman inclusive).

Sagamite:

What a silly question.

She can get that from a mugu Real Man, not a man from Sagamu!

She would pick broom and start sweeping from SA to my street in Sagamu if she ever thinks she can use my head like that.

The guy is foool does not mean prenups cannot work.

I was told to xpect ya when evryone was looking 4 u, waoh! This is wat sagamite is all about, ur comments are on point tho!

The poorer partner should be forced to sign prenuptial agreement... Just be like John Cena and see how he dealt with his wife by using prenup!

Efemena_xy:

Must be the handwork of a Nigerian woman, no other. Who else would take such undivided, devoted love as foolishness, to be trampled upon so??

Stories like this make our male chauvinists (ahem)... [size=1pt]Sagamite 'n Dayo[/size]... (ahem) bash the hell out of our fellow black women for being self-centred materialistic demons. And in this instance, I agree with them whole heartedly...

Treat them mean to keep them keen kind of philosophy here

I know u will want all kinds of stories to be about nigerian women sorry the topic is actually about a black southafrican woman, all bad things is not about naija women, biko ,that being said golddigging is both ways pls no b only black women shd suffer d name calling "self centred materialistic demons u mean" haba now, without us there will b no world I think.

sally bonne:

I know u will want all kinds of stories to be about nigerian women sorry the topic is actually about a black southafrican woman, all bad things is not about naija women, biko ,that being said golddigging is both ways pls no b only black women shd suffer d name calling "self centred materialistic demons u mean" haba now, without us there will b no world I think.

I know the movie is / was about a South African woman. Doesn't mean that our fellow naija chicks can't and won't do one better if given the opportunity.

re the bolded: I think not.

In a 3rd world country lyk our were religeous fanatism is d order of d day, prenup sounds ungodly.
Bt lets take off dis religeous jacket d real facts here.
If a guy or a lady is in control of LALAS, he/she attracts undue attention wch 95% of it is as a result of his/hes success.
Wit such status, ur chances of gettin a lyf parter who realy loves u be becomes very slim, hence u hav 2 cum up measures 2 protect in case ur partner turns out 2be a golddiger.
Make no mistake abt it, marriage is no doubt a divine arrangemnt bt d legal pappers signd in court are binding contract.
Lets luk at it 4rm a businez perspective, if u go into any partnership businez u, u sign an agreemnt on hw profit nd loses wil be shared wit regards 2ur input.
Secondly, u also look at hw wil i fare if d partnership does nt wrk out as planed, whats in it 4me.
Jus d way u watch ur back in any businez partnershp, u also hav 2 watch ur bck in marriage partnershp, nobody goes into marriage wit intentions 2end it bt lyk it or nt divorces are bound 2 happen nd u dnt wnt 2b d victim at d end of it all.

South African woman. Dat sounds familiar. I can remember a south African female friend of mine telling me dat she wants to marry a rich white British man and divorce him latter.

armyofone:
it is true mana, those sleepless night when he was making the dough, wifey was home taking care of the homefront, leading behind the scene...

Leading what exactly, abeg?

Efemena_xy:

Must be the handwork of a Nigerian woman, no other. Who else would take such undivided, devoted love as foolishness, to be trampled upon so?? ....
Treat them mean to keep them keen kind of philosophy here

My my, cant believe she said that. Christmas must be coming early this year.
Ok o, i'm quoting it for posterity.

Sagamite:

Not if you a sensible adult male.

My love went to Specsavers. It can see.

Love is blind na. Please throwey dat jigi jor.

@ David n Dayo, if u expect wifey to make 50% financial contribution in ur marriage, are you also gonna share 50% of wifey responsibilities; including labour n breastfeeding?

Tgirl4real:

Love is blind na. Please throwey dat jigi jor.

@ David n Dayo, if u expect wifey to make 50% financial contribution in ur marriage, are you also gonna share 50% of wifey responsibilities; including labour n breastfeeding?

Well if she wants 50% sharing of labour then we can just choose not to have children or use surrogate mothers who we can pay once and for all

i did signed pre-nup, my wife who is a black american woman made me signed before we got married, infact same day we married. akata!

endorphins will always triumph over logic

end of

Sagamite:

Not if you a sensible adult male.

My love went to Specsavers. It can see.

El Clásico!

Tgirl4real:

Love is blind na. Please throwey dat jigi jor.

@ David n Dayo, if u expect wifey to make 50% financial contribution in ur marriage, are you also gonna share 50% of wifey responsibilities; including labour n breastfeeding?

to be honest i dont need a woman bringing 50% of the bacon. But i want a woman who earns enough bacon to make sure that while i take care of the home front, we still have hers as substantial savings for the rainy day. A marriage is a mutual commitment, its no longer my money... her money but OUR money.

With regard to wifey responsibilities... she remains firmly in charge of child rearing. Na so God sef want am.

gbenga32: i did signed pre-nup, my wife who is a black american woman made me signed before we got married, infact same day we married. akata!

na wa o. That would have been the end of the marriage for me. As far as i'm concerned... divorce should never be an option going into a marriage.

Satisfied with ur response David. I was beginning to wonder o. Just as God gave d woman wifey responsibility, he also gave man hubby responsibility.

Dayo, U r funny.

[b][size=16pt]Hmmmmmm! Very sad, indeed!

But, I have a word for the lady that did this - never, ever think you're home dry! "... for I the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for sin of the fathers (and mothers!)to the 3rd generation and 4th generation of those who hate me". Ex. Chpt. 20 v.5

You see, A 4 1 9 is a 4 1 9 however innocent looking they might be!!!

Never, let their claws enter you - always, watch out cos' there's a tiger out there roaming the streets with dangerous demonic portions to entangle you in their webs until they destroy you and they certainly, do!!!

But then, his family warned him, didn't they?huh!

You see, I find traitors revolting - can't stand them. Give me a gun, I will definitely shut the hell out of their a r s e s, honest!

In fact, any human being (man/woman)that selfishly, ignores his family's advice over issues as this, because of a cheap trap of a 'dick' or 'fanny, that can easily be gotten or replaced from everywhere you look, is nothing but 'Judas Iscariot' - a traitor.

Don't we all know how that evil man ended up? Those who sell out their families over cheap emotional encounters, will eventually find themselves lonely and cold in the dog house and perhaps, end up like their master as in this case - watch who is in rehab now obviously, not me or his family!

In situations as this, that's when these f o o l s should rely on their families antenna because, family sees those corners your drowsy eyes will never reach when the love portions hit you!

Sure, when the boat rocks as it would surely rock because of the evil motives at work in the first place - I think family should forget about you, and let the world learn from your foolishness if at all, they would.

Obviously, there's bound to be another f o o l out there like you, to take your mantle as the world continues to go round!
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Tgirl4real: Satisfied with ur response David. I was beginning to wonder o. Just as God gave d woman wifey responsibility, he also gave man hubby responsibility.

Dayo, U r funny.

Abi? If someone expects to be paid for life just because she gave birth to her own Children she has been dying to have since she was a teenager

WHy not just pay someone off and I wont have to listen to "My shape is lost", "I gave my body", "I breastfeed" stories daily

dayokanu:

Abi? If someone expects to be paid for life just because she gave birth to her own Children she has been dying to have since she was a teenager

WHy not just pay someone off and I wont have to listen to "My shape is lost", "I gave my body", "I breastfeed" stories daily

As much as i am not in support of women who use the "i gave birth to the kids" excuse to squeeze their man dry, i dont think we should trivialize this. It takes a lot for a woman to carry a baby for 9 months and i for one will not hesitate to worship the ground my wife walks on when the babies start coming. E no easy... my mama nearly died having me.

Sagamite:

As a matter of general principles, I don't blame women for a mugu being a cretin.

Lol.

OP, just because this clown was completely uninformed about prenups doesn't mean they are not effective.

davidylan:

As much as i am not in support of women who use the "i gave birth to the kids" excuse to squeeze their man dry, i dont think we should trivialize this. It takes a lot for a woman to carry a baby for 9 months and i for one will not hesitate to worship the ground my wife walks on when the babies start coming. E no easy... my mama nearly died having me.

My brother helep me tell them o. They can slam and jam all they want but they will not share in the pain of the aftermath.

Dayo, i dont have a choice, she filed for fiancee visa for me from nigeria, and told me that was a condition before we can marry. i have to sign, i am a wife now not the husband. i am sure you know what i mean. if you dont live in america you cant though.

gbenga32: Dayo, i dont have a choice, she filed for fiancee visa for me from nigeria, and told me that was a condition before we can marry. i have to sign, i am a wife now not the husband. i am sure you know what i mean. if you dont live in america you cant though.

how sad. Because of fiance visa? I would have opted out of that marriage... i would rather be single than be relinquish my position as the head of the home.
you had a choice bro, you could have put your foot down, you could have chosen not to marry her.

davidylan:

As much as i am not in support of women who use the "i gave birth to the kids" excuse to squeeze their man dry, i dont think we should trivialize this. It takes a lot for a woman to carry a baby for 9 months and i for one will not hesitate to worship the ground my wife walks on when the babies start coming. E no easy... my mama nearly died having me.

Thatz a real man talking.

Financial lesson.

Theblessed: [b][size=16pt]Hmmmmmm! Very sad, indeed!

But, I have a word for the lady that did this - never, ever think you're home dry! "... for I the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for sin of the fathers (and mothers!)to the 3rd generation and 4th generation of those who hate me". Ex. Chpt. 20 v.5

You see, A 4 1 9 is a 4 1 9 however innocent looking they might be!!!

Never, let their claws enter you - always, watch out cos' there's a tiger out there roaming the streets with dangerous demonic portions to entangle you in their webs until they destroy you and they certainly, do!!!

But then, his family warned him, didn't they?huh!

You see, I find traitors revolting - can't stand them. Give me a gun, I will definitely shut the hell out of their a r s e s, honest!

In fact, any human being (man/woman)that selfishly, ignores his family's advice over issues as this, because of a cheap trap of a 'dick' or 'fanny, that can easily be gotten or replaced from everywhere you look, is nothing but 'Judas Iscariot' - a traitor.

Don't we all know how that evil man ended up? Those who sell out their families over cheap emotional encounters, will eventually find themselves lonely and cold in the dog house and perhaps, end up like their master as in this case - watch who is in rehab now obviously, not me or his family!

In situations as this, that's when these f o o l s should rely on their families antenna because, family sees those corners your drowsy eyes will never reach when the love portions hit you!

Sure, when the boat rocks as it would surely rock because of the evil motives at work in the first place - I think family should forget about you, and let the world learn from your foolishness if at all, they would.

Obviously, there's bound to be another f o o l out there like you, to take your mantle as the world continues to go round!
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[size=18pt]No be untill person the waka n[i]a[/i]ked for street we go know say kolo don start! [/size]

I thought I was the only one that noticed.