dayokanu: When dealing with gold digging women you have to be sharp all the way

That means u won't have a life now because u will b up ur sleeves watching her every move and how do u know a golddigger do they come tagged jst askin

I'm awaiting sagamite on this thread.

@sally
What is the title of that movie?

Sisi_Kill:

I don't see you giving your "Love Conquers All" lecture to men. . .Or are you syaing it is okay for for men to ask women to sign prenup but the women should trust LOVE??

I was about to ask him that but tanks 4 doing that 4 me. 4 a good prenup to work it should have to be bothways me I dnt even like the prenup thingy cos a smart person is a smart person, besides isn't love and marriage about trust why shd this prenup thing creep up, this golddiggers are getting wiser tho! #clears throat # sisi kills I love ur comments sha!

oladayo042:

@sally
What is the title of that movie?

I have already narrated the film trust me, u need not watch it and the title is in their language b4 I murder someones language, let's jst leave it as it is, okay

Sisi_Kill:
Didn't know you wanted a book full

. . .Be Right Back with that. Don't go away oh.

heheheheheheee

Sisi and Ronke no go kill me with laffter

oladayo042: I'm awaiting sagamite on this thread.

@sally
What is the title of that movie?

lol.

Let me go look for him.

What if the gold digger is a man. How do you handle the situation

moral of the story - marry a woman who is on the same level financially as you. That is why i have a problem with men who see themselves as their woman's super hero. She brings 50% you bring your own 50% and make sure everything is in both your names.

davidylan: moral of the story - marry a woman who is on the same level financially as you. That is why i have a problem with men who see themselves as their woman's super hero. She brings 50% you bring your own 50% and make sure everything is in both your names.

Shikena.

marry a woman who also brings something substantial financially into the relationship and everything are done equally

So if she decides to take half, i know she deserved it

.

Sisi_Kill: Lmao @ Tgirl

@ OP
Google Maddonna and Guy Richie and read all about their divorce wahala! She didn't make him sign a prenup, after the divorce he got a huge payout. Same deal with Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillipe. Then there is also Roseanne (From the Roseanne show) she went as far as firing her lawyers for even suggesting her gold digging husband Arnold sigh a prenup (I'm telling you, this guy might as well have had GOLD DIGGERY IS MY SPECIALTY tattoted in GOLD on his forehead, that's how obvious he was. When they divorced a couple or so years later, Dude walked away with a cool $90 million. Did I mention he was a lowly writer for some 3rd rate sitcoms when they got married?

From my observation, women who are considerable wealthier than their spouse don't shove the prenup thingy down the men's throat (they are always like I love him, I trust him, whatever I have is his blah blah blah). It's the men who make a big brouhaha about the whole thing. . . "oh my money, money, She wonno take my hard earned money ooooh! Egba mi!!" Gimme a break!!!

thank you for this, i was going to attack the topic simply because I knew it will turn around and become a gender war. Its not by force to be married they need to sit down somewhere.

@topic, the story makes sense. I cannot for the life of me fathom why a rich man/woman will marry someone that is poor to the extent you need to fund the persons whole life for him/her. Obviously specific to those with more money than sense (Lord help us redistribute the millions these phools are wasting).
Any sensible human being will be able to spot a 'gold digger' and a prenup saves you from nothing after some time.

Hm! See true stories that touches. That man no try @ all even after his family tried to.

davidylan: moral of the story - marry a woman who is on the same level financially as you. That is why i have a problem with men who see themselves as their woman's super hero. She brings 50% you bring your own 50% and make sure everything is in both your names.

dayokanu:

Shikena.

marry a woman who also brings something substantial financially into the relationship and everything are done equally

So if she decides to take half, i know she deserved it

^^ Simple as that. Any !d!ot who marries a housewife at this time and age has only his stewpid a$$ to blame; prenups are useless to foolish a$$es men.

Nothing wrong being housewifey. Ann Romney is a good example and she is enjoying Romney's money (they built the wealth together)

No need crying over lost money. Man up and start all over.

armyofone: Nothing wrong being housewifey. Ann Romney is a good example and she is enjoying Romney's money (they built the wealth together)

No need crying over lost money. Man up and start all over.

Oh oh Hauwa, kin shiga uku yau

sally bonne: A Gold Digger is a Gold Digger With or Without A Prenup

My dear NL in family section I greet,this is my first post I think.

I have a question which was inspired after watching a South African movie and this is it; what is the use of making ur partner (wife) sign a pre-nup when at the end if its your property she's after and she will still get it.

The scenario am about to paint is a black woman who got married to a white south African, his family says she's after his money so she must sign a pre-nup for them to be sure she was not interested in their sons wealth, which she did.

After the wedding, because of the love the husband had for her, he sponsored her on various trips abroad, mostly over budgeted. Any gift the husband gave her was and must always be in her name, from building house for her family to buying a shop, cars and boutiques in her name and all. She made him move outside the area his family was living to another state so they won't have control or say, they were not bothered cos according to them, she signed a prenup.

After running down his company to open hers which were in her name and family members name, she divorced her husband. They could not do anything when they found out cos according to the lawyer, what she now has were gifts given to her by her husband. He was heartbroken and ended up in the psychiatric ward.

So my point is, a gold digger is a gold digger with or with a prenup. Most of them don't need half of your wealth in d case of a divorce, but a means to open their own coy thru ur company.

So from the above case scenario, is prenup really necessary to a gold digger? cos if she wants gold she can stil get it with or without a prenup.

Second question: if its the woman that is rich do men sign prenup? cos I have never heard or seen a man sign prenup b4 marriage, anticipating your constructive comments.

Thanks.

Men routinely sign prenups. Jay and Beyonce make roughly about the same amount of money per year, and I'm sure their prenup is structured to protect both parties.
This was a South African movie you were watching right, so I'm pretty sure that the lawyer wasn't skilled enough to draft a thorough contract to protect his client, thus pursuing him to the psych ward.

Whatever the case may be you never need a prenup with a real woman, Nigerian or otherwise. Why anyone would date a golddigger is beyond me?!!!
Can't u see through the greed and vomit?

scribble:

Men routinely sign prenups. Jay and Beyonce make roughly about the same amount of money per year, and I'm sure their prenup is structured to protect both parties.
This was a South African movie you were watching right, so I'm pretty sure that the lawyer wasn't skilled enough to draft a thorough contract to protect his client, thus pursuing him to the psych ward.

Whatever the case may be you never need a prenup with a real woman, Nigerian or otherwise. Why anyone would date a golddigger is beyond me?!!!
Can't u see through the greed and vomit?

hmmm!!!! true.

sally bonne: A Gold Digger is a Gold Digger With or Without A Prenup

My dear NL in family section I greet,this is my first post I think.

I have a question which was inspired after watching a South African movie and this is it; what is the use of making ur partner (wife) sign a pre-nup when at the end if its your property she's after and she will still get it.

The scenario am about to paint is a black woman who got married to a white south African, his family says she's after his money so she must sign a pre-nup for them to be sure she was not interested in their sons wealth, which she did.

After the wedding, because of the love the husband had for her, he sponsored her on various trips abroad, mostly over budgeted. Any gift the husband gave her was and must always be in her name, from building house for her family to buying a shop, cars and boutiques in her name and all. She made him move outside the area his family was living to another state so they won't have control or say, they were not bothered cos according to them, she signed a prenup.

After running down his company to open hers which were in her name and family members name, she divorced her husband. They could not do anything when they found out cos according to the lawyer, what she now has were gifts given to her by her husband. He was heartbroken and ended up in the psychiatric ward.

So my point is, a gold digger is a gold digger with or with a prenup. Most of them don't need half of your wealth in d case of a divorce, but a means to open their own coy thru ur company.

So from the above case scenario, is prenup really necessary to a gold digger? cos if she wants gold she can stil get it with or without a prenup.

Second question: if its the woman that is rich do men sign prenup? cos I have never heard or seen a man sign prenup b4 marriage, anticipating your constructive comments.

Thanks.

What a silly question.

She can get that from a mugu Real Man, not a man from Sagamu!

She would pick broom and start sweeping from SA to my street in Sagamu if she ever thinks she can use my head like that.

The guy is foool does not mean prenups cannot work.

davidylan: moral of the story - marry a woman who is on the same level financially as you. That is why i have a problem with men who see themselves as their woman's super hero. She brings 50% you bring your own 50% and make sure everything is in both your names.

Women tend to always want to marry up!

It is evolutionary.

Marrying a woman at same level is usually a challenge especially if she is good looking.

If you want to do this, you might end up having to compromise on looks. If I did that, my ancestors will cause earthquakes in anger from their numerous graves in Sagamu!

armyofone: Nothing wrong being housewifey. Ann Romney is a good example and she is enjoying Romney's money (they built the wealth together)

No need crying over lost money. Man up and start all over.

Crase girl!

Sagamite:

Women tend to always want to marry up!

It is evolutionary.

Marrying a woman at same level is usually a challenge especially if she is good looking.

If you want to do this, you might end up having to compromise on looks. If I did that, my ancestors will cause earthquakes in anger from their numerous graves in Sagamu!

you dont have to compromise - find a younger woman. Most women will be comfortable marrying a man at a similar financial level to themselves as long as he is older, more mature and at least is around the same level as she is financially.
A nice 24-26 yr old doctor woman will marry you in a flash.

davidylan:

you dont have to compromise - find a younger woman. Most women will be comfortable marrying a man at a similar financial level to themselves as long as he is older, more mature and at least is around the same level as she is financially.
A nice 24-26 yr old doctor woman will marry you in a flash.

True!

Maybe marry her before she makes it as she is younger but you would see she has the potential already. Seen!

sally bonne: A Gold Digger is a Gold Digger With or Without A Prenup

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After the wedding, because of the love the husband had for her, he sponsored her on various trips abroad, mostly over budgeted. Any gift the husband gave her was and must always be in her name, from building house for her family to buying a shop, cars and boutiques in her name and all. She made him move outside the area his family was living to another state so they won't have control or say, they were not bothered cos according to them, she signed a prenup.

After running down his company to open hers which were in her name and family members name, she divorced her husband. They could not do anything when they found out cos according to the lawyer, what she now has were gifts given to her by her husband. He was heartbroken and ended up in the psychiatric ward.

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Thanks.

Must be the handwork of a Nigerian woman, no other. Who else would take such undivided, devoted love as foolishness, to be trampled upon so??

Stories like this make our male chauvinists (ahem)... [size=1pt]Sagamite 'n Dayo[/size]... (ahem) bash the hell out of our fellow black women for being self-centred materialistic demons. And in this instance, I agree with them whole heartedly...

Treat them mean to keep them keen kind of philosophy here

Efemena_xy:

Must be the handwork of a Nigerian woman, no other. Who else would take such undivided, devoted love as foolishness, to be trampled upon so??

Stories like this make our male chauvinists (ahem)... [size=1pt]Sagamite 'n Dayo[/size] bash the hell out of our fellow black women for being self-centred materialistic demons. And in this instance, I agree with them whole heartedly...

Treat them mean to keep them keen kind of philosophy here

As a matter of general principles, I don't blame women for a mugu being a cretin.

^^ Abeg decode that one for me.

Whose the mugu / cretin here? The woman? Or the man??

Efemena_xy:

Must be the handwork of a Nigerian woman, no other. Who else would take such undivided, devoted love as foolishness, to be trampled upon so??

Stories like this make our male chauvinists (ahem)... [size=1pt]Sagamite 'n Dayo[/size]... (ahem) bash the hell out of our fellow black women for being self-centred materialistic demons. And in this instance, I agree with them whole heartedly...

Treat them mean to keep them keen kind of philosophy here

The girl is doing her job...it is the man that was drooling over "bakassi" and now that same bakassi has turned him to a mad-man.

Efemena_xy: ^^ Abeg decode that one for me.

Whose the mugu / cretin here? The woman? Or the man??

The man!

I have no empathy for cretins.

gaskiya, a ma na sha kwaya yanzu so i am for it

it is true mana, those sleepless night when he was making the dough, wifey was home taking care of the homefront, leading behind the scene.
behind every successful man, there is a woman working behind. So she gotta have it.

Sisi_Kill:

Oh oh Hauwa, kin shiga uku yau

Sagamite:



Crase girl!

where have ya been and how are you?

ronkebp:

The girl is doing her job...it is the man that was drooling over "bakassi" and now that same bakassi has turned him to a mad-man.

Sagamite:

The man!

I have no empathy for cretins.

Are you both supporting this woman because the unfortunate guy na Oyibo??

armyofone:
where have ya been and how are you?

I am fine babes, still doing my duty dealing with cretins.

Efemena_xy:
Are you both supporting this woman because the unfortunate guy na Oyibo??

Are you trying to call me racist?

I don't like foools.

A foool is a foool irrespective of colour.

^^ What about love being blind and all that na?

Efemena_xy: ^^ What about love being blind and all that na?

Not if you a sensible adult male.

My love went to Specsavers. It can see.